Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=Mahku]Hey, don't knock God-fearers! Part of the reason for that fearfulness is what they've done, are doing, and will do. Some girls I've been with in the last few days are feeling more fearful, hehe.[/QUOTE]True, Mahku. There are God fearers and god fearers. The second group actually to be preferred, since they are the perfect balance between lust and virtue. :)
But some fear just to much. During a couple of trips I met one 18 year old absolutely adorable girl that unfortunately was fearing god to such an extent that she would not go pass jerking me off while I sucked her puffy tits. Innocent and dead certain that her fanny was closed until after she has heard the church bells. Her mind was not ready. Her body was, making her jeans all damp in the crutch. Sometimes even wet all through the layers of cloth, but God had a firm grip of her. Or rather has since I probed her some days ago on Yahoo. She suggested I would buy her a Mc Donalds (yes the whole restaurant) and then she would open up like virgin Mary did for God. But it would be quite nice encounters anyway. We would lay on bed. Me with a pulse rushing and fighting the urge to just rip of her panties and run away with them as a trophy to sniff when feeling suicidal in my office in icy hell. During those afternoons in MyHotel we where slowly exploring the world of sex. Her body shaking in excitement and her pulse pumping endorphins, making her eyes all glassy and her teen age nipples erect. And then her small hand on my hard T Rex finishing the job in minutes. Only to be followed by an endless dwelling on the importance for me to embrace both Jesus and God during the remaining minutes of her visit.
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In looking not just for sex or short time liasons, I have found that the quickest way to separate women interested in YOU from those interested in what you CAN DO for them, is to simply tell them you're not coming to their country.

This is a very quick way to cut down on the flood of contacts from DIA, the majority of whom won't waste time talking to you, and chat fees, if they think you're not coming there to rescue them.

These women are in he*ll for all intents and purposes. Most of them are poor, have no prospects (especially if over 30) and are living in a really bad country, the Philippines. They are desperate to get out of there or to find some rich guy to raise their pathetically poor standard of living.

If you're looking for love the best thing you can do is change you paradigm as many have advised here, and just go for short time sex and companionship, or to tell them you're not coming there, in which case only the ones that really like YOU and not what you can do for them will continue to chat with you.

Further, of the hundreds of women I have chatted with in the Phil, very few can offer anything to contribute to the relationship beyond cooking, cleaning and sex. Why should the man be expected to fully support her also be asked to help with her family? Despite the Filipina's very sweet demeanor in contrast to all American C***ts, it's really a bad deal to get hooked up with most of these women. Once you do she will restrict your freedom, and exhibit other bad qualities of the wife: jealousy,nagging, etc.

Agree? Disagree? No problem, am open to discussion or a change of mind, if you can present convincing evidence otherwise.

[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone]....................Further, of the hundreds of women I have chatted with in the Phil, very few can offer anything to contribute to the relationship beyond cooking, cleaning and sex.......[/QUOTE]

It's a good line TCO and mostly your statement is around 95% correct but, as with everything, there are always a few exceptions to the rule.
Probably most guys are looking for one of those women in the elusive 5%.
But your point is good to keep in mind by those who trawl through DIA at al.

A girl in Cherry Blossoms sent this to me today:
[quote].if your looking only for a girl that can give you baby first,It's better don't waste your time to chat with me ok.....You better find a baby maker...I don't like a guy like that[/quote]Seems like a sensible girl! But I want one of those "Baby Makers"! haha

TCO, I think you are a cynical and jaundiced man.

I am one of those who has been looking for true love in the Phils for quite some time..

And I have found it.

In fact, I have found four suitable women.

All are basically self sufficient. Three have never asked for a cent. One has asked for help to relocate to take up a job offer. All are reasonably well educated and can carry a decent conversation, and they are good company.

All in later 20's early 30's. I could take them anywhere, in any company, and they would carry themselves OK.

So, they are there. But hard to find. And I have had to resist the temptation to just go for the easy root. It has meant a lot of research, communication, but worth it in the end.

Pearls. Keepers.

G

[QUOTE=Gangles]I am one of those who has been looking for true love in the Phils for quite some time..

And I have found it.

In fact, I have found four suitable women.

G[/QUOTE]You found true love? Or you have 4 lined up? Its not possible to have both.

As a side interest, I have been doin some research on this issue.

Statistically, Korean penis is about one inch shorter than white American.

But there is cnsiderable variation in size. When I quizz some of the more senior bar girls/waitresses/mamasans, they say that the Korean customer can vary in size from small to very large. Much like westerners.

So I think thaqt it would actually be difficult for bargirls to distinguish that asians are smaller. Maybe not so many really big schlongs.

From a statistical viewpoint, if we assume a skewed normal distribution, we get one bell curve for each racial type. And any two bell curves will mostly overlap, with the only difference being the tails at teh high end of teh size table.

I was watching a short porn video from YouPorn this afternoon, and the guy was black American, hung like a horse. So his member would fall in the far end of the tail, because there may be only a few hundred like him in a population of millions of black American men.

