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[QUOTE=FinnishFucker;1589637]Yes it is possible to have fun without alcohol. But why take the risk, LOL.[/QUOTE]I know some guys need alcohol to suppress the dick wanting to cum in less than 3 minutes. I never had this problem. I like it loooong.
I certainly don't want the risk of low feeling in the dick and it not staying up. Others don't seem to care and are happy to just lie back and get extended blowjob. Too bad if the girl is not that great at BBBJ.
[QUOTE=PahllusMaximus;1589556]The reality is that most women grow out of sex by about 30, and many men do not. Part of this is because we get close to 100% orgasm rate and get about a 20%. This mismatch is answered by financial handcuffs, frustration or P4 P, overt or covert. It is certainly the case in the West and in Asia, given the number of Asian mongers I come accross. I think its part of the human condition. Sure, the demands of children / career creep in, but the typical male still wants it and does not get it. Women assume their lack of urge is the same as ours. A fatal error.
So rather than starve, we hunt, and hence this forum. It's natural, and few percent of women have catered to that need for thousands of years. Eventually the male gets smart and realises marriage is a con, or they don't have go without. We often deceive to segment real emotions. And often guilt mistaken for love. From a very real physical need that is unmet. Its not just going to a restaurant for a change: its a question of starving and no food at all.
This duality and tension is why women hate P4 P: power, freedom of the male and clarity of what relationships really mean if they fail to meet basic needs and we are not enough of a priority. The P4 P girls are catalysts for this epiphany. That is an existential issue and so why their reaction is so strong.
Like so many here, I'm transitioning from the fairytale that underwrites female power to being a free agent, real friends for emotional and intellectual needs where I find them and P4 P other bits, decoupling the notion a female can cover it all. Some might, but the majority do not.
Let's celebrate our freedom and choice. Tell the feminazis to sod off with their jedi mind games. Enough said, time to focus on hotties having their tonsils massaged and skin tingling pleasure. We only live once.[/QUOTE]Huh? Women are at their horniest when they are over 30. Check out some studies.
[QUOTE=PahllusMaximus;1589556]The reality is that most women grow out of sex by about 30, and many men do not.[/QUOTE]Actually the theory goes that you won't get as many fucks in the remainder of the relationship as what you got in the first year, unless you got far too few in the first year.
I agree with much of what you say except that the woman's orgasm rate is often irrelevant. My Thai GF is very sensitive and multi orgasmic without great difficulty at all. However she does not need that daily. My ex wife could get an orgasm every time but only felt horny once a month.
So it's more that girls don't feel horny all the time like we do. That may be age related.
I believe there are also men who are not horny every day. I find this harder to understand. If I take girl for LT I want at least 1 at night and 1 in morning minimum. I am not looking for a lot of rest days. I would be happy to service a girl daily or more if she wanted that.
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I believe there are also men who are not horny every day. I find this harder to understand. If I take girl for LT I want at least 1 at night and 1 in morning minimum. [/QUOTE]You're still young grasshopper. Wait till you reach our age ;)
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1589651]I know some guys need alcohol to suppress the dick wanting to cum in less than 3 minutes. [/QUOTE]Alcohol is a very effective anesthetic for the dick. I never drink alcohol in that sense, I don't need to. I drink to get drunk, relax and to get a massive hangover horn for the next morning.
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1589658]I believe there are also men who are not horny every day. I find this harder to understand. If I take girl for LT I want at least 1 at night and 1 in morning minimum. I am not looking for a lot of rest days. I would be happy to service a girl daily or more if she wanted that.[/QUOTE]Wow, there are so many variables there I don't know where to begin. When I moved here at 34 I was out at the bars and FL venues taking a gal at least 4 times a week. On trips out of BKK with the boys twice a day was not unheard of.
