Never Settle in Life | Do not be a White Knight | Part Three
Continued from Part II. Hope this gets Posted and my Apologies for the Length of the post!
3. She will Test you.
Women Always test you.
Conscientiously or Sub conscientiously it will happen!
Why do Women test Men?
What most men never realise is that women are a completely different human being, we men are full of testosterone and we think logically, we see the world and feel the world differently. Women do not see the world like we do or experience it like we do as they are full of estrogen, they are driven by emotion whereas most of the time we are driven by logic. A woman will only say what she is feeling at that specific time, her mind may change a few minutes later. Therefore, it is very important to see if a woman's actions mirror her words. They you will know what she actually feels. That is why you hear women saying you don't understand me. Or you are not listening. That is because you are converting her emotions into your logic! That is a recipe for disaster!
The key understanding you need for this is that women continuously conduct subtle tests around the clock. It's important to emphasize that these tests are conducted discreetly, not overtly, and their covert nature is important. They do this to see if you are weak, or can be controlled and for other reasons. She doesn't want a man like this.
Most women, especially beautiful high value women know that men are naïve. They will use their beauty, intelligence and charm and try to challenge you and try and change your behaviour. If your behaviour changes, or you get perturbed by her testing you, you are done for! Why? Because she knows that either you can be manipulated which makes you weak or that you cannot control your emotions and that you are not a strong centred man who can stand up to her in the right way. She will start losing attraction for you, no matter how rich or good looking you are. Being a Masculine Centred man is the only way to be successful in this department. You may get away with it some of the time but you will not most of the time. They want you to be a man! Plain and simple and not act like a woman!
Whenever a woman is with you, she's likely assessing how you measure up in comparison to other potential men she might encounter or consider in order to explore her choices. Recognizing and comprehending this dynamic is essential, as there's no avoiding it. Now, when I refer to "women," I mean ALL women, including your grandma, mom, sisters, ex-girlfriend, your crush, the girl next door, all of them. Every woman is subject to this characterization. They often assess for vulnerabilities and weaknesses, consistently evaluating in various contexts, they may do it conscientiously or unconscientiously. But they will do it! It is wired into their DNA! They can't help it! So never take it personally! Learn to identify their testing and learn to navigate it!
One Reason for this testing is because whenever insecurities are shown by a man, whether that be on the first date or the first month doesn't matter or weakness is shown in a long-term relationship, your value as a man is now revealed. She now knows what she needs to know about you. She now knows whether you are low or high value. That is why we say, be mysterious and never show her too much of yourself too quickly!
When women find low value men, that is men who are not centred in their masculinity, who get upset at the slightest thing, who get emotional, who act like women, who bend over backwards to please women, who get angry and lose their shit, they often search for excuses to end things, she will throw a fit or tantrum for no reason based on some obscure reason, or an argument to validate her decision and make your man brain (you as a man see things Logically) understand why they're leaving, and you will believe it and never be the wiser to actually why she left. The truth? You filed her testing consecutively over and over again and proved you were low value!
It's crucial for you to grasp this concept profoundly: every woman's mind is wired to search for reasons to perceive you as incompatible. Even if they hold strong affection for you, let me emphasize this again. Even if they have genuine feelings for you and envision a potential future together. Yet, should minor incidents occur, especially in the early stages of a relationship or the mid stages of long-term relationships, they instinctively seek grounds to deem you unsuitable, they become hesitant to commit and make the relationship last. The underlying principle that every man must understand is that this behaviour aligns with the principles of natural selection. Survival of the fittest, she is looking for the most centred masculine man. This is especially true for gorgeous high value women.
One way to become immune to most of her tests. Never get emotionally attached. The moment you get emotionally attached, she will gradually lose attraction for you because you will all by yourself, start acting needy and weak without any help from anyone, you will blow your chances!
