Out curiosity: Zamboanga?
Hi,
I know that Zamboanga is a pretty dangerous city.
But since there is no tourism I think that fucking some beautiful girl is very easy, much easier than in other Philippine cities.
Isn't that so?
1 photos
Numbers never lie (well, maybe sometimes)
[QUOTE=JonesLover;3043890]Maybe the Philippines doesn't behave like other countries in the world. Usually where there is less tourism, the girls are more interested in being with you. This is a rule, although not a mathematical one. I believe that girls in Zamboanga chat much less than their cousins in the rest of the Philippines because foreigners are not interested in going. So perhaps contacting them online could be easier and therefore easier to meet them too. Those who know the Philippines well know how difficult it is to get a regular girl into bed on the first meeting.[/QUOTE]If you're sizing up a place for sexual conquests, it sure helps to have some surefire backup plans. Here in Butuan City, if the online scene isn't panning out, a horny tourist like yourself can try flirting at three malls with plenty of moderately open-minded Catholic girls. If malling fails, there are good-sized restobars with oodles of late-night groups of getting-drunker-by-the-hour ladies swilling from big bottles of Tanduay Select with an iced tea mixer.
If you're still striking out there, have a trike driver take you to the local past-midnight streetwalker area, or visit Butuan's two strip clubs and / or five small videokes with hostess girls available for barfining until closing time at 2 to 4 am.
Same story in Cagayan de Oro, Davao City, Surigao City, etc. Plenty of options.
Statistical gathering is rather tough in the Philippines. But attached is a Facebook screenshot of religion numbers which purportedly are from the census of 2020.
Roughly 40% of Zamboanga residents identify as belonging to the Muslim faith. That statistic severely limits the playing field.
Those of us who have lived here for years vividly remember the Marawi City attack and siege in 2017 as well as the personal safety shit-shows that have occurred on nearby Basilian and Sulu Islands.
That's enough to dissuade most guys from ever traveling to a Filipino Muslim area to find chicks.
What this means is if your online plans in Zambo don't pan out and you're faced with the prospect of sleeping alone, you probably aren't left with many available fast-acting options. I'm guessing that there aren't any strip joints or streetwalker areas in such a Muslim-packed city, but I could be wrong.
Maybe you're okay with going to sleep with a raging libido and full sacks of jizz after having your hopes cruelly dashed, but not me.
IMO, Davao City is a greatly underrated city for finding companionship.
Zamboanga? I eagerly await your reports which will hopefully prove me wrong.
There is NO PRICE LIST ON THE WALL.
[QUOTE=Goferring;3044031]I've always recommend paying the equivalent of a ST a day for XLT. From me, that's 10 k a week. However, that's highly influenced on where you find the girl. A Manila bar girl is unlikely to go for that because she is use to receiving much more.[/QUOTE]Perfect. For city girls, the same as Go, our previous ST rate per day. For island (provincial) girls I give the LT rate to her per day (its cheaper than the city girl's ST).
[QUOTE=JonesLover;3044154]If I am with my GF in my apartment in full time for 2 weeks, I give her between 1000 and 1500 a day. But I buy her some gifts and I make her eat the most delicious things that she likes.[/QUOTE]And perfect.
Caveat #1. Having agreed with both the fellas, I stopped traveling before covid with new girls (which is what JL wants, to meet with a fresh f*cklet and either travel with her or keep her for 2 weeks), as it runs the gammut from being fun, to her driving me crazy with her mouth or attitude. I only travel girls now to come from her location to meet with me for a few days, and do whatever TF I want, and I only travel gals whose personality I am already familiar with. When these girl come to me (bus, airplane), city girls get their ST rate per day while in the province, and province girls get their LT rate per day when in the city. You'd be amazed at how many province girls have never been an hour from their home city, have drudgingly boring lives (taking care of their kids, or nieces and nephews, or doing laundry for a neighbor), and are very happy to get on bus to come visit me in a nearby provincial city, or get on the bus with me and go do that. P1000/ day might be both a windfall, and exciting for her.
Caveat #2. Not only will pretty gogo girls not go with you for a ST rate per day. Oddly I run into province girls sometimes (who are new to me) who want outrageous large sums of money per night (ie, p10 k). They wildly inflate their self-worth (not knowing their self worth), and might refuse to drop that price. Strange, unusual, but it happens (dating site girls).
