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[QUOTE=Turgid;1867984]I have hobbyed in over forty countries. I have been hobbying in the Caribbean for over forty years and find Caribbean women to be the most dangerous of all. I have been hustled in a myriad of ways by chicas. Of course they are adamant when they are trying to cheat you but for a chica to be cheating and to threaten to kill when she does not succeed just seems a bit too much to me. She totally lost her head and jeopardized her chances of ever escorting another John to that very popular hotel in the future, only an insane person would do that knowing that they are in the wrong and from everything else that he said about her she does not seem mad. There may be more to this story.[/QUOTE]This story serves as a warning of what can go wrong, but I would agree that the death threats after the jig was up and the game over do not sound like a well-calculated game-playing move. Perhaps the chica was mentally unstable, perhaps there was a language miscommunication, perhaps she had drunk too much or was under the influence of soemthing, who knows? In another post today Old Kool relates that he had encounters with 13 chicas in three days and nearly all of them were excellent. As someone once said, (was it Jesus? Your mileage may differ according to how hard you put your foot down or what vehicle you select.
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[QUOTE=OldKool;1867987]...... I did 13 girls in the 3 days......[/QUOTE]You d a man.
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[QUOTE=OldKool;1867987]I had a great trip. I think my actions were prompted by the fact I only had three days. I did 13 girls in the 3 days. Only one of the sessions was sub par. I had to have my manicure girl who had great tits. All the others sessions were off the chain. I used massages to get the girls in the mood. I got great reviews from the ladies and giving massages turns me on so I am ready to rumble. I got into a pattern of having my 1st girl at 1 pm another at 6 pm another from Rumbas about 10 pm and finally the night cap 2:30 Classicos. I did not bust a nut at every session but I was able to get hard on and have satisfying sex with the ladies. My form improved with practice and I felt I was bringing it like a big boy. I go to the gym 4 days a week. I use oil for the massages and lube during the sex. If the girls like to smoke they melt during the massage.
And about half do. They melt when they get the massage. I had a nice variety of girls. A first for me was Santiago chicas. All three of them were excellent. I had my 1st sub par Haitian girl. I picked her up for a morning massage for me and she pushed for sex . was not good.
The bottom line for the money spent I had an amazing time. Finally shot out to casa Cayana or Sosua Sunset. Accomodations , food and location all 10s. I enjoyed talking with the guys at breakfast. Sosua is not broke fellows. It is alive and well. I was seeing many younger guys patroling the streets but it is their time.[/QUOTE]Good reporting Old Kool. That's what we love about Sosua; It brings out the little boy in the candy store mentality. Sometimes we lose ourselves but I'm coming to a point where it's about quality not quantity. If I have a good provider I will keep her on call and make memories but I have road dogs who say a girl gave them some of the best sex in their lives but never repeat. They spend the rest of their vacation having many girls of less talent, go figure. See, in my experience great sex is really appreciated as you get older and realize the hunt is really a crap shoot. So when you roll 7 and 11, smile and keep that good feeling because snake eyes are just a roll away.
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Two great points from Oakie and Mr. G.
Mongers are not always right, there are some crazy guys out there who want to screw the chicas with cost, create trouble etc to the point hotels don't even give them rooms. It requires guts to say this in the forum, so good job Oakie to write this in a not so harsh way.
Mr. G's experience and intelligence was apparent when he nailed a point which everyone missed. The chica took shower for 30 minutes and then 15 minutes, so that she can tell everyone like security guys that she had spent too much time fucking and has to paid accordingly. I thought she took time because her accommodation had no shower but a bucket of water to shower. What Mr. G says makes perfect sense.
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[QUOTE=Taboc;1868294]Two great points from Oakie and Mr. G.
Mongers are not always right, there are some crazy guys out there who want to screw the chicas with cost, create trouble etc to the point hotels don't even give them rooms. It requires guts to say this in the forum, so good job Oakie to write this in a not so harsh way.
