Two different types of sex
I don't think comparing relationship sex to sex with prostitutes on a qualitative level is possible.
For me they have been / are very different qualitative experiences. For me, when judging my sexual experiences on a qualitative basis, sex with a prostitute has on average never been better than sex that I've had within a relationship. I understand that my opinion may be a unique one. It represents my biases, personal preferences and paradigm that I bring to the table when filing the after action report and conducting the debriefing. But that does not mean that I haven't had some excellent sexual experiences with prostitutes that, on a qualitative basis, was sexually satisfying also. It's just not possible for me to compare them. Because in my mind (which one is exercise left to the reader) they are very different types of experiences.
If had to grade the sex on a strict quantitative basis, I'm not entirely certain that relationship sex was / is more expensive than sex with prostitutes on a cost per orgasm basis, especially if my experiences and data was sorted by country where the action took place. This is because the Dominican Republic has some unique characteristics that allow you to have an ongoing sexual relationship (if you live here) for well within the costs (on a per orgasm basis) that others spend having sex with prostitutes on an ad hoc manner. Let me rephrase that for the inevitable critics that will read and comment. This is because the Dominican Republic has some unique characteristics that allow me to have an ongoing sexual relationship (since I live here) for well within the costs (on a per orgasm basis) that I have spent having sex with prostitutes on an ad hoc manner.
Are you happy now? LOL!
Villa vs hotel for first timers
I will be going to Sosua soon with some other guys. None of us have ever been there. They are insisting on staying in a villa a mile or two outside of the main scene and possibly renting a car. Sounds like a bad idea to me but they think it will be nicer, more relaxing, etc. At a villa. A few questions:
1. How easy will it be to get back and forth WITHOUT renting a car (walking, taxis, etc.)?
2. If we rent a villa which neighborhoods should we stay in?
3. Would it be better for one of us with a "white" sounding name to arrange the villa? One of the guys heard that there could be problems reserving if we sound too ethnic.