Average length for caucasian Americans is 6", black Americans, 6.5", no figures fro chicano Americans. Nor all the other races in the American melting pot.

Italian caucasians are about 1" longer than American on average..

Koreans, who are racially pure, average is about 1" shorter than caucasian American.

Very complicated.

But always an interesting topic of conversation.

G

irish23 says in her profile that she is "strict". I ask her what she means and she says she does not know. I say that she wrote that in her profile and she again says she has no idea. This happens over and over again--they write things and seem unaware of what they have written and express surprise or confusion when I ask them about what they wrote in their profile. Yet on tagged many seem to have many interests and sophisticated (relative to the impression one could form on DIA) tastes. Could this be a language issue?

[QUOTE=Westcoast1]You found true love? Or you have 4 lined up? Its not possible to have both.[/QUOTE]


Nice point WC

Cuba Tourist, there is the possibility that she didn´t even write her profile. There are some ¨helpful¨guys (even at least one ISG forum member), who write the profiles for girls they know and even regularly check out the messages the chicas receive.

Yes, I know and I think that is OK for someone to help out in that way. But this profile was not written by Greg London--his work is much better. But maybe she copied it from another girl. Still, you would think she would know what it said!

Another one writes she would like to travel but cannot name anywhere she would like to go. New York, Paris....say something!

By the way, we spoke on the phone when I was in Lima but never got together. Maybe next time. I had an amigos.com girlfriend there. Not so pretty and 10 pounds overweight but nice and fun.

Well I'm going to meet up with one who says in her profile that in addition to playing the usual badminton she also enjoys reading and playing scrabble. Should be interesting.

Hope to see you next time you make it down here.

[QUOTE=Mephisto666]If one is looking for love why not seek it from a woman of a similar background such as yours? Why not seek love from a western woman who is and comes from a family that is financially sound? This way you remove all doubt if she really loves you or not.

There are millions of Filipinas located in industrialized nations all over the world if Filipinas are just your cup of tea.

This internet sex forum perpetuated myth that all western women are fat and display rancid behavior is ridiculous.

As you have predicted they will for the most part display all the characteristics of western women and you will be expected to shoulder the economic burden of this cohabitation.[/QUOTE]

It is not an accident that there are so many dating sites designed to match western men with foreign ladies and few for women seeking foreign men.

Western women have earned their bad reputation over time. In the USA the culture supports single women, they can even get pregnant and raise children on their own. Men in USA and similar countries have little value to western women EXCEPT if they are much higher in income and can offer monetary/material incentives.

The morals of USA are such that there is no emphasis on loyalty or monogamy. Unless you are substancially above a woman in income here, you will be mostly ignored. The women in the USA are spoiled brats, most of them.
They talk and act like men. The other exception is if you are exceptionally handsome, then you will be sought for sex primarily.

I have been both rich and poor here. When I was rich it was easy to get women but the problem was finding any quality. Now I am poor and invisible to most women here.

With respect to Filipinas, I guess you cannot have your cake and eat it too.
If you look to women who are educated, speak English well and have some income, you will get western knockoffs, not much different in their behavior and attitudes than American women-they want equal rights and power.

If you look toward the poorer Filipinas you will have more feminine, obedient and less conflict, but then you won't get any contribution financially or in any other way than someone who keeps house.

As I said in the o.p., just having short time liasons for sex is looking better and better all the time, as I am unlikely to find what I am seeking, even in a country where I am comparatively rich.

[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone]
Men in USA and similar countries have little value to western women EXCEPT if they are much higher in income and can offer monetary/material incentives.

The morals of USA are such that there is no emphasis on loyalty or monogamy. Unless you are substancially above a woman in income here, you will be mostly ignored. [/QUOTE]

Don't be naive, man! It's the same in the Philippines...even worse.

Do you honestly think a 20 year old Filipina is genuinely attracted to some old white ex-military dude out of some "feminine" and "obedient" notion of romance? It's mostly about money too. The only difference is, a person of average means in America is considered almost a millionaire to women in the Philippines.

In fact, Filipinas are even money-grubbing. Their survival is literally on the line. I've never had an American lady friend ask me for money. The Filipina variety almost invariably will.

I used to also think that Filipinas are an improvement over American women. From personal experience, it's just wishful thinking. Here in America, if a girl likes me, it's likely because she genuinely has affection for me. In the Philippines, I constantly wonder if she likes me or my wallet.

[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]irish23 says in her profile that she is "strict". I ask her what she means and she says she does not know. I say that she wrote that in her profile and she again says she has no idea. This happens over and over again--they write things and seem unaware of what they have written and express surprise or confusion when I ask them about what they wrote in their profile. Yet on tagged many seem to have many interests and sophisticated (relative to the impression one could form on DIA) tastes. Could this be a language issue?[/QUOTE]

I think "strict" in this context is supposed to mean something akin to law abiding, doing what is told etc. She hears something like a strict teacher and then applies it to the person who is being constrained by the rules rather than the one who is imposing the rules.