Didn't find much info here on Kapoo clubs. Any recommendations and experiences.
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Didn't find much info here on Kapoo clubs. Any recommendations and experiences.
[QUOTE=Kumbu; 1440044]Agreed. I have never even considered this, although I have been asked to support several ladies over the years (politely declining, of course). I did discover a few years ago that one of my friends was kind of supporting a lady. Well, he was sending her $400 per month. When I asked him why the fuck he was being such a dipshit, he explained it to me. Here is (roughly) his explanation.
One of the beautiful things about LOS is that ladies abound. There are so many girls: tall girls, short girls, chubby girls, skinny girls, dark-skinned, light-skinned, thick-legged, skinny-legged, round-assed, flat-assed, etc. Then there are expensive girls, cheap girls, those that are cheap on the first night and then get progressively more expensive, and those that start out expensive and then get cheaper as you go along. And then there are girls who will give you a great BBBJ, those who CIM, those who do anal, those who do whatever, and those who don't. The point is that you have to hit pussy after pussy trying them all out, and more often than not, there is something missing. You don't quite have the Aha-experience except on very few occasions. So when you do get that revelation, the inspirational experience, you want to repeat it. And then repeat again, etc. You just don't want to have to spend the money and energy bedding the losers again. Why would you if you have a superb girl already identified?
And then it is time to go home. And you know that once you leave, you will lose touch with the girl, and when you come back, you will need to sift through the entire haystack again to find the one needle in there. So you decide to pay the girl something small to keep her interested in you. The money is a way to keep her on a leash, but you know full well that she will continue to ply her trade. You do not expect her to become celibate on $400 per month (or even $10, 000 per month). All you expect is her to email you, and be ready for your return. When you do return to LOS, you let her know you are coming, and voila. She materializes at your hotel and you get that same fantastic sex that you remember from your last visit.
At least that was his theory. I tell you this because sometimes we tend to think that guys who support ladies are being irrational and stupid. But they (at least some of them) have a reason for this strange action, even though it is not a wise course of action.
So in reality, things did not work out according to his theory. He was paying her $400 per month, and then suddenly mama and papa got sick and she needed a little more money. So one month he sent her $600. That was good, but mama and papa are still in hospital, so the next month he sent her $800, and told her that was the last upped payment she will get. Ok. 3 months pass by and she gets her regular $400, but then she herself got sick and needed to go to hospital. $800 out the window.
Eventually he returned and expected to be greeted like a returning hero. He got some pretty good boinking on the first night, he tells me, but then it went south quickly. He wanted to screw lots of different women, but he had unwittingly cornered himself into a monogamous relationship. A monogamous relationship with a gogo dancer! She refused to let him see other girls, and he did not know what to do.
So he skyped me and asked me what the fuck he should do. I told him to ditch the girl and set his manhood free. Unfurl your libido and do what comes naturally: to fuck lots of mediocre women. Exactly what he was trying to avoid by paying this girl money each month.
I'm not claiming all the guys who support women are doing it for this reason, but this is one case. It was a mistake, as I told him at the time, and he now regrets ever having done that, so let's be clear: don't support the ladies from afar, unless you plan to actually marry the girl someday.
And as an aside, he told me that one night he was talking to one of his girl's friends who remarked that she was very impressed that he was sending her 30, 000 baht per month. He didn't say anything, but then asked his girl about it, and she sheepishly admitted that she had exaggerated to her girlfriend. So yes, these girls amplify what they are getting from sponsors because it boosts their reputation as a major money-getter.[/QUOTE]Hi Kumbu, nice to see your post.
Remember (some years ago) your descriptive stories while you where in Bangkok.
Hope you return soon and start posting.
I remember in my early mongeryears beeing a newbee (I had read some articles from various forum but not everything) then I met this DIA girl (very tall. 22yrs, fake boobs, longlegged) and I was stunned and blinded for a while (one of my first Thaigirls). We parted without any agreement on any sponsorprogram. A few months later (and I had read even more forums) she called me up and said she needed some money. I told her that was out of the question as long I was not with her and saw myself what she infact needed money for (this was infact for dentist as her tooth had broke atleast so she claimed). Had I been there with her to see her broken tooth. No problem. I would come with her to the best dentist. Then she started to pull this crocodile tears on me so I very reluctantly agreed to send her some money (my first and last time). I send her 7500bht equal to a norwegian 1500. I felt so stupid sending money so I did break with her and never heard from her again. And this was even small money. When I am with the ladies then I am not cheap at all I get them to doctorsappointment, buy them expensive clothes and stuff. But never ever will I send some money without me beeing around to monitor how money is spend.
