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So Shayla is my home girl crush hottie. I met her about a month ago (see prior report) and we danced the SA dance and became SBSD. Out of the 35 girls I've seen on Seeking they have virtually all been nice girls who I would see again. But only a few have slain me and she slays me big time.

Our second sex date was amazing, with a great dinner and period sex (very clean actually) culminating in BBFSCIP. Glorious. But then she got hit with COVID and hit hard. Like flat on her back out of work for three weeks hard. And I really thought I lost her because her texts went to nil and I had a hard time keeping her engaged. Thankfully she has bounced back and is my girl again.

We met up tonight at the same restaurant. Amazing food and fell right back into our easy vibe. After way too much food and some nice sake we made our way to the hotel a few blocks away.

Here's the short story. I have moved Shayla up to favorite sex partner all time. Wtf — did I say that out loud? Ok there are girls that give a better BJ or position X feels better. But for shared animal passion and making love like we mean it, Man you can't beat this girl.

We start out at the edge of the bed softly kissing. And this is a shared passion so we really enjoy this making out part. I push her on her back and start dry fucking her (fully clothed) while kissing passionately and grinding into her. You can tell by her body language and kissing and bunny squeaks that she is getting pretty hot and bothered.

I roll to bottom and pull her down on top of me. More making out and grinding with her letting out little cries when I jam my dick hard up against her pussy. She has on a loose top and no bra so I get my hands under and eventually push it up and get her tits in my mouth. She looooves having them sucked and I just know she's turning into a sloppy mess downstairs.

Somehow we manage to get my clothes off and her pants off but as a try to take off her red lace panties she objects and shows me they are crotch less — ready for action. So I roll her over and dive in DATY. We had not Datyed yet before and she seemed quite down. She remains the wettest girl I've ever been with and her pussy is amazing to lick and finger. She's totally open sexually and not shy about rubbing her clit or spreading her pussy lips wide for me. And she has an amazing juicy pussy. OMG.

Eventually we work around to Steve 2 and I get my dick in her mouth. I continue fingering and it feels epic. Her BJ is solid if not amazing but I love fingering with BJ so together it's awesome. Pretty soon tho I really got to fuck her because I am super worked up.

Last time we barebacked but that was on her period. I'm down for a repeat but with pullout but don't want to pressure her. I realize the easy way to make it her decision is put her on top! So we roll me on my back and her grinding atop me and making out like teenagers. Well that dick to pussy proximity works it's magic and she mounts up raw and fuck she feels amazing.

We fuck this way a long time and she goes through two strong Os. I have to pull out at one point to not shoot a load. Felt great. More fucking in mish. Did the Steve, where she got off good again, strumming her clit strongly as I pounded away. Eventually pulled out and finished things out after maybe 40 minutes with a quality CIM. Well it was a CIM improv. Once she realized I was cumming she took a shot or two in her mouth but then pulled it out letting a shot kinda hit her upper lip and drool down. I though she was kinda cheating the CIM but she sucked the remaining cum off my dick and swallowed it.

Sweet girl she is, she brought the cleanup washcloth and we snuggled amiably for another 40 minutes. She fell asleep for most of it and I would just marvel at how beautiful she is. Wow. I have scored big time with this one. Def smitten.

I've been talking to one girl who's been very direct and seems like a pro or semi pro. Messaged me first, quick to switch to text and not a lot of conversation. After I didn't respond two days ago, she texted me twice yesterday and when I responded asked if I wanted to have dessert. Have any of you met up with girls like this? I'm tempted since it sounds pretty straightforward and no dinner needed but maybe that's the wrong head thinking.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2667619]. Meanwhile, we guys so much as mention PPM, and we're under threat of being banned![/QUOTE]I wonder how seeking detects that. Do they wait for 'reports' from SBs complaining via the Report link?

