Hyderabad / Andhra Pradesh

[QUOTE=YoungBanger;2444073]Hey mate,

You need to identify the reason behind your PE (premature ejaculation).

1) do you cum fast even when masturbating? If yes, do you get spams or involuntary kegels very soon during masturbation?? If it is the case then you might have a tight pelvic floor, involuntary kegels are no1 symptoms of tight pelvic floor, stretching, yoga and reverse kegels help you in this case. If you don't have any Ik's then practice edging and start stop methods. This will help you with judging your arousal awareness.

2) do you cum fast only with women? Then anxiety and fear might be the main reason. If this is the case the meditation and belly breathing helps you a lot.

One thing many people with premature ejaculation do wrong is breathing, short breaths lead us to fast ejaculation, ALWAYS breath deep into your belly and slowly exhale.

I don't know your situation so can't help you more specifically, feel free to ask any questions.

At to all reading this: In Mumbai I've seen some high class escorts in pubs enjoying the night there and go out with Mongerer to their place all night, is there any such pubs here in Hyderabad other than the one below the be'pet flyover.

And any suggestions for pubs where I can go alone and peacefully drink (not bars).[/QUOTE]Yes the problem occurs even while masturbating, I do get a quick release in addition to exercises, stretching and reverse kegel is there any medicine that I can take? Of course I don't want a temporary solution but a complete cure for this problem.

Thanks a lot for answering.

[QUOTE=HydMong;2444150]Dude, you mentioned that deep breathing, is it during the deed or in general exercise.[/QUOTE]Hello bro,

I have read the FR and your doubt about deep breathing while during the deed.

In this I can tell you the following which please note:

I) YoungBanger has given a detailed analysis and excellent points. Hats off to you bro YoungBanger. I am sure you must be great lover in bed. Kudos to you.

Ii) Premature ejaculation is mainly due to excitement and anxiety / worry. Anxiety due to whether I can satisfy my partner, whether I would cum now, can I hold on and whether my erection will hold or will loose etc. And excitement due to the over aggression and over confidence that I am a superman.

Iii) Once during my teenage, I wanted to bang our maid who used to stay at home from 8 am till 6 pm and used to cook food, take care of us when we return from school / college etc, and once my parents left for office, I returned from college around 10 am and was roaming around kitchen and the maid. My friends all had screwed their maids and motivated me to be after hour maid to lay her. With a blind faith I was after my maid who noticed an unusual behaviour from my side. She asked me what I wanted and without any inhibition I told her I wanted to lay her. She started laughing and said you are a kid just 16 years and I am 45 and how can you satisfy me. I had all the words spoken by my friends in my mind how they get their maids and laid her. I told my maid I have a dick which will drill you. She came near me, lowered my shorts and took out the dick which was rock hard. I was so thrilled and over excited. She just took my dick in her hand and I cummed in her hands in no time. I was ashamed and she gave me a very loud laugh and asked me with this how can you satisfy me. I need hard strokes after entry. I wept and went away. Then she came to me after finishing her cooking and asked me who gave me this advise, whether I was prompted by my friends etc and advised me not to believe my friends and they would not have even touched their maids which they claim and all lies they told me to mislead me. Then she took me to the bedroom slowly undressed me and herself and the gave me BBBJ which was out of world and after a through foreplay of sucking licking, squeezing fingering etc I entered her and she relaxed me saying she is enjoying and do it slowly and steadily. That was beginning of a long journey with her for almost 5-6 years.

IV) You need to be relaxed while with a female and only when you are relaxed you can enjoy, no point in doing it like a ceremony or a formality.

V) One of the most important point to enjoy sex is to have a long foreplay and make the body for final act, so that once you enter every stroke you make will be enjoyable.

VI) Another major culprit for anxiety is what we read, what we hear and what our friends tall. Everyone claims they entered and was stroking stroking and stroking. For a long time and the lady was begging for mercy and finally cummed. This is totally wrong. However smart and seasoned you are, once you enter and start stroking, no one can withstand the excitement and stay for more than 10 minutes and at the max 15 minutes which is very rare. We see porn and read sex stories where we see and hear the guy goes on and on for a long time which is totally wrong. But cumming in just 1-2 strokes is PM.

VII) Now your question about deep breathing. Deep breathing helps to relax mind and reduces the excitement. If excitement is reduced your staying power can be increased.