Now I am about 12 months shy of 50 and I am quite a bit different. I partake at the oilies about once ever 10 days or so. A good two shots will satiate me for that time. Well you ask, don't I get horny more often? Answer is yes, but truth be told there are several different reasons why I don't act on it as much. First, I don't find the same type of gals attractive as I did when I moved over here. The hard Isaan look just does not appeal to me anymore. Has not for years. I see gals at the mall, coming out of offices, and at restaurants that I would love to do. Most, hell, 99% would not give me the time of day. They want a boyfriend near their age as most have their own money. Secondly, I just don't want to interact with gals I have very little to converse about with. That is why I go to the oilies. The thought of having to go to a gogo and talk to some poorly educated gal from the farm has no appeal. Back in the day when the economy was not so good, one could find copious amounts of semi-pros who were out a few times a month to supplement that income. Degreed gals that actually could talk about things other than mom, dad, and the farm. With salaries having skyrocketed those gals are few and far between. Now, many of the FL discos seems to be filled with the hardcore and younger dudes wanting to prove they "got game. " No thanks.
Thirdly, with the exception of the oilies I find overall performance standards to be down. For my first 7 or so years here I would say 95% of my pulls were really good. Gals were into it or at least very good actresses, no rush jobs, no problem with kissing, DATY, etc. Every night was a party on lower Sukhumvit. Now, not so much the case.
So, has my sex drive decreased? I am not really sure. Perhaps. I really don't "have" to screw 4 times a week. If I find the "right duck," then of course I am game, but I am far more particular and less inclined to get into a situation that might lead to disappointment.
[QUOTE=PahllusMaximus;1589556] Like so many here, I'm transitioning from the fairytale that underwrites female power to being a free agent, real friends for emotional and intellectual needs where I find them and P4 P other bits, decoupling the notion a female can cover it all. Some might, but the majority do not. Let's celebrate our freedom and choice. Tell the feminazis to sod off with their jedi mind games. Enough said, time to focus on hotties having their tonsils massaged and skin tingling pleasure. We only live once.[/QUOTE]Nice theory PM except for the over 30 part. As another poster said lots of gals reach their peak in the 30's -- because it's all downhill in the 40's. Just my. 02.
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So, has my sex drive decreased? I am not really sure. Perhaps. I really don't "have" to screw 4 times a week. If I find the "right duck," then of course I am game, but I am far more particular and less inclined to get into a situation that might lead to disappointment.[/QUOTE]GS,
You seem more addicted to the forum than to sex itself. LOL. I thought the ISG was only for sex addicts. Right now I have a 2 week period with probably no sex. This is a bit tough. My mind is still on sex daily. Maybe that is your problem too.
I probably try to average 4 screws per week. So I believe it is a serious addiction level although can go a few days without one. I don't have to screw just anybody. I specialize in seriously pretty girls or nice lookers known to be excellent.
It's probably something to do with having a bad sex life when I was married. I enjoy trying to make girls completely lose control and I still like looking at beautiful naked girls with a drink even if not going to fuck them.
Conversation with a girl is not important. My GF is much better at talking than listening. LOL. Not uncommon. She teaches me all the Buddhist philosophies to the extent it gets a bit Ho Hum.
You generally can't have rational arguments with girls. I prefer to fuck them instead, if they are pretty. Living alone doesn't bother me at all. I do that for 70% of the year. Love the peace and quiet.
I have a quandary. There are one or two super lookers at Crazy House I want to fuck, but I am also interested to try my favourite waitress on the bed, but a little scared that this may spoil the relationship. If I take her out drinking alcohol I won't be a be to perform that well. I could still DATY though till morning rectifies the dick weakness.
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1589852]GS,
You seem more addicted to the forum than to sex itself. LOL. I thought the ISG was only for sex addicts. Right now I have a 2 week period with probably no sex. This is a bit tough. My mind is still on sex daily. Maybe that is your problem too.
I probably try to average 4 screws per week. So I believe it is a serious addiction level although can go a few days without one. I don't have to screw just anybody. I specialize in seriously pretty girls or nice lookers known to be excellent.
It's probably something to do with having a bad sex life when I was married. I enjoy trying to make girls completely lose control and I still like looking at beautiful naked girls with a drink even if not going to fuck them.
Conversation with a girl is not important. My GF is much better at talking than listening. LOL. Not uncommon. She teaches me all the Buddhist philosophies to the extent it gets a bit Ho Hum.
You generally can't have rational arguments with girls. I prefer to fuck them instead, if they are pretty. Living alone doesn't bother me at all. I do that for 70% of the year. Love the peace and quiet.
