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Some really good advise, block or ignore. Personally I got close to a SP and liked her for her human side, she would tell me everything from how much she made to what she was doing. I think the infactuation was on both sides however neither saw it as love. Something happened, I probably screwed up a little and now she kind of ignores me. At first I was a little annoyed but now I am getting over it and choosing now to try talk to her or her every so often random Hi texts. She's naturally lonely so like most SP needs someone to talk to, she's moved to other mongers and another working girl but atleast I am not wasting any more money. I feel like a fool for buying her a trip, expensive bags and to top it off we didn't have much sex. So lesson learnt don't be the good guy or get close.
[QUOTE=AmRev2017;2794445]This is a very common psychological phenomenon commonly called Infatuation. You are not in "Love" with the girl as such, just attracted and attached to one aspect of her personality and behavior. This attraction, while seems very strong is all in your mind.
I had personally gone through it sometime back. The one thing I did, looked at it from a third-person perspective. Like looking at myself behaving like this. And then wondering how should I help this guy. What I did was, put on some videos on YouTube explaining the term Infatuation. It might sound stupid, but trust me, hearing it from a professional voice makes a lot of difference.
They explain very clearly that we get attached to one aspect of the person and imagine that the person will behave like that always, but in reality, that person might have some habits which you might find appalling. And that's the fact of life.
Secondly, you have to physically distance yourself from that person, and delete the phone number. Don't look at any pics (WhatsApp status or Instagram) and try to make any contact.
It will be tough initially, but as you find some other "activity" to keep you busy, you will get over it.
Don't waste your money on some girl who doesn't want to be with you. Save it for the one who does.
Cheers!![/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=SamSam2;2797017]she's moved to other mongers and another working girl but atleast I am not wasting any more money. I feel like a fool for buying her a trip, expensive bags and to top it off we didn't have much sex. So lesson learnt don't be the good guy or get close.[/QUOTE]Now that does make you a fool, spending money on expensive gifts plus trips and not getting enough pussy from her LOL. Sorry. Now I have made the same stupid mistake in the past with a couple of WG's, but damn they were giving me hours and hours of sweaty no holds barred sex and I was video taping the sessions (with their consent of course), that I sometimes still jerk off to LOL. But yes, lessons learned are good to keep so you don't repeat the mistakes.
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[QUOTE=BloodRed;2797164]Now that does make you a fool, spending money on expensive gifts plus trips and not getting enough pussy from her LOL. Sorry. Now I have made the same stupid mistake in the past with a couple of WG's, but damn they were giving me hours and hours of sweaty no holds barred sex and I was video taping the sessions (with their consent of course), that I sometimes still jerk off to LOL. But yes, lessons learned are good to keep so you don't repeat the mistakes.[/QUOTE]I know, that's the only reason I decided to share here as I deserve the roasting and will help others avoid the same. Maybe you can share some of your sessions LOL you got one better then me! I think at first it was just talking and very soon it changed, no idea what but yep. I recall when she classess herself as a luxury person despite not owning many branded items.
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Would like some recommendations to take my girl to a bar to just check out other girls. Maybe even pick one up and bring home with us. We are staying in the marina area and I flew her in from Brazil so she knows what's up.
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Dxb help
Any help is welcome wrt pickup points, Geylang like areas.
Preferably ME, SE Asian and CIS women. PM active.
Also does Leva hotel spa offer extras?
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[QUOTE=Anaggie;2797249]Would like some recommendations to take my girl to a bar to just check out other girls. Maybe even pick one up and bring home with us. We are staying in the marina area and I flew her in from Brazil so she knows what's up.[/QUOTE]There are many options in Dubai where you can take your Brazilian girl and pick one for threesome. There was a report on Czar and Moscow club where someone has gone there with his wife and picked up a girl for threesome. Recently yours truly has gone to club Blu in V hotel with my GF and picked up a girl for threesome. Similarly there are many bars and clubs where you can find girls who will happily come. But the strange thing is It is not easy to find bi girls in the clubs. You need to patiently talk to the girls. Let your girl take the lead and start talking to girls. She will do this job better. I am saying this from my own experience LOL
In Marina try Buddha bar. Penthouse in Five Palm hotel also good option.
