Diamond membership is asking to be taken advantage of even worse!
[QUOTE=FilthyBeaver;2655034]I did learn that there aren't many diamond members so maybe I need to rethink my strategy if I ever plop back on.[/QUOTE]Instead of getting hit up for $200 to meet these mooches, if you are a Diamond member they ask $400 up front for the privilege of taking them to lunch or dinner and you will be spending another $200 on the restaurant check. They order the most expensive items on the menu to see if you flinch.
Then they ask for double for a PPM. I recommend you dress down and tell them you may not be the richest guy on the site but you are the nicest and most genuine. If it is all about the money for these mooches, then you would not be satisfied long term with them anyway.
This is supposed to be a mutual job interview with no pressure on either person. How many people, except mooches, ask for money to show up at a job interview? Stop pandering to these mooches!
Free or Non Transactional?
[QUOTE=FilthyBeaver;2655215]Disagree with almost everything. Read my lengthy post a few pages back about my experiences on SA. It was night and day between premium and diamond and mooches (I call them party girls) don't get past chat. I'm in a very happy arrangement with one right now, she's a 9.5 with an 11 personality. I want to spend my time with her and the feeling is mutual because she comes whenever she wants with no discussion of money. Last thing I see is a mooch, I see an engaging girl of my dreams who's trying to make it on her own with no help from anyone and I'm glad to be able to help her. There are limits to what I'm willing to do and she knows I'm not jealous or possessive so she can have as many as she wants so long as she respects my time and our plans. She's got a full time job and who knows how many arrangements, I don't care or care to know as I'm getting what I want. I went into SA with my eyes wide open trying to understand their motivations for being there. With that information I figured out who I was interested in meeting and wrote the rest of. It was time consuming and oh so painful but I gave no regrets, I found a gem.
FYI In my top tier coastal city I've been quoted as low as 300 and as high as 1 k. Most are 5-8 and at least half are 5.[/QUOTE]Can you clarify whether you are giving your 9. 5 money and or gifts in a non transactional type of way or your doing it straight up for free?
BTW the one thing he said right was don't ever pay for a meet and greet. I am sure you agree with that.
Need more dicks or more days
Ok fellas. I know I'm considered pretty good at this but seek some advice from other learned souls. Here's the sitch:
Kayla is my sorta long term Tampa girlfriend. I see her 3 days a month every month when I am in town. Her face is an 8/9 and her body is the only full on ten I have ever been with. And we bareback. So what's the problem you say?
Well she's become a bit like a wife to be honest! We started out going out to dinner. Drinking. Clubs. And passionate sex. Oh even went to the sex club together. But more recently she eased me down the slippery slope of wifeness. Started eating in some. Maybe Netflix and chill. Now that's ALL that we do. She actually admitted she prefers this and just did "those things" to attract me but she's a homebody. And she had a bad experience at work that made her not like to be seen in public with me.
So I can hang with this amazing girl at home and fuck her bareback but I am strapped inside my hotel or eating out alone. It just sucks that it's not like it used to be and doesn't appear to be going back.
So I've started exploring. I'm doing two nights with her and one with another girl. I just tell her I am only in town for two nights obviously. If you recall last time on my free night I had a great date but no sex. Ok thank you next. So here is my problem.
I've got one Night without Kayla. Top spot was going to a 27!year old Thai girl. She reminds me a lot of Anna at Olina in London. She's def a pro but seems like she'll bring the GFE. Well she made things easier by saying she had to work Sat nights. So we are going to meetup for brunch (got to get rid of Kayla) so that is cool and I still have my night open for another girl.
After having trouble finding anyone suddenly I have two and they both seem down. Neither can touch Kayla for pure looks. They are both cute and maybe just OK bodies. Maybe 7's. Angie is a cute Latina and a student. She's been engaged enough and seems down to meet. And when we priorized dinner, dancing, kissing, Netflix, drinking and dinner in, she had the right answer LOL. And Nellie is a black girl who's cute but possibly thick (thought this about Kayla from pics and damn was I wrong!) and she is sooooo on point on the girlfriend thing. Just a chatty bundle of fun. Def more a pro than Angie. But maybe not a pro pro.
So damn I don't want to let either of these girls down. I want to meet them both. But I only have the one night. I need more dicks or more nights. Creative ideas fellas?
Seeking Success. Nicaragua
I have som posts up in some of the country forums but never here in the SA board. I just got back from Nicaragua where I have a place and earlier this year I was in Ecuador. In both places I used seeking and with good success. I figured I would just add a report here.
I used SA first in Nicaragua because I spend most my time away from Managua and was looking for a girl to travel with. About a year ago on my first trip I pinged all the relevant girls. I met one for a PPM. True flakita who had experience in Costa Rica where many Nicas go to work. It was ok but too pro for me for another meet. Then I was Managua and there did on meet with Anna. 23, poised thin, gorgeous skin. Dinner with my bad Spanish but it went well enough we went to an autohotel and it was a pretty good experience. I gave her $40 for "taxi" and she seemed happy. I liked her enough I invite That is a very reasonable price. She was beautiful, no kids, thin and game with my bad Spanish. We did this one more time and the sex was even better. So I invited her to meet me for teaching her to surf and travel for a weekend. This is where we really made the full switch. When I picker her up and we were driving to the beach we held hands. That morphed into me fingering her while driving until she orgasmed. GFE. We spent a wonderful weekend hanging, hiking, surfing and having sex 2-3 times a day. Sent her home with a new swimsuit another $40 and a lot of good memories. Do another trip with her to Granada. Yet another amazing weekend including going down on her in an open air palapa inside a volcanic caldera.
I leave and we stay in touch. She moved to Costa Rica and the Switzerland where he sister lives. I come back to Nicaragua but she isn't there. Sad. Then on my last day in Nic waiting for my test it turns out she flies back for a few months at home and we cross paths Managua for only a few hours. But she really wants to get together. So do I. She shows up at my Airbnb after 22 hours of travel worried she doesn't have time to get ready. I told her we already traveled together just chill and use my place to shower and relax. She is relieved and she gets off the bus from Costa Rica and taxis to my place. It's hugs and chat. She gets lit her sweats and comes out in a georgeous summer dress. We are going go to lunch but we start kissing and her dress stays on for minutes and we go at it like long separated lovers. She loves me eating her out. I love doing it. Heaven for both. I take her to a nice lunch. We come back, snuggle and pretty soon she wakes up from her travel coma and BBJ, more DATY full on GFE.
She has to catch the bus to her village for her mom's birthday. Never asked for a dime and we are both just happy. And now I am trying to get back before she heads out to Switzerland again. It's the dream SA promises. It might have ruined me for normal mongering.