You must have heard many times many people saying" count 10 before you speak or act", "take a glass of water before you speak or act" count 10 before you speak or act" etc. This is to just control your aggression or excitement abd cool your body and system before next episode. The same way just take a deep breath while fucking vigorously and take a break and then start again and by the time you get excited again it will take 6-8 strokes and again stop, take a deep breath and continue. You can prolong cumming with this technique. What you should do is when you feel you are about to cum, stop, take a deep breath, then kiss her, suck her nipples, play with boobs, hug her and slowly start again. We can change positions and in between take a deep breath which again will give you more time to stay inside The lady will also get time to relax in between and she will also enjoy the act when you kiss her in between. Ultimately it is prolonged pleasure that counts in satisfaction.

Sex experts and counselors advise this technique which is s known as Stop-Start- Stop technique. If you practice this regularly, your muscles will get used to this and your cumming time automatically get prolonged. I have read in many books and hence I thought of sharing this. I really practice this and many times she will ask me cum with full satisfaction and then I cum.

The best way to test this and practice this is when you masturbate. While you masturbate practice this stop- start- stop technique and see how this works and master it. All said and done the staying inside once you make an entry is max to max 15 minutes and not more than that.

I was in Hyderabad past January around the new year for some work. Being my first time, I was mostly interested in sightseeing. I had loads of fun, great food (OMG mandi! Great soleimani tea, and rich conversations. By the end of the week, my dick started craving food as well. Having witnessed the highly innovative restaurant scene and bustling fine dining options, I was convinced that there would be gold mines to discover. In my experience, the degree of entrepreneurship is directly related to the mongering scene in the city.

Decided to start from Virinchi Hospital area. Its over the top entrance gate was etched in my mind. Its lavish aesthetics, for a hospital all the more, was inviting me to also do what I want. A quick google search on spas in the area confirmed my suspicion. It had a spa right across the road. On reaching, I found no spa there to my disappointment. Probably an outdated posting I thought. Happens all the time since MPs frequently change hands in India. I decided to explore the area on my own and started walking down the road 12. For a long time came across nothing. I was happy though to just observe the totally different vibe of the city. Super friendly and positive! It was 8:30 at night and I could see shops closing down. I soon came across a building with 2 spa signboards. There was a NE girl standing on the road beneath it waiting for someone. I could tell she was an MP girl. Said Hi and asked her if she knew whether these spas would be open. She smiled and asked me to come back tomorrow morning. One of the spas where she worked was closed for the night.

I already knew my chances were slim decided to venture into the other spa, Ruan, with entrance from the building side. Reached a reception done with love-hotelesque taste. I liked it. Asked for a smart cooperative therapist. Assigned room. To my surprise none of the rooms had doors. Just thick curtains. Inside the room there was no massage table. Just a futon on the floor. Clean and solid though. I was still changing when a Thai came in. I measured her from top to bottom. Slim with thickness at the right places, fair, well-dressed and beautiful Korean like face. Liked what I saw and said Hi. She giggled. We started talking basics. Name, place etc. Her name was Kitty and her English was broken. I was making jokes about what she could have said. This made her laugh. She was also responding smartly, rare for an MP girl. I was enjoying the conversation. Once finished changing, I straight away asked her about the extras. She said only TL HJ is available. Quoted 4 k! I was shocked TBH. This is FS price in Delhi I complained. She politely agreed and told me that this is Hyderabad charges. Brought it down to 3 k with some funny banter and a lot of negotiation.

What followed was awesome! She was hot and horny by now. Good chemistry has that effect no matter the girl is paid or unpaid. I was pretty aroused too. I started kissing her sensually and proceeded to kiss her on the neck, earlobes. Removed her top and the bra gently and kissed on each of her boobs while playing with my fingers with the nipples. She was moaning by now. We started dry humping each other. I put my hand in her pants and started fingering her. She resisted. I persisted. I was making her very horny. I like to make my girl cum. She did cum. With the fingers. She then lied on top of me with her silky hair all around my face and her hand punching me sweetly on my chest. She was complaining-praising about how bad I was. I replied not bad enough to get her to remove those yoga pants. She told me doesn't even do HJ for everyone. Then she asked me to keep lying down and proceeded to massage my chest with her firm round boobs. I was in love with her. Her slow, steady and smooth motions were making my dick rage. Thankfully, I am a pro at controlling myself. Some time passed and now she was oiling and yanking at my dick. Didn't cum. She lied beside me as she was tired and started playing with my dick. We kissed some more. She yanked some more. I decided to cum.