But to many Thaigirls defence, atleast the one I hang out with or meet, they do relatively good themself so are in no need for anything (still ofcourse I buy them gifts to be nice which they ofcourse appreciates). And for my freelancer I have met over the past 3-4 years (even the Beergarden / Beachroad girls). No moneyquestion have been raised even some of them have my e-mails and phonenumber. Maby the habit of asking about money is not so popular or is it the punters themself offering to sponsor? If the last, how stupid is that?
I remember down in Phuket I was actual bonking a girl in the middle of the thainight while she talked to her finnish sponsor. It was relatively fun.
[QUOTE=Kumbu;1440044]Agreed. I have never even considered this, although I have been asked to support several ladies over the years (politely declining, of course)[/QUOTE]I think your anecdote / story summarises the reasons why guys sponsors girls, be it 100€ or400€ a month. To make sure they have a lady waiting for them when they return and save the hassle of the search, scouting for the girl to take to bed when he visits the country again. I don't see many other reasons, unless humanitarian reasons (!). The outcome is nearly always the.
Same, unless a wedding is on the agenda (could also be the guy looking at the marriage) , can't be much different.
Fact is when one sums up the amounts (average 200 per month) and the days he spends in the country, the toll is high, very high. Unreasonable to me. Better over pay her per encounter, in a pinch, so that when one arrives there she clears her agenda as the high payer comes to town. There is non incentive for her, and the story tells, to deliver since she already got money, lots of money, in advance. She also knows it can last forever, so once she collected a fair amount she can ditch him and move to the next payer.
[QUOTE=Skogis;1442889]But to many Thaigirls defence, atleast the one I hang out with or meet, they do relatively good themself so are in no need for anything (still ofcourse I buy them gifts to be nice which they ofcourse appreciates). And for my freelancer I have met over the past 3-4 years (even the Beergarden / Beachroad girls). No moneyquestion have been raised even some of them have my e-mails and phonenumber. Maby the habit of asking about money is not so popular or is it the punters themself offering to sponsor? If the last, how stupid is that?[/QUOTE]I will buy that in many cases. I have a friend who frequently sends money through other friends to give to girls. The last time it happened was a couple of months ago. He befriended a girl who was working in a bar, but he still had not fucked her. He sends money, unsolicited, through another of our friends and the friend gives the girl the money. Now this guy is the threesome king. That is his M. O. So he returns to Thailand and gets the girl and tells her he wants to do a threesome. They go find another girl and get back to the room. The girls go at it. Come to find out, the girl he has been sending money to won't let him fuck her. She is gay!
Another time he wants the same friend to pass money to a girl and he will put it in his bank account later. He tells the friend to give her $200. He rattles off the girl's phone number so our friend can call her to pick up the money. The phone number sounds familiar. It just so happens that the girl in question is the recently former squeeze of the friend who is supposed to deliver the money. He told him why he stopped dealing with her and convinced him not to waste his money giving it to her.
Think you guys are spending way too much. Of all the people in the world to help. Why help a cum rag?
I'm finding out it's more the gesture, then the amount anyway.
You buy you wife a diamond watch. I'll buy your wife a double headed dildo. She may appreciate my creativity more.
Most Thai chicks I know are happy with 50 baht spicy seafood salad and an occasional movie. Hoes included.
Maybe you guys are helping me out though with less needy Thai chicks.
P. S. I hear tons of stories. My rich chick owns condo buildings. One of the old dudes confines with her what he should spend on his 18 y / o Isaan chick, which he spends 10,000 / week. My bar girl chick tells me many stories of guys paying way, way, way more.
[QUOTE=Skogis;1442889]I remember down in Phuket I was actual bonking a girl in the middle of the thainight while she talked to her finnish sponsor. It was relatively fun.[/QUOTE]Ha ha. Ya, been there, done that.
Except mine was one of my freebe light skinned and very hot Dominican sex-pots. I told her every time that dumb German calls, she is going to talking to him while my dick works her over. So expect it. She did not care a bit except when I banged her hard enough that she could not keep the phone to her ear. That was when I would get a scowling look thrown back at me. She was kind of nutts. In a good way though.
[QUOTE=NeverGetsOld;1442914]Think you guys are spending way too much. Of all the people in the world to help. Why help a cum rag?[/QUOTE]I got news for you. The guy frequenting the cum rag ain't no more respectable an individual than the cum rag herself. He may think he is. But that is just denial doing its work.
[QUOTE=Ehunter; 1442988]Ha ha. Ya, been there, done that.
