Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

GoodEnough,
Athena is on Roxas in Pasay City.

If memory serves, it's next to another similar place called Miss Brunette. It's an overpriced place, cover charge of 800 pesos and barfines of 5,000 - 10,000 depending on what you negotiate with mama. The girl's fee is included in the barfine.

Not bad girls there, but you can do the same or better for less money.

Slickery,

A fair amount for those girls who say they love you and want you to send money would be a kick up the arse and out the door when you finally catch up with those thieving mercenary cows.

GE is right save your money for a ticket and then pay them for a bang and a BJ if they're hot and then show them the door and move on to the next one and the next and the next one and the next one etc.

GoodEnough,

I've read and enjoyed and learned from many of your posts.

Your comment:

"If the story is true, I hope the US State Department reads it and begins to require an intelligence test prior to the issuance of passports. No one this stupid should be allowed out of his house, let alone the country".

That just cracked me up. Next time I'm in the PI, I definitely hope I get a chance to meet you and buy you a drink.

CS

I met them on filipina heart. I reported them to the site and their profiles are gone but I am sure they will be back with another profile. I think I will take all the great advice I have been given and save my money for when I go there. If I find the girl to be to my likeing i will buy her gifts at that time.

Thanks again for the advice

Slickery

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Spitfire:

Thanks for responding with the location so quickly. I never knew there were places with bar fines so steep. It sounds like a good place to miss, so I will not go there.

My appologies if this has been asked before. There is no working seach feature on the site.

Can you buy GOOD or VERY GOOD (maybe American or Japanese) condoms in the PH? In Cebu? Especially the ultra thin or slippery slidy kind ?I'll be there for a very long time and can't get away with stuffing my whole suitcase full before I leave.

Thanks!

WL

The best condoms in the PI is made in Japan. The brand is OKAMOTO, just tell the drugstore you want the Point-Oh-Two (0.02mm) condom. it is the thinnest but really strong. However if you are caucasian, you might complain it is too tight for you.

I looked at this,

http: //www. michaelbeard. com/PageOneNew. html,

The one pic of him and the girl clearly shows that she is very young, and of questionable age, in his story it had about ten red flags: first was the families quick agreement to money, second was where there were at, third was the high price of the bar fine, ect ect and ect, and lastly to actualy see the grandmother beating her, which was probably because the grandmother was not getting any money and the girl was not hustling enough money from the guy.

After all of the above and having a cooling off period, then finding her back at the bar again. (Run! Forest, Run! )

I would have run home, but he went back to the barungay captain (most of these guys are crooks) and when he asked for the motorcycle and gave the guy a chance to leave? (Run! Forest, Run! )

I haven't always done the best for myself but I have not ever been this stupid.

I do know the majority of the poorer asian countries sell daughters into prostitution, its part of the culture thats happened for thousands of years, even in Japan daughters are sold.

I do think that was part of my exwife problem that she would not or could not admit too was that she had been sold by her family wether that was by her mother who is dead or her father who is still around is unknown. I would be willing to bet that allot of these girls are tweaked in the head, especially when the are from the poorer families.

My exwife used to comment 'My father never showed us his love'.

Columpuss,

Ref. the discussion in the photo thread. Everyone is different. You know best what makes you happy and what you want out of life, not me or other WSG members so you are going to have to decide yourself if you want to get married. My personal feeling is one should only seriously consider getting married if he is madly in lust with the girl (this won't last forever). Aside from lust they truly enjoy each others company, share like values and have good temperment, and they both want to raise a family. When people marry they are all pretty confident that their marriage will last forever; however about half don't. If you ever do decide to get married be sure to get a legal pre-nuptial agreement and keep it in a safe place. Good luck.