I told her I was hungry for food now. She told me about the Hard Rock Caf nearby that had a discount on drinks or something. She told me that she was hired for a late-night party but could join me before that. I said OK. I was so relaxed and satisfied though that after coming out of the shower I completely forgot about taking her along. Just thanked and kissed her good night. Now regret not taking her number at least.

Has anyone else tried Thai Kitty (reviews)? Do you know if she is still there or is going to be once the lock down ends? I have to visit Hyderabad again once the covid storm blows over and would like to get her services again.

Face: 8/10.

Boobs: 9/10.

Ass: didn't see.

Body: 8/10.

Service: 9/10.

Attitude: 10/10 (total GFE).

Damage: 3 k inside +counter (forgot).

WIR: yes.

[QUOTE=IAndYou;2444179]Hello bro,

I have read the FR and your doubt about deep breathing while during the deed.

In this I can tell you the following which please note:

I) YoungBanger has given a detailed analysis and excellent points. Hats off to you bro YoungBanger. I am sure you must be great lover in bed. Kudos to you.

Ii) Premature ejaculation is mainly due to excitement and anxiety / worry. Anxiety due to whether I can satisfy my partner, whether I would cum now, can I hold on and whether my erection will hold or will loose etc. And excitement due to the over aggression and over confidence that I am a superman..[/QUOTE]Thank you so much bro for answering so descriptively. I asked this question to younbnger bro and asking you as well, what do I do to solve the problem of PE in masturbation as well. I have been facing this problem for a while, this may be because of excessive masturbation, but now when I realize my situation it worries and saddens me a lot as to what I did with my self. This has lead me going into deep thoughts multiple times. I will try the tricks you have mentioned above but if there's anything more I need to do for PE in masturbation as well, please do let me know. Since I have time during this lockdown I will try to do them, and hopefully go for a hunting after every thing is normalised.

Stay safe. Ciao.

[QUOTE=HydMong;2444150]Dude, you mentioned that deep breathing, is it during the deed or in general exercise..[/QUOTE]Normal belly breathing during sex and long deep breathing generally all the time.

This is going to be a long post but I want to make few things clear for people with premature ejaculation. Please excuse me for a long post if you are not interested then skip reading this post as this doesn't contain any FR.

[QUOTE=ThatGuyIK7;2444178]Yes the problem occurs even while masturbating, I do get a quick release in addition to exercises, stretching and reverse kegel is there any medicine that I can take? Of course I don't want a temporary solution but a complete cure for this problem.

Thanks a lot for answering.[/QUOTE]Don't think of medication as a solution, that's not the case for most of us. Let me tell you how ejaculation occurs in layman terms, when we are excited enough our body sends signals to spinal cord and to brain and then brain again sends signals back to release the semen, these signals are caused by some chemical reactions.

In India we do not have much privacy, for most of us if we want to masturbate it needs to be done quick as some one may come and disturb us or it would be awkward, some people masturbate by watching porn, by doing so in the long term we are ordering our brain to cum quickly when we masturbate, Our brain is the best AI machine in the world, it understands and acts accordingly to our instructions and patterns. Once we make it a hobby to ejaculate regularly and quickly it will carry forward to sex also because you have already trained to brain to cum fast. One of the most common methods used to treat PE is by using SSRI's, do you know what this SSRI's are generally used for?? They are used to treat people with depression, all these medicines when taken regularly have drastic side effects in long run for normal people. This medicines work by increasing serotonin (a chemical in our body) activity, which for most people is perfectly alright. This medication is good only for few people, most of us (95%) either suffer from pelvic floor imbalance or anxiety or bad masturbation habits. SSRI's are not much useful for people with the above mentioned conditions.

When you masturbate regularly and quickly unknowingly you kegel or put stress on your pelvic floor, this sends the signals to our brain to cum quickly, when we are very anxious very do not take breaths normally we take short breaths, this will make our body nervous resulting in low serotonin activity, low serotonin activity means you cum quickly (this is the reason SSRI's are advised and works in some people) but hey do you really have low serotinin? Nope, not most of us are. If you still want to use medication consult a doctor, Indeed many people get surprised when doctors do not prescribe SSRI's in the first visit, this is exactly why they do not prescribe them in the first visit.

