Thanks for the eye opener
[QUOTE=LustyHombre; 1400632]Until now I trusted her not to have any other concurrent relationships on the go and therefore always felt comfortable doing some real kinky stuff with her which might mean certain death if performed by a regular WG. A recent incident, while I was on an extended trip out of town, and which she initially concealed from me, prompted me to do a reality check.
Since, on balance, I am very happy with her, I told her that while the absolute trust is gone, she gets a single chance to redeem herself.
What an idiot I am! I know that I can't trust myself in matters involving pretty ladies. So how can I trust somebody else so blindly ever again? Always remember what Comrade Lenin said : 'Trust is good, Control is better! '[/QUOTE]A while back ago I would have agreed with you about being an idiot but I don't now and you shouldn't see yourself that way. I think you have learned a lesson and now will play it accordingly. I know guys who have women in Brazil, Columbia, Thailand, Philippines and call these broads their girlfriends and have the utter most trust in them being that they hardly ever see them doing the year and only see them when they're in their country. As a youngster I don't understand but will I change as I get older? Who knows, Maybe. I'm not saying at all that you fall in this category but some guys still need that feeling of being the only one and being loved as the only one and will even blindly pay dearly for it by believing the girl really loves him. I hope I don't fall for this and this story you just told helps to solidify this for me so I thank you.
You telling us your story may warn the next guy who may be going down the same road how to handle the situation. I would like to think from my experience that if I'm blessed to live pass 55 that I will not fall for the ultimate GFE these girls provide. That if my significant other is no longer around, my children are all living their own life that I will spend my twilight years having a blast and spending it with a beautiful woman that I know I won't score in the states unless I'm shelling out the green like a boss. I'm not Hugh Hefner.
I for one don't think you should completely cut her but if I was you I would keep my eye out for another. She completely broke the rule by not waiting at least for you not to be in the country to do her thing. For me what all of what she said in the beginning was an act and she caught you on the hook and that's ok. The reason that it is ok is because you didn't break the monger rule by marrying her and taking her out of the country to yours. So pat yourself on the back. I have heard worse horror stories but what happened to you most likely woke you up to the game. Think about it guys if we were in our 20's and 30's good looking would we completely give our self to an older woman pass her prime? No we wouldn't. I think we all should play our respective rolls if we should choose to play and everything will roll well.
By the way, everything she said her friends were doing she was doing it too. Her whole story to you was a game and I'm surprised you fell for it being a well seasoned vet. I know there is more to this story maybe but I really appreciate your honesty. We all have gotten fooled one time or another and it's good to hear about these experiences.
Some info of the Mombasa bars
Here is some more info of Mombasa from my trip a little time ago.
If you go to north part of the Mombasa, meaning Bamburi beach and Mtwapa town, here is all you need to know:
In night time go to Casourinha in Mtwapa town.
In morning / daytime / afternoon go to Big Three in Bamburi beach. If you don't see anything interesting walk to nearby Cheers bar to check that also.
However, I get bored easily, so I checked some other places also.
Near Bamburi beach is Nakumat shopping center. This shopping center has actually other name, Nakumat is only one shop there, but everybody talks about Nakumat. There are several bars there.
I liked most Bobbs bar (is that right name?). It is outside shopping center but you can walk there. You can find semipros, normal girls, and same girls which visit Big Three / Casourinha. In the weekend it is crowded. I visited there couple of times, then went to Casourinha.
Lounge is upstairs of the shopping center, there is also etiopian restaurant. It is supposed to be upper class place. I never really liked this place, but there are people at weekend, entrance was quite expensive if I remember.
There is some very snobby bar at the street level of the building, it is small but music was good. I forget the name (and I hope that I am not remembering wrong and that this was actually Lounge)
Near shopping center there was big African club, which you can see when walking from Nakumat to Bobbs. I wanted to check it before paying entrance, but door men did not allow, meaning that it was probably empty.
Now we can move to actual Mombasa town, here is my sight seeing trip there.
Bella Vista bar, was recommended me by some locals from Big Three. I walked it through, it looked boring, local place, no working girls, I did not even drink one beer there.
Next I went to Casablanca / Casanova. This was a fun place, upstairs is the Casablanca bar, lot of girls there, I met a group of girls which I had met before, some of them in Diani beach mongering place, some of them in Casourinha. This is worth of visiting.
Downstairs there is striptease place called Casanova, I drunk one beer there. Girls were dancing in the pole in bikinis, there was VIP area with extra charge, maybe they are naked there and lap dance, I did not want to check. Once in a night they have show there, like in Thailand, smoking chigaretts with pussy and that kind of stuff, I did not see.
Some 50 meters from here is some local place which name I totally forget, you can see it from the balcony of Casablanca. Girls told me that it is for local people, and girls there take 200-500 shillings for hour. Maybe some brave muzungu want to visit? I saw group of girls leaving the place and then coming to Casanova.
Next I went to Florida. It is in the beach, and there is really nice view, worth of visiting in daytime also. This is very big place.
There was same kind of shows like in Florida Madhouse in Nairobi, I have seen too many time, boring in my opinion.
There are striptease girls here also, not so many but prettier maybe. Lot of indians as customers.
There were not many girls here available, but this was during elections when every place was empty.
After doing this big sightseeing trip in Mombasa, last place Florida, me and my friend took taxi and went to Casourinha (long distance) , it was already 2 or 3 at night.
And we took girls from there.