Not all pinay are like this. But most are.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;3045429]And that is one of the many things that frustrate me about the Philippines. We were at the beach and I was trying to place an order. I was asking the lady which is better, the french fries or the chicken nuggets. All she kept saying was yes. And I kept saying yes what. Which is better? Then she finally said french fries, but only due to the appearance of being frustrated as well. Hell, maybe she was thinking why doesn't this mf know what he wants and wants me to decide for him.[/QUOTE]A number of possibilities, and a possible fix in Phils.
1) Pinoy consider foreigners to be smart. They may answer YES to any question, even if they understood the question and have no idea the correct answer, and even if they didn't understand the question. Saying YES is a way to appear 'not stupid', and quickly get you out of her hair or on to a different topic. In the western culture if someone did this to your question, you'd consider them to be bullsh*ting you. In eastern culture it might be considered smart. As an example, on the street you ask someone if there is a Jollibee nearby. "Yes. There". She points south. You thank her and continue walking south. She walks north. She had no idea if there's a Jolli nearby, and she thinks she was clever in getting rid of you, and not appearing to be stupid. Later when you realize there is no Jollibee there, you think she's an idiot, and crazy. If you see this lady at a later time, don't bother confronting her about it. WHY DID YOU LIE TO ME? She will give you another answer that is also designed to minimize damage to herself, and you won't get any satisfaction from her answer. Venting won't help.
2) Pinay don't like making decisions, period. Girls here especially would rather that YOU lead and make the decisions. It doesn't matter what alternative you offer: Chicken / fries, Jollie / McDo, yada / yada / yada. She will want for you to decide. "Bahala ka (up to you)". Even if she's interested in making the decision, she won't admit that by making the decision. Such decision possibilities were culturally withheld from her since birth.
3) Pinay are not cultured or trained to understand or answer exclusive-or (XOR) questions. Sweetie, you want fries or nuggets? "Yes" (or Bahala ka / Up To You). This is her attempt to not answer your question. Or alternately, she did not understand the question and she won't admit that (save face). Exclusive or questions are meant to be answered with one or the other items. The respondent is expected to choose only one of the items (not both, which would be the Inclusive OR). Probably one of two things are happening: Either she doesn't care which item (fries or nuggets), or she just can't make the decision (culture) and wants to be left out of the process.
So here's the fix. Ignore the 'why' part of her strange non-answers. Approach the question like this: Sweetie I'm thinking either Jolli or McDo. Which would you like? If she answers either "Yes", or "Up to you", don't try to force a better / accurate answer. She's literally telling you in her terms to make the decision. THEN MAKE THE DECISION YOURSELF for the both of you. Don't hem, don't haw. Take her to Jollie or McDo. She's more interested in eating (which she loves) than decision-making (which scares her). She won't complain. Sweetie, chicken / rice or spaghetti for lunch? "Yes". OK, spaghetti then. "OK". Sweetie, the live band bar tonight, or the disco? "Bahala ka". OK, live band then. "OK".
Hope this helps.
Tend to. They tend to. Maybe this should be in Stupid Shit.
[QUOTE=OldAndUgly;3045541]AND NAND OR NOR XOR, somebody should come up with a graphical representation, similar to the TTL gates.[/QUOTE]Pretty much everyone in my culture understands that when someone offers you something where you must make a choice, you get only one of the items. Offer your American GF a choice between two restaurants (or pieces of jewelry) and she will quickly tell you which one she prefers. However in Phils all that goes out the window.
As an alternative to my fix from below. A slightly different fix to try if you want. When asking her to decide between two items (ex fries or nuggets), put the words "choose one ONLY" at the end of the question. [B]Sweetie would you like the fries or the nuggets? Choose one ONLY[/B]. Emphasize the word ONLY. You might be surprised when she says: "You want me to be the one to decide? I choose fries". The original question of: Sweetie would you like the fries or nuggets? (without telling her to choose just one) might be confusing to her P-english. Seems that they have the same meaning to me, but not to her. From her perspective: [B]Is he asking me to make a decision? I should choose only one? I can choose both? Can I choose none and not answer? AHHHHHHH! Is it easier to just say YES?[/B].