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Hey Guys
I have lived almost 20 year of my life in Dubai. But left for good about 6 years ago. I keep visiting for work, but lately all my encounters have become mechanical.
Would really appreciate if someone could share details for direct VFM GFE kinda girl. Open to all nationalities.
Thanks in anticipation.
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[QUOTE=Heirloom;2796583]Actually, if you hit CTRL+F (that's search in case you didn't know) and type in 'Russian' not a single post even mentions Russians for the last 3-5+ pages. So no, it isn't obvious. That's why I asked.
Goofy post. Sorry, but not helpful at all.
Still looking for intel on this.[/QUOTE]Instead of using the find on page function, you could use the search function built in to the forum.
Here endeth the lessson.
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[QUOTE=JoeKarnavic;2797345]There are many options in Dubai where you can take your Brazilian girl and pick one for threesome. There was a report on Czar and Moscow club where someone has gone there with his wife and picked up a girl for threesome. Recently yours truly has gone to club Blu in V hotel with my GF and picked up a girl for threesome. Similarly there are many bars and clubs where you can find girls who will happily come. But the strange thing is It is not easy to find bi girls in the clubs. You need to patiently talk to the girls. Let your girl take the lead and start talking to girls. She will do this job better. I am saying this from my own experience LOL
In Marina try Buddha bar. Penthouse in Five Palm hotel also good option.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I am staying in the same hotel with Buddha Bar so will give it a shot tonight and tomorrow and see what happens.
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[QUOTE=VarunPandey123;2797361]I have lived almost 20 year of my life in Dubai. But left for good about 6 years ago. I keep visiting for work, but lately all my encounters have become mechanical.
Would really appreciate if someone could share details for direct VFM GFE kinda girl. Open to all nationalities.
Thanks in anticipation.[/QUOTE]1.
You could great benefit from my VIP concierge service. Pl check my detailed previous posts on how this works!
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[QUOTE=Bhamsookh1;2797261]Any help is welcome wrt pickup points, Geylang like areas.
Preferably ME, SE Asian and CIS women. PM active.
Also does Leva hotel spa offer extras?[/QUOTE]Having lived in Singapore and now in Dubai. Geylang type scene is not common in Dubai. Your best options are clubs or MR. Cubs work very similar to the one at Hyatt on Orchard Road in Singapore. MR is std pick, pay and play website.
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[QUOTE=SamSam2;2797187]I know, that's the only reason I decided to share here as I deserve the roasting and will help others avoid the same. s.[/QUOTE]I would not beat myself about this too much. It's happened to everyone. Everytime I finish in the warm mouth or pussy of a girl I am putty in her hands. Mostly I recover in a 10-15 minutes your just went on a bit longer.
It's all part of the game. Think of this as fees paid to learn a lesson. You will be harder and better for it.
If you want to feel OK, read the longish posts I had about going to this Indian club witb a friend. We spend lots and lots money of bullshit plastic tiara and garlands. He even fell in love with a girl on stage, no one fucked but she got lots of stuff out of him and all he got was to jerk off on his own.
My advice always remains, when you are totally into a girl and have to have her. First jerk off and then look at the whole situation with empty balls. You get the answers right away. He he he.
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My advice always remains, when you are totally into a girl and have to have her. First jerk off and then look at the whole situation with empty balls. You get the answers right away. He he he.[/QUOTE]That is sagacious advice and works for me as well. There is this absolute biitch Uzbek that I wasted a lot of money on, but she provided dynamite sex and I videotaped many of our sessions with her consent. She now works in Qatar and wants me to come see her, has been asking for months and months now. But I don't want to deal with her bullshit anymore. Sometimes I really miss fucking her and have had the thought of visiting Qatar. But then I jerk off to videos of me fucking her and once I'm done, I think with a clear head and any thoughts of visiting her are gone LOL.
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Variation
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My advice always remains, when you are totally into a girl and have to have her. First jerk off and then look at the whole situation with empty balls. You get the answers right away. He he he.[/QUOTE]Concurring with Blood Red on this one: these words are gold advice. You can also outsource the HJ to one of the HJ queens, so you can look at the situation with empty balls, and rested body.