Stunning women will test you to see if you are actually what she sees or if you are a faker. She's looking to see if you are a weak man or a strong indifferent man who is a cantered masculine man. If you are, she will chase you. She basically wants to see if you are abundant with a "take it or leave it" attitude and have the balls to walk away from her, because you can easily find a replacement. If she sees this, she will go weak for you, because she wants that type of man whether she knows it or not. You go weak for a super-hot woman, you are dead! You must be indifferent; you must have a take it or leave it attitude. No running after her drooling like a retarded cave man, or being a nice guy or captain save a ho. She's not looking to be with men like that. She will already have a million of those already begging at her feet. You must be different. Take IG models for example just imagine how many men worship them and DM them 24/7? She probably gets a million, messages a day giving her all the validation she will need, you have too impervious to this. Out of all those men she will only run after the man who is indifferent and who is cantered, most often than not!
She will act differently from man to man depending on who she is with according to how she has categorised her men. She is consistently testing you to understand where you fit in in her hierarchy. Mainly for insecurity and weakness. Either you are her king or her servant. You don't want to be the latter. He never gets anywhere with her!
She will try to push your buttons, to try and see how far she can push you and how much she can get away with. This is to see how you will react, and to see whether you are weak or needy or get perturbed.
If you show her that you have options, and that you are not afraid to walk away you are already well ahead of your competition. But you need patience, she must come to you, it is a waiting game. That will show her that you are a centred masculine man, and that there is a limit that you are willing to tolerate when it comes to her bad behaviour. High Value women want a man who will stand up to her. She will test you by misbehaving to see if she can mess with you! Basically, say things like baby, if you are going to act this way, maybe we should take some time apart. Or baby I don't appreciate the way you are talking to me right now, so I'm going out with my buddies and you can call me when you feel better. Now try to imagine a weak man who thinks he will never ever be able to get another Beautiful Woman to go out with him being able to do this? Here in lies the difference between Masculine Men and Weak men, Monsters vs. Rabits!
These are some of the test men will face one way or the other no matter who the woman!
A. first test is going to be compliance, a compliance test.
Essentially this is a test of your willingness to comply with her demands or requests, even when you don't want to. This involves her attempting to persuade you to perform tasks or chores. Ultimately, it's about assessing whether you'll conform to the role of an obedient male servant, rather than asserting a more masculine stance. Can she influence your behaviour? Many men wonder why women engage in such behaviour— this is simply to test your willingness to comply with requests, whether explicit demands or subtle suggestions. She's observing if you'll comply! How do you pass this test? Its very simple. You decide for yourself if these are things that you're wanting to do or not. If you really don't want to do them, don't do them! So, this is number one, always remember this and have this in the back of your arsenal. Weak men will do anything she asks. Masculine men will not jump through hoops for her. She is looking for the latter, the one she can't push around, the one who is not afraid to say no!
Be. Number two, what is the second test? Well, the second test that women will throw your way from time to time is going to be a competency test.
Okay, what is a competency test? A competency test is she is testing your masculine competence. Now what is masculine competence? Just think about this for a second. As men age as men become wiser, men acquire skills. What are the skills that men have to oftentimes acquire? Well, they have to acquire skills to navigate life, skills to maximize their finances, skills to build value in themselves, skills to succeed in the marketplace, skills for overall life and development. Now, these skills are very important and very vital because this is a test of your fortitude! When it comes to competency, why does a woman want to know if you can pass these tests? Well, because she wants to know that this is the best option she can get. But, you as a man have to fortify yourself and develop. There's nothing more important! That is why we keep saying invest in your life!
