Sosua Reports

[QUOTE=Oakie;1755292]Don't let the lack of Spanish deter you from at least visiting Sosua. A monger and a puta can always communicate. That language is universal, LOL. You hold up two fingers, she holds up three, and it's fun figuring out the saw off, over a beer.

I was like you when I started, no Spanish, but from that first beer, I knew I was where I wanted to be.

I could be wrong but I doubt many guys would go to Blackbeards, after seeing Sosua.[/QUOTE]Lack of Spanish shouldn't deter him, from Sosua. He's got time to pick up the basics, and very little is needed.

I spent 6 days in Sosua and then went to Blackbeard's for 2 days. Looking back I think 5 and 3 would have been a better split. I enjoyed both and would return to both.

For a 24 year old, Blackbeard's will probably be more fun. By the time you reach 50, most guys are willing to slow down and focus more on quality than quantity. I'm not being insulting, younger men tend to enjoy the easier route.

It's easy to find a chica in Sosua, all you have to do is leave your hotel and one will find you within minutes. The harder part is finding the ones who are worth the price. That takes a bit of patience.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1755293]As usual, I cannot disagree more with this poster. Mongering will not teach you what being a man is about in any way that I can think of.

I did not discover mongering until I was over 50, and I am very glad that I did not, and I am not in the slightest bit depressed, nor do I have any regrets, because mongering can easily become like an addiction and divert your mental and financial resources from other career goals and other forms of personal and intellectual development. For example you will probably give up on the idea of traveling to all kinds of interesting places overseas that are not mongering destinations. For a few years mongering was a ruling passion in my life, but now it is much less so and it something I can take or leave, just like getting a massage or a haircut or a pedicure, which is the way I like it.

The advantages of mongering are: 1. Having sex with much younger women than you could have for free. 2. Having sex with more beautiful women than you could have for free. 3. Being able to fulfil some sexual fantasies that you would find very hard to get on for free, for example threesomes with two women and you.

I cannot think of any really good reasons why I would recommend a young person in their 20's to take up mongering, unless perhaps they had some kind of handicap that stopped them from having normal relationships without paying, or were on the way to becoming 40-year-old virgins and wanted to find out how to relate to women in a sexual way.[/QUOTE]Well everybody have different experiences. I have met a lot of older mongers and they all told me they wish they found out about DR, Brazil, etc. When they were younger. I Personally am happy I know about mongering at a young age, because if I did not I would have been your typical pussy whipped american male kiss ass that put women on a pedestal and will make women walk all over them just because they got pussy. When I go to a country like Brazil and I get to bang some of the hottest chicks I ever seen in my life, when I go back to america, I look at a typical american women like there shit! And it fucks with there ego, as there so used to thirsty ass dudes that will role out the red carpet for them. I know my value as a man and I rather find out when I'm young then when I'm old, and have to pay alimony and child support. So ID say its better to party hard and monger hard when your young. When you get old then its time to settle down with a wife, That way you don't have to worry about cheating and sneaking around. You can always have a clear head and say "Been there, Done, That". When I have a wife, I don't want to cheat on her and I don't have the need too because at the back of my head I know I already been around the world and I fucked the planet! Just my 2 cents!.

[QUOTE=NewbieMonger23;1755091]I appreciate the feedback I consider myself cautious and for my first trip honestly would probably not venture into Sosua not knowing Spanish. 10 days seems like a lot but honestly the way I see it if their are at least 20 girls having 2 a day for 10 days sounds like a lot of fun to me! Hopefully seeing fellow mongers and having a good time. Working hard most of the year I don't really see the point going all the way to the DR for only 3-4 days. Would 10 days really be too much? What's the average length of your guys trips to the DR?[/QUOTE]My typical trip to the DR is -- arrive Thursday afternoon, fly back on Sunday. Two full days of daytime outdoor activities, and three nights of fun. But that's after being a repeat visitor. I get bored in the DR any longer than that.

I do agree that 10 days in the DR is too long a time, unless it is your first time and you want to see the whole country. Ten days, including time in Punta Cana, Santo Domingo, and in the interior, could be easily filled.

