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[QUOTE=SlickVick0303;2869357]So after much back and forth on Medellin or Tijuana, decided to hit Tijuana again. I am somewhat experienced and speak good spanish but being solo I decided to pass on Medellin until I can go with buddies and lower my chances of getting scoped with no one having my back...[/QUOTE]I believe the danger has been overstated in this forum. I'm an old man and have had women over to my Airbnb with no feeling of danger or duplicity.
[QUOTE=JohnClayton;2869400]I believe the danger has been overstated in this forum. I'm an old man and have had women over to my Airbnb with no feeling of danger or duplicity.[/QUOTE]I somewhat agree. When I was there with friends, didn't at any time feel danger or bad vibes. But I will trust the process and given I am on this board to get insight and advice decided to heed advice on the dangers. There will be other opportunities and will eventually make my way to Colombia again I am sure.
For now, I have hesitantly made the choice and committed so need to make the best of it.
Viva aerobus just sent me a 1 Mexican peso airfare.
Ya lleg el pesooo! 🤑 Todas las rutas nacionales desde $1 MXN+TUA.
I just booked a Tijuana to Mazatlan flight.
But be warned, this airline is just like. Frontier / Spirit and Alaska! Or worst!
[QUOTE=BrotherMouzone;2868773]I'm probably in the minority but at this point in my life I can't go for chicas younger than mid-20's, LOL. When I look at girls that young, I basically see a kid. To me girls younger than that look and usually act like kids and that's just not my thing LOL. Obviously to each his own but I'd say late 20's to mid-30's is my sweet spot.[/QUOTE]The only problem is that with "working girls", the ones in their late 20's or early 30's have been around the block like 1000's of times, usually. They naturally become more jaded and businesslike, which isn't the most appealing thing to me. I like the younger girls, often times, because they are still in their wild experimental phase of life, and there is still a sense of adventure to the whole thing. Especially for the ones from like a small town somewhere that come to the "big city" of Tijuana. It's a young woman's game, in my opinion.
[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2869024]Hate to say it bro, because I'm in the same boat. But it might not be that the girls have gotten more frigid. It's that you're 10 years older. You appear that much older to girls. You used to be the cool uncle. Now you're the dad. I can see it in my own mongering. 10 years ago girls were thrilled to get me as a client. I'm pretty good looking actually but now I just have a side head of grey and when you're 19 that just screams "grandpa".[/QUOTE]For a guy, I think it's more about how you carry yourself than your absolute age. If you dress poorly (out of style or too conservatively) or make a lot of reference to the past ("in my day. ") then, yes, you will be perceived as their father. Now, if that's what you are going for, more power to you. Not my style though.
I've actually found it easier as I get older. When I was in my 20's, I remember being frustrated by not being able to get good sessions from girls. Maybe they saw me as too young? Ten years later the girls would basically do whatever I wanted. It wasn't for money either because I was giving them the same amount. You just have more of a natural dominance over a young female as an older male.
[QUOTE=Izl80;2869434]Viva aerobus just sent me a 1 Mexican peso airfare.
Ya lleg el pesooo! 🤑 Todas las rutas nacionales desde $1 MXN+TUA.
I just booked a Tijuana to Mazatlan flight.
But be warned, this airline is just like. Frontier / Spirit and Alaska! Or worst![/QUOTE]I imagine this is a special they are doing for Buen Fin, it's Mexicos version of Black Friday I'd say. It technically starts the 17th till the 20th. I only usually use Volaris and they have sent me emails in regards to a Buen Fin sale. Since it's still the 16th as I write this I haven't checked on the deals. In the past there're very cheap flights available and a good time to plan trips for the upcoming year.
For those that might need to catch an early flight and are worried about crossing they opened the PedWest again today the 16th. Unfortunately they are still only open from 6 am till 2 pm so it doesn't help the majority of guys on this board.
[QUOTE=SlickVick0303;2869420]I somewhat agree. When I was there with friends, didn't at any time feel danger or bad vibes. But I will trust the process and given I am on this board to get insight and advice decided to heed advice on the dangers. There will be other opportunities and will eventually make my way to Colombia again I am sure.
For now, I have hesitantly made the choice and committed so need to make the best of it.[/QUOTE]My take is if a guy is in doubt about his safety in a country then he should not go.
[QUOTE=HKMonger;2869479]The only problem is that with "working girls", the ones in their late 20's or early 30's have been around the block like 1000's of times, usually. They naturally become more jaded and businesslike, which isn't the most appealing thing to me. I like the younger girls, often times, because they are still in their wild experimental phase of life, and there is still a sense of adventure to the whole thing. Especially for the ones from like a small town somewhere that come to the "big city" of Tijuana. It's a young woman's game, in my opinion.[/QUOTE]You make good points here, though "jaded and businesslike" certainly doesn't apply to all the chicas in that age range. I suppose most would have been in the game for a while to get that way, though there are actually some chicas who don't start "working" until their mid or even late 20's. Women in their late 20's and older also have more experience sexually, which goes a long, long way IMO. They say women hit their sexual peak in their 30's (compared to men in their 20's or even as early as late teens). There are certainly positives and negatives with each age range, but that's just my preference LOL.
