Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1137463]I am not sure how much time you have spent in the Phils Amjeck but the Phils is "la la land".

I know guys in Davao and Manila who are 40 + who have hot, young babes lining up to visit them for free. I envy them because it doesn't quite happen for me, but I know it happens for them so just let it go. It can and does happen. [/QUOTE]Guys who have spent little time in The Philippines do not realize how easy it is to get young and willing pussy here. Age doesn't come into it. This is particularly the case for members whose usual destination is the LOS where congress between foreign tourists and female locals mostly tend to be of the commercial variety.

This said, although freebies are readily available, unless a girl has indicated otherwise (in a good job or a wifey having a little extramarital fun) , I invariably give some money as it is always appreciated.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1137463]I am not sure how much time you have spent in the Phils Amjeck but the Phils is "la la land".

I know guys in Davao and Manila who are 40 + who have hot, young babes lining up to visit them for free. I envy them because it doesn't quite happen for me, but I know it happens for them so just let it go. It can and does happen. [/QUOTE]Ok, so Davao is the place to go then? This is what I wanted to know, because I don't see this happening in Manila or Cebu.

[QUOTE=Radical Guy; 1137009]This may describe some Filipinas, but certainly not all. My wife, a Filipina to whom I have been married for 5 years, has an aunt in Pittsburgh, about 33 years old. The aunt married an American guy when she was 19 and the guy was 52, and they stayed together for 9 years (no kids) until the guy died of a heart attack.

Well, my wife and I visited the aunt last January. She is still very slim and sexy, attractive in every way, yet she is not interested in dating. Her apartment is STILL a shrine to her dead husband and the marriage they had together. She has hundreds of pictures of her husband all over the place, and talks about him all the time. Frankly, I don't understand what she saw in the guy. He wasn't rich, just a postal carrier, and was an ordinary, balding, chubby white guy.

I guess it is possible that when the aunt initially met her husband, she was interested in a "ticket" out of life in the Philippines and the American dream. But if love wasn't there in the beginning, it clearly took root when they were married.

I think that many, perhaps most, Filipinas have the ability to *choose* to love someone, and once that choice is made, that love is as real as it would have been if it occurred naturally. They are inherently the most loving creatures I have ever known.

My wife talks to her aunt frequently on the phone, and encourages her to date, but the aunt still misses her husband terribly and can't bring herself to be with another man. Go figure!

RG[/QUOTE]I think such Filipinas are the exception rather than the rule. It takes a long time to find that kind of girl. It doesn't help that most foreign guys come to the Philippines chasing tender age and beauty. As GE said there are no set rules and the character of those involved plays a part. The odds are the ambitious girls are less likely to stick with the average monger who washes ashore in the Philippines. To be fair to the girls there are a lot of odd characters in the hobby. I don't doubt a lot of girls have some damn good reasons for dumping their sponsors like a hot shit the minute they make it pass the immigration check point.

Filipinas can be very loving and devoted even if a bit too easily swayed by what they see on TV. A few would even stick with a loser foreign husband in spite of better available options. However, it is a bit more complicated than add young pussy and stir as many guys believe. From what I've seen most Filipinas refuse to move back to the Philippines with their retiree husbands once getting a taste of US consumerism and living on credit. Also, not having any competition from other females is a strong incentive for them to stay in the US instead of returning to the Philippines where they're in constant peril of being dethroned by each new crop of cherry pussy.

[QUOTE=Amjeck; 1137324]Are they hot? Lets see the pics then we'll decide. I'm talking about "hot", not mediocre or doable. And we're talking about a girl's preference not choices at hand.

BTW, I'm not trying to disrespect anyone on this board that is "old". Growing old is a part of life that we all must face.[/QUOTE]No disrepect given back, but the rare pics I share here I do because I choose to. Not because I need to prove anything to anyone. Got past that particular stage a long long long time. And one mans hot is anothers leftovers etc.

Come visit the Phils and you will see what goes on here.

Amjeck,

I have to agree with FreebieFan on this topic. You may be correct that not all hot, young Filipinas want to partner up with foreigners in the over 40 age group. However, as with any "rule," there are always exceptions. There are plenty of women the world over that would hook up with any man if she thought she could get money from him, or somehow better her current status. Unfortunately, those kind of generalizations are applied to entire cultures, based off of statistics or a few known incidents. And again, I will say there are always exceptions.