Let me tell you the top 3 causes for Premature ejaculation for common people:

1) Anxiety: Most common cause for temporary PE is anxiety. Did you ever heard elders saying do not take tensions on simple issues? Tensions, Angry, Anxiety causes imbalances in bodily chemicals, this results in strange side effects, one of which is reducing serotonin activity. If you are anxious then just sit there for few minutes without thinking about sex and taking deep breaths, count from 30 to 1 , prioritize your lady first, after few minutes of cuddling and playing with each other you will feel less anxious. Anxiety is the common reason why we cum fast our first time having sex, its common do not worry its the easiest to deal with once you understand that all you need to do is relax. Did you ever heard people saying we are on cloud9 during sex and I came fastly, this is the reason. Not just first time even if its your 1000th time having sex and you are very anxious you cum quickly. Some people with anxiety will have hard time getting or maintaining erections. What ever the case might be learn to relax.

2) Lack of Arousal awareness: Suppose on a scale of 0 to 10,0 is the point where you have absolute no mood and 10 is rock high horny then we need to stay on around 8 ish when having sex, when we are on 10 we are very aroused and develop anxiety and this causes people to cum quickly. Start stop techniques and edging helps you very much.

3) Pelvic floor imbalance: Healthy Pelvic floor is responsible for maintaining our erection, A tight pelvic floor causes premature ejaculation and a weak pelvic floor causes erectile dysfunction. When we tense our PF muscles to a certain point we are sending signals to our brain that we are done and we want to cum, when the PF is tight and you are sexually aroused then even the small touches triggers the signals to our brain. When the Pelvic floor is weak it does not assist our penis to maintain blood in it causing ED, Pelvic floor is really a bigggg topic and I can write a thesis on it so lets reduce the length, Quickly speaking if you have a tight PF then most of the time when you touch your penis it will trigger an involuntary kegel or spam, most people who say that their head is sensitive to touch when erect are suffering from tight PF, Anterior pelvic tilt is one of the most common causes for tight pf, tight hamstrings and weak glutes are also one of the causes of tight pf. Stretching the PF helps in this case, and if you have APT then fix it, if you have any muscle imbalances then hit the gym and cover them, your body and penis will thank you in the long term.

If you do not get Involuntary kegels then most probably you do not have tight PF but it is advisable to keep your PF relaxed when having sex, belly breathing will help you achieve this.

People who watch more porn masturbates while watching the porn, they tense their PF muscles while watching porn, this will become a habit for them, if you are one of them then stop watching PORN from this second, and masturbate only once or twice a week and when masturbating do not masturbate for less than 20 minutes, if you feel like cumming then stop and start after a min, do it for at least 20 minutes, think about your favorite sport when you are very arouse, this will reduce the arousal and distract you from thinking that your are going to cum. This will retrain your brain to last longer.

[QUOTE=IAndYou;2444179]VII) Now your question about deep breathing. Deep breathing helps to relax mind and reduces the excitement. If excitement is reduced your staying power can be increased.
[/QUOTE]One more important point is that deep breathing reduces the temporary tension in your pelvic floor this will make men last longer.

[QUOTE=IAndYou;2444179]Hello bro,

I have read the FR and your doubt about deep breathing while during the deed.
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Ii) Premature ejaculation is mainly due to excitement and anxiety / worry. Anxiety due to whether I can satisfy my partner, whether I would cum now, can I hold on and whether my erection will hold or will loose etc. And excitement due to the over aggression and over confidence that I am a superman.

Iii) Once during my teenage, I wanted to bang our maid who used to stay at home from 8 am till 6 pm and used to cook food, take care of us when we return from school / college etc, and once my parents left for office, I returned from college around 10 am and was roaming around kitchen and the maid. My friends all had screwed their maids and motivated me to be after hour maid to lay her. With a blind faith I was after my maid who noticed an unusual behaviour from my side. She asked me what I wanted and without any inhibition I told her I wanted to lay her. She started laughing and said you are a kid just 16 years and I am 45 and how can you satisfy me. I had all the words spoken by my friends in my mind how they get their maids and laid her. I told my maid I have a dick which will drill you. She came near me, lowered my shorts and took out the dick which was rock hard. I was so thrilled and over excited. She just took my dick in her hand and I cummed in her hands in no time. d.[/QUOTE]As a person who suffers from PME I belive I can definitely give a solid insight on what really worked for me to last longer.

I remember when I was in 8th class, early months of 13 years that I got to know about masturbation and how use of soap and oil will give you almost similar feeling of sex. And I kid you not, for 2 years I'd almost masturbate 2-3 times every day, what to say, was super horny kid thanks to early exposure to porn.

