Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[QUOTE=Robbaf; 1141617]Jon, STOP talking to her at all. I understand you may of fathered a baby, but for your own safety and mental health, you better listen to what everyone here is saying. If she can Google your name and get your home details, number and access to your wife you will really have problems. Life is very cheap in the Philippines and for less then 100 dollars he can have you taken out if he knows you are here or he can do it.

I have a friend who did not listen to any advice and thought while he was here he could get free pussy and not have to go to a bar. Long story short, she claims she had his baby, Googled his name and found his home address and number and called his wife. He is now divorced and basically lost everything, including his two sons.

Take a trip to Angeles and do not tell her you are coming to the Philippines and you will find 10, 000 girls like her or better. Pay the bar fine and have a great time and leave it here when you leave.

Robb[/QUOTE]GREAT ADVICE. Set your priorities straight. If this was a set up from the start then she may have even got your details from your wallet. U seem naive and thats sort of normal the first time you do something like this, so I am guessing you didn't do much to protect your personal info. I hope you have a silent number in your home country. Did you have your photo taken with her? Those things should be on top of your mind.

All this crap about FB and you still communicating or giving her access after you are back from China. Do you have rocks in your head? I will assume your wife has no clue about your FB site, but any of her friends or family friends have access to it? If she even writes something stupid on the wall for everyone to see what then? If she posts photos and tag's you? Get your priorities stright at this stage IT IS NOT about the baby, it's all about you protecting your family. Worry about the kid, latter.

As few people pointed out just stay away from the area that she is in the phils. No need to write the country off, most of the buggers there can't even travel to the next suburb let alone town or island. U will be fine but cut all contact

[QUOTE=Vandaddio; 1141645]Yep, I, m shallow and selfish, I admit it and thats just the way it is and I, m willing to pay for that privilege.

So, I, m gearing up for my Phills trip in a few months and am wondering about the dia, freebie girls attitudes and demands of meeting parents etc.

I want young tight clean pussy with no baggage of family hanger on'ers.

I don't want to marry but if she is cool and does not drive me nuts, she can hang with me as long as I, m enjoying it. I know they all want the meet my family thing to happen I suppose to justify the fact she has a whitey boyfriend she is fucking. How do you avoid this?

I suppose pay for play pussy is a better way to go. No hazzle. [/QUOTE]Yep.

If you're going to the Philippines as a sex tourist, just be a sex tourist and enjoy yourself. If you want to try and go the DIA route, at least be honest with them and tell them you're coming to the PI to get laid, not to find a girlfriend. You'll lose a lot of them that way, but the ones that do stick around will be a lot more enjoyable to be with.

[QUOTE=Tanglin; 1141739]Yep.

If you're going to the Philippines as a sex tourist, just be a sex tourist and enjoy yourself. If you want to try and go the DIA route, at least be honest with them and tell them you're coming to the PI to get laid, not to find a girlfriend. You'll lose a lot of them that way, but the ones that do stick around will be a lot more enjoyable to be with. [/QUOTE]You are so right Tanglin.

I am sick of hearing from DIA girls about guys telling them absolute bullshit stories and then ditching them once they scored. It is no wonder many women are disillusioned and disbelieving about so many guys on DIA.

I now have way more success on DIA and other sites by being very explicit in my profile what I want. It avoids all the tippy-toeing around, and weeds out the girls with hang-ups and serious agendas.

When I get a girl contacting me on my explicit profile on DIA now I just have to establish if she has actually READ and UNDERSTOOD my profile (never assume they have). Once that is out of the way, it is "game-on"

I

[QUOTE=Bob Down; 1141373]Just a general question to all the married guys out there.

Is the risk worth it to go bareback behind your wives back? Firstly to get caught up in a "I'm pregnant" scam? And secondly the chance of giving the love of your life a little surprise that one could bring back from a trip? Second one could cost more than the first in my book.

I am a single guy, no plans to ever marry. [/QUOTE]It is not just the issues of fathering a kid or exposing yourself to pregnancy scams but you also need to consider the health implications.

In the past 18 months I have made 6 trips to PI and had sex with 47 DIA girls mainly from the Cebu region. Of these 47 girls 5 quite clearly stated in their profile that they were in a relationship. You know the lines they come up with: 'thank you DIA I have finally found him' etc. Two of them are engaged and are in the process of obtaining fiancé visas. Some of these girls I had sex bareback. Some of them I used a condom.

