From Friends on the ground
My buddy is using City Lights as his new spot. It is filled with Haitian girls who are giving great service. My friend who is usually conservative has gone a little wild. He is raving about the quality of the girls. He informed me that tonight he is going for a Blanca Dominican. It is still raining everyday but the pussy has him motivated.
December 2016 Trip Report
I was debating whether or not to write this report, considering it was my first trip to Sosua and there are so many experienced mongers on this forum happy to share their tips, gleaned from numerous trips over many years. I decided in the end that it is the right thing to do, as I had benefited greatly from the information I was given, and it's only thanks to ISG that I had such a great trip. So, I'll jot down a basic report, peppered with my do's and don'ts, in the hope that it will enhance some else's trip. It will be elementary to the experienced monger, but I'm hoping a newbie or two will find some of it enlightening. If in the unlikely event that an old dog learns a new trick here, I'll be delighted.
I started typing IMHO after many of the paragraphs, then decided it looked silly, better to just add my disclaimer upfront. So here goes. Everything in this report is my humble opinion based on a short trip and supported by information gleaned from ISG members and chats with other mongers during my stay. Yes, I banged many chicas during my stay, but the number is probably a drop in the ocean relative to more experience mongers, some of whom I expect will disagree with my assumptions and generalizations. Ultimately, this is me sharing the mental notes I made for myself for future trips.
Okay, the basics first.
I went for 4 days /4 nights over the Christmas weekend. I was to learn that this is one of, if not the, quietest time of the year, as most of the girls stay home with their families. Nevertheless, as will become apparent, I was never left wanting, I just had a smaller pool from which to make my selection.
I made an apparently typical newbie mistake and booked an airbnb. Complete waste of money. One of the great pleasures of Sosua is the bold nature of the sex / prostitution scene, the pure joy of having to show no restraint in enjoying the carnal tendencies built into all of us, but which we are conditioned to suppress in everyday life. Chatting up any girl who takes your fancy (as long as she is not walking with another man, and smiles back to acknowledge that she's in the game, you don't want to get cracked over the head with a glass bottle, or worse, by a jealous boyfriend or protective father) regardless of how far out of your league she would normally be considered, knowing that the pesos in your pocket say you can fuck her if you want. The ability to simply point and fuck, meaning you can walk a few feet from your hotel anytime of the day or night, pick a girl, take her to your room and fuck her. So, having to then sneak the girl into your apt, only to be caught and risk negative airbnb feedback etc, defeats the purpose of the trip.
Although most of my first night's activities have been covered in a previous post, I'll recap briefly. My airbnb was on the same street as Sosua Sunrise, so at the heart of the mongering scene. I arrived in the evening, checked in, put my stuff away and headed straight out. I hadn't gotten more than a few steps before I was propositioned by an attractive local girl. I negotiated her down to 1,000 pesos, took her to the room and promptly found out that she was barely worth even that much. Went back out and headed to the massage shop I'd passed earlier, where I'the been offered a massage by a really cute girl sitting outside. She was still there, I negotiated her down to 1,000 pesos for 40 minutes, including fondling and happy ending. Ended up with closer to 25 minutes but what a 25 minutes! Massage was fantastic, super girl, great attitude and smile, no objections to any of my fiddling and ultimately a very masterfully administered happy ending. Headed out later for the 3rd time, picked up another attractive looking chica for 1,000 and took her back to my place. What a disaster! First of all she was wearing a corset, which she'd stuffed herself into in order to appear shapely under a sexy dress. Once the dress came off, to quote Camille Paglia on Mariah Carey, she looked like "a splitting sack of over-ripe cantaloupes". Service was acceptable. Once I'd nutted she offered me a massage, which I took her up on. It consisted of her rubbing my back for 3 minutes, not exactly the Champneys experience, but then again I'd invited her back because of her tits and arse, not her massage skills. Anyway, this is where it started to get a little hairy. As she's getting dressed she says to me "propina" which I quickly learned means tip. During the negotiation I'd discussed services and said mil pesos, then said "and massage" as if to include it, to which she replied "si si mil pesos" as if yes, it's all in the thousand pesos we agreed. Well this ambiguity came back to bite me in the arse when I made it clear how quickly a propina would be forthcoming. She claimed that we agreed 1,000 for usual services and 1,000 for the massage, so she wanted 2,000 or she was calling the police. I called her bluff and told her to call whoever she wants. She proceeded to dial someone and speak in a manner which made me suspect it wasn't the police. I didn't know how pimps work there and didn't fancy getting shanked on my first night for the sake of a few dollars, so started negotiating. Managed to kick her out with a 200 propina, so 1,200 total. A cheap education! Anyway, another good reason to stay in a monger friendly hotel. They don't pull this shit when the security guard with a shotgun slung over his shoulder is holding their cedula (identification).