I masturbated frequently for my entire teenage but it decreased from every day to 3-5 times a week or just once a week. Some times I used to refrain for a couple of weeks or a month only ending up doing 3 times within 1 HR as well. So yeah I was addicted to masturbation, it was when I was nineteen while watching a scene from xXx Xander cage, that I realised I am suffering from PME, within 15 seconds of stroking I came.

I was worried, did the extensive research about the situation and realized what actually went wrong. The research implied that it can be due to anxiety, depression, being unfit or unhealthy, watching a lot of porn, and masturbation, ofcourse you can be birthed with this problem but I still remember that the early years would require me to masturbate 15 minutes intensively to cum.

So I cut off the being birthed with the problem part, anxiety and depression was off the list cause I am a no fcuks giving type of a guy from start. And I was a super fit guy playing for school basketball team, BTW this is where I got to know about masturbation hahah, so being unfit or unhealthy is gone too.

The only two things that stayed were porn and masturbation as those were my top hobbies, there was also this theory that said it's mostly due to being a virgin, once a man has sex for more number of times and gets used to a hot pussy then the PME will disappear but this was for people who were having sex with hot pussies and not masturbation, so I discarded this theory as well.

So to cure my PME, I went on a quest to refrain myself from masturbation and porn. I kid you not my friends, I managed to successfully stay away from them for a while year, like you can easily consider that my thought process was similar to that of a monk who had relinquished all his worldly desires. After the whole year, I decided to check my status of PME and to my surprise it didn't help me at all, it was the same 15-30 seconds of masturbation and I came. I was very disappointed and disheartened but I didn't give up, I did more research on how to cure PME and this time I saw the theories on deep breathing, kegal exercises, increasing ones stamina by start and stop and yes, I tried almost every freaking thing.

I had a raging 6 pack, could run for 10 kms, did all the kegal exercises routine and deep breathing but nothing worked. Infact, deep breathing made me relax so much that I'd come within 2-3 strokes. And at this point I had given up the hope of fixing it naturally, read about all the drugs that helped to last longer so it really didn't bother me much.

Then I started another extensive research on what can cause PME and came across this theory which goes like, we often masturbate in our closed rooms with having a mental pressure of being caught by our siblings or parents which makes us subconsciously try to cum faster and also train our penis nerves to the rigorous movement of our hands which creates a muscle memory that ends up making us cum faster.

I can vouch for the muscle memory thing, this is used by bodybuilders and martial artists, they condition their body by hitting their muscle nerves so that they can endure harder pains.

EUREKA! I realized, over the course of my teenage, I've trained my dick to ejaculate within 10-15 seconds. The fear of my siblings or parents banging on my locked door or bathroom door was always there, and it was true that I always rushed the masturbation to make sure no one suspected me. There by creating a muscle memory to my penis and subconsciously teaching my dick to cum faster.

Once I identified the cause of this problem, the next step was to cure it. The obvious way was to reverse the muscle memory that I created by subconsciously training my mind to last longer, re-enact the same conditions of having real sex and try to last longer. The theory proposed it this way, a super squishy and slow movement with hot oil. Logically speaking, I've spent 6 years to develop PME so it's only fair I'd have to spend 6 years reversing it. Or just have a super horny girlfriend or wife willing to do the slow start and stop method bareback, otherwise you'll need to spend good bucks like me on WGs and use cover.

So when I lost my virginity it was, I swear two strokes and then I ejaculated, like literally the warm feeling of the pussy, the moment I felt it, I came. Form 2 strokes I went to 10, then 15,30 seconds to 2 minutes and this kept on increasing but it also varied, sometimes I lasted for just 20 seconds and sometimes 45 minutes, this all depended on few factors like, how long has it been from my previous session of sex.

Like the times when I last for 45 minutes is the 2nd shot which I have with the wgs, which is like 5-10 minutes right after the first shot, this is the male refractory period MRP. Try to have your 2nd shot ASAP.

The warmth and tightness of the vagina also matters a lot, if it's cold and loose you last longer, if you've masturbated an hour before the upcoming session also helps you last longer. At least for me and also keep it in mind that during this quest of reversing the PME, I have quit watching porn, masturbation, did some breathing exercises, the fitness is same as usual, stopped fantasizing and reduced all my carnal desires so that the excitement is there but not to an extent that will affect my performance.

Honestly, I had given up on performance with out drugs but thanks to the amazing members of this forum and especially PartyHard7 brother that has helped me improve my confidence and performance.

