Age, Appearance and Charisma
[QUOTE=Efremof]
Getting girls depends mainly on your personal talents
such as:
Age:
Appearance:
charisma/personality
If they found you attractive then the sky is the limit. [/QUOTE]I definitely agree with you, Efremof, that Age, Appearance and Charisma/personality all play an important role.
But I would like to add this; I would say that I am privileged enough to have been perceived in my home country as "handsome" and I still don’t have much difficulty in attracting women in my age (I am a bit over 40) and maybe some ten years younger. But after a short trip to Kenya I got a real boost to my self confidence… : )
The big difference is that in Kenya it's good-looking girls around 22-25 that quite obviously think I am attractive. That's a whole new ballgame. I have experienced something small in that direction in Thailand but it can't in anyway be compared to Kenya.
I believe that guys visiting this forum that don't perceive themselves as "handsome" or "young enough" etc, and hasn't been to Kenya yet, will have a very nice surprise!
In west the ideal for women is that the guy should not be more than 5 maybe 10 years older. If he is really rich and/or famous, it's of course other rules, than he can attract girls that are 20 or more years younger and they can actually think he is attractive. When you go to Kenya it's like being that kind of celebrity. It is of course better to be a good looking celebrity than the opposite, but being any kind of celebrity is really good enough! (Think Hugh Hefner!).
As age and physical look is not so easy to change, focus on appearance and charisma. I noted for example that girls really observe the clothes I was wearing. If you want to charm someone - don’t wear a washed out T-shirt… If you are "old", compensate that with a little bit more charm than the "young" guys and you will probably be on pair.
If you really lack all sorts of charm and is the total catastrophe when it comes to chat up a lady, the best university is around the corner! I can't think of a better place to practising things like that then Kenya as you never run the risk of being flushed down the toilet as in the way it can happen in the west. They will almost always appreciate your efforts, and, if you fail miserably, you will meet a new good looking stunner, interested to hear what you have to say, within minutes or hours rather than days, weeks, months or years.
Yes, if they find you attractive - sky is the limit! But, WHAT they find attractive is, in my experience, not the same as women in the west. And the best thing with Kenya is that the women really show IF they appreciate you. In west it's a lot of hide-and-seek-games, not so in Kenya.
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About hotel and girls at the beach
[QUOTE=Barri] Where did you stay? Recommendable? I stayed first nights at Bamburi Beach Resort but shifted to Sai Rocks.[/QUOTE]Hi Barry! As I later mentioned I stayed at Bamburi Beach Resort but was not very happy with that as it wasn't any hot water, no refrigerator in inside the room and no TV.
I would be happy for tips about a good alternative. Does Sai Rocks have hot water, fridge and TV in the room? What does it cost? Is there any other alternative in the area that fits my wish list? And of course is still girl friendly.
Girls at the beach
Another question; do anyone know if it is normal just seeing three (3) girls at the beach in front of Bamburi Beach for a whole week??? I had really hoped it would be tones of easy-to-pick-up-girls at the beach…was really disappointed.
I was never at Big Tree during the day. What is it like there? Is it a lot of girls or just a few, or? Are they easy to pick-up?
Thanks to all Kenya Forum Members
I have been visiting the forum as a guest and have joined today. I am planning to go to Kenya for a short business trip in the second week of May. I might have only one or two free nights in Nairobi but thanks to all of you with the tips I am sure I will be able to get a Good experience. I plan to go to MadHouse as most of you have recommended the same. However I am only bothered if my free day ends up being a non weekend day. Also most of you have recommended staying at Terminal but would prefer a slightly better facilities but GF Hotel. Appreciate if fellow mongers could help with their further expert tips.
I love black girls but I am worried about their reactions to Asians and Indians as most of the mongers who have been reporting great experiences seem to be white males. Any comments will be appreciated.
Age, Appearance and Charisma
Lucky
Agreed 100%
In Mombasa i feel like a playboy, in any day i take as much girls as i want in any random place for free. In my country i can not do it.
But in life nothing is perfect i am not sure that the black girls from mombasa can attract me beyond y and sex and good mood.
My mails with my last girl are big crap. I ask her somthing and she has some unbelievingly silly answers.
if u are a tourist for 10 days is OK but if you live there for years with the same girl as your wife, its a totally different story.
i am very disappointed from my "girlfriend" skills to handle varied issues as i have perceived in the emails. (in many different aspects such as medical insurance, malaria info, electrical bills, taxes and so on)
Now i am thinking visiting for a few months odesa/ Ukraine and Moldova in eastern Europe. then i will visit mombasa again.
I hope you will be kind to see my photos from eastern Europe
assuming i can find girls that i like there :)
Max
Comrade Efremof goes gulagland
I'm afraid that you are in for a rude awakening in the former Soviet Union. Sure, the girls will be better educated, cultured and able to carry a conversation. But they are also much more mercenary -- at prices that are shocking for an old Africa hand. And the moment you take them out of homeland, they are likely to milk you dry, you rich inostranets.
I wish you well. I'm excited because we will be able to read your reports about all this.