Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=RonhinCruz;2658277]I have som posts up in some of the country forums but never here in the SA board. I just got back from Nicaragua where I have a place and earlier this year I was in Ecuador. In both places I used seeking and with good success. I figured I would just add a report here.

I used SA first in Nicaragua because I spend most my time away from Managua and was looking for a girl to travel with. About a year ago on my first trip I pinged all the relevant girls. I met one for a PPM. True flakita who had experience in Costa Rica where many Nicas go to work. It was ok but too pro for me for another meet. Then I was Managua and there did on meet with Anna. 23, poised thin, gorgeous skin. Dinner with my bad Spanish but it went well enough we went to an autohotel and it was a pretty good experience. I gave her $40 for "taxi" and she seemed happy. I liked her enough I invite That is a very reasonable price. She was beautiful, no kids, thin and game with my bad Spanish. We did this one more time and the sex was even better. So I invited her to meet me for teaching her to surf and travel for a weekend. This is where we really made the full switch. When I picker her up and we were driving to the beach we held hands. That morphed into me fingering her while driving until she orgasmed. GFE. We spent a wonderful weekend hanging, hiking, surfing and having sex 2-3 times a day. Sent her home with a new swimsuit another $40 and a lot of good memories. Do another trip with her to Granada. Yet another amazing weekend including going down on her in an open air palapa inside a volcanic caldera..[/QUOTE]Thinking with your little head. Wait until the big head comes back into focus.

[QUOTE=NeilGeorge;2658295]Thinking with your little head. Wait until the big head comes back into focus.[/QUOTE]Not sure what you are getting at. Maybe you missed the fact I own a place in Nicaragua. I don't go there for this girl. I go regularly for lots of other reasons. We aren't on any path to shack up. She isn't asking me for monthly support. We have basically transitioned to FWB where I am having truly enjoyable sex with a solid 8, 23 year old who goes out of her way to see me because she enjoys the sex too. From a straight of cost perspective every met with her is less or cost equal than any other reasonable mongering options Managua. And she solves the problem that outside of Managua it's incredible difficult to find options.

I say this not because I care about what you think but just to clarify for others in the forum that are interested in SA as an alternative to other avenues of mongering this sort of outcome is possible. The gems are out there.

In this case the total cost / benefit analysis of the timee and money invested ended up dramatically in my favor.

I am happy for Anna. She is going to likely move to Europe and increase the quality of her life substantially. She is fun, smart and lively and very pretty. I hope she finds someone that will treat her right. She should. And when I am in Europe later this year we are likely to spend a great weekend together that will cost me nothing more than some meals I am more than happy to pay for.

The big head is fine.

Where in Europe are you headed?

Maybe we can work out a deal.

[QUOTE=RonhinCruz;2658524]Not sure what you are getting at. Maybe you missed the fact I own a place in Nicaragua. I don't go there for this girl. I go regularly for lots of other reasons. We aren't on any path to shack up. She isn't asking me for monthly support. We have basically transitioned to FWB where I am having truly enjoyable sex with a solid 8, 23 year old who goes out of her way to see me because she enjoys the sex too. From a straight of cost perspective every met with her is less or cost equal than any other reasonable mongering options Managua. And she solves the problem that outside of Managua it's incredible difficult to find options.

I say this not because I care about what you think but just to clarify for others in the forum that are interested in SA as an alternative to other avenues of mongering this sort of outcome is possible. The gems are out there.

In this case the total cost / benefit analysis of the timee and money invested ended up dramatically in my favor.

I am happy for Anna. She is going to likely move to Europe and increase the quality of her life substantially. She is fun, smart and lively and very pretty. I hope she finds someone that will treat her right. She should. And when I am in Europe later this year we are likely to spend a great weekend together that will cost me nothing more than some meals I am more than happy to pay for.

The big head is fine.[/QUOTE]

Or whatever she claims her name to be! Gentleman, I told you that I would provide you with monthly reports to cover my planned limited Seeking membership. Well, here's my report for January 2022. For those of you experienced with the site, I don't have to tell you how much work it is! I must have contacted 100's and 100's of "women" already, to get only a few to respond to me on the site, followed by even fewer who I have communicated with offline by text and phone. I said "women" because the site is [B]full[/B] of fakes, flakes, fraudsters, and scammers. During my first month of membership, I met just two women in person. I was supposed to meet three, but one proved to be a perpetual flake cancelling at the last minute multiple times, so I said to hell with her. Of the other two I met, one we both agreed right off the bat, and for reasons I won't go into, that we should keep it platonic. I agreed to meet her for lunch anyway, and I'm glad I did. She was a quality girl.