Too long to read TLTR.

1. PME are of two kind, psychological and physical.

Psychological is anxiety and physical is the muscle memory of using hands.

Excessive masturbation is usually the cause of PME, at least in my case, as it subconsciously teaches you to cum fast due to fear of someone catching you while doing it and also creates a muscle memory.

To reverse it, have squishy and slow movement with hot oil when you masturbate.

Always try to last longer while masturbating.

Practice it with a partner by doing start and stop.

Stop fantasizing and reduce your carnal desires to decrease getting over excited.

Things to do to last longer;.

1. Masturbate before having the session.

2. Increase the amount of times you have sex every week and train by start and stop method.

3. Train your MRP I. E to get hard as fast as you can after the first shot.

Regards,

Sadboyz ' I actually made this username in regard to my PME.

[QUOTE=YoungBanger;2444379]This is going to be a long post but I want to make few things clear for people with premature ejaculation. Please excuse me for a long post if you are not interested then skip reading this post as this doesn't contain any FR.

Don't think of medication as a solution, that's not the case for most of us. Let me tell you how ejaculation occurs in layman terms, when we are excited enough our body sends signals to spinal cord and to brain and then brain again sends signals back to release the semen, these signals are caused by some chemical reactions.

In India we do not have much privacy, for most of us if we want to masturbate it needs to be done quick as some one may come and disturb us or it would be awkward, some people masturbate by watching porn, by doing so in the long term we are ordering our brain to cum quickly when we masturbate, Our brain is the best AI machine in the world, it understands and acts accordingly to our instructions and patterns. Once we make it a hobby to ejaculate regularly and quickly it will carry forward to sex also because you have already trained to brain to cum fast. One of the most common methods used to treat PE is by using SSRI's, do you know what this SSRI's are generally used for?? They are used to treat people with depression, all these medicines when taken regularly have drastic side effects in long run for normal people. This medicines work by increasing serotonin (a chemical in our body) activity, which for most people is perfectly alright. This medication is good only for few people, most of us (95%) either suffer from pelvic floor imbalance or anxiety or bad masturbation habits...[/QUOTE]Thank you for describing it in such detail. So here's what I plan on doing based on your and Sadbyz's advice. Please do let me know if I am missing something or going to do anything wrong.

1. Stop watching PORN and excessive masturbation (stopping Porn seems a bit difficult to but I know I will have to do it.)

2. Start doing relaxing PF exercises and Reverse kegel exercises (I think youtbe should be able to help me with what are reverse kegel exercises actually).

3. Masturbating less number of times with complete cool mind and by a slow process with applying warm oil.

4. Doing start and stop exercises with partner (I don't have a GF so looks like I will have to shred good amount of money, nevertheless it is worth it).

5. Doing the acts with complete peace of mind and with no pressure or anxiety.

The points 4 and 5 will take time due to current situation and I believe this process of healing will also take some time.

Again, thanks mates for your valuable advice, I regret not reaching out to the community earlier (it was because I was ashamed of sharing the problem).

Stay safe. Ciao!

Hi bro,

I am a Hyderabad, but currently in Pune.

Recently I started mongering Spa's and SP other stuff in Pune.

Had experienced few spa's in KP and Vn. Services in Ban Air and Hn j wdi. Was good and satisfying.

I wish same thing in Hyderabad. 3 months when I was in Hyderabad, tried few, but not good.

During this lockdown doing nothing, planning for list for each place to try allpussies. After reading all forums.

As most of the ISB Hyderabad bros talking about Mirror wali and Ritu want to try those.

1. As Ritu is from Pune will try her post lockdow.

2. for mirrir wali next time visit to Hyderabad will try.

3. one more added, thanks Vincent bro. Ruan Thai spa.

[QUOTE=JanQuadVincent;2444216]I was in Hyderabad past January around the new year for some work. Being my first time, I was mostly interested in sightseeing. I had loads of fun, great food (OMG mandi! Great soleimani tea, and rich conversations. By the end of the week, my dick started craving food as well. Having witnessed the highly innovative restaurant scene and bustling fine dining options, I was convinced that there would be gold mines to discover. In my experience, the degree of entrepreneurship is directly related to the mongering scene in the city.

