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Heard about Barra Ejecutiva, but felt so out of my element in el Centro that didn't want to return LOL. Is the selection that much better? Honestly it seemed like the whole Centro was slummy. Although the experience as a whole was fun not going to lie, LOL. Especially the limbo, LOL. The scene seemed very narcos by the way, wouldn't be surprised if there were sicarios there.
Agree with everything said here.
[QUOTE=Knowledge;2147393]There is no chance of doing that at New Life. Some of the lower key casas (Paris, Zandaly, Yakuza, even Aiffe) will let you chat the girls up as long as you want if you buy a drink. Strip bar rules. The difference in the casas is you don't have to yell over the music, LOL![/QUOTE]Well really, even at the low end casas as you say, it's not a chat them as long as you want thing.
They will get up and present themselves to newcomers, unless you commit to service of course.
I used to really enjoy the casas in Medellin, but that was before the days of the "Casa Map" and the huge influx of gringos to the scene.
Some guys base their entire trip now on the casas. Nothing wrong with that if that your thing.
However, it used to be like wow, there's a Gringo in the House.
Now it's like, oh just another Gringo. LOL.
Granted, the Strip clubs may have the same attitude, at least initially, however, for Spanish speaking guys with some personality, you can really size girls up and build a cool bond with them.
Just my experience and opinion of course.
Are these kind of girls one would find at Barra Ejecutiva?
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[QUOTE=VickyRai;2147230]One of them is. The girl lying on bed is Sarah.[/QUOTE]Amazing! You're the man.
Fantastic trip report. How much of your great trip do you ascribe to preparation and ho much to on the ground.
Learning and contacts?
Those girls seem amazing in many ways. Who are the other two pictures?
Wish you continued success in this. I am sure it won't be long before you are back. I sure would already be booking my trip back with that type of experience.
[QUOTE=ColombiaLover;2147409]If you have a regular who starts to slack off, let her know about it and "punish" her. For example, don't see her on your next trip (and let her know you are there). It does not work all of the time, but it's worked more often than not.[/QUOTE]Come on man. There are hundreds more dudes meeting her the same way you did. You are not punishing anyone. This thing is cop and blow on both sides anyway. People come and they go. There is not a chick that stopped eating because a guy no longer comes around; there is not a dude that stopped fucking because a chick stopped coming around.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2147494]Come on man. There are hundreds more dudes meeting her the same way you did. You are not punishing anyone. [/QUOTE]Not to mention that she might consider a [I]relief[/I] what the dude meant to be a "punishment".... :D
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2147494]Come on man. There are hundreds more dudes meeting her the same way you did. You are not punishing anyone. This thing is cop and blow on both sides anyway. People come and they go. There is not a chick that stopped eating because a guy no longer comes around; there is not a dude that stopped fucking because a chick stopped coming around.[/QUOTE]If she's slacking off, she is just showing you it's a job. You're simply a guy who she fucks for money. She fucked you the first time for money and she'll fuck you next time for money, but frankly she has no interest in fucking you. She's getting nothing out of it except the money and she's questioning whether it's worth it.
If she's getting something out of the experience in addition to the money, she won't slack off. Maybe you make her laugh, or maybe she isn't faking all those orgasms.
It's hard to punish someone by not seeing them, when they don't want to see you.
[QUOTE=Chaman;2147481]Are these kind of girls one would find at Barra Ejecutiva?
[URL]https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=905022109627850&set=a.248172305312837.62408.100003602090814&type=3&theater[/URL][/QUOTE]No. 2 and no. 5 look trannies to me! :eek:
+1, this is real talk and good old fashioned common sense. OK, I get it that fantasy is part of the hobby but I think it's a bad idea to lose sight of what is fantasy and what is real. The Western Union crowd is a great example of why it's a bad idea.
The wise practice is to move on when the deal is no longer satisfying. Doing otherwise in an attempt to remind ourselves we are in control is in fact giving up control. Staying is like gutting out a bad marriage because the legal and alimony costs would be worse than the grind of living with somebody who makes you unhappy.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2147494]Come on man. There are hundreds more dudes meeting her the same way you did. You are not punishing anyone. This thing is cop and blow on both sides anyway. People come and they go. There is not a chick that stopped eating because a guy no longer comes around; there is not a dude that stopped fucking because a chick stopped coming around.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BlackPage;2147640]No. 2 and no. 5 look trannies to me! :eek:[/QUOTE]Definitely dudes. Those chicks do not work there. The chicks that work there don't sit around like that. They are usually standing on a wall or in front of the bar. I think they only sit when they are drinking with a customer. I don't think they have phones out either. I don't even think you can get a signal inside the place.
Some of these chicas obviously meet a lot of guys. Some not so many. But the point is that you show them that you notice there decline in service. So the choice is to either improve your game or find someone else. For me, for the most part, this has worked. The chicas ask me why I did not see them on my trip and I tell them. That said, I got to Medellin once a month, so my regular business is worth more to them than the gringo who shows up once or twice a year. But it's there choice.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2147494]Come on man. There are hundreds more dudes meeting her the same way you did. You are not punishing anyone. This thing is cop and blow on both sides anyway. People come and they go. There is not a chick that stopped eating because a guy no longer comes around; there is not a dude that stopped fucking because a chick stopped coming around.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2147667]Definitely dudes. Those chicks do not work there. The chicks that work there don't sit around like that.[/QUOTE]Thanks mate, this will be my first trip to Colombia, just was starting to get disappointed before landing.
[QUOTE=ColombiaLover;2147753]That said, I got to Medellin once a month, so my regular business is worth more to them than the gringo who shows up once or twice a year. But it's there choice.[/QUOTE]Lest you forget the even more regular business of the Colombians and gringos that actually live there! Did they lose any weight when you punished them?
Hello gentleman,
I am planning a mongering trip in June for my birthday and am so torn on where to go. I have been to Tijuana and Sosua and am considering those places, but as much as I like brand new pussy I like new places. I also think Colombian women are the most beautiful in the world. Do I have a lot to learn before venturing Medellin alone? Could I get a central hotel and walk to a lot of areas and have chicas come to me? I know I have a lot of studying to do of this forum but just wanted some general thoughts on Medellin compared to other areas. Thanks.
[QUOTE=GeneHickman;2147492]Amazing! You're the man.
Fantastic trip report. How much of your great trip do you ascribe to preparation and ho much to on the ground.
Learning and contacts?
Those girls seem amazing in many ways. Who are the other two pictures?
Wish you continued success in this. I am sure it won't be long before you are back. I sure would already be booking my trip back with that type of experience.[/QUOTE]LOL.
I seemed to be lucky on my first trip to be able to discover such semi pros or may be the medellin scene is like that.
I would say my success was 70% planning and research and 30 % on the ground there.
My advise would be to read as much as you can on this forum. Theres tonnes of good information and leads here. I got the few names from here and both the girls were awesome. Facebook game really helped. I spent countless hours on facebook.
And I do believe now if you have a decent Spanish (which I don't) then your experience can be at a completely different level. Wish that you also find what you looking for.