Looking for a fellow monger (S)
In Sosua, next month looking for a good wing man, friends, to share experiences with.
The positive impact of mongering
[QUOTE=Giama;1979491]Yeh, I guess because I had no clue about how sosua was in 90's, and 00's. What I don't know don't hurt me, I had a fantastic time. I'm glad I found it I had never met a dominican so you could say I stumbled across it.
It was my first mongering holiday.
Its made me a more focused person back home in my city, I work, invest and stack my money. I no longer have to put up with any nonsense from any woman in my city, or make time for any bullshit, I'm even more selective now. So its made me a better business man, I no longer need to chase. That is almost priceless.[/QUOTE]I feel much the same way as you. I got divorced a year and a half ago, and in the last days of my marriage, I immediately met some new girls who wanted to fuck. One was a widow and mom of two kids, who was amazing in bed, but lost interest in me after 3 weeks because I was not actually divorced yet. Another was a girl I had lusted over when I was in my early 20's, but she turned out to be a nut case who scrambled my brains worse than my wife. Horny to be sure and she was making big money. She was a doctor. But she was single for a good reason. After the divorce was final I bumped into a wannabe cougar who assumed me to be a younger man (I am in my late 50's but often assumed to be in my early 40's). She soured on me after about three weeks (again) even though things were going well between us. I went to visit an old friend in Berlin and when I arrived, I got a text from her saying she could not be my girlfriend because blah blah blah. She actually waited until I was in the air en route to Europe before she sent that. Again, she was single for a reason. But, I forgot her name promptly, because I started mongering in Berlin (a city with a great mongering scene that is not appreciated by the FKK crowd, but is the most sexualized city in Germany.) Had to check out Colombia and Spirit Airlines had a great deal ($218 round-trip) to Medellin at a time when the COP was weak against the USD. Hey, it still is weak against the $, so I suggest you check it out. Made it to Thailand at the end of last month. My head is still spinning from 9 days there. Put, that on your list, or at least check out somewhere in Asia. It was my first trip to Asia, but it won't be my last!
Yes, you get more focus when you delete the local women and the dating scene from your life. And yes, you are right. I focus more on retirement investing, and have made some important career moves after being in limbo during the last years of my marriage. I try to plan two mongering trips a year. A long weekend someplace here in the Western hemisphere. And a much longer overseas vacation. This takes money, but it also has caused me to plan, to budget and in general, manage my finances better.
Meanwhile, I moved in with my brother after I divorced, since he has a 3-bedroom house and he is gone most of the time. He has been occupied with a high-maintenance girlfriend, who treats him like shit. This is an on and off relationship. She is beautiful, to be sure, and works for a major airline so they can fly around the world if they like. But, she makes him pick up the tab on everything when they travel, and I sense his finances are being stretched though he was normally the guy who was flush with cash and money to burn. I've tried to convince him he should go on a trip with me, but he finds the whole idea of mongering a bit much. Still stuck in his old-fashioned notions of living happily ever after with the woman he loves. And in the meantime, he has got nothing done in the past three years, because he is at the beck and call of his bi*tch. I have tried to help him with home improvement projects (I actually worked construction on the homes in this subdivision when I was fresh out of high school), so he can put his house on the market (he wants to move closer to work and can realize a nice profit on the sale of his home), but he is too busy running around, wasting time and money on his girlfriend, when they are together. When they are apart, he goes out clubbing with his pals, drinks too much expensive liquor at bars, trying to pick up stray pussy. He has little success at that, though he is an attractive, solvent and good-natured guy. Overall, he is wasting his time and not getting anything done.
Oddly enough, he has not expressed any interest in what I did on my trip to Thailand. He hasn't asked me a single question about it, or showed any interest in seeing my travel photos. His friends are very curious and want to know about my mongering adventures. But, my brother? I think he is truly afraid to see what he is missing.