Yeah I will definitely flat out and ask
[QUOTE=Sammon;2780243]Dateinasia does not like if your message says are you a ladyboy?
Tips,
1. Look at the height of the girl. If over 5 feet 5 inches it is most probably a ladyboy. Most Philippine girls are shorter.
2. Once you get her on WhatsApp you can directly ask. Most admit.
3. Do not rely on the pictures. They are photoshopped.
4. Excessive make up is a dead giveaway.
Having said all these I have been fooled by them lying and trying to get in my room. All the girls I meet first time I meet them downstairs and escort them. Some ladyboys do lie till I met them downstairs. I politely tell them I am not interested and walk away.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Goferring;2780334]5. The back 3/4 photo with "her" ass sticking out. More than one photo focussing on her ass is a give away.
6. High pressure sales techniques. If she is agreeing to everyone you ask and wants to meet now, then it's not a good sign.
7. The old adage "if it seems too good to be true, then it probably is".
8. Much easier to tell the truth face to face or via video than from photos. Run from anyone avoiding either of these before meeting. Broken cameras, bad room lighting, a bad voice because of the flu are all allerts.
9. When in doubt ask. 99% are truthful when asked directly.[/QUOTE]Yeah much thanks on the advice. Ima definitely put it to good use and hopefully avoid an awkard WTF moment.
[QUOTE=GDreams;2780339]Usually my third question is: Sorry to ask but are you a girl![/QUOTE]Yeah I was thinking about being direct as well but I just didn't want to offend no one and / or the culture by being so direct. But I do not want to wake up in the Cry Game so yeah Ima be polite as I can but ima ask straight out.
[QUOTE=Dg8787;2780371]Fears of LB's are over blown. Suck it up and move on. LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Goferring;2780400]Hope the OP doesn't take your suggestion too literally. 😱.[/QUOTE]Yeah I was thinking the samething. That suck it up and move on, MIGHT be a POOR choice of words for this particular conversation. Whats next, man up and swallow 🤢 🤣.
[QUOTE=RadicalGuy;2780313]Worst case scenario, you'll find out in your hotel room. "Those eyes! Those thighs! Surprise!" LOL.[/QUOTE]And that's something I do NOT want to happen. Think about it, you meet the so call female downstairs your hotel. You do all the normal checks and balances (make sure she's legal tender, have a good personality etc) as you may take her out to lunch. The vibe is good so you touching on her and she touching on you. You go in for a kiss to get on first base. Cool, she's down. Now you ready to go steal for 2nd and she's game. So now you're back to your room yall are going at it then all of sudden you reach to feel the pussy to feel something that's harder then chinese arthimetic. OOH HELL NO! And just like that you want to get mad because you just found out you've been kissing a dude the whole time BUT you have to be cool because remember this is not your country and the last thing I want to be in is a Filipino jail. So you calmly escort the ladyboy out and proceed to cleanse your mouth body and soul like Jim Carrey did in Pet Detective 😡 🤣.
[URL]https://youtu.be/H_v15nCtDnM[/URL]
Unless, of course, it was me
[QUOTE=Goferring;2780398]Hahaha. I've lost count of the guys who "accidently" hook up with a Bakla. . . . . Six times a trip.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CoolieHigh;2780534]Yeah I was thinking about being direct as well but I just didn't want to offend no one and / or the culture by being so direct. But I do not want to wake up in the Cry Game so yeah Ima be polite as I can but ima ask straight out.[/QUOTE]Probably this should go in the GI. Related story.
Years ago I went into a Brgy Hall. A nice gent was helping with my issue. He was busy for a good 10 minutes looking up information on his phone. As he was doing that I got bored and was looking thru my phone. Normally I would read the news or messages or such. I happened to be looking thru a folder of pics from several years prior. Another employee, an older gent walked over to introduce himself. As we were chatting, other workers also came over to listen in (just guessing that a foreigner in that Brgy hall is a rare occurrence). I was surrounded by 5 additional employees in pleasant banter. "Where you from?" The land of plenty. "How many years you come to Phils?" 15. And so on.
As it happened my phone was open to a pic of a girl from a few years before in a neighboring province, late-20's, that I was seeing previously when I rolled thru (her) town for a few days. Spicy, both in terms of looks and personality. Over several years I'd bonked her several dozen times, and posted her in the PG. The older gent finally saw the picture and asked to see it. He took my phone and upon his inspection, he declared: "Ladyboy".
Ah, no sir, that's a girl. "Its ladyboy". He passed my phone around to the others. All of them agreed: Ladyboy. Folks, do any of you know her? "No". You are basing that on one picture. Let me show you another. I showed them another picture. "Ladyboy". The only features that I could see that might make it appear so would be her long, skinny nose. Other than that, nothing. Finally one of the guys said he thought it was a girl.
"Sir what is your relationship with this person?" Well not that its any of your biz, but we were together until a few years ago. "With a ladyboy?" No, she's a girl. "Sir maybe you don't know what is a ladyboy". Ya, I know what that means. "But sir you didn't know at that time maybe". I knew at the time. "But sir the ladyboy can fool you". Yes, am aware. Fairly sure in my 50's that I know what the body parts look like fella. How would that happen? Was with her many times. "Maybe the lights is off in the room". Twenty or more times, with the lights on. With a woman who has 2 kids? The idea of a foreigner, visiting for more than a decade, traveling the smaller cities of Mindanao, doesn't know what a ladyboy is (or alternately can't spot one while she's naked -- 20+ times), is remote.
It was a discussion going nowhere. They weren't about to be disuaded. As I couldn't mention that I had poon pix, I finished my business there and moved on. Proof that its possible that anyone can be fooled, and in either direction.