If you think I'm kidding about them not liking decision-making (they fear it with foreigners, but not each other), fall in line in any fast food venue. While waiting in a long line at McDo, watch them not looking at the menu while they wait in line. Friends will chat away with each other, waiting in line a solid five+ minutes. When they reach the cashier to order, THEN they start looking up at the menu. As a small group (say, 2-4 ladies), they stare and stare at the menu. Some or all of them might order, then change their order as the cashier is punching the order into the computer (or just after). They might leave the cash register line they were standing in while ordering, and walk away, looking at different parts of the menu several cash registers over, then come back and change their order again. Its a miracle sometime that the order for them finishes. While they are doing that, you have time to shave. You think to yourself: Five or more minutes in line, and they never once looked up at the menu. And now that they are ordering, they are just now finding out what they want, and they are changing their minds. Why didn't they have an approximate order ready when they hit the cashier? Yet, if she is with you in line, she may or may not have an opinion about what she wants, and she won't complain if you order her a cheeseburger-fries-coke, when she wanted spaghetti. For her, silence is golden when she is with a smart poriner. When she's out with her friends, the decision on what to order is delayed until the last possible moment.
Perhaps not surprisingly for you, when I say to you that when I choose to go to McDonalds (alone or with someone), I choose it because I want a specific thing there (ie, big mac, or sausage-egg-mcmuffin), not available elsewhere. The menu decision was made prior to door entry. But for many pinay. . .
So, ya, the XOR thing was for you Old and Wise fellas, not the pretties we date.
Can't stop falling in love!
[QUOTE=PhilJoy;3046027]Mate, just reading between the lines, you need to just go out there and have a good time.
Pay a freelancer 2-3 k, grab something on Pina that's just after pay and shoot, or spend a heap in a bar.
You mention you're old and good looking.
Well, I'm in my mid 50's but no oil painting.
The biggest feedback I get is I smell nice and look after myself for a foreigner..[/QUOTE]This is great realistic advice. At the end of the day, pretty young Pinays are not dreaming about falling in love with a grandpa, even if he considers himself a silver fox. Often there is a dissonance between the aspirations of the old foreigner and the nubile Pinay. He wants love and passionate sex. She wants money and a ticket to rich foreigner land where she can upgrade. She does not need grandpa to drill her with a Viagra boner. If she wants love, she can visit the nipa hut of her handsome Pinoy trike driver for a vigorous rock hard pounding for twelve rounds.
Plain and simple, she is only willing to meet the old foreigner for monetary and migratory benefits. It does not matter whether he looks like Brad Pitt or scrambled eggs. As for the girl wanting him to meet the parents, there is no mystery here. They want their cut of the action up front. He will be expected to buy some gifts, it could be anything from a case of Red Horse and a bottle of Tanduay to roasted pig party for the village. They will need to celebrate their daughter finally hitting the jackpot.
Rose colored glasses. . .
[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;3046107]It is understood that the foreigner old enough to be her grandpa is just a walking ATM, and she will have one or more young Pinoy lovers fucking her on the side. This is the part that they will not tell you. There are plenty of old men on the Tulfo Show who found this out after buying houses, land, and businesses in their Pinay sweetheart's name.[/QUOTE]Good post. Of note, I come across a new case of this insanity roughly 1-3 x per year in the province. Usually meeting some new fella in a mall, just saying Hi to some foreigner there. Or the foreigner is passing me sitting at Starbucks and stops to say Hi. Over a coffee he spills the beans on the exact same sob story where he purchased land in her name, then they constructed a home there. Often times he's cashed in his life savings (or his 401 k) for this purpose, leaving him peso-less, save his social security and / or retirement benefit.
Did this happen here in this city? "No, we lived in Xxxxxx city" (a few hours away). "I can't stand living there near her or her thieving family, so I am looking for a fresh start here or anywhere else". Ahh. And you didn't see this coming, the relationship unraveling? "Nah I thought it was fine. Few weeks after we moved into the new place she started to change. It all went to f*ck-all. She left one day and came back with her mother and brother and they wanted me out". I see. After, when they were wanting you out, who appeared to want you gone the most? "Her mother and brother". Did you consider that they might have orchestrated the whole thing? "Ya of course they did. After I got a hotel I started checking the internet and youtube and saw its common". And you only figure out this thing AFTER? "Ya. Didn't see it coming man".
In the days of the Internet, with stories like this scam being told regularly, and vloggers like Reekay and others recounting their own similar experiences for a decade or more, one can ask: How does this keep happening? [B]How much does love (or lust) blind a man? Here is how much: Enough to walk his retirement savings right out of his lap[/B]. I'd like to say that its amazing that it continues. But as it continues, it appears to be a niche market in the Phils economy.
[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;3046107]Still, remember that the Pinay, like Belle, will only fuck you to save her family.[/QUOTE]Hahahaha.
The good news? A lot of pinay's families need saving. Regularly. Weekly. There's a new emergency coming, just around the corner.
