Pattaya Reports

So I have been following this Instagram love story of a bar girl from Pattaya I had banged last year during my SongKran trip. Nothing new, I am sure this has happened a million times before, but nevertheless it is a good learning for all of us.

A flashback. During my 4 day stay last year I met this girl at one of the bars in Simon complex on WS. A real diamond in the rough. After a session at a nearby ST hotel, I asked her to stay LT. And she was fantastic. But I have to move on, so many pussies, so little jizz. We kept in touch and even chatted regularly. After a couple of months she said she had found a boyfriend, a young European guy who was besotted with her. I wished her good luck and carried on. During my next visit in August last year she came to see me for a few hours but could not stay overnight as she was flying off to Phuket the next day with this boyfriend of hers. Well. Good going.

Fast forward to now, around a month back. She texts me saying this guy is really in love and he wants to marry. I say very good for you, your life will be good. Then she asks me to add her on my Instagram and see her pics and her boyfriend's pics. So I take a look and what do I see? This guy has totally gone head over heels. Plenty of expensive gifts, holidays and other stuff. I said to myself, this girl has really landed a big fish. So I message her to convey my best regards. She texts me back saying she is flying to Europe by the end of this month to meet his family and then get married in July. Great! So I ask her if she will ever return to Thailand.

And she says. Wait for it! Yes, she will return in November when it gets too cold and go back in April to Europe. Me being the shameless **** that I am, asks her if she will see me when I visit Pattaya during December. Now, I have really no plan to visit but I wanted to see what response I get. And the girl says of course, she will see me.

I said OK, I will let you know, but for now congratulations to you and your boyfriend. And then I said a silent prayer for the poor lad. I felt real sorry for him. Sad.

Nice story Blancqui. I hope everyone here is paying attention. Unless you're with a Thai girl 24/7/365 she's out there cheating on you. I don't care what her story is to you. Then again, we're out there cheating on her so we really can't get upset, can we?

[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;2191211]And the girl says of course, she will see me.

I said OK, I will let you know, but for now congratulations to you and your boyfriend. And then I said a silent prayer for the poor lad. I felt real sorry for him. Sad.[/QUOTE]Why would you feel sorry for him? It is simply a cultural or personal difference. From your post, you do not have the same definition of boyfriend/girlfriend that she has. (And you don't necessarily know how they have defined their relationship.) To her a boyfriend is someone who takes care of a girl. To you a girlfriend is someone that does not fuck other people. That is why when people get together they need to define the parameters of the relationship. I have a girlfriend in Brazil and one in Colombia. But that is not to say they don't expect me not to fuck other people. Likewise, I could care less if they do.

Was browsing through and came across this soapie named Rasputin, learned that they even have Russian girls. I always wanted to try a Russian! Can anyone here who have tried Russian at Rasputin help me on this? How's the service of Russian girls there, how are they look wise and what's the charge?

TIA,

Aarush.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2191241]Nice story Blancqui. I hope everyone here is paying attention. Unless you're with a Thai girl 24/7/365 she's out there cheating on you. I don't care what her story is to you. Then again, we're out there cheating on her so we really can't get upset, can we?[/QUOTE]BB you might even remember this chick who came in to meet me at the LK Metro GoGo bar where we were seated along with Illusion and Uncle V.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2191249]Why would you feel sorry for him? It is simply a cultural or personal difference. From your post, you do not have the same definition of boyfriend/girlfriend that she has. (And you don't necessarily know how they have defined their relationship.) To her a boyfriend is someone who takes care of a girl. To you a girlfriend is someone that does not fuck other people. That is why when people get together they need to define the parameters of the relationship. I have a girlfriend in Brazil and one in Colombia. But that is not to say they don't expect me not to fuck other people. Likewise, I could care less if they do.[/QUOTE]I perhaps thought now that she is getting married she might actually quit the trade and settle down. Well, I was wrong.

I felt sad for the bloke only because he has major heartbreak, depression and all sorts of hellfire coming his way soon. Seems like a decent lad, nice house, lives with his parents. You know, the sort that still goes to church on Sundays and gives grace before each meal?