Decided to start from Virinchi Hospital area. Its over the top entrance gate was etched in my mind. Its lavish aesthetics, for a hospital all the more, was inviting me to also do what I want. A quick google search on spas in the area confirmed my suspicion. It had a spa right across the road. On reaching, I found no spa there to my disappointment. Probably an outdated posting I thought. Happens all the time since MPs frequently change hands in India. I decided to explore the area on my own and started walking down the road 12. For a long time came across nothing. I was happy though to just observe the totally different vibe of the city. Super friendly and positive! It was 8:30 at night and I could see shops closing down. I soon came across a building with 2 spa signboards. There was a NE girl standing on the road beneath it waiting for someone. I could tell she was an MP girl..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ThatGuyIK7;2444506]Thank you for describing it in such detail. So here's what I plan on doing based on your and Sadbyz's advice. Please do let me know if I am missing something or going to do anything wrong.

1. Stop watching PORN and excessive masturbation (stopping Porn seems a bit difficult to but I know I will have to do it.)

3. Masturbating less number of times with complete cool mind and by a slow process with applying warm oil.

Stay safe. Ciao![/QUOTE]Bro,

Masturbation is not bad, excessive masturbation will lead to loss of sensation resulting in early throw out. Some more pointers below, this is out of experience and is not a gospel.

FS in SPA's. This is seldom open to time and is always time bound unless you book a 90 min session & keep the 30 minutes to bang, so in short its always wham bham in spa's and seldom girls are inclined to provide a GFE experience only because of time constraints.

Compulsive Porn: porn watching is not bad, and not all times lead to masturbation, its best to masturbate when and as needed derived out of mood and pleasure than being compulsive and have a calenderized schedule to it, shagging off as if this were a routine makes the nerves less receptive and it no more an action of pleasure but its a routine act as perceived by the brain. Do it when you feel to do it. Not when you have to do it.

Mood: This is the key, when you are up for the deed, its absolutely important to know diet and mood pattern to make this a success (meaning to last long than finish first). If you end up loaded with carbs before the act you will end up being sluggish and most likely loose interest. Focus on being light, scientifically a quick fast before the act ups the testosterone level.

Loyalty. The girl opens up after multiple visits, loyalty brings about GFE, this increases multifold as you frequent someone. Pleasure increases only when females involve themselves.

Above is my personal experience, only pointers. Remember 90% of the devil is psychological and 10% is physical. So be yourself, its your hard earned money so pound hard, be involved and if you keep thinking even before you start then you will lose it even before it starts.

[QUOTE=SadBoyz;2444476]As a person who suffers from PME I belive I can definitely give a solid insight on what really worked for me to last longer.

I remember when I was in 8th class, early months of 13 years that I got to know about masturbation and how use of soap and oil will give you almost similar feeling of sex. And I kid you not, for 2 years I'd almost masturbate 2-3 times every day, what to say, was super horny kid thanks to early exposure to porn.

I masturbated frequently for my entire teenage but it decreased from every day to 3-5 times a week or just once a week. Some times I used to refrain for a couple of weeks or a month only ending up doing 3 times within 1 HR as well. So yeah I was addicted to masturbation, it was when I was nineteen while watching a scene from xXx Xander cage, that I realised I am suffering from PME, within 15 seconds of stroking I came..[/QUOTE]Thank you mate. Indeed your advice has given me a positive mindset that I can get back to normal situation. I have listed out the steps that I intend to do in my previous reply, please do let me know if I need to do anything more.

Stay safe. Ciao.

[QUOTE=BabyKutu;2444904]The girl opens up after multiple visits, loyalty brings about GFE, this increases multifold as you frequent someone. Pleasure increases only when females involve themselves.

Above is my personal experience, only pointers. Remember 90% of the devil is psychological and 10% is physical. So be yourself, its your hard earned money so pound hard, be involved and if you keep thinking even before you start then you will lose it even before it starts.[/QUOTE]This! Its mostly in the mind. Apart from the excellent suggestion in this and preceding posts, I would like to add three points. To break the tension, relax and get comfortable its important to break the ice at first encounter with the girl. I have learned through trial and error that the best way to achieve is also the simplest. A smile. Maximum effect is achieved when you smile while your eyes meet for the first time. You can also widen the smile when you want and it usually gets infectious (in a good way).

Follow it up with small talk. They appreciate it. When sprinkled with even a little humor the banter can help both you and your girl (paid or unpaid) relax. You can also develop some chemistry in the process. The fact that time is limited is in fact beneficial for you because both of you have an excuse to make the conversation short and sweet. How to make a good conversation? I would say everyone is different. Discovering your style takes time and risk. I use to be shy but at one point just decided to start blurting out whatever came to my mind when with the girl. Soon enough, picked up some tricks of the trade. Name, home state, nice places in home state, family, experiences in this city, are all good places to start.