On day 2 of my trip, following the advice given on here, I moved to Sosua Sunrise. Great monger friendly hotel. It's not the Ritz, but you're not shagging $600 an hour hookers, so it's more than adequate. Just remember that any girl you want to bring in with you must have cedula.
Writing a report on my activities once I moved to Sosua Sunrise would just be providing wank material. Suffice it to say that I sampled every kind of pussy I fancied over varying lengths of bookings.
I will just write some of the highlights and lessons learned.
One of the many benefits to staying at a monger friendly hotel, is meeting fellow mongers. I met one at breakfast the first morning and we proceeded to hang out and swap notes (and even a chica) for the rest of the trip. In addition to the obvious benefits of learning new things and having someone to go and pick up chicas with, unless you're there for less than 48 hours, there will be downtime, so it's great to have a mate who you can simply go for a beer with, and chat without having to worry about cover stories etc. I met plenty of friendly blokes, so if this is your first trip, don't be shy to ask to join someone at breakfast or dinner if they're sitting without a chica, they'll usually be happy for the company. You'll meet some great people and learn a lot.
Stomachs. The chicas start having children at a very young age, and it's not uncommon to meet a chica in her 20's with 3 kids. If they've had a cesarean, they will have a long, extremely unsightly scar across their stomach. I therefore found that the chicas with nothing to hide have their stomachs on display. If their stomach is covered, they will often be hiding seriously stretched out / flabby stomachs, or the aforementioned scar. Of course this is not always the case, but if it is likely to put you off, your best bet is to pick up a girl whose stomach is on display.
Time means nothing to short time chicas that you have no history with. It's all about pops (leches to use the local term, which I find a little odd). You can agree two hours, but if you haven't discussed how many times you plan to shag her, she'll strip down the moment she walks into the room and do everything she can to make you cum as quickly as possible, after which, the booking is over. You need to be clear about time, pops, activities and money (including tips) upfront, to prevent her taking advantage of you. Although, if you agree a propina for good service, she's banked it in her mind, so you have to expect to pay it, regardless of the quality of her service, and don't assume she'll improve her service to earn it.
On my last morning I had an interesting experience. I was at breakfast with my wingman when a cute local chica showed up outside the hotel. I ditched my breakfast and my mate and promptly went over to negotiate what would likely be my last bit of fun before heading home. She agreed to 1,000 and up to my room we went. As usual, she was naked before I had a chance to close to door, had a quick wash and straight into the action. She started giving me the best blow job I'the had in Sosua and probably one of the best blow jobs I've ever had. It was outstanding! Half way through she stops and says she's done, I've had as much as 1,000 buys me. Like fuck she's done, I'm enjoying this way too much. I quickly offered her an additional 500 and back to heaven I floated. Once we'the finished shagging she starts harassing me for a propina. I told her she's getting 500 more than we agreed downstairs and she should be happy with that. She starts getting mad at me calling me cheapy cheapy etc. She goes into the bathroom to clean up, comes out with a dazzling smile and asks how long I'm in town for. I lie and tell her next week, so she checks my room number and asks what time she should come tomorrow. An hour later I was walking back to the hotel when I hear "George, George" I turn around and guess who. She wants another session. My conclusion is, it's all a game to them, an act to extract as many pesos as possible, but ultimately they'll take whatever you offer and give you a good service for it. If I book a one hour session in the UK, on the assumption that I'm getting 2 pops, but find out after the first pop that the girl has no intention of offering the second, it's not worth trying to talk her into it, because even if she does capitulate her attitude will be shit. Over here, she would happily have taken 1,000/1,500 with no propina and gone for another round and, most importantly, done it with a good attitude, despite having pouted and called me cheapy cheapy a moment earlier.
To prices. Based on my discussions with the other guys I met, I seemed to be getting a decent rate. I paid 1,000 for most of my short time sessions and between 2,000 to 3,000 for the longer / overnight sessions. I paid $15 for the taxi from the airport to Sosua, when the going rate is apparently $25. I know this is a sex forum, not a negotiation school, but I'll tell you how I approached it and maybe some of you will same some dosh on your next trip. My bottom line was I was prepared to walk away. I did this at the airport, I had numerous people offering me a 25 ride, but I dismissed them all with an exasperated wave of my hand and shaking of my head, while walking away. One of them chased me and asked how much I want to pay. I said $15, he tried to negotiate me up, so I carried on walking, he immediately says okay okay $15. Took all of 2 minutes to save $10. Ultimately, the number of taxis outnumbered the arriving passengers 20-1, so you're in control. I did the same with chicas, I got my first session for 1,000 so figured that was the going rate and I wasn't going to pay more than that, unless she was something very special. I found the girls opening offer was usually around 4,000. I'the counter with 1,000, they'the say no way, I would turn to go, they would make a last attempt to get a little more but when they realized I wasn't going to budge, they went for it. Same principle with chica to monger ratio applies. You're almost guaranteed a shag, they could easily go home with no cash at the end of the night, which might mean their kids don't eat the next day; ergo, you're in control.