It would be so easy to have something search through the text messages for PPM. So I don't think they have it automated.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2667619]..t. Meanwhile, we guys so much as mention PPM, and we're under threat of being banned![/QUOTE]I guess it is because it is considered as prostitution. They don't want to become the next backpage so it is not allowed.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2667736]I've been talking to one girl who's been very direct and seems like a pro or semi pro. Messaged me first, quick to switch to text and not a lot of conversation. After I didn't respond two days ago, she texted me twice yesterday and when I responded asked if I wanted to have dessert. Have any of you met up with girls like this? I'm tempted since it sounds pretty straightforward and no dinner needed but maybe that's the wrong head thinking.[/QUOTE]Totally a pro. But might not be anything wrong.

You guys ever see a profile from a girl who comes across as totally desperate? I avoid those types like the plague. I saw one last night where she's like "I lost my job and have two kids and I'm doing this because I need to feed my children. Please help"! I've seen a few like that. I'm on my last leg kind of stuff and please help me. If the person is for real, then I suppose like anything it could go good or it could go bad. But, my inclination is to stay away from anybody sounding too desperate. Where there's smoke there's fire, and a lot of problems I don't want to have introduced into my life.

So, I was checking with you all and asked tips earlier.

Here is my report. More to come.

I had a trip to Spain and chatted up some girls couple weeks ahead. One chick. Lets call her the. Had a great vibe. Couple other was ok.

I lined up the for a dinner appointment on a Saturday. Had another for Sunday but actually a backup. A 20 why. O for Monday. Planned to depart on Tuesday. So, one each day.

The and I had a good chemistry on chat itself. Met her on Saturday.

She guides me to restsurant and showed up 10 minutes late. Waited in the line with mask on. Good height and we chatted. Found a table. When she removed mask, gosh. I knew right there that she is the one. Super pretty. We have good food, chat about various things. Towards the end, I reach out to hold hands across table and she started stroking my palms in a way that I had a bulge in my pants. We then left the restaurant, walked to anotther bar. In the way, I casually out my arms around her waist and she responded in kind. We go to the bar have a few drinks and more slight touches, light kisses.

We got out of the bar and asked her what she wanted to do next. She said "maybe, go to your room? We took a cab and in the cab, she leans to kiss me gently. Once in room, I had some wine ready. We drink. And I just felt like freshening up. I excused myself. Came back and started kissing her. Gentle at first, and then gradually both our tongues intertwined. I was super hard. Pulled her tops off and dived right in on her nipples. She moaned and said "I want you inside me". I tease her more and she goes "do you have condoms? I said "do we need one?" And winked. She says she is clean and hope I am.

We made more. Kissing, licking and somehow, she ended on top of me and pulled my pants off. I was already hard and ready.

She climbs on top and takes me right inside. All way. Deeep inside. Super wet. Super smooth. We fucked like dogs for anotther 30 minutes. She in top, me on top, she on side. Eventually, she laid on her tummy and I entered from behind (not anal). While being inside, I nibble her ears, fuck her. She says go harder and deeper. It gets harder and deeper. . I pulled out and came all over her sweet ass.

I lay on top of her, make out, kisses and cuddles. We both then went for a shower. She washed me thoroughly while I washed her and played with her pussy and nipples. More fingering.

She knelt down, sucked me. A great blowjob. She kept at it and made me cum again in shower.

Then, we drank the rest of the wine, naked with each other. Hit the bed. She stayed overnight. At some point, she comes over to sleep on my chest.

Next AM, when we wake up both if us have a desire for each other. We start making out, and I have my morning wood. She slips her hand underneath. Plays with my dick while kissing me. Full on and back again. She goes on top and takes me all the way in. Somewhere during she says I love your dick. It makes me cum. We fucked for like 45 minutes. Shower again.

Then, we went for breakfast.

Unforgettable fucking. I intend to fly her to me in couple of weeks.

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2668070]So, I was checking with you all and asked tips earlier.

Here is my report. More to come.

I had a trip to Spain and chatted up some girls couple weeks ahead. One chick. Lets call her the. Had a great vibe. Couple other was ok.