[QUOTE=LukeThomson;2191089]In Pattaya a few weeks back with three of my buddies for a few days. My other buddy Lew, references me as "L" in his reports. Not only first time in Pattaya but in Thailand in general. Luckily, I had some great stewards in 2 of my friends (Lew included) who showed me the ropes. But, as everything in life, you also have to just figure it out on your own. The days and nights were a blur of hitting Kinnarree, Soi 6 and walking street. Kinnarree is fantastic. Has the feeling of a really nice gentleman's club and there are so many women around at any given time. And they provide a top notch experience. It's definitely an afternoon spot. Go have lunch and then head up (of course on a motorbike taxi! You will definitely get your world rocked if you so choose. I think they specialize in making sure you will come back for more and not for the faint of heart. If anything, hard to make sure you can hold your load for more than 15 minutes, haha. Soi 6 - you have to look but there are definitely some diamonds in the rough. You'll get the biggest bang for your buck there, so to speak. I think maybe my favorite place was Red Point, if I'm remembering correctly. Met a chick who did anal there, great time in that instance and afterwards just hangout with her, some of the other ladies and the staff and drank afterwards. Fun night. Which didn't end after I went back to the hotel and passed out. Woke up at 4:00 am and went back out for another hour and partied at a club with my buddy, his chick and this hottie (who in hindsight I wish I had invited back with me). Walking street and the go-gos hands down Skyfall is the best. Best in terms of talent, atmosphere, and experience with the women. The individual experience may have been the best of the trip. All of the staff are great as well. You can certainly spend the money so come prepared to bust your budget; however, a wise man once told me. What a time to be alive. Cheers![/QUOTE]One of the best concise field report I have read in a while! Thanks for sharing.

[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;2191269]I felt sad for the bloke only because he has major heartbreak, depression and all sorts of hellfire coming his way soon. Seems like a decent lad, nice house, lives with his parents. You know, the sort that still goes to church on Sundays and gives grace before each meal?[/QUOTE]But maybe he knows what is going on and does not care.

On a show I watch called Shameless there was a married rich guy that would go to gay bars and do gay shit. One of the main characters on the show was one of his patrons and he was in need of money. He decides to extort the guy and showed up to his house threatening to tell his wife of his gay exploits. Totally backfired. The guy called his wife downstairs. Turns out the wife was the one with all the money and she not only knew, but sometimes participated in his antics. That is how they got down. Don't judge a book by its cover.

[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;2191211]Me being the shameless **** that I am, asks her if she will see me when I visit Pattaya during December. Now, I have really no plan to visit but I wanted to see what response I get. And the girl says of course, she will see me.

I said OK, I will let you know, but for now congratulations to you and your boyfriend. And then I said a silent prayer for the poor lad. I felt real sorry for him. Sad.[/QUOTE]I am had something similar. Met a sweet girl in a gogo maybe in 2015. Leaving the club on her motorbike to my hotel for ST, I asked if she was hungry. She was so we stopped at a place and talked a bit, though she was difficult to understand. At the hotel, she was horrible in bed, but was still kind and friendly. She seemed to like me and seemed to be unaware she was not performing well (as opposed to giving a bad performance and not caring), leaving me a little confused. We exchanged Line IDs. I was switching hotels the next morning and she offered to return to take me to my new place. She did and there was no mention of meeting later or payment. It was like she was simply being a friend. Later she texted to see if I wanted to meet her again. I told her I was happy to meet with her as a friend, but not for sex, as it was bad. I didn't hear back from her, but after I got home I felt bad for my bluntness, as I really liked her otherwise. She remained friendly asking me when / if I was returning the Thailand. She was making trips to Taipei and, and when I said I was wanting to return to Patts, she asked several times when. I did want to see her, but when I returned she was in Taiwan. I later learned she was engaged to a Taiwanese man and, last year, she married him, but before the marriage she would still ask where I was and did I want to see her, though it seemed to be innocent and I didn't know if she was simply being friendly, if she wanted to meet as a friend or if she was willing to have sex. Very strange!

She lives in Taiwan now so apparently doesn't get back to Patts for business activities, but she always seems happy to hear from me, saying she is happy in her marriage (even though he is shorter than her and, looks-wise, is out of her league). I don't think we will ever meet again, but I find it interesting that she will still chat with me on occasion, even sending me a picture of her in a very beautiful and fancy red wedding dress. As with you, I hope she is happy as she never seemed the type to do well as a bar girl. Definitely a nice and friendly girl, but not destined for being a bar girl for long. How she and her hubby met, if it was in the agogo or not, or if he knows of her past, I have no idea. Kind of wish now I had seen her again. Strange how we men can suddenly want something when we lose it! Haha.

FL, your story is quite a common one. I still keep in touch with many girls taken by sponsors / husbands and have moved to the husband's country. I get sad face emojis, photos, and a couple continue to do video chats. These girls clearly aren't happy with the man they are with. They put on an act to get their allowance.