When I see a younger chica I, all I see a child and that just doesn't do it for me, LOL. When I was younger and closer to their age sure, but now no. Why'all got me talking like I'm an old man but I'm still in my early 40's so it's not like I'm even all that old, LOL. But I've probably felt this way since I was in my mid-late 30's.
I visited for my 10th trip this past September and it was my first time back in a while. I had previously gone in Feb of 2020 before the lock down & in Nov 2021.
This was the first time in 10 trips that I didn't really enjoy myself. Maybe it was me, but I'll detail my experiences below.
The peso traded at 0. 169 when I was there, so easy 20/1 conversions were made a bit tougher. While prices have increased slightly over the past 2-3 years since covid, I've always managed to find someone I clicked with who would take $1500-1600 MXN or roughly $75-80. Because the dollar is down, that should actually now be $1200-1400 MXN in theory.
While most services & goods haven't jumped out of control. I was still able to get cheap cabs / ubers, dirt cheap food, cheap liquor. The price of pussy has skyrocketed. $100 USD was the bare minimum for any club girls, and even some street meat prices were ridiculous. Almost all interactions with girls were short, superficial, fake or all business.
I got into town, settled into Rizo de Oro. The remodeled rooms are nice, but alas, the prices have gone up here too. With Adelitas out of the picture, there isn't much luxury hotel competition for Cascadas & Rizo.
Headed to Calimax to get my supplies. Some toiletries, TP for the room, plastic cups, drinks, tequila & rum, snacks, etc.
Took a lap around the stroll and didn't see anything interesting, so I decided it was time to see my fav mesero at tropical. Pulled a girl from Tropical just to get the lay of the land. She asked for $2000 MXN, I countered with $1600 and we settled on $1800 MXN. She was service focused, average, but fun. Kinda like a safe backup.
2nd day I decided to check out Chicago. I've had some great girls from there in the past. I only brought $200 with me, I don't like taking my entire wallet. I know exactly how much I spent on drinks and exactly what should have been in my wallet. I pulled my cash out to give a tip to the doorman on the way out, and somewhere between the door of Chicago & the top of the stairs at jalos this * took the rest of my cash. I went to pay for the room at the top of the stairs and realized it was gone, so I quickly went back and retraced my steps. I almost gave her the benefit of the doubt, but when I came back upstairs she quickly made up an excuse why she had to leave and couldn't continue so I knew something was up. Typically if I knew the mesero or frequent a place, I would say something, but this is the first time in 10 trips, so I chalked it up to experience.
Left Chicago, went to HK. Found another average chick at an average price.
Day 3 was probably the best of the bunch, but def the most expensive. I made arrangements with Vixens Tijuana VIP because they service Zona hotels. [URL]https://vixenstjvip.com/models-catalog/[/URL].
I met with Tamara, a cute 21 why / o. Curvy & baby fat, she easily had the best body of the entire trip, and her bubbly, playful personality was a great match. She arrived, showered and changed into the requested lingerie. She likes it pretty rough, and knew how to take some spanks and nibbles along with a good pounding. Her head game is easily top 5 I've had in Tijuana. We played round 1, then got some room service, then played round 2. All in all - 3 hours cost me $4500 MXN. But what turned me off was that we agreed to CIM, I paid the extra fee, and she called it off in the heat of the moment. I shoul have blasted her in the face anyways, but I didn't want to cause a scene or make any trouble.
Day 4 I played it safe and went back to the safe backup from Day 1.
The interaction this time was cold with most girls. I will give Tijuana another shot, because it is the best option closest to me, but I won't be in any hurry. Stay safe out there yall!
[QUOTE=BrotherMouzone;2869088]La Mansion ([URL]https://motelamansion.com/[/URL]) is more well-regarded then the motels you mentioned and is the one that was recommended by the chica I've frequented the most over the years. I always stay in Zona Norte so don't really even need any of those motels, but she drove me out there once a couple years or so ago. Was a fine motel, no issues. Each room I think even had its own enclosed garage for privacy reasons. I think the way it works is on weekdays you can rent for the whole night but on weekends you can only rent for a certain number of hours (maybe 4) with no in-out privileges. I'm not an expert on this place and it's been a couple years so you'd probably want to verify that. But the rooms were nice, more spacious and cheaper than what I'm used to at Cascadas.
But I'd defintiely look at La Mansion over those other three you mentioned. I know his name is dirt here but Luke Powell has also recommended La Mansion within several of his videos.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the recommendation. I am actually staying in Hotel Cascadas but am wanting to do a longer session with a girl without having to deal with BS ficha fines and bar fines from HK for going over an hour. I have been messaging a HK girl (different one) and she is down to meet up with me, but she said I would be charged 10 fichas for her entering my room during non working hours. And based on what I have read from other members here, if she is working and stays longer than an hour in my room, I would be fined as well, potentially $250 or more. Hence me looking for other motel options where we can have fun without worrying about ridiculous fees.