I lined up the for a dinner appointment on a Saturday. Had another for Sunday but actually a backup. A 20 why. O for Monday. Planned to depart on Tuesday. So, one each day.

The and I had a good chemistry on chat itself. Met her on Saturday.

She guides me to restsurant and showed up 10 minutes late. Waited in the line with mask on. Good height and we chatted. Found a table. When she removed mask, gosh. I knew right there that she is the one. Super pretty. We have good food, chat about various things. Towards the end, I reach out to hold hands across table and she started stroking my palms in a way that I had a bulge in my pants. We then left the restaurant, walked to anotther bar. In the way, I casually out my arms around her waist and she responded in kind. We go to the bar have a few drinks and more slight touches, light kisses.

We got out of the bar and asked her what she wanted to do next. She said "maybe, go to your room? We took a cab and in the cab, she leans to kiss me gently. Once in room, I had some wine ready. We drink. And I just felt like freshening up. I excused myself. Came back and started kissing her. Gentle at first, and then gradually both our tongues intertwined. I was super hard. Pulled her tops off and dived right in on her nipples. She moaned and said "I want you inside me". I tease her more and she goes "do you have condoms? I said "do we need one?" And winked. She says she is clean and hope I am..[/QUOTE]Well! Seems like you took all of the advice to heart and used it well. Your own grand slam home run! However, you did leave out some key data. What was the "damage"? How much of your wealth did you part with for the privilege and the honor?

Hi guys,

Need some help.

I was trying to pay for the seeking premium membership as and the payments were declined.

I don't want to pay using my credit card.

Is there any way to make the payment.

Cheers and regards.

BE.

[QUOTE=Akibono;2667895]Totally a pro. But might not be anything wrong.[/QUOTE]I figured. Just curious if that should be a red flag right away.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2667992]You guys ever see a profile from a girl who comes across as totally desperate? I avoid those types like the plague. I saw one last night where she's like "I lost my job and have two kids and I'm doing this because I need to feed my children. Please help"! I've seen a few like that. I'm on my last leg kind of stuff and please help me. If the person is for real, then I suppose like anything it could go good or it could go bad. But, my inclination is to stay away from anybody sounding too desperate. Where there's smoke there's fire, and a lot of problems I don't want to have introduced into my life.[/QUOTE]Not the traits you wants in a SB and that's even if it's not a scam profile. For sure they will be asking for cash before you see her (or him).

Easier to just move on and put your savior traits where they belong.

Good point. Totally forgot that.

So, at the back of my mind, when I knew she was going to end up on my bed that night, I wanted to set "expectations" but somehow I also felt I did not want to lose the opportunity. Let things flow. Next day, after breakfast, when she was freshening up before leaving my hotel, I left 300 in an envelope beside her bag. I know she picked it up but did not check anything in frontof me (good sign).

We are still in touch (planning her trip to me). I asked her if she was happy with what I offered. She goes "I really like you. Whatever you offered is much more than what I wanted".

No talk about $. The way she said it, it looks like she is lookimg at me as total package while I am doing the same.

Honestly, for a quality girl like this, I would pay more.

This feeling of friends with benefits, no condom, texting each other. Escorts no longer appeal to me.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2668080]Well! Seems like you took all of the advice to heart and used it well. Your own grand slam home run! However, you did leave out some key data. What was the "damage"? How much of your wealth did you part with for the privilege and the honor?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BlackEyes;2668154]Hi guys,

Need some help.

I was trying to pay for the seeking premium membership as and the payments were declined.

I don't want to pay using my credit card.

Is there any way to make the payment.

Cheers and regards..[/QUOTE]The short answer is to use a prepaid Visa. I buy them at Kroger and get 2 x (or 4 x during promos) Fuel Points, plus miles on the card I use to buy the Visa.

Before you can reliably use them, you'll need to register the cards online, giving an address. The good news is that you don't need to register them with your real name or address, but you need to be consistent, using the name / address you register when paying for your membership. I just use my long deceased grandfather's name and address.