[QUOTE=Aarush;2191263]I always wanted to try a Russian! Can anyone here who have tried Russian at Rasputin help me on this? How's the service of Russian girls there, how are they look wise and what's the charge?
[/QUOTE]I don't visit Rasputin often but there was one who was very pretty 2 years ago. Swing by if you're curious we all have different taste. Can't recall the exact amount but it was around the 7000 baht range. I'd expect the Russian service to be like any other girl at a soapie....mechanical.

[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;2191269]BB you might even remember this chick who came in to meet me at the LK Metro GoGo bar where we were seated along with Illusion and Uncle V.[/QUOTE]Yes I remember. Good looking girl. Definitely better looking than anyone we saw at LK metro that evening.

It must be very common the situation of meeting and falling in love with these girls. I have 2 instances, one personally and another involving a girl I was going to meet.

Mine happened in Indonesia more than 10 years ago and I was besotted with this cute young girl from Semarang. A couple of visits and I am ready to import her but the radar is picking up bleeps. There was another guy in the picture an ex she says. This is in the days of Yahoo Messenger so I make a phone account and hit on her chatting as me on my phone and as my alter ego on the laptop. She agrees to meet and f0 ck my alter ego while telling him that she has a guy but he is not in hand to satisfy her needs so she is open to casual sex with a fee and also declares the other guy as booty call material. A lesson learnt.

Only this year I'm getting contacts for my recent trip and meet this girl on TF who works at Billabong? Bar. Sure we can meet and gives ST and LT prices. We chat on Line and suddenly I see a pic of her in an Australian Street. I know the area! I ask where are you and she tells me she visiting a friend. Great I tell her I know the area. No she can not meet me. About 3 weeks later I get a random friend request and accept it on Line. It's her BF asking what my relationship is with her? He goes on to say he is crazy in love with her and intends to marry. He found her phone opened in Line and found our messages and who knows what else!

I tell him to read the messages and ask her. Not my problem.

We all get burnt but I think if you you think when you take the girl out of the bar that you take the bar out of the girl you are kidding yourself.

My 2 cents.

[QUOTE=LukeThomson;2191089]In Pattaya a few weeks back with three of my buddies for a few days. My other buddy Lew, references me as "L" in his reports. Not only first time in Pattaya but in Thailand in general. Luckily, I had some great stewards in 2 of my friends (Lew included) who showed me the ropes. But, as everything in life, you also have to just figure it out on your own. The days and nights were a blur of hitting Kinnarree, Soi 6 and walking street. Kinnarree is fantastic. Has the feeling of a really nice gentleman's club and there are so many women around at any given time. And they provide a top notch experience. It's definitely an afternoon spot. Go have lunch and then head up (of course on a motorbike taxi! You will definitely get your world rocked if you so choose. I think they specialize in making sure you will come back for more and not for the faint of heart. If anything, hard to make sure you can hold your load for more than 15 minutes, haha. Soi 6 - you have to look but there are definitely some diamonds in the rough. You'll get the biggest bang for your buck there, so to speak. I think maybe my favorite place was Red Point, if I'm remembering correctly. Met a chick who did anal there, great time in that instance and afterwards just hangout with her, some of the other ladies and the staff and drank afterwards. Fun night. Which didn't end after I went back to the hotel and passed out. Woke up at 4:00 am and went back out for another hour and partied at a club with my buddy, his chick and this hottie (who in hindsight I wish I had invited back with me). Walking street and the go-gos hands down Skyfall is the best. Best in terms of talent, atmosphere, and experience with the women. The individual experience may have been the best of the trip. All of the staff are great as well. You can certainly spend the money so come prepared to bust your budget; however, a wise man once told me. What a time to be alive. Cheers![/QUOTE]Hi Luke.

I picked up the baton with Lew when you guys went home. What a champion guy Lew is. I had a ball with him and loved the fact that he introduced me to Kinnaree. I'm happy you enjoyed Pattaya.

Rob.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2191277]But maybe he knows what is going on and does not care.

On a show I watch called Shameless there was a married rich guy that would go to gay bars and do gay shit. One of the main characters on the show was one of his patrons and he was in need of money. He decides to extort the guy and showed up to his house threatening to tell his wife of his gay exploits. Totally backfired. The guy called his wife downstairs. Turns out the wife was the one with all the money and she not only knew, but sometimes participated in his antics. That is how they got down. Don't judge a book by its cover.[/QUOTE]Perhaps he does, perhaps he does not. Only time will tell. And this is one story I am going to follow.

And as for reality TV shows, they all are not as real as we think them to be. Having worked in that line I would know.