My advice to Columpuss,

If your looking for a wife try to stick by these guidelines:

If your worried that a girl will take you for your money, when dating her, spend nothing on her as if you had nothing. Then if she still is interested in you then she is in it for the money.
NEVER MARRY A CLUB GIRL. I can't express this enough, case in point, friend of mine married a girl that used to work in a club as a dancer, they got married and came to the states. She is for the most part a good person but she reverted back to being a stripper. This upsets him because she was going to school, working a normal job and just quit because its not the kinda life she is used too. Needless to say they are technically still married but she told him to find a girlfriend and shut her legs to him. Thats just one example, I have plenty.

If your determined to marry a foreign national, like I did, go for a girl that is not used to city life, of maybe a student(be careful with them too)Maybe even a slightly older woman or a girl that has a job like a hairstylist or teacher(something legit). The benefits of marriage varies, one benefit that I find to be the best is having children. But like Vchip said, only you can decide what it is you would like to do. This is just some suggestions, things i went by in choosing my wife. Ive been married for four years and have to kids, I dated my wife for about a year and a half before we decided to get married, I met her through a coworkers wife. Things have pretty much been great over the four years and ofcourse we have fights, everyone does, but other than that, its been great. But I still monger,LOL.

Rev333

My Advice:

As an alternative to getting married to a Filipina, consider buying a dog instead. The dog will be cheaper, more faithful, honest at all times, and will love you unconditionally. It will not be sending your money back to a range of others from the litter, will not be randomly fucking another dog who comes along with a convincing story, and will not be constantly moaning that it's been months since you bought her a new collar. Also, it's likely that the dog will have better manners and be less vicious.

I have made this point before, but it cannot be restated too many times. Unless you can find a Filipina from the upper 1% stratum of society here: one who is directly descended from the Spanish, has had an excellent education, and who grew up with real money, forget it. For the most part, the quality of university education here is not even equivalent to education at good high schools in the US or Europe, and the level of intellectual processing is between small and non existent. Even teachers here go through the equivalent of a mediocre two year community college in the US.

Unless you want a life partner who believes that soap operas are the highest esthetic attainment of human kind, and that magazines with lots of pictures are the avatars of great literature, stick with the dog.

GE

GE,

If that is how you see things maybe you'll never get married to a Filipina. You really don't have to anyways. %1 of the economic ladder?! That is certainly pushing it. Even if the odds are against me, I wouldn't consider a dog as an option anyways.

MasterBlaster

GoodEnough,

I have always thought your reports have been helpful and well balanced. Your last report on this page was, to say the least, narrow-minded and extremely ignorant and unhelpful. Was it tongue in cheek? Did I misread it? Ive been married to a Filipina for 25 years and have a great family in the Philippines who, although poor initially we have helped and built up a succesful business with them. They never asked for a penny but as a member of the family I felt obliged to do what I could. Am I the only one who has experienced this ? I doubt it. There are good and bad in every culture and I agree that the type of girls that most guys on this board will meet could well be as you describe. Hopefully anyone looking for a long term relationship will have the sense to look further than the bars and clubs we use in our leisure time.

FS

Thanks guys for the inputs

Maybe it's me but I haven't seen a happy married guy throughout my life and certainly not in my family or relatives'. Everything is picture perfect for the first few years and after that, the wife nagging, and the kids disrepecting. I guess marriage is a woman's thing, we usually get trapped. I think deep inside, we are dogs. We love to sniff, fuck then move on to the next. I've made up my mind. Love ya'll

Flying Scotsman,

Good E thoughts are not narrow minded at all those filipinas are terrible, I will be stupid to say all are bad but a good piece are. I met a girl who insisted on not using a condom a non bar girl I stayed with her for a while and I had known her for about 3 months before we got in bed at any rate I wanted to use a condom but she kept whining about it even when I told her its not safe so I gave in like dummy believing she was this sweet special little angel oh gullible me I knew all she wanted was a damn kid anyway the LBFM gave me chlamydia then told me after I informed her of this that if I didn’t marry her I can’t return to the Philippines(Vicious just like Good E described) cause while there she saw and I realized how popular foreign man are to those girls and I am 22 and in good health. Anyway go there have fun and leave, yeah there are good woman there just like also in my home country of America but tell me is it worth all the searching to find them?