A monger who does not fuck hookers!
Guys, now I have seen it all. A monger travels around the Philippines wanting girls to fall in love with him and not wanting to fuck hookers. If a girl agrees to meet a foreign guy for no strings short-term compensated sex over two weeks, that makes her a hooker. Good girls do not meet strangers in hotels for hard fucks with no commitment or long-term relationship, but prostitutes do.
Perhaps, there is a niche for old mongers who want to live out their missed teenage years. The girls can offer ultimate girlfriend experience where they pretend to not have been fucked too much. They will "fall in love" with the monger and tell him that he is more handsome than their 21 year-old stud Pinoy boyfriend. All compensation will be collected by a third party so the monger can feel like he is not paying a prostitute. LOL!
Maybe, this type of monger is the reason the old Western Angeles City bars offered "cherry girls" and "permanent bar fine". Some fellas just cannot get a boner unless they believe that they are seducing some innocent provincial farm girl.
Deported: Bye bye scumbag
[URL]https://manilastandard.net/news/314691721/russian-vlogger-vitaly-to-be-deported-dilg.html[/URL]#google_vignette.
[URL]https://www.philstar.com/headlines/2026/01/15/2501184/russian-vlogger-vitaly-be-deported-after-serving-his-time[/URL]
The above two stories are about a Russian vlogger who is being deported to Russia after serving his prison term. There is another asshole going around the Philippines and Thailand, asking women if they are ladies or ladyboys. Amd giving them a present, which is a condom. Let's hope he gets the same treatment.
My name is Joe. And I'm a perv.
I like perving. Wish I could change my nickname at ISG to Perving Irving.
So, what's a perv? ISG has not yet posted a definition. For me, it's a guy who, while at a girlie bar, is not looking for intercourse as much as he is seeking onsite verbal and tactile attention with a playful hostess.
It can be done either seated at a table or sitting alone together in a locked VIP room. I rarely pay a bar fine to whisk a girl away because most nights, I get what I need while sitting on a white plastic chair.
I'm an old guy whose libido doesn't consistently boil like it used to. Some nights I want to f*ck, and I have a local network of gals in my Philippine city of residence, along with the knowledge of where to find short-time relief in other towns.
But most nights, I want to go out and be a perv. Buy inflated-priced "lady's drinks" (LD) for a sexy-dressed gal and watch her get progressively drunker and more brazen while, depending on the type of venue, we either watch dancers or sing songs from a kareoke machine.
Start with handholding and chatting. Then she puts her arms around my shoulder and swings her chair around to sit more comfortably while positioning her sexy high-heeled and short-skirted legs over the top of my lap. Cuddles closer and lays her head on my shoulder. Begins to rub my upper thigh and nibble on my ear.
During beer #3-4, she starts to caress my cock through my pants, and we unabashedly begin making out for all to see. Depending on the bar and the girl, she'll probably whip out a breast for me to touch and nipple for me to lick. As I gently rub the inside of her thigh, she may spread her legs and pull my fingers under her panties to explore. Once in a while, she will reciprocate by running her hand under my cargo shorts and start jacking me off. Sometimes I'll explode, but usually I just sit there at full mast, enjoying the attention.
No pressure to bar fine. No annoying mamasan shoehorning herself into our activities. Just us sitting there for a couple of hours, me buying 3,4,5, or 6 LD's and basking in the attention of a fairly attractive gal who seems genuinely into me and is not shy about disapproving eyes from bystanders.
The degree of perving I receive is dependent on how comfortable the girl is with me. Luckily, I'm a decent-looking guy who dresses well. I like to talk, laugh, joke, engage in meaningful conversations with asking questions about the girl and her life. It's amazing how many partners say that I am not like most foreigner customers, because I come across as unexpectedly fun and friendly. Plus, they say my English-speaking is easy to understand, as I attempt to speak slowly and clearly in my American-accented diction.
So, it doesn't take long for them to get comfy and let the alcohol soak in to steer the night down a friendly path. Some nights I blow my wad out in the open, and some nights I'll offer to pay for the VIP room, where the action gets hotter and I'll use the condom that I always carry in my wallet. Money is not an issue for me when perving. I just want to have fun and naturally see how far things can go.
Sometimes, I depart the bar basking in the glow of a fun night yet still feeling hot from not ejaculating. Oh well. If I'm in a big Mindanao city or at a club in the Colon district of Cebu, it's pretty easy to find a nearby streetwalker to cap off my night. Not my preferred option, but a P250 short-time room and my condom do the job.