I have a quandary. There are one or two super lookers at Crazy House I want to fuck, but I am also interested to try my favourite waitress on the bed, but a little scared that this may spoil the relationship. If I take her out drinking alcohol I won't be a be to perform that well. I could still DATY though till morning rectifies the dick weakness.[/QUOTE]Nah, never really been a sex addict. I do know some guys who are well into their 50's that are still doing 3 gals a day. I would label them sex addicts for sure.
I had a really great sex life when I was married. In fact, all my girlfriends in the states were great when it came to sex. Never went wanting. But they all had other issues, which I am sure led them to be great in the sack and pretty awful at relationships. Having great sex at home is certainly not a priority here in Thailand. There are far more important things in choosing a mate. Sex is a very small part of it for me, especially living in LOS. Complementary personalities, brains, ability to converse, shared sense of humor, independence, all far outweigh sex. Unless the relationship is unhealthy the sex will fade. Folks just have a hard time keeping interest. I also know that what I am attracted to sexually is not necessarily the type of gal that makes for a good relationship.
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This duality and tension is why women hate P4 P: power, freedom of the male and clarity of what relationships really mean if they fail to meet basic needs and we are not enough of a priority. The P4 P girls are catalysts for this epiphany. That is an existential issue and so why their reaction is so strong.
Like so many here, I'm transitioning from the fairytale that underwrites female power to being a free agent, real friends for emotional and intellectual needs where I find them and P4 P other bits, decoupling the notion a female can cover it all. Some might, but the majority do not.
Let's celebrate our freedom and choice. Tell the feminazis to sod off with their jedi mind games. Enough said, time to focus on hotties having their tonsils massaged and skin tingling pleasure. We only live once.[/QUOTE]Last night I was drinking with some friends in a bar down in Pattaya. One friend told us about a guy who he knows back home. Said the guy's fat ass wife didn't give him sex for three months because he forgot to cut the grass.
Some guys take to long to get it. There like a lazy dog who is laying on a nail. They suffer, moan and groan, but they won't get up because it doesn't hurt bad enough yet.
I've gotten up. LOL.
[QUOTE=TellAll;1589906]Some guys take to long to get it. There like a lazy dog who is laying on a nail. They suffer, moan and groan, but they won't get up because it doesn't hurt bad enough yet.
I've gotten up. LOL.[/QUOTE]Me too, and now in my 50's I'm having the time of my life. I have never been happier, both physically and emotionally, from the outside and the inside.
Coming and going when I like, seeing who I like when I like, taking vacations to wherever I like, having as many ladyfriends as I like. Its BLISS!
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1589852]GS,
I probably try to average 4 screws per week. So I believe it is a serious addiction level although can go a few days without one. I don't have to screw just anybody. I specialize in seriously pretty girls or nice lookers known to be excellent.
[/QUOTE]While I think Bangkok has some good P4P years left, at some point the ballbusters will take control of the country, and among other places Nana Plaza will be turned into a Reeducation Gulag to torture western sex addicts. The only available sex will be from the women guards imported from the west: http://jtajchert.w.interia.pl/fotografie/belsen/lisiewicz.jpg
Yesterday, I have been to Suzie Wong. They seemed to have nice shows to watch. I went to Baccara afterwards, amazingly looking girls, but no show. I go there with my Thai gf, so I can't really bring a girl back to my hotel, so I prefer a good show over beautifull girls.
Been to spankys too at nana entertainment, it was nice too.
So, any recommendations?
[QUOTE=DenSloeber;1590001]Yesterday, I have been to Suzie Wong. They seemed to have nice shows to watch. I went to Baccara afterwards, amazingly looking girls, but no show. I go there with my Thai gf, so I can't really bring a girl back to my hotel, so I prefer a good show over beautifull girls.
Been to spankys too at nana entertainment, it was nice too.
So, any recommendations?[/QUOTE]Check out Long Gun and Rawhide in Soi Cowboy and AngelWitch in Nana.
[QUOTE=DenSloeber;1590001]So, any recommendations?[/QUOTE]Sure. If she's in cowboy bars with you she's either a hooker or wants to be. No self respecting Thai woman would be caught anywhere near go-go's, especially with a falang.
Tell her she's going to make your fantasy come true by picking a girl she likes and the 3 of you have a great night. If you promise her some expensive shoes or clothes instead of hard cash it will reduce her shyness she'll feel like less of a working girl.