When I began the US military requirements for marrying a Korean citizen, I was advised to be careful, because my commander knew someone that married Korean, and she ran away as soon as she cleared immigration in the US. At the time, statistics showed that this was a highly common occurrence, as Koreans (a 3rd world country then) saw the US as a better place for opportunities they did not have at home. My marriage lasted 20 years before we had problems that caused us to separate and eventually divorce. I still feel we beat the odds of the statistics.

As for hot women, I have seen many of the photos that FF has posted, and I think they are very hot. You may not feel the same way, and you have the right to your opinion. Everybody has their own opinion of what makes a woman hot or not. No need to argue the point. We all are on here to find out where others have been successful at our hobby. If someone likes some girl, place or action, let them enjoy it and tell others about it. Maybe some of use would also enjoy it as well.

I don't think you can pin point any one area as "the place" in Philippines. I'm sure there are plenty of young willing women all over the country. In some places, you may have to search harder to find the ones that appeal to you, but they are there.

IMHO.

HW

[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder; 1137600]Amjeck,

As for hot women, I have seen many of the photos that FF has posted, and I think they are very hot. You may not feel the same way, and you have the right to your opinion. Everybody has their own opinion of what makes a woman hot or not. No need to argue the point. We all are on here to find out where others have been successful at our hobby. If someone likes some girl, place or action, let them enjoy it and tell others about it. Maybe some of use would also enjoy it as well. [/QUOTE]Yes,"hot-ness" is definitely subjective. For example, for me, a woman with a shaved pussy is a turn-off. I want a lady with a totally natural, unshaven bush. It seems that I am in a minority in this regard. To me, the hottest women are the ones who wear no makeup, dress simply, and stay natural.

RG

R. G, I'm with you on the subject of natural pussy. Its evolutionary and augments sexual pheromones. Shaved pussy looks like a plucked chicken and generally smells as sexy as a forearm.

On a different subject, I have found that some guys from the forum have the unfortunate habit of GIVING POCKET ROCKETS as gifts to the girls. This results in the girl becoming addicted to the vibrator and not being able to have an orgasm without it. Keep the pocket rockets for occasional use with the girls when you visit, don't give them as gifts! This has happened here in Peru as well. I'm sure you guys don't understand the negative effects of such a gift, but IMHO should stick to giving chocolates.

[QUOTE=David_33; 1137659]R. G, I'm with you on the subject of natural pussy. Its evolutionary and augments sexual pheromones. Shaved pussy looks like a plucked chicken and generally smells as sexy as a forearm.

On a different subject, I have found that some guys from the forum have the unfortunate habit of GIVING POCKET ROCKETS as gifts to the girls. This results in the girl becoming addicted to the vibrator and not being able to have an orgasm without it. Keep the pocket rockets for occasional use with the girls when you visit, don't give them as gifts! This has happened here in Peru as well. I'm sure you guys don't understand the negative effects of such a gift, but IMHO should stick to giving chocolates. [/QUOTE]David,

The vibrators are an unfortunate consequence of increased sex tourism to the region. Filipinas are used to achieving orgasm through a hard shag of relatively short duration. Standard Filipino sex is limited to insertion of the penis into the vagina followed by a burst of rapid vigorous pumps leading to a swift climax. Foreplay is minimal to nonexistent. There is no such thing as premature ejaculation in the Philippines. Men who are prone to early pearlies are not stigmatized. In fact, given the living arrangements with extended family members sharing limited space, long bouts of loud lusty fucking is often out of the question. Loving on the run rooster and hen style is optimal.

Sex tourists bring vibrators, pussy licking, porn and pharmaceutically induced erections to the Philippines oblivious to the fact that they're perhaps ruining the natural sexual responsiveness of Filipinas to nothing more than a natural fuck. Soon Filipinas will be demanding to have their pussies licked for half an hour before penetration is permitted like American women. Filipinas are some of the fastest naturally self-lubricating women on the planet and bringing artificial lubes into the bedroom intented for post-menopausal Western women suffering from vaginal dryness interferes with their natural physiology.

Like all forms of tourism, sex tourism eventually has negative impacts on the environment and culture of the area visited. If you've ever had the unfortunate experience of seeing a once secluded and pristine beach ruined by the construction of beach front hotels and the crowds that follow then you'll understand. The only way to practice sustainable mongering is to venture to ever remote corners of the provinces and keep what you find in those areas off the web.

[QUOTE=David_33;1137659]you guys don't understand the negative effects of such a gift, but IMHO should stick to giving chocolates.[/QUOTE]Yes but the chocolate will leave such a mess in their pussy!