[QUOTE=FLHawk;2191327]I am had something similar. Met a sweet girl in a gogo maybe in 2015. Leaving the club on her motorbike to my hotel for ST, I asked if she was hungry. She was so we stopped at a place and talked a bit, though she was difficult to understand. At the hotel, she was horrible in bed, but was still kind and friendly. She seemed to like me and seemed to be unaware she was not performing well (as opposed to giving a bad performance and not caring), leaving me a little confused. We exchanged Line IDs. I was switching hotels the next morning and she offered to return to take me to my new place. She did and there was no mention of meeting later or payment. It was like she was simply being a friend. Later she texted to see if I wanted to meet her again. I told her I was happy to meet with her as a friend, but not for sex, as it was bad. I didn't hear back from her, but after I got home I felt bad for my bluntness, as I really liked her otherwise. She remained friendly asking me when / if I was returning the Thailand. She was making trips to Taipei and, and when I said I was wanting to return to Patts, she asked several times when. I did want to see her, but when I returned she was in Taiwan. I later learned she was engaged to a Taiwanese man and, last year, she married him, but before the marriage she would still ask where I was and did I want to see her, though it seemed to be innocent and I didn't know if she was simply being friendly, if she wanted to meet as a friend or if she was willing to have sex. Very strange!

She lives in Taiwan now so apparently doesn't get back to Patts for business activities, but she always seems happy to hear from me, saying she is happy in her marriage (even though he is shorter than her and, looks-wise, is out of her league). I don't think we will ever meet again, but I find it interesting that she will still chat with me on occasion, even sending me a picture of her in a very beautiful and fancy red wedding dress. As with you, I hope she is happy as she never seemed the type to do well as a bar girl. Definitely a nice and friendly girl, but not destined for being a bar girl for long. How she and her hubby met, if it was in the agogo or not, or if he knows of her past, I have no idea. Kind of wish now I had seen her again. Strange how we men can suddenly want something when we lose it! Haha.[/QUOTE]Great story Hawk.

I reckon this girl I am referring to met the guy in Pattaya, as she is originally from Buriram. But a large part of her family is also stationed in Pattaya, right next to Aksorn School. So he should know of her past. If he does not then clearly he isn't thinking right.

As for wanting this chick, sure I will happily bang her again if she is available, but I won't break my own rules for that.

[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;2191211]Snip.
After a couple of months she said she had found a boyfriend, a young European guy who was besotted with her. I wished her good luck and carried on. During my next visit in August last year she came to see me for a few hours but could not stay overnight as she was flying off to Phuket the next day with this boyfriend of hers. Well. Good going.

Fast forward to now, around a month back. She texts me saying this guy is really in love and he wants to marry. I say very good for you, your life will be good. Then she asks me to add her on my Instagram and see her pics and her boyfriend's pics. So I take a look and what do I see? This guy has totally gone head over heels. Plenty of expensive gifts, holidays and other stuff. I said to myself, this girl has really landed a big fish. So I message her to convey my best regards. She texts me back saying she is flying to Europe by the end of this month to meet his family and then get married in July. Great! So I ask her if she will ever return to Thailand.

And she says. Wait for it! Yes, she will return in November when it gets too cold and go back in April to Europe. Me being the shameless **** that I am, asks her if she will see me when I visit Pattaya during December. Now, I have really no plan to visit but I wanted to see what response I get. And the girl says of course, she will see me.

I said OK, I will let you know, but for now congratulations to you and your boyfriend. And then I said a silent prayer for the poor lad. I felt real sorry for him. Sad.[/QUOTE]A guy who would let his wife go away for five or six months because of the cold weather is too stupid to feel sorry for. Why is he getting married? To have a summer-time wife? What is he going to do for sex and companionship when she is gone? Does he think she is going to be celibate while she is in Thailand? Marrying her will be a disaster for him. Maybe his parents will talk some sense into him when they meet her.

[QUOTE=LewAshby;2190515]For my 3rd trip, I planned for 8 total nights in Pattaya; The first 4 were with my buddy V who accompanied this past December and 2 of our mutual newbie friends L + W. I will mention L only as W turned out to be a lame loser. I mean opting to go to the Elephant Sanctuary one of the days and watching a movie in his room on another. If he was coming blind, that'd be one thing, but he knew what to expect and seemed eager to indulge. Needless to say, he is dead to me.[/QUOTE]Uh oh, and I was actually seriously thinking about visiting the elephant sanctuary too, hah. I just don't have it in me to do those marathon sessions with multiple girls in a row that you guys are able to; need time to rest / recharge.

Anyway, someone mentioned Wear (#309) at Happy, and while she is indeed quite the looker, she was not all that friendly. Bought her a drink, and before she had even finished it, she'd run off saying "it was her turn to dance". Didn't see her again after that. Well, whatever. I'm here until Friday, so a few more days to get a better draw.