[QUOTE=Syzygies;1469312]Yeh. I don't think we have any prescribed interview technique.[/QUOTE]We?
You're averaging 11 posts a day and you are speaking for me now?
Why don't you give it a rest for a while.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1469312]Yeh. I don't think we have any prescribed interview technique.[/QUOTE]We?
You're averaging 11 posts a day and you are speaking for me now?
Why don't you give it a rest for a while.
[QUOTE=Wolvenvacht;1469742]The biggest "pitfall" you might wish to avoid is to fall in love with a Thai GF. I did so and haven't regretted it for one moment. ;)[/QUOTE]Nice! Yes, love is definitely possible and sometimes that's what is desired. Just be extra careful.
[QUOTE=Syzygies; 1469718]Does "hard-core" mean having long experience or nasty or jaded or what?
I think you generalise too much. Bow and Dtom at Suzie Wong have been bar girls for many years and very experienced. Dtom will admit that no one licks pussy in the lesbian show better than her. Both are lovely girls and always perform great GFE. Trully nice girls can remain really nice with nice customers, no matter how many years they have been doing it. Well worth taking both of these girls together if they are available. Neither has big tits. These girls are not actresses much with me. They understand well that I like them to be their normal selves and big bullshit is not necessary. They really have fun doing the lesbian stuff and are close friends and fuck buddies and so could be classified as semi-bi-sexuals. Lai is a big bullshit girl in the same bar, and I don't like her at all.
I think the attitude of girls is not that dependent on whether they are new or long term. Sure newbies are more unsure of how to act. Experienced girls can sum up the customer quicker. All of them can warm to the customer willing to make things "fun" rather than too serious.
I am sure other ISGers will know Bow and attest that she is one of the nicest bargirls you could meet despite being at SW on and off for 8 years perhaps. Experience gives them certain self confidence that they know how to do great BBBJ etc. Newbies sometimes aren't so good in technique.[/QUOTE]I'd define hardcore as girls who have been psychologically effected by working in the business that they are unable to related to the opposite sex except for monetary gain.
Sure I am making generalisations but at the same time there are always exceptions to the rule which you seem to have found. If I want to fuck I'd rather have a newbie since I'm into GFE but as I'm also into BJ bars I'd rather have a chick who knows how to work a dick and she definately won't be a beginner.
Today's New York Times states Bangkok is "the most visited city in the world." So we are reaping the benefits of that demand.
[QUOTE=ArcadiaEgo;1469678]Thailand newb here. Are there any pitfalls that I should look out for as a solo punter?[/QUOTE]I'm sure the other gents will weigh in here, but three things come to mind:
First, realize it will be overwhelming. Especially if you come from a place where the punter scene is underground. The secret is to get out of your own head and go with the flow. I'm not saying pick the first girl you meet. But lots of guys have a hard time pulling the trigger because over sensory overload.
Second, ignore the Price Police. Of course you should be careful with your money. But trying to save that last five percent is crazy. You're on holiday, for crying out loud.
Third, keep smiling. Nobody likes a sour puss who looks like he hates himself. If you appear to be having a good time, it's contagious with the girls.
Bunky
[QUOTE=Bunky;1470048]I'm sure the other gents will weigh in here, but three things come to mind:[/QUOTE]Leave the sleeve-less T-shirt at home; in fact leave all your T-shirts at home along with your shorts and sandals. Dress smartly. No one likes a scruffy male, least of all Thai WGs.
[QUOTE=Scorchin;1470052]Leave the sleeve-less T-shirt at home; in fact leave all your T-shirts at home along with your shorts and sandals. Dress smartly. No one likes a scruffy male, least of all Thai WGs.[/QUOTE]Have a look at my post; 5-13-13 19:04.
Regrds
[QUOTE=Scorchin;1470052]Leave the sleeve-less T-shirt at home; in fact leave all your T-shirts at home along with your shorts and sandals. Dress smartly. No one likes a scruffy male, least of all Thai WGs.[/QUOTE]I agree no singlets, but unless you are going to gentleman's clubs, Farangs wearing sandals is quite normal. Maybe sneakers is more trendy for the Singapore set, but can be impractical. Sweaty socks equals stinky socks. Thais are wearing sandals or open shoes as well. Its often too hot for shoes and socks. Long pants may be better but shorts are acceptable in sticky weather, in certain circumstances. Shirts with a collar are better than t-shirt also.