[QUOTE=Chocha Monger;1137713]Soon Filipinas will be demanding to have their pussies licked for half an hour before penetration is permitted.[/QUOTE]. And I will happily oblige! Hahaha

Only just today I had a message from a Davaoenia I fucked last trip:

"I am a bit disappointed. You did not lick my pussy as you promised in the chat some months ago."

Myanmar, get ready for here comes the 1 minute wonder.

B

[QUOTE=Amjeck; 1137324]Are they hot? Lets see the pics then we'll decide. I'm talking about "hot", not mediocre or doable. And we're talking about a girl's preference not choices at hand.

Throughout the world I've seen the majority of hot, sexy beauties, with either young studs or rich older men. If young girls (and 22yo + isn't young in asia) perfered older men (40+) then you'd see every old geezer with hot young babes. It just isn't so.

The majority of high school girls are with high school guys and the majority of college girls are with college guys.

Now I'm not saying that older guys can't score young girls, but I don't see "hot" younger girls going out of there way to meet older men (unless it's financially driven). Sure there is the occasional exception, but it's not commonplace. And if you get a "hot" young babe that isn't about the money, you scored! How many times can you repeat that if all those "hot" babes are so into you?

So if you doubt me and you're older (40+) , then why don't you have a harem full of hot young 18yo babes begging you to come fuck them every night for free? That only exists in "la la" land.

BTW, I'm not trying to disrespect anyone on this board that is "old". Growing old is a part of life that we all must face. [/QUOTE]I have to agree with you for the most part. Getting older does mean having a harder time scoring with hot chicks. Have to remember they also eye us guys as "eye candy too".

Just from my own experiences, I had a much easier time 10. 20 years ago scoring hot young ladies than now. Today, they look at me more from a walking ATM frame of mind than walking hand in hand based on mutual attraction. But also know that there are always exceptions to rules but exceptions is just as the word implies.

Exception=rarely happens.

Don't get me wrong, I'm still looking for that exception. One hot babe that will love me for who I am (avg. Upper middle age guy with avg. Income).

Borne out of greed to recreate the hot experiences we had with a sweet lady we are sometimes tempted to go back for a repeat. Sadly in most cases its not so exciting because theres no sense of suprise as you unwrap your " present ".

A few weeks back I invited a little firecracker of a Filipina to my place in Taiwan. Was a highly memorable experience as she readily did a sweet little strip and was happy to pose in some of the slutwear I bought for her. Some memorable pics. Last night we did a repeat, with the nurse costume, and the dogcollar (if nothing else it produces some interesting reactions from girls. Thanks for the idea WR!). But to be honest I was kinda bored. Girl hot, photo taking hot, post photo shag was hot. But I'm still bored, primarily because it was expected and lacked the " wow nice suprise " element.

I find its the same with most girls I meet. Fresh girls needed on a regular basis. Luckily theres a steady production line of them

I picked up a filipina girl at a club in Hong Kong about 5 days before she had to return to Philipines after breaking her contract with her employer. I am fairly green with filipinas but getting the idea.

1) She was not a hooker per se we had a lot of sex together. Got seriously caught up with this girl and had a lot of bare back with her. 'I want to have your baby' etc. Etc. Although this sounds ridiculous I did put in a lot of work and it would not surprise me if this was genuine given her personality.

2) There were times I thought I was going to get taken for a ride but she manage to get me to feel I was being unfairly judgmental of her and to be totally evidence-based honest, I was. At same time my instincts seem to have predicted the course of events quite well.

3) She goes back fo Philipines after we have had a lot of crazy bare back sex and said we love each other and acted like it. Seems a bit fake from both of us, but at same time, there is authenticity from both of us. Both of us married, should not be having affairs but both away from spouses.

Please assume no matter what you may think that in this instance, I do not believe she has tried this stunt before. Even if it sounds 'to good to be true'. In other words some of you will instantly recognise I am being taken for a ride here but please bear in mind the above and the fact she could be pregnant and has said she would want the baby if so and both of us. I know. Impossible to reconcile. Or say with any intregrity. But catholic. So not keen at all on abortion. Please assume then that this is not an option. Just suppose.

So she gets back and I write to her on FBook. Get righteously angry message back from hubby fkuc you ***** etc. I clear a few things up with him and apologise for being out of order. At same time I do admit to having had ex with her. Don't ask about how the dialogue transpired. But anyway, he asked me not to 'love her she is married etc. ' She has said he is a jobless deadbeat 10 yrs older, beats on her etc.