[QUOTE=ForceSteeler;1755413]Well everybody have different experiences. I have met a lot of older mongers and they all told me they wish they found out about DR, Brazil, etc. When they were younger. I Personally am happy I know about mongering at a young age, because if I did not I would have been your typical pussy whipped american male kiss ass that put women on a pedestal and will make women walk all over them just because they got pussy. When I go to a country like Brazil and I get to bang some of the hottest chicks I ever seen in my life, when I go back to america, I look at a typical american women like there shit! And it fucks with there ego, as there so used to thirsty ass dudes that will role out the red carpet for them. I know my value as a man and I rather find out when I'm young then when I'm old, and have to pay alimony and child support. So ID say its better to party hard and monger hard when your young. When you get old then its time to settle down with a wife, That way you don't have to worry about cheating and sneaking around. You can always have a clear head and say "Been there, Done, That". When I have a wife, I don't want to cheat on her and I don't have the need too because at the back of my head I know I already been around the world and I fucked the planet! Just my 2 cents!.[/QUOTE]I kinda have the same view as ForceSteeler on this one. The way I look at it at this point in my life I'm not looking for love. I have two things on my mind that is women and money. Trying to settle down and have a relationship is going to prevent me from working overtime and spending money on dates etc. I'm a pretty regular 24 year old who's had relationships before, go to the gym and can get girls if I put in an effort. I just feel going to a tropical country and being able to enjoy the sun and having relations with various women is quite amazing! I don't waste my money on dumb tings and feel mongering is a great thing to try out. I think it's best to be objective here for the guy who said young men shouldn't monger is all personal opinion maybe that worked for him and he was more into relationships at my age. Times have changed however and honestly breaking your break for women of these days is not worth it when you can travel the world and bang sexy women! I think black beards is where I'm going and I really appreciate everyone thoughts!

[QUOTE=ForceSteeler;1755413]Well everybody have different experiences. I have met a lot of older mongers and they all told me they wish they found out about DR, Brazil, etc. When they were younger [/QUOTE]Well, maybe so, but that doesn't mean that they were depressed.

[QUOTE]So ID say its better to party hard and monger hard when your young. When you get old then its time to settle down with a wife, That way you don't have to worry about cheating and sneaking around. You can always have a clear head and say "Been there, Done, That". When I have a wife, I don't want to cheat on her and I don't have the need too because at the back of my head I know I already been around the world and I fucked the planet! Just my 2 cents!.[/QUOTE]And have you met older men who have done this with the outcome you describe? What if the older man finds he cannot become sexually aroused without variety. Would that not possibly be fatal to his late-life marriage to a presumably younger woman of childbearing age? Anything is possible, I suppose.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;1755391]It's easy to find a chica in Sosua, all you have to do is leave your hotel and one will find you within minutes. The harder part is finding the ones who are worth the price. That takes a bit of patience.[/QUOTE]After my first couple trips I tended to avoid the ones "who found me". Not for some macho reason of the male needing to take the lead. I am too old for that bullshit. But because the ones "who found me" were usually full-time, or at least experienced, pros whereas the ones I have had the best time with are semi-pros, by which I mean they do not go out to look for men for money, but won't turn down the opportunity if it arises (of course, with the right guy and at the right price). They would normally have some other main means of support, a low-paying job or bumming off their families.

You have to approach such girls yourself, and it is not always successful.

[QUOTE=NewbieMonger23;1755472]I'm not looking for love.[/QUOTE]I hope you remember that when in the DR. I have heard those words so many times from first-time (and not even first-time) visitors, and so many have fallen at the first hurdle. The island chicas (and especially the pros) are expert at making guys fall for them. Your biggest danger is not ForceSteeler's malaria, traffic accidents, or assasins, but some dark-skinned siren with her line of bullshit.

I remember one Canadian guy, former law enforcement officer now with his own business and loads of cash. You would have thought he was a hardened type who had seen it all in his life. He was not a drinker or on drugs. He became infatuated with the most popular girl at Blackbeards. He was active on the monger boards so he knew she was fucking literally hundreds of guys a year using three holes or more. Yet he convinced himself they were soulmates.

When the inevitable light dawned after two or three longish trips and tens of thousands of dollars expended, it was not pretty. I only found out about it after the event (though I should have read the signs) when I innocently mentioned her name. He thought I was taking the [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109][CodeWord109][/url] and started assaulting me in front of the stage at a bachata concert. He was a big, tough guy and I am a frail old man. I nearly wet myself with fright and surprise.

That is an extreme example of infatuation but I have witnessed numerous lesser cases. I cannot describe more now because I need a CodeWord109.

[QUOTE=CharlesPooter;1755495]I hope you remember that when in the DR. I have heard those words so many times from first-time (and not even first-time) visitors, and so many have fallen at the first hurdle. The island chicas (and especially the pros) are expert at making guys fall for them. Your biggest danger is not ForceSteeler's malaria, traffic accidents, or assasins, but some dark-skinned siren with her line of bullshit.