Lots of you guys don't understand the logic of spending a good sum of money at a bar without getting laid. I understand your skepticism.
It's a lot easier in the Philippines to get laid than it is to have a successful perving night. Any guy who's armed with enough money and the knowledge of where to pick up hookers (online or in person) can get laid.
But to a degree, perving is an art form. It can't be forced on or automatically purchased from a gal. Not all bars allow it. It's best in dimly lit hostess clubs with semi-secluded tables. Plus, the more times I visit a particular club, the more action takes place, as there's familiarity with repeat customers.
In a way, I enjoy the challenge and the suspense. Makes me feel validated that I'm still desirable by at least a few women much younger than me.
I don't like giving away the names of my favorite bars, as I like being a big foreigner fish in small ponds.
But when I stay in the Manila area, my go-to perving club is the Bang Bang Ali strip joint in Cubao, Quezon City.
It's a Filipino-centric bar, with relatively few foreign visitors. The upstairs "fun" area has been closed down, so no private rooms. Nude dancing on two stages. No extra charge to sit at the seating area that circumvents the main stage, which I call the "Meat Rack'.
My eyes are always wandering in a bar, so I've spotted plenty of smooching, pelvic grinding, and tittie-groping at the other tables.
Customer beers are an initial purchase of two for P250, then P125 for the next ones. Lady's drinks are P350, and consist of bottles of Beer na Beer, none of the watered-down crap they serve at many foreigner-centric clubs. No entry fee.
No bar fining policy, unfortunately. Over the years, a couple of hostesses have offered to go home with me at closing time. But I would have to wait until 4 am, which is way too late for this guy.
As in most strip joints that cater to mostly Filipino customers, the women are average at best in looks. Chunky, clunky, and junky. If you require a hottie, don't bother coming.
Middling girls are fine as long as they give me the attention I deserve. Your mileage may vary, but I never fail to reach my perving pinnacle there.
About Avida Towers in Davao.
I need a suggestion from those mates who know Davao, the Philippines and the scene of every single place well.
I will spend 2 months in the Philippines. I have already booked a comfortable apartment in Avida Towers for a month via AirBnb, because I managed to find a good price. Then thinking that there is also the great University nearby, all this enticed me to book. But after a few days of booking and after speaking with the owner of the apartment, I had my first doubts.
In Avida Towers it is not possible to have a place for a scooter, it is not possible to have a place for a bicycle. Avida Towers is located on a major main road where there is chaos. As soon as you leave you are besieged by the chaos of traffic and noise. My flight will arrive at 6 am and check in is after 3 pm, although I can self check in, but only if the room is available.
Then there is also the fact that if I get tired of staying in that area, I will necessarily have to stay there because I have already paid for the entire month.
Since I can still cancel the reservation without incurring penalties, I would like your advice.
I also looked for other apartments in that area but they are almost all located in Avida Towers. I can also move to other places a little further south and book for 2 weeks and then see if everything goes well, but the apartments are not as interesting as those in Avida Towers and cost more.
What would you do? However I will not consider a hotel because I like to cook. Thanks for some dispassionate advice!
Feel like I'm talking to a child
[QUOTE=JonesLover;3049236]This thing bothers me a lot, not because I don't want to register my guests, but because there is mistrust about me. This bothers me.[/QUOTE]He can't talk to girls in public, and he doesn't trust his guests? There must be a language issue here.
[QUOTE=JonesLover;3049236]If anyone can tell me what I can do to go to apartments or condos without registering guests, I would be happy, otherwise I get anxious.[/QUOTE]Holy bajesus, it would be remiss of me to tell you what place you can not register your guest so that you can get robbed and / or drugged by some girl. There will be short time places nearby where you can take your girl and you won't need to register her.
[QUOTE=JonesLover;3049254]But if a guest enter with me what is the problem?[/QUOTE]No problem. Just sign her in with the guard or front desk.
Many condos are even ok with your girl entering alone (while you are in your unit). She registers at the guard or front desk, the guard or front desk calls your room to ask you if its ok for miss Jennifer to come up. You say yes and you avoid the walk of shame. She can depart the same way. Are you trying to avoid the walk of shame?
[QUOTE=JonesLover;3049254]Skyscrapers have guest problems. For this reason it is not easy to find a condo.[/QUOTE]What guest problems? Getting above floor 10 will get you away from a lot of street noise (cars, chickens, etc).
[QUOTE=JonesLover;3049271]I found another condo at the same price by AirBnb. It's in "Mesatierra Garden Residence".