Mr. G's experience and intelligence was apparent when he nailed a point which everyone missed. The chica took shower for 30 minutes and then 15 minutes, so that she can tell everyone like security guys that she had spent too much time fucking and has to paid accordingly. I thought she took time because her accommodation had no shower but a bucket of water to shower. What Mr. G says makes perfect sense.[/QUOTE]She is sitting on the toilet playing candy crush on Facebook with the shower running while he is laying in bed watching the clock. I would have went and got her after 10 minutes but the chic was running a scam and had her mark picket. We sometimes don't understand that while we are buying them a drink at the bar and doing our interview, they are also doing the same. By them asking " what hotel are you staying in? How many times have you been to the DR? And " when are you leaving?" They have already figured out their clientele and where they stand in this situation. Again, guys put these girls on your time and if they show impatience she most likely be impatient in the bedroom. Every vet has been in a situation that turns bad but the key is to evaluate every step and figure out if there were signs earlier that you bypassed.
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[QUOTE=Taboc;1868294]Two great points from Oakie and Mr. G.
Mongers are not always right, there are some crazy guys out there who want to screw the chicas with cost, create trouble etc to the point hotels don't even give them rooms. It requires guts to say this in the forum, so good job Oakie to write this in a not so harsh way.
Mr. G's experience and intelligence was apparent when he nailed a point which everyone missed. The chica took shower for 30 minutes and then 15 minutes, so that she can tell everyone like security guys that she had spent too much time fucking and has to paid accordingly. I thought she took time because her accommodation had no shower but a bucket of water to shower. What Mr. G says makes perfect sense.[/QUOTE]That is a good point. I am just curious, if a chica wastes a bunch of time. How would you handle it? It actually never crossed my mind what she was doing in there. The day before I was speaking with a fellow monger and he told me that some of the girls don't have hot water in their homes and when they take a shower at our hotel its a major luxury. I thought she just liked the hot water. LOL.
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Did not plan it
When we go to Sosua there are always about 5 girls we reject because we have something else on the hook. Every trip I have made I have left with regrets. I can say on this trip I left nothing on the bone. I am totally satisfied I am good for about 6 nonths.
[QUOTE=Turgid;1868245]You d a man.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=JayBalanty;1868324]That is a good point. I am just curious, if a chica wastes a bunch of time. How would you handle it? It actually never crossed my mind what she was doing in there. The day before I was speaking with a fellow monger and he told me that some of the girls don't have hot water in their homes and when they take a shower at our hotel its a major luxury. I thought she just liked the hot water. LOL.[/QUOTE]30 minutes in the bathroom and it never crossed your mind what she is doing? LOL. I would have checked after 10 minutes, Mr E would have kicked in the door after 90 seconds, and GM would have sold her some hair first. Most girls in Sosua are used to jumping into different hotels so hot water is no big deal. Tomjackin has the jacuzzi in his bathroom and Seahorse ranch has bathrooms the size of little houses, I can see a girl spending 20 minutes in those. But 30 minutes and you don't care? You ate a very considerate guy. Maybe it's back to what I said " She saw a nice guy and went all In".
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[QUOTE=JayBalanty;1868324]That is a good point. I am just curious, if a chica wastes a bunch of time. How would you handle it? It actually never crossed my mind what she was doing in there. The day before I was speaking with a fellow monger and he told me that some of the girls don't have hot water in their homes and when they take a shower at our hotel its a major luxury. I thought she just liked the hot water. LOL.[/QUOTE]If she's pushing to get to the room, that's maybe a problem. She wants a quick in and out to go pick her next target. Chances are you'll be hearing Leche, papi within 15 minutes.
If she's dragging her feet in the room, that's another problem. All she needs is a quick wash to get ready for the next guy. She's off the clock at that point, so unless she's trying to talk you into TLN, she's got a motive.
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[QUOTE=JayBalanty;1868324]That is a good point. I am just curious, if a chica wastes a bunch of time. How would you handle it? It actually never crossed my mind what she was doing in there. The day before I was speaking with a fellow monger and he told me that some of the girls don't have hot water in their homes and when they take a shower at our hotel its a major luxury. I thought she just liked the hot water. LOL.[/QUOTE]A newbie is NOT going to time the shower. A veteran is going in the shower with her to wash her back.
It's easy to tell other guys what they should do, but when you are actually in the situation, invested and committed in money and time, and you are looking for some good lovin', you usually act as a restaurant patron, and see what's cookin and how it's cooked. If you rush into the kitchen as soon as you get into the place and start barking orders, you won't get satisfaction anyway.
Part of mongering, and it's not really a bad part is to do whatever you can to make a good outcome and not waste your money. Be nice to the server, because your immediate satisfaction is in her hands. As a matter of fact my rule that you should never have an argument with folks who prepare your food, goes double with those who share your body fluids.