So, following up on my first report (more to come, as I had a week long fun).

After an amazing date with Miss the on Saturday evening, I had one on standby for Sunday. The idea was if things went south on Sat, I have Sunday for action. This lady seemed genuinely nice. Spoke little English but good enough for us both to communicate. However, Saturday evening the and I met at 9 PM, had dinner, then hung out at bar, then eventually, she and I were fucking each other till 2 AM. Then, we both fell asleep only to make love again at 8 AM. The left my hotel around 1030 AM.

Was pretty tired. I did some sight seeing, grabbed lunch and took a nap. Later in the evening, the backup lady was keen on meeting me but I knew it was not going to be a home run. She was more interested in knowing me. I was just so tired and did not have the energy for a dinner. Skipped it citing some excuses.

For Monday, I had a 20 why. O. Miss M. Lined up. She was going to college and was going to meet me for lunch at 2 PM. I had a nice restaurant booked. She said she was 20. I checked up age of consent in Spain and all good. I was also going to check her ID somehow before taking her to my room. While texting, she had told me that she has had sex only once in her life before (and that she was looking for a more mature man to "teach" her. How exciting!

We kept in touch, and once I reach the lunch place, her messages start reducing. I had a weird feeling but she did not show up. I still went ahead, had a nice lunch, few drinks, and went sight seeing. Well, what goes around comes around. I bailed out on the Sunday lady. Monday someone bailed out on me.

Later that evening, I was horny again. Tried to get in touch with the but she had work to do. Seemed genuine. So, decided to check out some swinger clubs. Tried two of those but for some reason, both the clubs I went to told me they were closed. Not sure why but anyway. I had a great night with the which made my trip.

There was another 23 why. O I was in touch with. She was DTF, super cute but was expecting an amount even for a meet and greet. Said something like "My time is so precious. Even for M&G, I do take gifts". Not my kinda girl. Told her right away - "OK. I see everything else to be a good fit but if you think your time is precious for M&G, the converse goes true as well. My money is too precious to pay you just for having lunch with me. I'm not that desperate".

Tuesday AM, I took my flight out to the next city.

So, after enjoying time with Miss the, and missing out on Miss M, I move to next city.

Landed on Tuesday late afternoon. Nice sunny day with beaches. Rented a car and go to my resort. A run by the beach and great dinner in the evening.

I had reached out to maybe 50/60 girls on SA but weeded out all those that were sure shot pros (nothing against them but if I wanted a pro, why invest so much time on SA? I might as well get it easily on other sites) and those that were purely transactional (give me $, I will give you time / sex). This left me with only a handful.

One lady. Miss K. Her pics were super hot. Like a 9. We moved from SA to text (all these started a couple weeks before reaching the city. Per veteran advices here. Thanks to you all). We had planned for Wednesday. She owns a spa and said she could meet only after 8 PM.

However, Wednesday AM, I get a text saying "Hey, I'm not sure I should be doing this. You are traveling here. So, this is likely a ONS. I'm not looking for ONS. Good luck with your search". My heart stopped for a minute but responded "Listen, I recognize I'm traveling but I never said that I won't be flying you out to me if we have the chemistry. I'd hate to end this even before it started but if that is your decision, I respect you at that. If I were you, I'd at least meet for dinner and see where it takes us. In the end, if you decide to walk away, you can. No questions asked". After 30/40 minutes of silence, she agreed. Game on.

I booked a nice restaurant 5 minutes walk from my hotel (thanks, Steve), and she had to drive 45 kms to get to me. She was a bit late but she did show up and apologized. Gosh. In person, I have this super tall model like figure, long legs, high cheeks, twinkling eyes, and a nice cleavage that was visible just enough to get my mind running wild. We start talking. She asks a lot of questions to get to know me. I'm careful not to divulge what I shouldn't but answered here genuinely. Maintained eye contact throughout without letting my eyes wander down to her cleavage (at least not when she is looking). She is originally from Russia, dated a British guy and ended up with a kid but not married. Runs her own business. Haven't had a man in a while but is also afraid to get involved seriously given her recent experience. Basically, she opened up gradually over the two hours of dinner (and drinks helped her open up, for sure) and I get the drift of it that she wants good sex, respect, but no commitment. Perfect.