But lets face it. There is no need to dress up to visit a dive like Tulip or a dive of a bar either. Wearing sandals and even shorts on rare occasions never had any effect on my mongering. Dress depending on what you are attending. Don't wear shorts to a temple.
To a disco or club, yes, dress up.
[QUOTE=Rjsss212; 1469754]We?
You're averaging 11 posts a day and you are speaking for me now?
Why don't you give it a rest for a while.[/QUOTE]What's eating you? By "we", I am not speaking for you. I am talking about experienced bar goers in general.
I merely indicate that picking a bar girl is a relaxed affair and not like an "Interview" at all.
[quote=rockhound74; 1468813]back to soi cowboy and suzie wongs with wingman and nok in tow. i look around and ask to see some of the ones that i have had previous. almost all of them were off that day. darn i wanted to take pam or koh. i see a 19 yr old on the stage and wave her over. her name was not. really small and pretty new to the game i found out the hard way. we did settle on a price and activities and we were off to have a few drinks in my wingman's room. we played some games. strip coin flip and beer pong again to give out the remaining panties. both not and nok were very shy until the drinks started kicking in. unfortunately i was on of the first ones down to my birthday suit and when it came for the girls time to take the last article of clothing off they both chickened out! damn. i really wanted to see wingman's girls. she was hot and had a great peronality. my girl on the other hand i could see that she was so new and sooooo shy that it was going to be a struggle to get her to get comfortable. so we all decide around 2am to head to our respective rooms. back in the room not took a shower and i followed her in. she looked a bit confused but i washed her down. she did not do me the same. warning. warning. on the bed started daty and then popped up for air. she was so small and tight that i had trouble in even with some lube. so after some very slow entries we were off. needless to say i could not go to deep since she was grimacing for much of the deed. so i flip her on her side and enter from the side. she said a little better and at that point i said "fuck it" so i start thrusts to match her backing up and she screamed a few times and i blow a load on her ass.
day 6.
not was up early and was stalling in the shower. so when she came back i cut my loses and told her to go home. gave her the agreed fee but said "you might want to try a new job" that night i told mamasan at suzy wongs that not needs guidance or she is going to get a not so nice guy that will find her timid refusals once in the room to be a major issue after agreeing to do certain things inside the bar.[/quote]"not" is no newbie. she has been working the bar for at least a year. one of my favourite girls. probably have done her at least 8 times. she is known to be rather tight (although not as tight as dtom) , especially if she has been off work for a few days and no recent fucking. this means you have to take it very soft and slow at the start, beginning with only a little penetration, until her insides get time to stretch out, and use plenty of lube. even once sex gets going, she still does not like to be pounded. sensual slow sex (my style). she is a bit shy (without a few drinks) but not so much with me as we have screwed many times and mostly with two girls at a time. she has a baby already. started young. she really likes good daty and a good gentle screw. gets quite passionate with the kissing with me, and can tell from her body movements she is really getting into it. sometimes orgasmic. whenever she sees me she will always charge over to me and very keen to go for nice sex session and is okay with double girls if she knows the other girl reasonably well. i normally don't take long time when taking two girls. not a lesbian by any means though. she much prefers guys. she has an okay bbbj but not outstanding. some other girls are better for bbbj.
not is known to be very slow in shower and in general preparation for a sex session and sometimes seems to need to go [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord134][CodeWord134][/url] often. this happens with girls drinking too much and very tiny bladder.
yes "not" is timid, but doesn't prevent her being a very nice tight fitting screw, if approached the right way. she dances totally nude on stage, but is a little shy about it. certainly no porn star so doesn't do anal, cim etc. i'm sure. for porn stars, go to tulip, snow white, etc.
mamasan (well one of the several) should have a few clues about what sort of guys not is suited to. girls will often gossip about how their customers were too.