I remember one Canadian guy, former law enforcement officer now with his own business and loads of cash. You would have thought he was a hardened type who had seen it all in his life. He was not a drinker or on drugs. He became infatuated with the most popular girl at Blackbeards. He was active on the monger boards so he knew she was fucking literally hundreds of guys a year using three holes or more. Yet he convinced himself they were soulmates. [/QUOTE]I started mongering young but I was more of the hybrid guy. I was book smart and street smart. (I'm not trying to brag). I Never fell in love or fell for those weak ass western union hustle scams. I'm from the streets of NewYork and I use to hang around alot of hustlers, so call pimps, and smooth talking players and I would see what women will do when there truly in love. When a women is truly in love with you and she is your ride or die, You don't have to give her shit. And I'm not talking about paying for pussy, I'm taking about when your in a real relationship, This whole giving $100-$200 monthly support bullshit is all game and I always want guys to realize it Just all game and its not a real boy girlfriend / girlfriend relationship, because when the western union check stops coming these chicas do not know you. Just like friends, you cannot call people your friend when your down on your luck and only hang out with you when they can get something, But anyway I'm rambling. To make a long story short, Don't fall in love with a Chica *****, and don't turn a working girl into a housewife. And if you really want to know if a chica likes you, Don't send her any money. Most of these Dominician Men are jobless bums, but there chicas deep down love them to death, You can buy the pussy but you cannot buy her heart. So go to Sosua and fuck but don't ever fall in love. If you really want a REAL Dominician Girlfriend, Do NOT go to Sosua, Learn Spanish and head to the Santiago, or Santo Domingo go to a trendy club and try to find a Non-Pro girl with a Job and has a career, spit game.

You have a better shot. Always remember about hookers and relationships, If you pay her $40 dollars to get her, All It takes is another man with $40 or more money to have her! If you want a girlfriend try getting a non-hooker, Non-Pro that you have to actually spit game too. A truly Non-Pro girl cannot be bought with money, So its going to take a guy with the same level of game or more to have her, And that's a good thing, because alot of guys don't have game, but a lot of guys do have $40 bucks, Which is the reason why I never understand how guys can wife hookers.

[QUOTE=NewbieMonger23;1755472]I kinda have the same view as ForceSteeler on this one. The way I look at it at this point in my life I'm not looking for love. I have two things on my mind that is women and money. Trying to settle down and have a relationship is going to prevent me from working overtime and spending money on dates etc. I'm a pretty regular 24 year old who's had relationships before, go to the gym and can get girls if I put in an effort. I just feel going to a tropical country and being able to enjoy the sun and having relations with various women is quite amazing! I don't waste my money on dumb tings and feel mongering is a great thing to try out. I think it's best to be objective here for the guy who said young men shouldn't monger is all personal opinion maybe that worked for him and he was more into relationships at my age. Times have changed however and honestly breaking your break for women of these days is not worth it when you can travel the world and bang sexy women! I think black beards is where I'm going and I really appreciate everyone thoughts![/QUOTE]NewbieMonger,

Like you I had asked about sosua or blackbeards. I am glad I went for sosua. I am in my early 30's, I monger because I love pussy and love to bang different women. Big titties / big booties / long legs / etc. The beauty about mongering or paying for sex is I get my nut and can tell the girl to either leave or stay. As long as you can afford the hobby I don't see your age as a problem. For me mongering is about peace of mind. I rather focus on my career and girl. I have no time for other girls.

I speak english, french, and zero spanish. You don't need to speak spanish to go to sosua. Just learn greetings in spanish, and make sure you know how to say or understand the basic negotiation phrases. Like how to say how much, how to count, how to say leave me alone, come to my hotel, I will call you etc.

French did not help me because Haitians speak creole, so that didn't get me anywhere. Most girls understand basic english for negotiations. If you are just going to fuck then you don't need spanish, but if you are looking for GFE, or a girl to chill with and talk then blackbeards may be the place to go. If you just want to do some type of sport fucking, sosua is the place to go even with no spanish.

And when a girl get into your room you can use google translate. My best experience in sosua was with a girl I met a the beach. She spoke no english and couldn't write well in spanish, so google translate couldn't translate well. I bought her a drink while I was eating and getting a massage at the beach. The girl was hot, but I played it cool and when I left she asked to come to my room. I showed her 1,500 pesos and she followed me. After I banged her, she wrote on google translate that she wanted to stay. I told her I only had 700 peso left and was tired. Right after she saw the 700, she crawled between my legs and gave me a blow job for like an hour, til I blow a load in her mouth. Cash didn't all the communications between us.

