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Unlike most guys, I've never been a fan of educated women. Most bore me and lack common sense which I value higher. And I sure as fuck do not need one to validate myself. All the info in the world is available at a click to exercise my mind. I like my women easy going and best equipped to exercise my dick.

Being with a doctor type would be death to me. I personally can not get enough of these 6th grade educated freakadeak's. The only thing that irks me is when they dress like working girl's in public. I put a stop to that to the best of my abilities.

[QUOTE=Forest; 1448921]I have done the calculations. Here is what my math tells me.

30 years old = 25 years old.

40 = 25 years old.

50 = 25 years old.

60 = 25 years old.

70 = 25 years old.

80+ = 18 years old[/QUOTE]Love your math. If you are plus 80+s, what is the point of getting married besides just for the sake of showing off?

[quote=wildwestw; 1448563]she then asked if she could leave but i couldn't allow that.

i'm still very happy about doing this young one and also still very confused.[quote]most girls will have a less then stellar attitude after you [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] them. if a girl wants to leave i would compensate and move on to the next one.

the formula i use for underperformers is give them a percentage of what they offered. if we agree to 1000 baht and she gives me half of what she should i will give 500 baht, a quarter, then 250 baht and so on. if i think they are a bad person i will give a lower percentage and if i think they are a good person i will give a higher percentage.

[quote=wildwestw;1448563]i'm still very happy about doing this young one and also still very confused. this is the second time my deal went sour during the night. i guess i have to start taking the girls' exitement more seriously instead of just relying on 'the deal'. what's supposed to be easy mongering has just turned into a psychotherapeutic session. very confused.[/quote]one suggestion i have might be to switch from go-go bars and try one of the oily or soapy places. if you decide to try this tact please let us know what your experience was like.

regards,

bj

[QUOTE=Streetwalker7;1448711]What kind of stability does a sex addict provide to a kid? I'm so freaking confused at what goes on here.[/QUOTE]There is nothing confusing about it. He offers the kid economic stability, a better education, a place to live and a paternal influence. Don't forget they do not have the social welfare systems in Thailand or a lot of other countries in S. E Asia that we do in the West.

Regards,

BJ

Any word on whether the BJ parlors are open today? My unit needs some merit makin'.

[QUOTE=WildWestW; 1448850]That's quite an exaggaration not based on anything I wrote. I understand she may have been a bit scared because it may have been her first time with a customer and because she didn't want anymore. But then I think, we made a deal, right? I understand the deal is not sacred but if she's in the business she should know there are expectations to be met.

I have to add, even though I feel I might be right logically, there's an emotional edge to this I do feel sorry for. I wished she would have been more open to me about her doubts and fears because I DID ask many times how she felt and I got no response. I guess it's a hard lesson learned for both of us. For me that means I won't choose the very young ones any longer and I want to try and make sure the girl is willing to let go and enjoy herself with me.[/QUOTE]Sorry to say, but you are are thinking wrong again. You are expecting the impossible from an Asian prostitute: "open to me about her doubts and fears". That is hard enough to have with a regular woman here, simply impossible with working girl. You _must_ understand that the culture here is _not_ of valuing open, frank communication between people, and much less in between provider and falang customers. Either adapt to that quickly or be ready for a long series of disappointements. Also, what happened will be no lesson for her, as the way she see it is also basically impossible for you to understand. Her mid-term goal is not to gain expereince to improve her job, but to amass some money quickly due to some personal issue and then quit selling herself as soon as possible. Only problem is that she dislikes sex so much that she is ready to leave money behind to just run away from it. Woops I'm doing exactly what I said before should be not done, introspection into an hooker's mind.
Also you are wrong in wanting to pass on young girls. Age is not a factor and out there is there is plenty of your girls that can make you happy. But you must go by certain rules, get to know them before bringing the to your room. That is why the best results are always had with freelancers. All the others are basically forced to go with anyone and the results are evident. When they are dragging their feet in the bar already, that is the first alarm bell, but guess what most men happily ignore it and you have seen the consequences yourself. This is the best advice I can give you, that I have distilled at the cost of hundreds of dollars, now it's given to you for free!