Now girl number two? It was [B]bingo[/B]! Late 20's, slim, pretty long blonde hair, big round blue eyes, an attractive face, fair white skin with just the right amount of pink in it that I love so, so much, luscious milk white titties, and a nice round butt. YAY-UH! We met for dinner, and the sexual attraction between us was instant and obvious. I mean, I was getting a boner under the table looking this girl and imagining myself inside of her! After dinner, there was hugging and kissing on the lips. You know you're up in there then! But, I chose not to push it and try to have sex with her that same night. No, we were both new at this, and I felt it was best for us to end it for the night on a great note and think about it, and pick it up again if we both felt it was right. We continued to communicate by text, and agreed to get together again in about a week. We agreed to go to an event together, after which time we would have lunch and come back to my place. To make a long story short, we ended up fucking BBFSCIP! That's right [B]no condoms[/B], and I "nutted" inside of her! It's what the both of us wanted from the very start (she admitted that she wanted to fuck me on the first date too). Oh my God [B]Steve[/B]! My boy [B]Steve[/B]! WTF?

Now don't worry. Before we went there (bareback sex), it was established that she has solid birth control. She can't get pregnant. And we're both clean. So going forward, we will continue to not use condoms, and The Cane will get to enjoy "multiple shots" inside of his new, attractive, blonde, trophy, sugar baby! Without having to worry about impregnating her! I'm sure you guys want to know what the terms of the "arrangement" are. We agreed to meet at least twice a month on a pay-per-meet basis of $250 per meet! For the tier 1 market that I live in, that's a steal! Most of the attractive white girls start out asking for between $500 and $1,000 per meet. With respect to Abby, I could not have asked for anything better. She's hot and has just the look that I like, the price is right, and I'm doing her [B]bareback[/B] with no need to pull out. [B]Nut inside[/B]! Oh [B]my[/B] God! Going into this, I felt like I could have some success. But, I didn't expect so much so soon! I mean, I met Abby within the first couple of weeks on the site! Now, that said, at this point I'm still convinced that after three months on the site, that's going to be enough for me. You have to do way, way too much work wading through knee-deep bullshit to find an absolute diamond like Abby. But, I'm here to add to the others who have said that Seeking can work. You're damn skippy it can work! If you're willing to put in the work (it's a lot). [B]Steve[/B]! Got damn! [B]My[/B] man! [B]Steve[/B]!

Over and out until my February report.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2659238]

We agreed to meet at least twice a month on a pay-per-meet basis of $250 per meet! For the tier 1 market that I live in, that's a steal! Most of the attractive white girls start out asking for between $500 and $1,000 per meet. [/QUOTE]Good for you! Sounds like you got lucky.

By the way, you mentioned a tier-1 market where you hauled your catch, will you be able to share which city if not which region / country was this in?

[QUOTE=Ggekko2009;2659294]Good for you! Sounds like you got lucky.

By the way, you mentioned a tier-1 market where you hauled your catch, will you be able to share which city if not which region / country was this in?[/QUOTE]It's in the United States. That's all I'm comfortable sharing in this forum.

[QUOTE=Ggekko2009;2659294]Good for you! Sounds like you got lucky.

By the way, you mentioned a tier-1 market where you hauled your catch, will you be able to share which city if not which region / country was this in?[/QUOTE]Is he lucky he found an amazing girl on SA? I'the say no. You can absolutely find an amazing girl on SA. It's just a fuck ton of work. And I do believe there is skill in it as well. And with the right amount of work and skill you will absolutely find your girl. Is $250 lucky? Maybe a little but it's also because he cultivated a "real girl" not a pro (let's not have that conversation again!) and so she doesn't know market prices and would be horribly offended to find there is a market!

It will be completely unsurprising if Cane is her first and last daddy. Lots of girls come and go in this. You just have to enjoy your baby while you can and for as long as you can. Im just starting on a new one myself and I am completely smitten by her. Took two years of good SBs before I happened upon my dream girl here at home in tier 2 (had plenty of those in various tier 1 cities - Vegas Miami London NYC Philly Buenos Aires) and Im glad I did. She got hit bad with COVID but shes recovered here a few weeks in. Excited to see her again soon.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2659391]Is he lucky he found an amazing girl on SA? I'the say no. You can absolutely find an amazing girl on SA. It's just a fuck ton of work. And I do believe there is skill in it as well. And with the right amount of work and skill you will absolutely find your girl. Is $250 lucky? Maybe a little but it's also because he cultivated a "real girl" not a pro (let's not have that conversation again!) and so she doesn't know market prices and would be horribly offended to find there is a market!