Good evening Gents,
I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'll be in BKK week. I have already done the masssage and gogo bar scene. And thoroughly enjoyed it. Will most certainly be revisiting that side. But I was just wondering if there were any conventional stripclubs in BKK, where one can go and have a drink, then get a private dance for a 4 minute song at a set price. Like a stripclub in north America, and some places in Europe.
For those who are going to tell me that I'm wasting money or to just pick up a girl and have her do that in my room and telling me to just get a bar girl to do that for me in a bar. Thanks, but somtimes I just want to have a seductive girl grinding her but on my groin in a club for a couple of songs.
Are there any clubs in Bangkok with this glorious Modis operandi?
Thanks a ton guys.
I'll be sure to report.
My best,
Kkreeac
Thanks for the insight. We did have a few drinks but I think she was just not into me. It is what it is. No biggie.
I had so much fun this month that I am already signed up to go back in Nov.
Rock
[QUOTE=Syzygies; 1470115]"Not" is no newbie. She has been working the bar for at least a year. One of my favourite girls. Probably have done her at least 8 times. She is known to be rather tight (although not as tight as Dtom) , especially if she has been off work for a few days and no recent fucking. This means you have to take it very soft and slow at the start, beginning with only a little penetration, until her insides get time to stretch out, and use plenty of lube. Even once sex gets going, she still does not like to be pounded. Sensual slow sex (my style). She is a bit shy (without a few drinks) but not so much with me as we have screwed many times and mostly with two girls at a time. She has a baby already. Started young. She really likes good DATY and a good gentle screw. Gets quite passionate with the kissing with me, and can tell from her body movements she is really getting into it. Sometimes orgasmic. Whenever she sees me she will always charge over to me and very keen to go for nice sex session and is okay with double girls if she knows the other girl reasonably well. I normally don't take long time when taking two girls. Not a lesbian by any means though. She much prefers guys...[/QUOTE]
The female will not be a problem. A male might not be if you find a foreigner that might be into that kind of thing.
Good luck,
Rock
[QUOTE=Rod Stew;1469549]I hope to travel with my side kick girl to Bangkok next week and looking for a foursome. Male for her and female for me. Any suggestion? Thank you if you can help.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Kkreeac; 1470142]Good evening Gents,
I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'll be in BKK week. I have already done the masssage and gogo bar scene. And thoroughly enjoyed it. Will most certainly be revisiting that side. But I was just wondering if there were any conventional stripclubs in BKK, where one can go and have a drink, then get a private dance for a 4 minute song at a set price. Like a stripclub in north America, and some places in Europe.
Kkreeac[/QUOTE]I think plain strip clubs died out in Thailand many years ago. Crazy House in Sukhumvit Soi 23 close to Cowboy has personal / lap dances. You will have to work out the time / price. I don't know. There are girls dancing nude and walking around nude in this bar. Hope that isn't going to spoil the excitement. LOL Other bars have sexy shows where girl sort of strip but are usually not wearing that much from the start. Those are not so much private strips. Certainly you can pay girls to go back to your room and do a private strip there. Hope you don't need burlesque music as well.
I am shocked. If I were you and in your predicament, I would over pay (10000 baht) the bar girl to put her closes back on, have her dance on my lap, have her order 10 lady drinks and then kick me in the groin.
Then You and I would feel like we were back home in the North America. That should do the trick.
Rock
[QUOTE=Kkreeac; 1470142]Good evening Gents,
I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'll be in BKK week. I have already done the masssage and gogo bar scene. And thoroughly enjoyed it. Will most certainly be revisiting that side. But I was just wondering if there were any conventional stripclubs in BKK, where one can go and have a drink, then get a private dance for a 4 minute song at a set price. Like a stripclub in north America, and some places in Europe.
For those who are going to tell me that I'm wasting money or to just pick up a girl and have her do that in my room and telling me to just get a bar girl to do that for me in a bar. Thanks, but somtimes I just want to have a seductive girl grinding her but on my groin in a club for a couple of songs.
Are there any clubs in Bangkok with this glorious Modis operandi?
Thanks a ton guys.
I'll be sure to report.
My best,
Kkreeac[/QUOTE]