If the sex is bad, (or if the steak is tough) don't try and school them, it is YOU who has made the bad choice, so learn and just move on.
You WILL get lucky more than often, in Sosua if you observe the basics, and OldKool is but one example.
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[QUOTE=JayBalanty;1868324]The day before I was speaking with a fellow monger and he told me that some of the girls don't have hot water in their homes and when they take a shower at our hotel its a major luxury. I thought she just liked the hot water. LOL.[/QUOTE]No. They like to take showers with cold water, not hot. It has nothing to do with what they don't have at home. Get in the shower with one and you will see what I mean. Someone will have to be in the water first and the other person after. That is unless you like to shower in cold water too.
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[QUOTE=JayBalanty;1868324]The day before I was speaking with a fellow monger and he told me that some of the girls don't have hot water in their homes and when they take a shower at our hotel its a major luxury.[/QUOTE]My experience has been and I'm not speaking of Sosua women, many would rather have shower without hot water while I shiver at the very thought. In a hot climate, regular water can be refreshing and hot water can scald if one is not used to fiddling with the controls. So at least in my experience, hot water is not a big intangible benefit but perhaps water flowing through a faucet without interruption is.
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Finding a happy medium
I use to try to take showers with the girls but like many have stated it is very difficult to get the water to a point where we are both comfortable. Hot water is a luxury in the DR. I try to take a shower before the girl gets there. I do not trust the girls in the room while I am in the shower.
[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;1868528]My experience has been and I'm not speaking of Sosua women, many would rather have shower without hot water while I shiver at the very thought. In a hot climate, regular water can be refreshing and hot water can scald if one is not used to fiddling with the controls. So at least in my experience, hot water is not a big intangible benefit but perhaps water flowing through a faucet without interruption is.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1868498]No. They like to take showers with cold water, not hot. It has nothing to do with what they don't have at home.[/QUOTE]Mr. E is correct, there's no correlation between hot water = luxury to be enjoyed. Girls I've taken to above-average all-inclusive resorts won't use the hot water either. Mr. GoGo's analysis is spot on. That girl is quite slick.
[QUOTE=Oakie;1868441]A newbie is NOT going to time the shower. A veteran is going in the shower with her to wash her back.[/QUOTE]And an unapologetic Sosua die-hard such as yours truly will HER wash MY back. And my sack. There's nothing better than a BBBJ teaser in the shower to get things started.
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[QUOTE=Parkinsons;1868611]Mr. E is correct, there's no correlation between hot water = luxury to be enjoyed. Girls I've taken to above-average all-inclusive resorts won't use the hot water either. Mr. GoGo's analysis is spot on. That girl is quite slick.
And an unapologetic Sosua die-hard such as yours truly will HER wash MY back. And my sack. There's nothing better than a BBBJ teaser in the shower to get things started.[/QUOTE]I'm a big advocate of keeping a sense of humor about mongering. I can't imagine being cold stone sober in a hell hole like Sosua, so for me a steady diet of Presidente Lite keeps a nice buzz going, without impairing the judgement. They don't call it the "ultimate social lubricant" for nothing.
I mean, over a couple of beers with a stranger, you can get to know more about someone in 30 minutes, than in a year of polite conversation about the weather.
This shower business got me thinking about a fun time, when I first met my regular. I was new and she has this indescribable light chocolate smooth skin. She kept insisting that her papa was almost white, and seemed proud that some of her family were whiter than she was, and showed me pictures. I thought this was weird, until I gradually learned the culture. Generally the lighter skin you are, the higher up on the social ladder, and vice versa. Look at local TV, politicians etc. It's a perception, not worth a shit in my eyes, but it is all around, even the kids fought over the blond Barbie Dolls I used to bring as gifts, rather than the brunette darker ones.
Anyway I always told her about how I loved her beautiful skin. One time she was in the shower and I went in. It seems she was washing the henna coloring out of her hair, and the shower floor was running dark brown.
I grabbed her, pointed to the brown dye running off her skin, and said something like, you no negro, you are white, you lie to me, and pulled her naked out of the shower through the room and opened the door and threatened to throw her out. She was laughing and screaming at the same time and pointing to her hair, no, no!
She still tells that story for a laugh, and apparently, so do I.
Keep it fun guys!
(For the record, she likes hot water like I do)