It will be completely unsurprising if Cane is her first and last daddy. Lots of girls come and go in this. You just have to enjoy your baby while you can and for as long as you can. Im just starting on a new one myself and I am completely smitten by her. Took two years of good SBs before I happened upon my dream girl here at home in tier 2 (had plenty of those in various tier 1 cities - Vegas Miami London NYC Philly Buenos Aires) and Im glad I did. She got hit bad with COVID but shes recovered here a few weeks in. Excited to see her again soon.[/QUOTE]Since Op mentioned the US, call me a cynic, but I think American women, regardless of whichever race or ethnicity, are really not worth the trouble. Who is to say that the girl whom Op had BBFSCIP had no other motives. She might have believed that Op is rich from his SA profile. Maybe she wants to get impregnated and give birth. Now Op is on the hook for that child support in the US.

Playing the devil's advocate here. This may suddenly look very expensive.

[QUOTE=Ggekko2009;2659466]Since Op mentioned the US, call me a cynic, but I think American women, regardless of whichever race or ethnicity, are really not worth the trouble. Who is to say that the girl whom Op had BBFSCIP had no other motives. She might have believed that Op is rich from his SA profile. Maybe she wants to get impregnated and give birth. Now Op is on the hook for that child support in the US.

Playing the devil's advocate here. This may suddenly look very expensive.[/QUOTE]Hmmm mighty judgmental but I suppose how valid your points are depend on your experience. How many actual non-pro SBs have you dated in the US? (And by dated I mean had sex with as part of a meetup) That might help us understand the context of your comments.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2658130]We agreed to go to an event together, after which time we would have lunch and come back to my place. To make a long story short, we ended up fucking BBFSCIP! That's right no condoms, and I "nutted" inside of her! It's what the both of us wanted from the very start (she admitted that she wanted to fuck me on the first date too). Oh my God Steve! My boy Steve! WTF?

Now don't worry. Before we went there (bareback sex), it was established that she has solid birth control. She can't get pregnant. And we're both clean. So going forward, we will continue to not use condoms.[/QUOTE]Cane, I have not used SA in the USA since like 2018, but the women I got were down with BBFS. Thing is that I chose to cum outside. Even with pulling out, there were 2 incidents. Neither girl was malicious. Both were cool but after that, I decided that I had to be in charge of the birth control and watch the girls literally swallow the plan be, watch the hormone be injected, or get a record of the implant.

So yeah BBFSCIP was too much of a risk for me, and I had incidents. Glad you found it, and it is hard to get a gal in the USA on SA, more than now than ever, but she is not the only fish in the sea. Just be careful. You do not want to go through what I did.

[QUOTE=Ggekko2009;2659466]Since Op mentioned the US, call me a cynic, but I think American women, regardless of whichever race or ethnicity, are really not worth the trouble. Who is to say that the girl whom Op had BBFSCIP had no other motives. She might have believed that Op is rich from his SA profile. Maybe she wants to get impregnated and give birth. Now Op is on the hook for that child support in the US.

Playing the devil's advocate here. This may suddenly look very expensive.[/QUOTE]You don't have to be an American woman to have ulterior motives. Indeed, I would say that the risks would be even higher dealing with a poor girl from a developing country with no hope. My sugar baby is middle class with a job looking for some adventure and a little extra help. There are a lot of girls on there just like that. They aren't looking to have any babies. Besides, most of them are actually intelligent and not stupid enough to believe every guy's claim about how much money he has. They don't take stuff like that at face value, and of course they shouldn't. I do know that my sugar baby was really horny. She hadn't had any dick in her for awhile and needed some. That definitely helped LOL!

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2659505]Cane, I have not used SA in the USA since like 2018, but the women I got were down with BBFS. Thing is that I chose to cum outside. Even with pulling out, there were 2 incidents. Neither girl was malicious. Both were cool but after that, I decided that I had to be in charge of the birth control and watch the girls literally swallow the plan be, watch the hormone be injected, or get a record of the implant.

So yeah BBFSCIP was too much of a risk for me, and I had incidents. Glad you found it, and it is hard to get a gal in the USA on SA, more than now than ever, but she is not the only fish in the sea. Just be careful. You do not want to go through what I did.[/QUOTE]Her tubes are tied after having some kids.

