Non-Spanish speaking newbie's experience adding FB girls
Although my Medellin trip hasn't started yet, I'd like to contribute a bit to the forums since people here have been pretty helpful thus far. Hopefully my experience building up a FB girl list would be useful for other newbies doing the same thing. I'm staying at the Mansion, so the girl list isn't as important, but it could be useful when the pickings are slim there. My main challenge is that I don't speak Spanish, and in the beginning, I had no way to distinguish which girls are both from Medellin and are actually working girls. Additionally, a lot of them didn't respond to my friend request so it was annoying in the beginning. So here I'll share what I learned and how I approached it. Of course what worked for me may not work for everyone.
Creating an FB profile:
I created a new FB profile for this trip. One thing that could always happen is you [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] off a girl and she writes something unwelcomed on your timeline, so to avoid that it's better in my opinion to create a new account. Another thing is that FB is really good at suggesting to your real friends your P4P girls because you have a "mutual friend". I also used a different name because I used my real picture as the profile pic, and I don't want real life people searching for me and finding two accounts. This brings me to the profile pic, this is the most important part of the profile so I picked something that clearly shows my face, and choosing a photo where I dressed well helped me. My first profile pic had me wearing sunglasses and casual clothing, which seemed less effective. I don't think the girls really care about anything else other than the profile pic generally so it should be a decent pic. In the beginning, in my intro I put that I was coming to Medellin in December, and that did not help. Next, you could hide your friend list from other friends and hide from the public. I shouldn't have to explain the risks, but a potential benefit is that it could make it more obvious to some girls what kind of friends you're looking for. Keeping it hidden didn't seem to hurt me in the long run. Lastly, I blocked some of my real life friends who FB keeps on suggesting. If it's suggesting them, it's likely FB will suggest your monger account to them. After a bunch of targeted blocking, my real friends started disappearing from my suggestions list.
Finding girls:
As I posted earlier, my first attempt was to use the Facebook search function for "Medellin chica", "Medellin prepago" or some other search term. I knew I'd be lucky to pull up anything, and as expectation that's not useful. I think what I could have done was to set my city to Medellin and find people "locally", sending out lots of friend requests and messages in hopes that some stick. I didn't try that approach because others in the forums were kind enough to suggest some starter girls. There's another mongering forum with specific Medellin girl reviews, so I picked up a few FB profiles from there as well. Unfortunately most of these girls did not respond in the beginning because I think I had the wrong approach to contacting them. As someone else mentioned in these forums, getting a girl list is slow in the beginning and takes time, but later it starts rolling in. However they mentioned a neat little trick which is that for some of these "starter girls", their friend lists are public, and you can look for gringos in those lists. From those guys some of their friend lists are public as well, and you should find a treasure trove of other working girls. One thing to note is that anyone in Antioquia is a potential friend. Some are from Bello or Itagui for instance. Some girls don't have a city listed, but I just try to add them anyway if they're good looking. I did end up adding someone who was living in NYC and someone else from Brazil though.
My first contact with a (any) girl:
At first I was apprehensive about adding girls that are not working, but, as is when I was finding WeChat girls in the Philippines, you learn it doesn't matter, and if she's cute, just go and send a message with what you want. If they're not working they'll ignore you or block you, and you just move on. I'm sure younger girls on FB, even if they're not known working girls, get bombarded with a shit ton of random friend requests everyday, so a gringo asking for sex for money isn't something they've never seen before. If you do want to be more selective though, girls with butt shot / boob shot profile pics or no actual photo (like some artwork) are most likely working. As for the initial contact, I found that a friend invite + Facebook message worked the best. My first FB message was way too long, explaining I'm from the US, coming in December, a friend of mine told me about you, etc etc. A short message in Spanish (using Google Translate) saying that I'm visiting Medellin, and I would like to meet you was enough to get the point across. Enough to get a short conversation going at least. Some come back and ask when you're coming, where you're staying. At that point I tell them I use a translator and answer their question. All the girls I've started a conversation with had been very sweet, except for the first one who I forgot to tell I don't speak Spanish. She must have gotten annoyed at me for responding slowly or incorrectly.
Facebook magic:
Once you've gotten like 5 girls, look at the suggested friends list in FB and you'll start seeing a lot of girls pop up there. Now these girls have a lower probability than the ones in the gringo friend list of being a prepago, but you can filter out some or if you're adventurous, just add them all.