Here's a few types of things you're going to hear from a high value woman that you're dating, (or crushing on) from time to time. The first is going to be a dare. She may for example say, I bet you can't. I bet you can't do this. I bet you don't know how to do this. I bet you will fail at this. It's a doubt test. Competency in and of itself is her doubting your skills. The second thing that you're going to hear from time to time is, well, I can't believe I'm with a man who doesn't even know blah blah blah. I can't believe I'm with a man that doesn't even know how to change a tire. I can't believe I'm with a man that doesn't even know how to fix a computer. You will hear these things from time to time or the last in this category is things that she will make fun of you for. This can be weight, this can be income, anything of that nature. But the real question is why? Why are they doing this? Well, it's because there's a potential loss of skills. If there's a potential loss of skills, you have to understand women look for two things. The first is survival value. The second is replication value. This right here is a test of the survival value that you bring to the table as a man. This is nothing more than biology. This is wired into humans. Now, you have to actually look at this for what it is. The most important thing is Never get perturbed or take it personally or get butt hurt. You do that and its game over, you are a shining red flag in her book! Like the Joker in Batman says – Why so serious? Always comeback with a witty funny line, showing her that it doesn't bother you in the slights. That is the most important thing you must do to avoid an initial failure on your part. For example, if she says dayum I wish you were as tall as my last man then you'the be perfect, you say, really, I wish I was shorter, so that I could stare at your boobs all day without having to find a useless excuse to do that! With a comical grin on your face!
See. Number three is going to be frame control. A frame control test. What is a frame control test?
Oooh! This is now getting sooooooper Long. (that's what she said).
I will continue this on another day!
Hope this message finds a home!
Best of Luck!
Cheers Gentlemen!
White Rose. Not as it seems
Hi all, long time reader, limited poster.
First off, wanted to thank the new brothers who are bringing quality and accountability to the scene. It makes small mongers like me feel like stepping up and contributing.
Booked a session with 'Tiffany' ([URL]https://escorts.ninja/female-escorts-in-colombo/white-rose[/URL]) at my usual haunt.
The communication is very good, and in English. I asked if she allows lip kissing and she said she would provide as long as oral hygiene is clean. Now just to make it clear, I would like to think my oral hygiene is pretty clean as I regularly brush and always use mints and lip balm before appointments.
However, when the girl arrived, she did not look like the pictures. To be fair, perhaps it was a photoshopped picture, so I will not complain too much.
My experience got worse when we moved to the bed and I started to kiss her. She first said she does not provide lip kissing, and then when I questioned her further she said she does not provide this at all, with certain other reasons. I then said that in her message she said it is based on oral hygiene, after which she then changed her story to say that. Clearly this is not an independent as claimed and has some dealer managing.
I should also mention that based on her behavior, such as quickly removing her clothes and the cheap brand of condom she brought herself, I suspect that she is a service provider of the quickie type and not someone who enjoys the long buildup and release. This is definitely not my style, so at this point I lost all interest in continuing this.
I asked her to leave, and initially wanted a major refund, but she was refusing. As things were getting heated, she said she will call her 'security', clearly showing that there is a dealer of some sorts behind this profile for starters. I had no interest in wasting time and energy haggling over a cash amount, so I accepted her terms of a refund and went my own way.
In the end, lesson learned (again) about trying new service providers without reviews. I shall stick to the reviewed providers on this forum, as even MR reviews cannot be trusted.
Good day gentlemen!
JF May we pass this on to MK
[QUOTE=JundaFun;2857165]Hi Bro,
What is her name? I will like to approach her in Insta.[/QUOTE]Brother JF,
I would like to pass this request on to Brother MK, so that you or he may discretely communicate via PM. MK has what you are looking for. Apologies in advance brother, didn't mean to put you on the spot MK. However this is a bit of a difficult situation for me!
I do not think it would be wise of me to openly share her identity on the deep open sea without her consent. It may turn out to be a bad call.
Brother Mk, please help a brother out?
Also there should be other brothers on this forum who also know exactly who she is!
Many thanks,
Let me know what happens in a few days!
Cheers!
Super Hot Bird | Comming Soon it would seem
Dear Gents,
It would seem like there is a SUPER hot bird who might become available soon! I had the privilege of viewing her Vitals. Nice Body and Stunning Face! (She Hella Cute!
That is all I can say for now! Some of you may have already had a chance to sample her! If you did Lucky Lads! Unfortunately for the rest I cannot divulge anything more!
However, I believe she will end up in general circulation soon! Believe me when I say she looks Pretty EPIC!
Good News Overall!
Keep Slamming Gentlemen!
Cheers & Goodnight!