Lastly, about masturbation. I have switched to masturbating with hentai manga rather than porn. First of all the characters are much more developed and stories are fuller, which can be very engrossing and entertaining. Therefore takes more of my time and attention while subtly making my dick harder. Second, it leaves me the work of imagining how the drawn out characters would be in real world. Imagining this transition surprisingly comes naturally since the stories and characters are so good. Many times I don't even realize that I am not watching a video and actually reading a manga. Moreover, even after the last couple of years spent fapping over it, I never feel that its getting old. Thanks to skilled artists who literally have a plain canvas to imagine. The result is just 100 times more variety and innovative directions and characters than is possible in porn. The best thing about hentai manga for me is the search though. I spent at least an hour searching, opening up 20 tabs, and getting hard. Next, I spend another hour at least going through half of them before cumming. That should surely help in reigning the dick in.

[QUOTE=Sanjuwick7;2444526]Hi bro,

I am a Hyderabad, but currently in Pune.

Recently I started mongering Spa's and SP other stuff in Pune.

Had experienced few spa's in KP and Vn. Services in Ban Air and Hn j wdi. Was good and satisfying.

I wish same thing in Hyderabad. 3 months when I was in Hyderabad, tried few, but not good.

During this lockdown doing nothing, planning for list for each place to try allpussies. After reading all forums.

As most of the ISB Hyderabad bros talking about Mirror wali and Ritu want to try those.

1. As Ritu is from Pune will try her post lockdow.

2. for mirrir wali next time visit to Hyderabad will try.

3. one more added, thanks Vincent bro. Ruan Thai spa.[/QUOTE]Happy to oblige brother. More FRs to follow once the lockdown ends.

Also, can anybody tell if 3 k /4 k is the acceptable charge for TL HJ in Hyderabad or Ruan Thai? Any reviews of Ruan's Thai Kitty? Anyone in touch with her? Please let me know.

[QUOTE=BabyKutu;2444904]Bro,

Masturbation is not bad, excessive masturbation will lead to loss of sensation resulting in early throw out. Some more pointers below, this is out of experience and is not a gospel.

FS in SPA's. This is seldom open to time and is always time bound unless you book a 90 min session & keep the 30 minutes to bang, so in short its always wham bham in spa's and seldom girls are inclined to provide a GFE experience only because of time constraints.

Compulsive Porn: porn watching is not bad, and not all times lead to masturbation, its best to masturbate when and as needed derived out of mood and pleasure than being compulsive and have a calenderized schedule to it, shagging off as if this were a routine makes the nerves less receptive and it no more an action of pleasure but its a routine act as perceived by the brain. Do it when you feel to do it. Not when you have to do it.

Mood: This is the key, when you are up for the deed, its absolutely important to know diet and mood pattern to make this a success (meaning to last long than finish first). If you end up loaded with carbs before the act you will end up being sluggish and most likely loose interest. Focus on being light, scientifically a quick fast before the act ups the testosterone level.

Loyalty. The girl opens up after multiple visits, loyalty brings about GFE, this increases multifold as you frequent someone. Pleasure increases only when females involve themselves.

Above is my personal experience, only pointers. Remember 90% of the devil is psychological and 10% is physical. So be yourself, its your hard earned money so pound hard, be involved and if you keep thinking even before you start then you will lose it even before it starts.[/QUOTE]I do agree that the girl only starts to be free with us only after a couple of visits. And yes will try to have a relaxed mind whenever I go a head for a deed. I do hope to get the problem solved. Thank you all for the valuable advice. I guess I owe you all Biryani. Hope this pandemic ends soon, everyone's life gets back to normal and I can try various methods as suggested.

Stay safe. Ciao.

[QUOTE=JanQuadVincent;2445004]Happy to oblige brother. More FRs to follow once the lockdown ends.

Also, can anybody tell if 3 k /4 k is the acceptable charge for TL HJ in Hyderabad or Ruan Thai? Any reviews of Ruan's Thai Kitty? Anyone in touch with her? Please let me know.[/QUOTE]3 K is a lot, 1.5 K upwards is a good price either ways it should not be more than 2 k. 3 k you are in B2 B category. Ruan aka Aura is OK, has the best of the Thai's in Hyderabad, but still mediocre compared to remaining states.