Do you think it is better than Avida when it comes to guest restrictions and other restrictions? I am able to cancel the reservation at Avida and book this condo at "Mesatierra Garden Residence".
I like Avida Towers because it's next to Peopl'es Park, but I think Mesatierra is also very well located.
What would you do?[/QUOTE]He's going to question us to death on this. "What do you fellas think about Knightsbridge? Girl friendly"? Then: "What do you guys think about Milano"? And so on.
Jones, we don't look at 'strict' = guest registration. We see strict as not allowing any guest to enter.
Wet Market Health Question
My routine involves buying fish in the morning and steaming it in a rice cooker. Besides fish, the other two sellers are pork and chicken, both of which are notorious for food poisoning, especially in tropical wet markets where they can be sitting outside as a feast for flies for hours on end. I get Pinoys are largely immune to most of the viruses they carry but what do foreigners do? Bleach them or lots of spice? Some nice pork chops would go down well but I don't want to be bed ridden for a week and the pork and chicken on open display looks fatal.
Also, what is with Pinoy fruit and veg, not the imported stuff? Why is it so expensive, especially vis a is pinoy wages?
My situation is compounded as I generally don't eat fried food but the Russian roulette nature of cheap food here makes me retreat into Western bubble who fry everything.
Food is my only consolation, I picked up a hooker at 11 am yesterday morning who promised 3 hours of debauchery and the world's best massage but was a super fat wham bam charlatan. The other negative about these street hookers is they are more observant than cops and some of them, sadly, never forget a face and pop up at inopportune times.
I'm a babe-magnet at the market
[QUOTE=JonesLover;3048386]Unfortunately at the market I can have 1000 eyes on me while I'm talking to a girl; especially if I use my smartphone to ask her for her FB.
All this scares me a little, also because I have never spoken to a girl on the street to make advances.
I was thinking of leaving these girls a note with my FB profile. Do you think it's wrong?[/QUOTE]Hey JonesLover, my story is from this morning's visit to our local wet market.
Hundreds of vendors out in the open, selling fruits and veggies. Been going there for years and it's rare I see another foreigner. Being an unescorted Caucasian there always gives me a degree of celebrity status.
I stopped by an egg vendor. As I was putting items in my egg crate, an older Filipina visiting from the city of Bacolod started a conversation with me. Asked where I am from, how long have I lived here, do I have a wife, blah blah blah. She excitedly offered to set me up with a niece, but I declined, as I'm not currently looking for a partner and don't want commitments.
Chatted for a couple of minutes, then asked if I would engage in prayer with her. Caught me off-guard, but I kindly bowed my head and listened. After a loud Amen, we said our goodbyes and headed on our separate ways.
As there are no walls there, plenty of vendors and customers heard parts of our conversation. No big deal to me, we're all humans.
Next to the egg seller was a kiosk with good looking red tomatoes. Manning the table was a cute-to-my-eyes sweetie, estimated 19 years-old. Short, petite, dark skin, long hair, no discernable belly fat. A bit reserved but inquisitive. The kind of girl that Korean and Japanese men think is ugly but most of we older Americans think is cute and appealing.
As I was selecting tomatoes, she started asking the usual questions. What country am I from? Why am I here in the Philippines? Where is my partner? Where do I live? Do I live alone? Who takes care of me and my house?
As she was handing me change from my 50-peso bill, she asks if I have Facebook. I lied and said no, as I said I believe FB is evil. But then I brazenly asked for her phone number on a piece of paper and promised I would send a text after I got home. Another day, another one of Joe's fibs.
Then I later stopped by a kiosk to buy apples, manned by another young, smiley, and moderately-cute seller. Based on her demeanor, I have little doubt I could have obtained her digits if I would only had asked.
Occurrences like this happen to me quite often when I am milling with the commoners. If I were more assertive, I could have a Rolodex full of phone numbers and FB contacts. But sweet gals like this aren't for me. I'm a somewhat seedy guy who likes spending an hour or two with an even seedier gal.
I understand the appeal and ease of using the internet to search for both long and short-term interludes. But Jonesy, I guarantee you a certain degree of success in Davao City if you engage with gals in the right places if you have even only a modest amount of "game". Go out on a few dates with these normal gals, and chances are good one will turn into the 10-day bedmate you're looking for.
1 photos
Getting the relatives involvled
This latest offer from the Cebu hottie sounds interesting.
She hasn't hit me up for a new iPhone just yet.
_Phil.
