Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]Of course, they all call and chat to the guy that knows "they love only him and are good girls" while they are with me. And I am calling other girls and get calls from other girls while with them.

I'm shagging a girl that is being paid by other guys... I am an understanding guy.. he's buying the underware I'm ripping off so I should atleast try to be understanding and let him talk to the lady I'm banging the hell out of.

I'll admit, having a lady tied up, holding the phone talking to her "sponsor / BF / Husband" while I am penetrating her in various ways actually does make my little guy go up also. I often wish I could send these guys Xmas cards saying thanks for being so stupid to them.

And thank god I'm not from Tennessee or it could have been me... actually thank's I'm not from USA even :D[/QUOTE]

Tansak

The more we know each other the more I think we are twins born some years apart. Always good chatting in the Dusit Club Lounge with our cuties at the next table swapping very similar stories about who likes being tied up etc....and likely they are doing the same.....:D

Trust you found a decision to your 'dilema' and see you in a month or two

FF
As for ganging on the Yanks ...maybe us non Yanks are more careful or just more devious...but regardless of nationality this gives all us 'white giuys' (assumed by many Filipians to be American initially) a bad name

Robbaf
Post and be damned, he maybe an ISG member...or get a fake FS ID and get more information on him as am sure you act like a sexy Filipina in chat ....but definitely not in person..the mini skirts and heels will never suit you :D Hope next time our paths meet when I am in manila in the next few months

That guy admits to all babies.

GE, if you wish I can forward his name and some more data on him.

I have no idea what do do with it and don't really care enough to get involved anyway.

H

Barfined a girl (by the name if Maritel) from Escape last night in Barrio Barretto - it appears she took a notebook from my room. No monetary value, just a very nicely bound book with hobbying and personal notes which she probably took out of michievous wickedness (chemistry was not particularly good in spite of all attempts to be nice to her). Is there any chance of getting it back?

Go back to that bar first thing tonight and talk to the management there. No guarantees, but you never know. You can tell them you publicized the theft on the internet... but would be happy to take it back on receipt of the notebook.
[QUOTE=Christopherd]Barfined a girl (by the name if Maritel) from Escape last night in Barrio Barretto - it appears she took a notebook from my room. No monetary value, just a very nicely bound book with hobbying and personal notes which she probably took out of michievous wickedness (chemistry was not particularly good in spite if all attempts to be nice to her). Is there any chance of getting it back?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Finrod]Go back to that bar first thing tonight and talk to the management there. No guarantees, but you never know. You can tell them you publicized the theft on the internet... but would be happy to take it back on receipt of the notebook.[/QUOTE]
Thanks - that sounds good advice. I was going to speak to the mamasan - or do you feel I should ask to speak to the manager direct?

[QUOTE=Christopherd]Thanks - that sounds good advice. I was going to speak to the mamasan - or do you feel I should ask to speak to the manager direct?[/QUOTE]

A point of note.. watch how you use the word theft when you talk to the mamasan / manager / girl. I'd start off by asking if a book got mixed up in her clothes or bag etc... and also note that you're not missing anything like your wallet or such and you just wanted to check etc...

Let the mamasan take it from there she will get the hint most likely and use stronger words to talk to the girl. In my experience better you use a nice tone and confrontational approach in these issues then throwing out those words out loud. Let the locals handle it.

My two cents...

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]A point of note.. watch how you use the word theft when you talk to the mamasan / manager / girl. I'd start off by asking if a book got mixed up in her clothes or bag etc... and also note that you're not missing anything like your wallet or such and you just wanted to check etc...

Let the mamasan take it from there she will get the hint most likely and use stronger words to talk to the girl. In my experience better you use a nice tone and confrontational approach in these issues then throwing out those words out loud. Let the locals handle it.

My two cents...[/QUOTE]

Absolutely.

I know most managers take a great pride in their club. Barretto is a small community and word gets around. And I think it was a 'mistake' or she was maybe being a bit cheeky. The manager is due in in half an hour and I hope he will sort things out nicely. I don't particularly wish to get the girl into trouble - it is only a notebook. And as long as it is sorted out swiftly I can delete the earlier post mentioning her name. I have a good face pic as well but haven't posted that as I know mistakes can happen.

The manager is due in in about half an hour so will report the results, and also you know where I went if there was any further problems. ;)

Ok. I saw the manager, Jonah at around 7pm. The girl was there all the time doing the "I am so happy to see you" act. Yes, an act, cos her attitude was bored doormat in the hotel room. Shifty, avoiding eye contact, tolerating touch rather than giving any reaction. Her long face had persuaded me to find a reason for her to leave as soon as possible. But under the watchful eye of the manager she is all light and laughter.

I think the real give-away was the jollity with which she denied it. A normal person accused of taking something they didn't is outraged.

I gave the manager half an hour with her but no luck. I will pop in again later tonight. After that, they will have to live with the report.

I suppose maybe a couple of problems for girls in Barretto to deal with (as opposed to AC or the main areas in Manila) is there is not the solid monger-p4p community that is away from the watchful eyes of outsiders reminding them they are doing something generally unacceptable.