My routine when I was in sosua was get morning sex, tell the girl to leave, then go get massage with happy ending. After the massage, I will go back to my room, get ready and head to the beach. At the beach I will get beers, food, feet massage, and do some work on my computer. While working on my laptop I will also look at the talent at the beach. I will then take a girl back to my room from the beach, bang her, then tell her to leave. After the girl left, I will take a nap, and wake up for Rumba. I will go to rumba like at 6 pm, get a beer and pick a girl to bang before classico. This means that I was usually drained when I went to classico. Classico is definetly like any good club in the US, good music if you like rap, hip hop, jamaican music. Girls at classico were fine, most of them come from out of town. But having a nut before going to classico allowed me to be in control and not think with my dick. After I find a girl at classico, I will negotiate the price for multiples and make sure I have a good vibe from her.

Rumba and classico added value to my trip and I don't think those options would have been available at blackbeards. The choice of girls is so limited at blackbeards. I don't think that all the girls at blackbeards are fine.

I am already planning my next trip, for a week, sometimes at the end of the year or beginning of the year. The only thing I don't like about sosua is quality of the hotels that are within walking distance to the beach and rumba. I stay at the casa cayana, which is one of the best options close to the beach. My preference will be a 3 to 4 stars hotel US standards.

[QUOTE=Durandpaul;1755557]NewbieMonger,

Like you I had asked about sosua or blackbeards. I am glad I went for sosua. I am in my early 30's, I monger because I love pussy and love to bang different women. Big titties / big booties / long legs / etc. The beauty about mongering or paying for sex is I get my nut and can tell the girl to either leave or stay. As long as you can afford the hobby I don't see your age as a problem. For me mongering is about peace of mind. I rather focus on my career and girl. I have no time for other girls.

I speak english, french, and zero spanish. You don't need to speak spanish to go to sosua. Just learn greetings in spanish, and make sure you know how to say or understand the basic negotiation phrases. Like how to say how much, how to count, how to say leave me alone, come to my hotel, I will call you etc.

French did not help me because Haitians speak creole, so that didn't get me anywhere. Most girls understand basic english for negotiations. If you are just going to fuck then you don't need spanish, but if you are looking for GFE, or a girl to chill with and talk then blackbeards may be the place to go. If you just want to do some type of sport fucking, sosua is the place to go even with no spanish..[/QUOTE]Duranandpaul wow that sounds amazing man! Is it easy to find fellow Americans or Canadians to hang out with? This is a solo trip so just wondering if fellow mongers are laid back. Sosua sounds tempting man but honestly if I enjoy the DR that sounds like a round 2 trip. I first want to dip my foot in the water and just be in a closed relaxed enviorment with girls and variety. My plan is to not sleep with the same girl the whole trip unless she's outstanding. I'm looking forward to it! Reading all this is getting my excited glad I finally made an account and getting all this feedback I've literally been lurking for years.

$100 is too much, depending on the city and fairs at the time of your visit you can spend under $50 for decent 3 star hotel.

Many FKK located near train or bus station, so no expense if you have travel card which is a must.

$200 a day for an entrance fee and two girls sounds about right. And with included food and drinks you may save even more.

You basically have to choose between sex & beach and sex & sightseeing. The whole experience is very different, DR is much more relaxed, GFE in FKK is not an option if it matters.

[QUOTE=Manny51;1754931]
2. $2500 just isn't enough for Germany. You'll be spending $100 MINIMUM for a hotel room, probably more. Western Europe is MORE expensive than the US. In FKK's, admission price plus two drinks is about $80. If you count your Taxi rides to and from the FKK, that's $100 per night, and you haven't even had any fun yet. Count on spending about $200 total daily at FKK's. Even not considering the weather (which WILL suck BAD), there is so much fun tourist and historical stuff to do in Germany that you are better off waiting to go until you are at a point in your life when you have more disposable income.[/QUOTE]

Spanish phrase book & dictionary of sex-[URL]http://www.amazon.com/Spanish-phrase-book-dictionary-y%C2%A0diccionario/dp/5803332569/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1438672289&sr=8-1&keywords=sex[/URL]+phrase+book+spanish.

