Threesome recommendations.
So I'll be in Mde this week. I have fun contacts but before I explore the hard work I have put in I want to get a sure thing. Any vets have a recommendation on a duo that is all out porn star type fun. We all know 3 some can just be flat out a waste of money. However I'm sure there are some that are genuinely fun like the pornos LOL. Please feel free to pm me if you want to help.
Thanks in advance.
Tinder, Casas, Facebook, Strip clubs, Barrios, Parque Lleras.
This tinder fad to me is rediculous and totally DUMB. ITs worse than facebook! At least on FB you can get a sense of someones personality. On Tinder, these chicas have the opportunity to play both sides of the game. They can first be your "date" and then be your hooker. Sounds like a dream to some but in actuality you are paying double the tourist rate for someone you have no idea if you have any chemistry with spending hours slowly giving away your power while they milk you all night. To me it sounds like a huge waste of time! All of a sudden guys come to Medellin and they feel like big spenders because your money goes much further than back home. Believe me, I have dropped 60 bucks many times just watching Monday night football at a bar and never even speak to a female. Let alone one I would want to have sex with. Then guys come here and well you know...
This is the problem with sex in America and you guys are bringing the plague down here! Guys have had their balls cut off in the US when it comes to dating and meeting women and now are coming down to Medellin and acting the same timid way. These women you are meeting are not as well educated as we are but they are more street savy. They are opportunists and have no moral issues when it comes to having a great time on your dollar. These women like tourist because they are polite and generous......and pushovers. Maybe you think you are not because "nobody is going to take advantage of me" Yeah right. I see it ALL THE TIME the reluctant gringo who wont pull the trigger until finally its getting late and finally takes the last option at double price in fear of waisting the night and then justifying it the next day. eesh
Guys tell me stories how great they are doing on Tinder. I see the pictures of their new fling sipping expensive cocktails while they had dinner together last night and then 10 minutes into the conversation I hear "she quoted me 350 cop but she finally accepted 250 plus taxi. " (+ dinner and drinks).
Ay yay yay! I have to diffuse my reactions with all my self control.
Tinder casas facebook strip clubs, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME GIRLS. Sort of. Or at least they are all neighbors! The price you pay is about 90% dependent on where you meet them and how much experience THEY have. An experienced partner at the Mansion explained this to me on my first trip to Medellin. The girls move around to try different scenes all the time! And each venue has its "going rate" And what's worse is the more sophisticated ones are the ones you lazy bastards end up contacting FIRST. These are the girls who have it down. For them, Tinder is like fishing in a stocked lake. On tinder, YOU ARE GIVING UP ALL YOUR LEVERAGE. These girls have nothing to lose by quoting top dollar because they are getting hundreds of bites. You think you are throwing out your bait but you got it wrong fellas. You are the meal on Tinder. Just one example, I have an amiga who is a pretty girl and very popular on FB. By medellin standards she's a 6. In her FB pictures she's a 7+ If I saw her for the first time in a store in my home town she's an 9. LOL We are good friends and I have seen her phone on many different ocassions. On any given day, she has 60+ unanswered messages on whatsapp and 125+ unanswered messages on facebook. She tells me she's frustrated because she has no time to chat with all these guys asking generally the same questions only to realize they are not even in Medellin. Which brings me to Tinder! You get matched when you are in the same area. So as you can see, this gives great power to the chicas. They barely have to do any work or conversing. They simply throw out a price and take the best offer at the moment they are ready to make a date.
Fantasize all you want. But nothing is better than face to face contact. If you can just overcome the shell shock of rejections we have come to expect in the states, you will be so incredibly surprised how welcome adn friendly your comments and gestures will be perceived in medellin when you simply make a little eye contact and say hola. Its a hard nut to crack. If you want a little help, I am happy to be your wingman. And if you still just want to do your own thing and make your own mistakes and figure out the game solo, at least facebook can give you a little insight as to what a person might be like. Sheesh guys! Medellin has got to be the easiest place in the word to spontaneously get laid at just about any give time or day. Except Sunday. LOL Fuck Tinder. In Medellin your time is way more valuable than your money. Don't waste it on seasoned pros. There are literally hundreds of thousands of very regular girls available who will treat you well in contrast to the few thousand who are on the front lines and have figured out how to work the system to their advantage.