Jackyo will soon be Backyo
I think he flies home today, so we can expect some good reports very soon.
Amazing how quiet the forum is when he is away...
Discrimination isn't common...
[quote=j lite]i found this old post by peter : "i can name you at least 6 clubs that will not grant minorities entrance into clubs. i have been asked by some clubs to not bring my indian friends by as the girls complain about it. "
i am of indian origin will be passing through germany for a few days.
could folks pitch in with info on which clubs/partytreffs to avoid.
thanks much![/quote]
.. but it does exist.
remember the girls are human and they (as you and i do) have their preferences.
i had an honest conversation with a chick (i won't name the club) last week just killing time and she went into this tirade about how she won't go with turks, russians or chinese.
why? she gave examples of being roughly treated, not being able to understand them or in one case, of being asked to do [i]perverted[/i] things. (as to what qualifies as perverted, she wouldn't tell me).
everyone gets painted by the same brush even though it may have been only once or a handful of times that she had contact with a member of that ethnic group.
she said the chinese dude stole money from her, for example. so no more chinese from now on.
so if even just one asian indian dude has been to her club and she had a bad experience with him, you are automatically on that blacklist too.
how to counter this? maybe you can get in touch with the several hundred million asian indian men out there and tell them to treat the women well. just a suggestion. :-)
when guys from these groups are in the room, she makes herself scarce.
this is at a club which let anyone in. there are no guarantees that once you are in every girl will make herself available to you.
my advice is to test chemistry with the chick first.
if you smile at her and she smiles back, that is a good sign. if you have a conversation and she isn't distant but is actively involved, then that is another good sign.
as in real life, my rule of thumb is that if i can make a chick laugh, i can get her into bed. if you can make an fkk chick laugh, chances are you will have a good session with her.
i am, by the way, trying to perfect that method of looking at a chick from across a room, catching her gaze, cocking my head and having her come to me. its amazing to watch how subtly some guys do this.
one minute she's across the room, the next minute she's sitting beside him or in his lap.
guys take this discrimination thing seriously but the truth is that you are better off figuring out who wants to interact with you and who doesn't before you make it into a room with her.
if she sends off signals she doesn't want to be with you and you persist, only you yourself are to blame if the session turns out to be sub-standard.
you can save yourself a ton of money and aggravation but reading her verbal and non-verbal signs.
are there clubs which won't let ethnic minorities in? yes. the dortmund-alperbeck one definitely won't. so won't one in muenster which specifically says it has an exclusively german clientele.
these clubs are few and far in between though.
you do read rep001tered reports about gt and phg not allowing certain people in.
want to have a discrimination free experience? go visit the turkish clubs: penelope (its been renamed, i was told and the pool is gone) in essen and ali baba in wuppertal.
we, by the way, need reports on these clubs. i was having a conversation with a turkish dude last monday and he says that the selection at penelope is outstanding (i haven't been there in a while).
Let me see if I understand
[QUOTE=HoleRanger]Need a little help fellas, I've read through many posts etc. It appears coming into Frankfurt is as good a spot as any and many locations are within a 30-60 minute drive. Is this a fair assumption? If not, please chime in with suggestions. I did not see much posted in terms of contacts. Taxi drivers etc. Most seem to use public transportation. Trains or just a car. If anyone has some contact info, point me in the right direction. Looks like I have to go at least once and compare it to my past exploits. Enjoy![/QUOTE]
Frankfurt is a good place for newbies to start. I wouldn't describe it as [i]a good a spot as any[/i]. There are only really two [b]destinations[/b] in Germany for this activity: NRW and Hessen (where Frankfurt is located). If you find yourself anywhere else in Germany this activity is available but only these two [i]Laender[/i] are travel destinations for mongering.
There are only three major clubs worthwhile visiting in Hessen: the so-called Hessen 3. There are over twenty five, maybe thirty clubs worthwhile visiting in NRW.
There are some major differences between the Hessen clubs and the NRW clubs but I won't go into what those differences are. Suffice it to say that as a newbie you will find what you are looking for in Hessen. This is as much as you need to know.
What do you mean by "not much posted in terms of contacts"? I beg to differ. This forum is chockful of data, particularly on club addresses, how to get to each one whether by car or by public transport.
The search function works, by the way. It works very well. There isn't much of a point in reinventing the wheel each time.