The only problem with this approach is you will likely go home with a regret or two. I have two. I went out in the evening on a mission to take a girl back for TLN (todo la noche / an all night session) I met a girl who ticked all my boxes, I really wanted to bang her, but she said she had to leave at 2 am, she couldn't do TLN, so like an idiot, I let her go, assuming that with the whole evening ahead of me I'the find an equally exciting girl who was available for TLN. Alas, I didn't. I ended up taking back a girl who promised me till 4 am but ended up laying me twice and pissing off (just to back up the assertion I made earlier about cheapy cheapy, this girl tried to leave after the first shag, I convinced her to stay for another, and her attitude was top notch).
My second regret is a girl I met at Bourbon Street (girls are only allowed in if they spend money, otherwise they have to be invited in by a man, so there are plenty of girls sitting there nursing a beer or an orange juice). I was sitting with my wingman when I spotted a cute local girl sitting at a table by herself. I invited her over and offered her a beer, not knowing that she'the already ordered herself some wings. She ate through her wings drank her beer and we started negotiating rates. I felt her rate was too high (nothing extortionate, I think around 2,000, but higher than I felt I needed to pay) so I said no thanks. She asked for the bill, paid for her wings and left. At that point I felt like an idiot. Most girls there are money grabbers, if they can't get your cash for a shag, they try and extract as much as possible in drinks, food and anything else they feel they can get away with. The fact that she didn't even ask me to pay for the wings told me that she was one of the more decent girls there and I would have had a great time with her. A short while later she walked along the sidewalk in front of me with another bloke, I watched her amazing arse pass me by and could have cried. In hindsight, I should have at least taken her number, something my wingman is great at but I kept forgetting to do.
As it turns out, I had a miserable night (by Sosua standards). I ended up taking home a girl from the bar under Classicos (sorry, can't remember the name) who promised to stay till 5 am with mucho fuckey fuckey. First round of fucky fucky was great. I had her leaning over the balcony, facing the pool, shouting si papi, si papi, me gusta (sorry fellow guests if I she woke you) while I was banging her from behind. Once that was done though, she decided to go to sleep. I promptly woke her up, paid her the full agreed amount and kicked her out, so I could go back out and get another chica. She also had the aforementioned unsightly scar, which I didn't much like.
A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the Bush has never been more apt. Although it could simply be because it was so quiet, so at another time of the year I would have found the illusive chica of my dreams later in the evening.
Although the first regret wasn't related to money, it was still caused by me sticking to my guns and not being flexible. So I would just say, even if you're going to take a hard line with your negotiations, know when to back down. The chica will happily take your renewed offer and shag your brains out, regardless of how your first round of negotiations went. It's all business to them, and should be to you too.
Something which worked for me on occasion was negotiating two rates, one for short time and one for TLN, with the understanding that I'll decided after the short time which option I'm choosing. It does a few things. 1. Keeps them on their toes for the first session, because they're desperate for the rest of the money. 2. They don't rush the first session as much as they usually would, because they figure there's a good chance they're anyway staying for the night. 3. Makes them a little more flexible on the short time rate, because they assume you'll take the TLN if they're good.
Sosua is full of Haitians. Although I'the never considered going with black girls before and always fancied the Latina look, I'm a convert. I find them to be a lot more willing, submissive, friendly, seemingly genuine and likely to deliver what was agreed without any hassle. They're also a lot cheaper. Just much easier going from negotiation through to completion. You feel like they're happy doing what you've discussed for the price agreed, not trying to outsmart you by extracting additional money or getting away with a lesser service. There's a lot to be said for being able to disengage your brain and just enjoy the fuck, which I can't do properly with the local girls, where I'm always trying to think one step ahead to make sure I don't get screwed. I had one TLN, thank you Prince Charles (Pooter), and one on the short time / TLN option, both were outstanding and girls I will definitely try and get hold of on my next visit. Granted, the size of the subject pool from which I've extrapolated this data would not meet Harvard standards, but this is the Dominican Republic, so standard are a lot more lax.
Okay, a couple of notes for the newbies.
1. I think a sim card is very useful if you're going to be taking numbers from chicas or want data for WhatApp / browsing / Google maps when out and about. Most decent places have Wifi, but not everywhere. Orange charged me 100 pesos for the sim and 250 for 1 gb data and some minutes / texts. Pittance.
2. The chicas don't have condoms, so on your first day, when you go to the local supermarket to get yourself the sim card, beers and water, get yourself some condoms and lube.
3. Don't pre pay, ever. Very few will ask, but whatever the circumstances, tell them to fuck off. No one pays upfront there, don't be the person who thinks with his dick and end up getting screwed (not in the good way).
Okay, I think that's me done. Can't wait for my next trip, when I hope that all the data I gathered this trip will mean an even more enjoyable time.