Do not buy it if you stay only at BB as they can lend it to you. Otherwise a good investment. I had a lot of fun with chicas by opening a random page and doing some crazy stuff.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1755303]Anyone who makes the effort can pick up a useful amount of Spanish in a few weeks of study. The language has many words similar to English, so what you need is same basic phraseology to join up the dots and a bit of common vocabulary.

Words like policia, taxi, hospital, clinica, antibiotic, dentista, doctora aeropuerto, platano, pi-pi, ca-ca, ficky-ficky, banco, supermercado. pharmacia, restaurante, pizza, are not worth bothering with as they are obvious.

Learn the numbers and most common colors like red, blue, green, yellow, orange, black, white, pink.

Learn the basic form of the 20 most common verbs and their opposites, like stop-go, come-go, drive-walk-run, eat-drink, go to bed-get up, cost-pay, give-take, love-hate, live-die, be, have, hurt.

Learn a dozen of the most common adjectives their opposites, like hot-cold, fast-slow, good-bad, tired, drunk, left-right.

Learn common converstational words like yes-no, good morning--good night, thank you, excuse me, I would like. , how much is?, hungry, thirsty, where is the bathroom, how are you, I have no money. Fuck off.

Learn a few words for common foods, like potatoes, pork, chicken, beef, salad, ice cream, beer, wine, coffee, tea, rice, bread, cheese, milk (very important), fried.

Now you are good to go. If you just learn 5 words per day for two months, then you have 300 words and that is plenty to get by.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Frannie;1755293]I cannot think of any really good reasons why I would recommend a young person in their 20's to take up mongering, unless perhaps they had some kind of handicap that stopped them from having normal relationships without paying, or were on the way to becoming 40-year-old virgins and wanted to find out how to relate to women in a sexual way.[/QUOTE]Mongering is exactly like porn, only more expensive, LOL.

[QUOTE=CharlesPooter;1755296]Very wrong. I never stayed at Blackbeards again after getting to know my way around Puerto Plata (it was a good mongering area for learners in those days). But Sosua is not for everyone. Many guys prefer to return to Blackbeards or Field of Dreams (before the latter went south).

Many first-timers have a bad experience in Sosua through bad luck or naivety and it puts them off the DR for life. A member of my family, an eight-trip Thailand vet, hated it. He had no Spanish. He moved to Blackbeards for the last four days of his two weeks and loved it. He blamed me for not booking him there for the whole two weeks. He will never come back to the DR.[/QUOTE]So I guess you and I, and most other regulars here, are the "exceptions" to your rule!

[QUOTE=ForceSteeler;1755413]Well everybody have different experiences. I have met a lot of older mongers and they all told me they wish they found out about DR, Brazil, etc. When they were younger. I Personally am happy I know about mongering at a young age, because if I did not I would have been your typical pussy whipped american male kiss ass that put women on a pedestal and will make women walk all over them just because they got pussy. When I go to a country like Brazil and I get to bang some of the hottest chicks I ever seen in my life, when I go back to america, I look at a typical american women like there shit! And it fucks with there ego, as there so used to thirsty ass dudes that will role out the red carpet for them. I know my value as a man and I rather find out when I'm young then when I'm old, and have to pay alimony and child support. So ID say its better to party hard and monger hard when your young. When you get old then its time to settle down with a wife, That way you don't have to worry about cheating and sneaking around. You can always have a clear head and say "Been there, Done, That". When I have a wife, I don't want to cheat on her and I don't have the need too because at the back of my head I know I already been around the world and I fucked the planet! Just my 2 cents!.[/QUOTE]There's truth there!

When I was young and very horny, I put beautiful girls on a pedestal, and although I managed to get more than my share of pussy, I was always sweaty handed around them, and It was hard to have a normal conversation with them, or a sense of humor, because all I saw them as was sex objects I was desperate to fuck. (I functioned normally in all other areas, I was married for many years, LOL, so I don't need any cheap psychoanalysis).

Mongering helped me reset my clock, so that I saw women, all women, as just people, with warts and all, and had no trouble sharing a laugh and relaxing and actually being indifferent to some truly beautiful women. Mongering did wonders for my attitudes and success rate with normal women.

Blackbeards would be no place for a guy like me. Menu too limited. I am very fussy and I don't want to wait two days untill some guy in the next room gets tired of fucking the one chica I find attractive, Lol.

"Yes, I'll have your Prime Rib Special, rare"

"Sorry sir, that gentleman over there, has ordered our last rare cut, but we do have lots of "well done" left over". :)