Send me money, please send me money, you must send me money
[QUOTE=1Ball]It makes no sense to me whatsoever.[/QUOTE]
It makes no sense to me either. I have talked at length with guys who send regular money to their sweeties, and I am no wiser as to the logic of it. Surely it's better to let your sweetheart carry on doing her own thing until you are both ready to make a definitive move? Isn't this the normal way of romances? If she didn't want to wait, it wasn't really love, was it? Saved yourself from a lot of heartache.
[QUOTE=1Ball]But some of these girls are smart, very smart. I wonder how successful they would be if they took their smarts into the real world.[/QUOTE]
Quite a few, on a reasonably level playing field in a sponsor's country, are very successful, and many of the most successful ones are (as flagged up by D) arseholes who treat most of their fellow expat employees poorly.