But another problem is perhaps even a lack of sophistication, education and English. The girls I met in Manila were quite polished and well-read. One girl picked up the gist of a difficult book on the roots of the Greek language I was reading and paraphrased it to me the next morning. She has Thoreau in her handbag.

But in Barretto, I am seeing so many sitting with bored expressions trying to escort their dates over dinner. I would rather give them a shorter time that is less awkward for both parties.

But there is less excuse in the bedroom. Gave my girl last night a pretty good massage, pleasured her physically in various ways, played her top music DVDs she obviously thought were rather good, but there was vert little reaction with the clothes off. Having said this, I would agree with the previous poster who said they are among the sweetest girls. But it's just finding one that can do her job outside the club as well as inside. I was lucky to get as much as a smile or a kiss spontaneously.

I should add that, having done everything I could, I let it drop at Escape. Talking to other bar owners and managers, their stories suggest be very wary about complaining. eg guy barfines a girl, and on the way out she says she is menstruating. He says ok, thanks for telling me, takes her back to the club and the mamasan says no problem, we'll find you another girl. While he's waiting/selecting, the police come and arrest him and say to the first girl, 'Is this the guy who assaulted you?' Another guy was rude to some bargirls who had been out of order, calling them prostitutes, and also arrested. I assume the hefty fines are shared out. But there are also clubs that are very decently run. So my opinion is maybe slightly revised on a number of points, in fairness to everyone.

This is partly in response to all the American bashing as of late. Understand that Americans are living in state of fear. (insert several paragraphs about war, the economy, civil rights, privacy) So the "I'm pregnant" call just heaps a ton of uncertainty on an already battered individual.

Rest easy though... should you actually knock up a girl here; and it's clearly your baby (through test or appearance) there is actually very little risk to owning up to it and signing the birth certificate IF YOU ARE AN AMERICAN.

The Philippines and the US have no reciprocity in place regarding child support even when paternity if proven / undisputed. So if you want to bail on your responsibilities - you are in the clear.

Citizens of these countries (Australia, Austria, Bermuda, Canada (by province) Czech Republic, Fiji, Finland, France, Germany, Hungary, Ireland, Jamaica, Mexico, New Zealand, Norway, Poland, Slovak Republic, South Africa, Sweden, United Kingdom (England, Scotland, N. Ireland)) can however be held to the judgment of a Philippine court order.

So if you are an American, sign the damn thing, take the little tyke to the embassy and obtain his / her US passport. If you won't or can't take care of the child (and the mother) you can at least give the kid a chance at someday getting out of this country and creating a better life.

[QUOTE=Barba]A friend / fb to me got preggo by an American prick. His 5th baby with his 3d girl. He seems to have some obsession about going around in Davao and other cities and knock up young pinays.

And he claims not to have cash, despite he has what seems to be a rather high profile job

Asshole coward! Hope he catch a bullet or a bat somewhere where it hurts. I know some of the relatives are plotting for it.

B[/QUOTE]

Why couldn't he just be a prick and not an American prick? All countries have dead-beats. Not fair to point fingers my friend!

YM

[QUOTE=ShadowAxis]So if you are an American, sign the damn thing, take the little tyke to the embassy and obtain his / her US passport. If you won't or can't take care of the child (and the mother) you can at least give the kid a chance at someday getting out of this country and creating a better life.[/QUOTE]

Holding Dual Citizenship myself.... You don't need a passport. All kids I've fathered have Consular reports of live birth abroad from the USA... Not just sign the local birth certificates but I have pushed all the paperwork through also. The report of live birth abroad is like a birth certificate coming from the USA and is what you do before a passport.

It's not a US issue, is a mongering issue, as I issue the reports for both citizenship I hold. My kids got more friggin nationalities then others as some are holding rights to four passports.

An excellent point. And also very unusual to stop so close to the finish line. If the mother is able to handle a US embassy interview (most aren't) then things are probably OK. I'd still recommend seeing the process through to completion. Even with the cert. Once the child becomes an adult they lose the ability to claim citizenship (at least for the US). Maybe even earlier. I'd recommend pushing that last step. It only takes a few hours and once the child is issued a US passport there is absolutely no room for future discussion or confusion.

Even so. That is so much more then most do!

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]Holding Dual Citizenship myself.... You don't need a passport. All kids I've fathered have Consular reports of live birth abroad from the USA... Not just sign the local birth certificates but I have pushed all the paperwork through also. The report of live birth abroad is like a birth certificate coming from the USA and is what you do before a passport.

It's not a US issue, is a mongering issue, as I issue the reports for both citizenship I hold. My kids got more friggin nationalities then others as some are holding rights to four passports.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ShadowAxis] .. United Kingdom (England, Scotland, N. Ireland)) can however be held to the judgment of a Philippine court order.
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What about the Welsh? Just like them heathen taffy bastards to get away with it! But there being no sheep to shag in the Philippines, I don't suppose many of them get out here, in any case;).