If you are invited to some of these homes to eat don't be surprised if they only give you a spoon to eat with and learn to like what they like because 9 out of 10 the girl you pick will be use to cheaper food.
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If you are invited to some of these homes to eat don't be surprised if they only give you a spoon to eat with and learn to like what they like because 9 out of 10 the girl you pick will be use to cheaper food.
[QUOTE=Grub1;1901223]... they only give you a spoon to eat with.[/QUOTE]The most convenient implement for eating rice and beans, which is what poor locals eat 90% of the time.
Mr. Lefeu,
If you are looking for change. And you entered a bank but left before receiving any then it's a good thing you are a monger because you wouldn't be a very good bank robber. Willy Sutton knew "that's where the money is".
When I was in Sosua I took money out of the Caja Automatico (ATM) and went into the bank, waited in line (it wasn't long but then again I'm not on the Sexual Tourist timeline, I'm a Sexpat). Handed the teller my large peso notes and asked her to: "Cambia a menudo por favor" (Change to small please). It works, regardless of all the corrections the Spanish professors on this forum are going to make. And that's how a teller in Santo Domingo had previously told me to say it. LOL!
[QUOTE=Lefeu;1900372]BTW, I have not seen too many posts on the problem of change. My small notes tended to disappear rather quickly, and found myself resorting to Houdini tricks to make sure I always have small change. I would appreciate any advice from fellow mongers on this. I tried to go inside a bank one morning to ask for change, and I ran out quickly. The line was way too long. From a recent post, I also started requesting unusual amounts from the ATM, such as 9,900 instead of 10,000 pesos, for example.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CharlesPooter;1901255]The most convenient implement for eating rice and beans, which is what poor locals eat 90% of the time.[/QUOTE]Just for the fun of contradicting (and the locals are not going to agree with me), there is nothing like eating with your fingers, the cleanest and the most efficient tool ever. Just like the ancient Greeks and Romans did; Definitely klutzy and certainly not chic, but finger licking good nonetheless!
[QUOTE=NZSmith;1901050]Thanks for the information Sammon.
I went ahead and booked tickets from July 28th to August 2nd. I'm excited as hell -- this is my first real mongering trip, aside from a couple of improvised nights out in Colombia. I'm a dorky white guy in my late 20's, but if anyone wants to party with me then, let me know!
I'll probably be doing Tinder or Tagged to get girls during the day and the clubs / bars at night.[/QUOTE]First real mongering trip?
White guys in their twentys can get lots of girls right here in USA dorky or not. Go slow in Sosua. Some of the girls there will eat you alive and not in a sexual way. They can sense a newbie right away. Act, talk like you are experienced monger. Negotiation is the name of the game. If you are looking for top notch girls sosua is not the place.
I have met and enjoyed some normal girls I met not in Sosua. Never went online. I believe there are not many online girls willing to meet for sex only unlike other countries. But maybe other mongers can advice you who have done this. Other clubs are for locals only and most of the time girls are with their family or boyfriend. Sousa clubs are ok. All the single girls there can be approached and negotiated for sex.
Have fun!
[QUOTE=Combo;1900465]If a chica quotes me a ridiculous price, I take it as an insult and move on. It suggests to me she think's I'm a fool or a pushover. And you don't want girls in Latin America to think you're a fool / pushover.
Bargaining has to be light-hearted as Frannie suggests. Most experienced mongers have this process down pretty well.[/QUOTE]Yep. Do it with a little amusement. I say you are so beautiful you clearly are worth even more than that but unfortunately all I can afford is 1500. Maybe I can save my money and eventually have enough for you. If they say ok anyway I tend to take them out and court them and talk. If we don't have good chemistry I don't bother. If things go well I tend to give them extra regalos and tips. I agree about the "fool pushover" thing. Chicas don't respect you for being easy to push around but when you first meet her giving a high price may be testing you but since she doesn't know you it doesn't make sense to treat it as disrespecting you. Even if you know her pretty well chicas will still test you. By then all it should take is a look to get her to smile and quit it.
Like I say, you ain't the only one that you know mongering. My cousin just put on his facebook that he was having fun in Sosua. Not knowing he knew anything about Sosua, I told him that I just missed him by 2 days. Then I called my dad and told him that he was down there and that I thought he was married. My dad said he believes he got divorced. Looks like I may have a new wingman.
No need to fret when a chica does not want work with you. Sosua has so many willing women you should never miss a beat. Now is slow season so the girls should be lista.