I do that same trick. Once we spoke, and got to know each other. Once I know she is getting comfortable with me, I reach out and hold her hands from across the table. Same trick I used with Miss the. It worked with Miss K as well. I get the check, and we walk out. I ask her "So, what do you think? You want to walk away now as a friend or. ?" and winked. She blushes first, laughs, gathers herself and goes "I think I want to spend more time with you. Let's go to your room? Do you have some drinks in room? I had kept some wine ready. So, off we go. She even allows me to ride in her car, we park near my hotel. We walk up. With my arms around her waist. Holding her tight. She responds in kind. (Exact same thing as Miss D). Good signs.

We go to my room (has a balcony looking over the ocean). We grab wine, relax in the balcony on two separate chairs. At some point, I signaled her to come sit on my lap. She quickly moved over as if she had been waiting for me to make the first move. We sip more wine and I gradually stoke her hair. Put my hand behind her neck and pull her towards me for a kiss. It was gentle at first and she makes the first move of tongue digging deeper into mine. We kiss for a while and take a break. Sip more wine. Again, we started kissing. BY this time, I had finished my glass. Put it down and started using both my hands. One hand wandering freely on her back and another on her thighs. She places her wine aside and put both her hands around me and pulls me closer. Deeper kisses.

I'm now emboldened and slip my hand under her dress. Play with her boobs (I could feel them nice and firm, natural. Just the way I like it). As things start heating up, she moans and her kisses were becoming harder. She breathes heavier. I'm fully turned on. In one swift motion I pulled her dress and bra to one side fully exposing her left boob. I dived right in and started to suck on them. It started well but she quickly pulled back as it was too sensitive (she says it became sensitive after having a kid. I believe her). But, she says she still likes to be sucked there but not on nipples. And, she pulled my head back to her boobs. We keep making out this way for a while and then, I pulled off her right boob as well. Same exercise. No discrimination right vs. Left (She pulls my shirt off and runs over my chest. And I pulled her dress off. Here we are half naked, with her only in her bras, making out on a balcony facing the sea. She quickly kneels down between my knees, unzips me and pulls the guy out (already hard) and starts licking at first before taking the boy completely in. Boy. What a BBBJ. I pick up her wine, drink some, enjoy the sea breeze while having a hot chick sucking my dick.

Then, I lift her up, we both are still kissing and walking half naked from the balcony to the room. I push her on the bed and dived right in for a DATY. She moans, laughs, giggles and builds momentum. At some point she said. In exact words - "Baby, I want you inside me. I haven't felt a dick in a long while. Please put it inside". I'm about to oblige in raw but she stopped me. Bummer. She wants a condom. Luckily, I had some. Slip it on and we start fucking. The problem with me is. With condom, I tend to lose it. It is impossible to get it again. So, I fuck her hard and fast. But, that hard and fast lasted for a good 8/10 minutes. She came multiple times as her legs wrapped around me were shaking. I see our bodies wrapped in one in the huge mirror. I counted at least three times her coming. Each time, she would scratch my chest, or hold me tight (in mish and bury her nails on my back. Boy, heaven). I see her boobs move as I go deeper and harder. After a while, I shoot my load. We lay there cuddling each other.

The condom took a lot of fun off but still it was a great fuck. She then showered (I offered to join like I did with Miss the, but she refused). She came back out dressed. While she was in shower, I had her 250 (as agreed previously) in an envelop beside her bag (just the way I did with D). We hugged, embraced for a couple minutes. I could feel her check behind my back whether I have paid as agreed while I was hugging her. But I decide not to make a big deal out of it. Walked with her to the car. Another passionate kiss near the car and off she went.

She texted me once she reached home that she has reached safe.