I went to Ecuador in August mostly to go to the Galapagos but had a few stop over days in Guayaquil and then a surf trip planned to Montañita. After my success in Nicaragua I spun up SA in hopes of finding a girl to take out to Montañita with me. I had only a little time for meet and greets and would have to get lucky to find a girl that would say yes and then take the risk of traveling with them with limited experience.

My strategy in this situation was straight honesty in the profile and messaging girls about what I was looking for. Messaged every girl that at all appealed to me. I corresponded with about 12, got 4 to WhatsApp and met 2 in person.

One I took with me to Montañita the other ended up in my hotel room between other mongering activities. Now these two girls ended up being more GND types. They were maybe 6's. One was mid 20's working in a nonprofit and when we met in a park for coffee she was nervous because she didn't come all made up and with heels. She had an average face and a few extra pounds but still young and healthy. I like. Diversit in my women as long as they aren't gordita. She spoke english and we had a lovely chat. She agreed to come over to my place later as she had something she had to do like a normal person. She came over and though nervous we had some wine and started making out. The problem was I had a WG arriving in short order and as it got hot and heavy her inhibitions were down and she wanted me to fuck her. I made a call and told her "let's wait until next time" and shuttled her out the door.

Based in all our convo and chemistry she agreed to come with me to Montañita for 3 days. We took the bus together and I booked a nice cool surf hostel where we showed up as a couple. It turns out that this girl was highly sexual. If I even touched her she immediately wanted full sex. It was like having a sex vending machine. I would wake up, go surf come back kiss her on the cheek and she is pulling me into bed. I would brush but her in the apartment and we were then making out. She was shy. Even after we had sex for 2 days multiple times she still was shy about me seeing her naked. Turns out she was bisexual and had been with a girlfriend and just gotten out of a relationship. It really ended up like having a girl next door girlfriend for 3 days that was just really enjoying sex. We still stay in touch and she talks about the magical 3 days we spent together. Just a completely different experience and feeling than the WG sessions I also did. Personally I will trade off on the looks scale for this sort of genuine experi nice in a heartbeat.

Second girl was a younger college student. Also a 6 but young and inexperienced. Nervous. I'm took her to breakfast, met again for dinner when we went and made out in my apartment. Then when I came back to fly out we met again for dinner and she agreed to come up to the room. She had one other SA relationship with an older Ecuadorian guy that would just take her out to dinner and I think she had sex with him once. I would guess based on our interaction she had sex maybe with one or two other people, probably bad sex in high school. So everything we did was pretty new to her. I don't think anyone had really gone down on her before or if so not well. She was giving head and pushed her deeper until she gagged. That was new for her and she was trying to figure out if she liked it and was also worried about what I thought. So we did 3 rounds of this through out the evening with me just softly pushing her boundaries. A little finger in the ass. A little light slap on the ass. She loved it all. I stay in touch with her too and about every few weeks she sends me a video of her playing with her breasts or pussy unprompted.

These are the sort of different experiences I have managed to track down on SA. I think I have been lucky in terms of the efficiency with which I found these TBH. I don't mind meeting an connecting with these girls on a somewhat more real level even if things don't work out. A little sincerity seems to go a long way. I am in my mid forties, been married for 25 years, and am just a nice guy. They seem to respond to that. Neither of these girls asked for anything other than me paying for the trip, dinners etc. I think I may have given them some generous taxi money or something but honestly I remembered feeling that in both cases it would have felt awkward to them to "pay the". Neither saw themselves that way and seemed to be using SA more like a dating site.

So hope this is helpful.

Hey guys, Could we all try to tag a city or country for more reference in our posts? Because Info from USA vs. S. America vs. Europe are much different. I know I sometimes don't. It does help.

So a recent date here in Medellin turns out to be a tourism student. Funny as hell with amazing nipples. We will continue to meet and she has friends. The best kind of introduction. I will post more with photos, was just killing time before a nap. LOL.

[QUOTE=DonCarlos1234;2659717]Hey guys, Could we all try to tag a city or country for more reference in our posts? Because Info from USA vs. S. America vs. Europe are much different. I know I sometimes don't. It does help.

So a recent date here in Medellin turns out to be a tourism student. Funny as hell with amazing nipples. We will continue to meet and she has friends. The best kind of introduction. I will post more with photos, was just killing time before a nap. LOL.[/QUOTE]Let's catch up. Your inbox is full.