Except mine was one of my freebe light skinned and very hot Dominican sex-pots. I told her every time that dumb German calls, she is going to talking to him while my dick works her over. So expect it. She did not care a bit except when I banged her hard enough that she could not keep the phone to her ear. That was when I would get a scowling look thrown back at me. She was kind of nutts. In a good way though.[/QUOTE]Really a common theme for the man that has 'known the world". My wonderful Anurak from Udon, in all her candidness, would talk to the Swedish sponsor that was asking if she was still harvesting in the farm while I was taking her from behind. Little he knew that she had flown to Phuket for the only purpose of saying farewell to me.
I think it's facinating how the world has a way of balancing things out. Clearly her good fortune is more than offset by having to deal with scum. Everyone pays in the end!
[QUOTE=NeverGetsOld; 1442914]Think you guys are spending way too much. Of all the people in the world to help. Why help a cum rag?
I'm finding out it's more the gesture, then the amount anyway.
You buy you wife a diamond watch. I'll buy your wife a double headed dildo. She may appreciate my creativity more.
Most Thai chicks I know are happy with 50 baht spicy seafood salad and an occasional movie. Hoes included.
Maybe you guys are helping me out though with less needy Thai chicks.
P. S. I hear tons of stories. My rich chick owns condo buildings. One of the old dudes confines with her what he should spend on his 18 why / o Isaan chick, which he spends 10, 000 / week. My bar girl chick tells me many stories of guys paying way, way, way more.[/QUOTE]
Screw Singapore and their $40 pitchers and ships on buildings. Back in the city I love.
DMK to crib. Grab umbrella and go to NaNa.
Going to be the first night for awhile away from the new wifey and got to make something good of it.
The second I get there I see a sexy fat ass in NaNa hotel parking lot by herself holding umbrella. Other nights I see all fuglies.
Good personality, doesn't mention price. Dart to my crib.
First Thai chick I've seen with KY. She puts it on my side table along with a condom. Mind-boggling. Laughable.
Never used either and this girl was gushing like no other. Turning me the fuck on. Especially considering she wanted to use KY first.
Drenched her back and gave her more then my going rate. 1000 baht for short time and she was upset. Didn't have 100 baht notes. Fuck it. Some really good dripping wet streetwalker pussy.
Can't turn down onion booty or big naturals and models take a backseat. Just a matter if I got to be a bastard or not to get it.
Too many hot Thai chicks. Too little semen. Too little cash.
Like at the zoo where you see signs "don't feed the animals" there should have been signs at immigrations, as I guess the majority of visitors into Thai and the Phils actually have to pass through here, saying "don't sponsor prostitutes" (I don't speak of normal compensation pre session). I read in other forums as well and I feel so sorry for all the misleaded people out there thinking they found a special girl (in a bar, on the street, in a gogo, in a datingsite etc etc). Let her be special only when you are with her(atleast that is how I do it).
What surprises me by far the most is farangs actualy sponsering girls they meet online and have not even met. Laugh or cry I don't know what I pick. Normaly the glory midway I guess. The girls for sure laugh.
True story: Last time in Manila (1 month or so ago) I had this beautiful datingsitegirl coming over to my hotel. We started drinking and talking and as she got tipsy she spoke quite openly about her line of operation. She logged on my Ipad and showed me her communication (mail, skype etc) with a few guys. OMG I laughed and cried at the same time. They had all only met her through internet and a few were based in Europe and one in Canada and they all start to send her quite decent ammount of money so she would clear her scheduel if they were to set foot in her vicinity. From 4 punters she recieved 50000php (approx 40000bht) per month. I was so facinated so I read and read and almost forgot the girl. She actually told me she had other friends as well doing the same and she thought it was the easiest work in the world as they were not to fuck these guys no matter what (atleast so she claimed).2 good question she raised (she was a eduacated girl).1. Why I take normal job when I get this kind of money just chatting on internet (not even strip as she told me)? And 2. Are all foreign guys this stupid? The first question I told her I see your point and on the second I responded "atleast not me"Yeah I told her that to) but also I told her I simply could not explain why people would do such a thing as throwing money out the window. Then we got down to business.
I've been thinking about heading over to Bangkok one of these trips but was curious what the scene is like compared to the fkk scene. Anybody here have any input? I've been reading some of the reports in the Thailand section, jotting down notes and considering a possible trip. As we all know with the fkk clubs, there isn't a huge selection of asian girls around the fkk scene. I was looking at some of the photo's guys put up in the Thailand section and to be honest I wasn't too impressed, that is until I saw some youtube video of the girls working at some of these clubs (soi cowboy etc). This video [url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgjnt6hOyjE[/url] At the 1:20 mark. 2:00 mark. 2:12 mark to show a couple of girls got me thinking it wouldn't be a bad place to check out.
What's the scene like in Bangkok and Pattaya?