[QUOTE=Marcos;1449095]Sorry to say, but you are are thinking wrong again. You are expecting the impossible from an Asian prostitute: "open to me about her doubts and fears". That is hard enough to have with a regular woman here, simply impossible with working girl. You _must_ understand that the culture here is _not_ of valuing open, frank communication between people, and much less in between provider and falang customers. Either adapt to that quickly or be ready for a long series of disappointements.[/QUOTE]Could not agree more. [url]WWW[/url]'s story could be named "When NooB's Collide". One, if not two, is new to the industry and the other is new to Thailand.

[QUOTE=Marcos; 1449095]Sorry to say, but you are are thinking wrong again.

[QUOTE]Fully agree. Sort of two newbies meeting = recipe for a disaster.

She will write this off to "stupid farang, I do not understand what he is on about, but still I got my money and that counts"

The guy writes it off to "maiden prostitute not fit for the job and I even paid her"

What customers often misunderstanding is what the girl was doing till the day before coming to BKK to work in the P4P industry (hoping she knew what that meant, BTW!)

She was probably doing nothing, struggling to meet ends, living in a sort of "no-future-no-job-no-skills" limbo.

Even being a 7-11 cashier requires a bit of smartness.

Probably the interested mama-san told her "don't worry, I deal all for you, just go with him and spread your legs, he knows what to do."

Customer service? Repeat customers? It is all be*t for her (and mamasan)

[quote=streetwalker7; 1448960]he meant he raped her!

kidnap, [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url], what next. think if you were the girl.[/quote]save your proselytizing and half-baked ethics for your beer buddies.

what happened was exactly what was supposed to happen in a free market situation.

he will choose more carefully and be keener to small signals and she will re-evaluate (if a thai bg mind can achieve such heights) the short-term career path she has chosen and hopefully go back home.

lessons learned in life are not always sweet tasting but as long as they are not harmful then one should be thankful.

I just got dropped off at Nana after dinner and did a quick recon run to see what was open. Walked down Soi 4 and it was dark until I hit Golden Bar which is packed, serving beer in glasses. Lots of ladies hanging in the parking lot and walking the street earlier than usual too. Made the right at the 7 into Annie's Alley and both bars on the right (X-Box and the other one) were open as was Strikers on the left. The sign was lit for Hillary 1 but I didn't walk down that far. Annie's soapie looked open too. All in all, enough around the Nana for a visit.

Any info on other areas like Cowboy, Patpong, etc? Would be nice to know for tomorrow, assuming things will be the same tomorrow. Not sure if the bars made the payoff for one night or both.

As recommended here in the forum, booked at the Beverly Boutique Business Hotel, across the street from the girls. Good hotel for about 35 euros a night. You can climb to the chicks you want, a night I went up two LOL.

That if it is a bit away from Magellan's Cross, Basilica of Holy Child and strong. But that you can see easily in one day and then back to the little hotel at night, take a shower and go hunting.

A greeting.

Just to confirm for tonight anyway, walking down Soi 4 from Suk, all the bars on the left (Stumble Inn, Zen, Hillary 4, etc.) were all closed, as well as the entirety of Nan Plaza inside. On the right, Golden Bar was the first thing open and it was packed. Further down, as I mentioned the bars in Annie's Alley as you make the right at the 7-11 were open and crowded too. There seemed to be about 2x-3x the normal amount of girls freelancing too. Hillary 1 down past the parking lot on the right was full also, and I didn't walk further but the rest of Soi 4 past there seemed lit up, I don't normally go past there and I didn't tonight. Strikers was packed too as well as Guess Bar seemed open for those so inclined. Bottom Line: with the main Plaza closed, Nana isn't what it usually is but it was far from being a ghost town too.

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She will write this off to "stupid farang, I do not understand what he is on about, but still I got my money and that counts"[/QUOTE]No, according to the OP she did not took the 3K.

[QUOTE=Sunlover2; 1448789]The accepted math for the perfect aged woman is: Half the man's age; then add 7 years. Do the calculation it works every time.

SunLover[/QUOTE]I don't agree at all. A 35 year old girl my go perfectly well with a 56 year old guy who is good nick and seems young. Incidentally 56 is not far away to my age. However, as they get older the gap seems worse. When the girl is 50 she finds herself looking after an old man at 71. If fortunate I may still be in good shape at 71, but who knows.