[QUOTE=MarcAnthony;1901870]Yep. Do it with a little amusement. I say you are so beautiful you clearly are worth even more than that but unfortunately all I can afford is 1500. Maybe I can save my money and eventually have enough for you. If they say ok anyway I tend to take them out and court them and talk. If we don't have good chemistry I don't bother. If things go well I tend to give them extra regalos and tips. I agree about the "fool pushover" thing. Chicas don't respect you for being easy to push around but when you first meet her giving a high price may be testing you but since she doesn't know you it doesn't make sense to treat it as disrespecting you. Even if you know her pretty well chicas will still test you. By then all it should take is a look to get her to smile and quit it.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1901890]Like I say, you ain't the only one that you know mongering. My cousin just put on his facebook that he was having fun in Sosua. Not knowing he knew anything about Sosua, I told him that I just missed him by 2 days. Then I called my dad and told him that he was down there and that I thought he was married. My dad said he believes he got divorced. Looks like I may have a new wingman.[/QUOTE]Well at least he's having a good time their, unlike you did? What's the verdict Sosua still good or no? My feet will be planted today, I'm hoping it's all good!
We know it is not one of Frannie's. His are well-trained.
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[QUOTE=RacShack;1901951]Well at least he's having a good time their, unlike you did? What's the verdict Sosua still good or no? My feet will be planted today, I'm hoping it's all good![/QUOTE]One good friend said the weekend is the only time to do Sosua. That is why I stated the day of the week that I was there; in case someone could put their finger on that being the x factor.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1902249]We know it is not one of Frannie's. His are well-trained.
[URL]http://worldstaruncut.com/uncut/27364[/URL][/QUOTE]Kind of interesting that every single person in that room had titties, lmao! :-O
To add on to what NZSMith said it will also be my first time in Sousa, or even DR for that fact. Aside from a few trips to Tijuana I am completely lost on protocol in Sousa. If any one could guide me that would be beneficial and appreciated. Only have a few questions.
I'll be sexcationing from the 7th to the 13th and I'm pretty set on the Victorian house for the fact of location and pricing. Mostly location. Smart move?
I know in Tijuana you don't have to exchange currency but it does help a little with that said do I need to exchange? Or will Jackson and Grant be welcomed?
Was reading some previous posts showing a convo with a girl for 1500 pesos. A quick Google search shows that's about 32-35 US dollars? Is this correct? What does that include & for how long. I would probably want a girl in the afternoon and one for the remainder of the night. Any advice on how much I should bring?
Last one! I was reading at Cristal's stripclub? Any thoughts and experiences would be great.
Sorry if these questions are novice I really tried looking before posting and became impatient.
Thanks a lot!
[QUOTE=ProfessorOak;1902689]night. Any advice on how much I should bring?
Last one! I was reading at Cristal's stripclub? Any thoughts and experiences would be great.
Thanks a lot![/QUOTE]If money is a concern don't worry about even going here and to boot you can find more beautiful elsewhere.
[QUOTE=ProfessorOak;1902689]To add on to what NZSMith said it will also be my first time in Sousa, or even DR for that fact. Aside from a few trips to Tijuana I am completely lost on protocol in Sousa. If any one could guide me that would be beneficial and appreciated. Only have a few questions.
I'll be sexcationing from the 7th to the 13th and I'm pretty set on the Victorian house for the fact of location and pricing. Mostly location. Smart move?
I know in Tijuana you don't have to exchange currency but it does help a little with that said do I need to exchange? Or will Jackson and Grant be welcomed?
Was reading some previous posts showing a convo with a girl for 1500 pesos. A quick Google search shows that's about 32-35 US dollars? Is this correct? What does that include & for how long. I would probably want a girl in the afternoon and one for the remainder of the night. Any advice on how much I should bring?
Last one! I was reading at Cristal's stripclub? Any thoughts and experiences would be great.
Sorry if these questions are novice I really tried looking before posting and became impatient.
Thanks a lot![/QUOTE]Good questions. The first thing you need to know is that the place you are going to is called Sosua, not Sousa. I am surprised that you were unable to find this in your prior researches. But whatever.
Your choice of hotel is OK. You need to change money into pesos, but you may be able to pay for the hotel with US $. Bring a few hundred dollars in $100 bills, but keep the rest of your money in the bank at home and use a debit card at a bank ATM in Sosua to get more. Budget to spend about two times what you planned. 1500 pesos will get you a quickie with a girl who is not too attractive, so don't be surprised if you have to pay more. I assume you don't speak Spanish to any meaningful extent. Give Cristal a miss. I would not get girls for overnight unless you have already spent time with them and discovered that you want to spend more time with them. Too much can go wrong if you are new at this game. Condom use is recommended unless you have advanced skills.
I think you are overplanning a bit. Just go with the swing of things and see where it takes you. Try not to fall in love or get married. It will most likely be a mistake if not for you, then for the girl, due to your premature memory loss in already forgetting your unmemorable prior trips to the DR.