At the moment I've about 90 girls added to my friend list in about 3 weeks, and I don't want any more. Most likely I'll actually meet maybe 3 of them. In first 5 days I'd spend maybe half an hour a day trying different things, but once I got a process down, it took very little time each day. I think my response rate is about 50%, but I fucked up a lot of my initial contacts, so. Anyways I hear that if you're making an appointment, maybe 1 out of 4 will actually come through so I mentally divide the number on my list by 4. No idea how these girls will work out but some of them seem like they'll be good. Look forward to reporting at the end of my trip.
Medi -sexy fucking -llin.
Hey y'all mates & parseros,
A brief of my last month visit to the sexy mamasita capital of the world.
First of all, saying that paisas are beautiful is an understatement. I would say there are no ugly ones. It's like boobjobs as standard equipment fuck yeah. From the very first girl (an immigration officer at MDE) to the last you will be looking at around 80% of all-equipped girls regardless they're pro or not.
OK, enough chit chat. Saturday 04/11 arrived to the Lleras Green hotel around 1 am after Jetblue's FLL-MDE and decided to hit the road at once. Had pre-booked with a venezuelan girl from photoprepagos (Lorena) [URL]https://www.photoprepagos.com/lorena-voluptuosa-y-arrecha-tu-diosa-full-oral-te-espero-id-pkh2k[/URL] and since we build rapport from the whatsapp chat we met at Lleras.
Good fuck, a bit mechanic though but treated me very well. 130 k pesos plus taxy either way and I wasnt charged overnight fee.
And now prepare to laugh your asses off because that my friends was the only prepago I managed to fuck in 10 days at the fucking world's prepago capital. Yes, I'm no kidding.
If dissapointed then skip otherwise if you want to keep laughing at me (or gain insight) keep reading:
The next day I walked to CC Monterrey to buy a sim card for my phone, got into a Tigo (mobile provider) shop and the girl servicing me started to smile. Solid 8.5/10 and as a fisherman I am I decided to throw the bait. Putting my rusty Spanish to the test and even matching the paisa accent I managed to get her number and her finishing time which was in 2 3 hours.
I decided to hit the empanadas kiosks around Poblado station in the meantime thinking WFT? Let's try her. 5 PM and she was waiting for me at the agreed point. Dinner, courting, flirting and yes sir. Sex in my hotel that very same night. Guys but not just sex. It was the very best fucking sex I've ever had. I called her a taxi around 11 pm after she sucked me dry and after she left I made a judgement call. Bear with me:
My budget was $500 for mongering which I calculated to approximately 9 fucks with decently hot girls. Since I'm not much into variety but good sex I then decided to stick with this girl and spent the money in a better hotel and court the girl out. This decision did paid off as I had the best sex I could imagine during 10 days, ended up with a virtual Colombian booty call, ready for me whenever I want via whatsapp (BTW: Whatsapp is free in most Colombian carriers) and ended up spending only a fraction of what I supposed to spend.
And if you're wondering: She never asked for a penny! She didn't even want me to spend in dining out and took me to less expensive (strato bajo) eateries when you definitely get a lot more bang for your bucks without jeopardising flavour (or safety for what matters).
The reason of my success: My spanish. At least I can now say that my mother sturdiness with my siblings and I to keep speaking Spanish at home was somehow useful.
Later loooosers! (Just kidding) See you in my next adventure: Kuala Lumpur.
Avoid this New Life chica.
Daisy- thick, dark skinned (morena) with very cute face. Has bad implants, the implant either moved or was implanted incorrectly. You can feel her natural breast tissue and then a few inches below you can feel the implant.
This girl looks good but has no interest in taking the dick. In mish, she does that move by closing her legs to prevent you from getting all the way in. Then in doggy, she keeps backing into you to prevent you from having room to get a good rhythm going. I was not being aggressive or banging her hard. I even told her that I didn't like it and she shouldn't do that, and she stopped just long enough for me to get a decent rhythm and then started that crap again. I cut the session short. I was pretty annoyed since I had told that I didn't like it. I just stopped and started getting dressed.
This chica had balls to ask for a tip. For the first time ever, I declined a tip. I replied with a firm "NO" and nothing more. I assume that she figured out why but I can't be sure. I had the urge to tell one of the bosses but decided to just leave, I don't need any drama over $17.