[QUOTE=Phordphan;2869109]I've used loads of the motels over the years. Last questions first. Normally the price shown is for 4 hours. There are exceptions. During the week (M-Th) sometimes the price can be for all night if you choose. Others, like Otay, show a 4 hour price and an all night price. On weekends virtually all the hotels only rent for 4 hours at a time. If you want to stay longer you must pay every 4 hours.
You don't "book" a room, you show up and rent one. Weekend evenings there may be a line. You pay your money, park and wait.
SOP for most locals is to rent a room, and then call an escort. You give the escort your room number. She shows up and tells reception, who calls your room. Sometimes you can meet the girl someplace nearby, and enter the motel together, either by foot, by your / her car, or by taxi.
When you get the room you will be asked to leave an ID at reception unless you are driving your own car. People freak out about this, but it's SOP and for everybody's safety. When you check out the room will be inspected, they will charge you for damaged stuff or stained towels (don't ask), and you'll get your ID back. All perfectly normal.
The closest decent ones to Centro are La Mansion and El Parador. I think Parador is a bit cheaper.
Your escort will probably have her favorite motel. So, you can always just let her choose.[/QUOTE]Much appreciated for the detailed response, including your personal experience with the options I looked into, and for mentioning crucial things like them taking your ID upon check in. Based on what you and BrotherMouzone mentioned, I think I will choose La Mansion as my first option, and El Parador as option two. The HK girl I have been messaging said she has never been to a love motel before, and neither have I (at least in Tijuana), so this will be a new experience for both of us. Hopefully she doesn't flake at the last minute.
[QUOTE=BrotherMouzone;2869646]You make good points here, though "jaded and businesslike" certainly doesn't apply to all the chicas in that age range. I suppose most would have been in the game for a while to get that way, though there are actually some chicas who don't start "working" until their mid or even late 20's. Women in their late 20's and older also have more experience sexually, which goes a long, long way IMO. They say women hit their sexual peak in their 30's (compared to men in their 20's or even as early as late teens). There are certainly positives and negatives with each age range, but that's just my preference LOL.
When I see a younger chica I, all I see a child and that just doesn't do it for me, LOL. When I was younger and closer to their age sure, but now no. Why'all got me talking like I'm an old man but I'm still in my early 40's so it's not like I'm even all that old, LOL. But I've probably felt this way since I was in my mid-late 30's.[/QUOTE]We all have our different tastes. One thing, though. I think I would have more luck finding a unicorn than finding a woman who just started out in her late 20's.
[QUOTE=BrotherMouzone;2869646]You make good points here, though "jaded and businesslike" certainly doesn't apply to all the chicas in that age range. I suppose most would have been in the game for a while to get that way, though there are actually some chicas who don't start "working" until their mid or even late 20's. Women in their late 20's and older also have more experience sexually, which goes a long, long way IMO. They say women hit their sexual peak in their 30's (compared to men in their 20's or even as early as late teens). There are certainly positives and negatives with each age range, but that's just my preference LOL.
When I see a younger chica I, all I see a child and that just doesn't do it for me, LOL. When I was younger and closer to their age sure, but now no. Why'all got me talking like I'm an old man but I'm still in my early 40's so it's not like I'm even all that old, LOL. But I've probably felt this way since I was in my mid-late 30's.[/QUOTE]We all have our different tastes. One thing, though. I think I would have more luck finding a unicorn than finding a woman who just started out in her late 20's.
Just a heads up. I did my 1st visit to Zona since covid on weds and I found plenty of doable street girls around dusk, prices $20-450 pesos plus room. Thurs and Friday did an Otay crossing visit to friend that lives in cucupah area. I crossed around 8:30 am and had suitcase bag and back pack in hand. I go to 1st taxi stand and get $28 quote and knew in past I had gone to same general area for around $15. I text my friend and she got me an Uber which I also did for Friday return trip. Uber both ways 169 pesos so with tip a cost of $10-11 verses $28 cab fleecing. And I admire anyone that can navigate that traffic in tijuana.
[QUOTE=Luis2;2870110]Just a heads up. I did my 1st visit to Zona since covid on weds and I found plenty of doable street girls around dusk, prices $20-450 pesos plus room. Thurs and Friday did an Otay crossing visit to friend that lives in cucupah area. I crossed around 8:30 am and had suitcase bag and back pack in hand. I go to 1st taxi stand and get $28 quote and knew in past I had gone to same general area for around $15. I text my friend and she got me an Uber which I also did for Friday return trip. Uber both ways 169 pesos so with tip a cost of $10-11 verses $28 cab fleecing. And I admire anyone that can navigate that traffic in tijuana.[/QUOTE]Taxi prices have gone up like everything in Tijuana so it's not just for gringos. I think most would agree that Uber is always cheaper. I don't use Otay but I know that the SY crossing has a board at the line to get a taxi showing the price to certain areas of the city. For whatever reason the taxi drivers keep the higher prices but they rip off locals as well.
You can also use the InDrive App that from my experience is even cheaper than Uber in other parts of Mexico.