I have told both of them I support their marriage and basically want them to try to work it out. At same time I am afraid she is pregnant.

I just got a 'no money' email saying period has not come and that she wants to see doctor. What shall I (she) do.

Told her take pg test first.

It is very difficult for me to measure what is going on here. It could be 50/50 or 10/90 or 70/30 that one or the other thing is true.

A) that she is pregnant, would have the baby if she is, wants me to make some contibutions if so, genuinely misses me and would like a love relationship with me (with or without financial 'benefits'

Be) that I am being scammed for some much needed money. She wants a recurring income off me simply because her life is blooming hard for her right now.

Like I say please don't assume it is be) although it may seem obvious at the same time like I say I really cannot gauge this situ with a clear mind (too much monging). It could be a) I am not kidding.

Of course I am not going to send any money unless I have proof she is carrying my baby and furter evidence that she is choosing to follow thru.

Lastly I have really dropped her and me in it by admitting the sex to the husband due to the adultery law I have just read about. Is there any mileage in this?

On the one hand I do not want to go to Philipines or have any more to do with this situ. Husband may still want me shot although I have done a lot to show him I am actually a person who does give a shit sometimes and in this situation am willling to take responsibility to a degee and if he loves her still, respect and support that. I know this is all crackers. I did warn you I am green!

Other hand is if she is pregnant and so on I want to do something for her and for the child in the long term but no way am I going to leave my current proper partner. And I am quite worried also about the adultery law in the Phil.

I am sure there are mongers and members here seen this before even been in the situ. Please help out if you can. Be as brutal or as gentle as you like, just be authentic please I am in an emotional situ and sometimes feel manipulated, other times in a weird love-child rel. That contains real love but out of a fkuced up situ where we've both cheated.

She may have filtered out that I made it clear that this was not going to become an exclusive rel. For me and that there is no way I am leaving my family over this. At same time. Benefits to her if she were to leave her hub properly and get into one with me. Anyway dudes. This one is complicated and doing my nut somewhat. Do not want to let t be / let it go. Just yet. So lke stated really need to get this thread out there to get brotherly counsel.

[QUOTE=Jon Guoren; 1140694]It is very difficult for me to measure what is going on here. It could be 50/50 or 10/90 or 70/30 that one or the other thing is true.

A) that she is pregnant, would have the baby if she is, wants me to make some contibutions if so, genuinely misses me and would like a love relationship with me (with or without financial 'benefits'

Be) that I am being scammed for some much needed money. She wants a recurring income off me simply because her life is blooming hard for her right now.

Like I say please don't assume it is be) although it may seem obvious at the same time like I say I really cannot gauge this situ with a clear mind (too much monging). It could be a) I am not kidding.

Of course I am not going to send any money unless I have proof she is carrying my baby and furter evidence that she is choosing to follow thru.

Lastly I have really dropped her and me in it by admitting the sex to the husband due to the adultery law I have just read about. Is there any mileage in this?

On the one hand I do not want to go to Philipines or have any more to do with this situ. Husband may still want me shot although I have done a lot to show him I am actually a person who does give a shit sometimes and in this situation am willling to take responsibility to a degee and if he loves her still, respect and support that. I know this is all crackers. I did warn you I am green!

Other hand is if she is pregnant and so on I want to do something for her and for the child in the long term but no way am I going to leave my current proper partner. And I am quite worried also about the adultery law in the Phil.

I am sure there are mongers and members here seen this before even been in the situ. Please help out if you can. Be as brutal or as gentle as you like, just be authentic please I am in an emotional situ and sometimes feel manipulated, other times in a weird love-child rel. That contains real love but out of a fkuced up situ where we've both cheated.

Counsel[/QUOTE]You are goning to get a lot of varying opinions on this but without knowing the girl her character (or her assumed character in the role she played) none of us will know.

However one thing that most would concur on, is don't go anywhere near her or hubby in Philippines. Go thre and monger the way we all do. But do not go anywhere near her or husband. If you there and it is a scam, your in the shit.

If you go there and husband knows where you are you in shit Filipino men can be truly vindicative, vengeful an without remorse if they think they have been "bested " by another man.

However you try and resolve this situation, do not, repeat do not, repeat do not (got the point!) go and try to sort to out with with the wife or husband in Phils.