A girl I met on my 3rd trip in April 2010 contacted me 10 days ago telling me that she had chlamydia. In fact it was her fiancé that it was passed on to and he advised her to contact all her previous sexual partners. I had a full health check and sure enough I had chlamydia. There is no way of knowing if this girl passed on the infection to me. Or I to her. Not once did I feel any symptoms.

This has proved an expense and also time consuming for me as I am in the process of contacting as many of these girls as possible and advising them of the situation. I have sent money to most of them for a health screen and anti-biotics.

Personally I would think it wise if any member of this board has ridden bareback in PI specifically with a DIA contact, even if it is their regular gf, to go for a health screen.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1141784]You are so right Tanglin.

I am sick of hearing from DIA girls about guys telling them absolute bullshit stories and then ditching them once they scored. It is no wonder many women are disillusioned and disbelieving about so many guys on DIA.

I now have way more success on DIA and other sites by being very explicit in my profile what I want. It avoids all the tippy-toeing around, and weeds out the girls with hang-ups and serious agendas.

When I get a girl contacting me on my explicit profile on DIA now I just have to establish if she has actually READ and UNDERSTOOD my profile (never assume they have). Once that is out of the way, it is "game-on"

I[/QUOTE]Just today, a sweetie in Taguig was telling me about Richard. She had stayed with him, a "Kano" on and off for past two months. Then all of a sudden he left her and returned to CAlifornia. She called him a bastard and untrustworthy. I asked her whether she was upset that hed been having sex with her and then leaving. She replied " NO, I'm upset because he didn't ask my permission to leave me ". Lifes so interesting the things Filipinas say even more so.

[QUOTE=Python75; 1141792]It is not just the issues of fathering a kid or exposing yourself to pregnancy scams but you also need to consider the health implications.

In the past 18 months I have made 6 trips to PI and had sex with 47 DIA girls mainly from the Cebu region. Of these 47 girls 5 quite clearly stated in their profile that they were in a relationship. You know the lines they come up with: 'thank you DIA I have finally found him' etc. Two of them are engaged and are in the process of obtaining fiancé visas. Some of these girls I had sex bareback. Some of them I used a condom.

A girl I met on my 3rd trip in April 2010 contacted me 10 days ago telling me that she had chlamydia. In fact it was her fiancé that it was passed on to and he advised her to contact all her previous sexual partners. I had a full health check and sure enough I had chlamydia. There is no way of knowing if this girl passed on the infection to me. Or I to her. Not once did I feel any symptoms.

This has proved an expense and also time consuming for me as I am in the process of contacting as many of these girls as possible and advising them of the situation. I have sent money to most of them for a health screen and anti-biotics.

Personally I would think it wise if any member of this board has ridden bareback in PI specifically with a DIA contact, even if it is their regular gf, to go for a health screen. [/QUOTE]Phi girls are ripe with STD especially because they are least bothered to use protection. Working girls usually insist on condoms. But DIA girls I had never bothered and I did not bother either. It is hard to say how many guys these girls slept with or if they have regular sex buddies although many profess they never had sex for a long time.

It is true with some girls who are living with their parents. One girl I had would go home early morning around 6 am every morning and said the family will think she is bad if she stayed with me. As for 6 am it is ok bacause she tells her parents she stayed with her friends. How far it is true I do not know. She may have a kid to take care of. The fact of the matter none ask to use condoms.

I get checked always and never had a problem except from sore throat or a cold I caught from them.

Phi girls only go to a doctor if there is real symptoms.

I have been invited to the weeding of one of my ex girls. Last time I would have slept with her was around 6 mths ago, since I moved on and she found a Filipino guy and is getting married to him. She is insisting that I come 2 the weeding. I would love to see a Filipino wedding but I will pass. Too close to this one and god knows what she has told her hubby about me. Also I have a feeling that being the only foreigner LOL there will be too many questions. Then again all the fresh muff there should be interesting.

[QUOTE=Mc Don;1141878]I have been invited to the weeding of one of my ex girls. Last time I would have slept with her was around 6 mths ago, since I moved on and she found a Filipino guy and is getting married to him. She is insisting that I come 2 the weeding. I would love to see a Filipino wedding but I will pass. Too close to this one and god knows what she has told her hubby about me. Also I have a feeling that being the only foreigner LOL there will be too many questions. Then again all the fresh muff there should be interesting.[/QUOTE]Mc Don, you should attend and bring a nice gift. You'd probably be the guest of honor and have the pick of all the eager beavers in attendance. Just introduce yourself as a naughty friend of the bride. I'm sure she'd be happy to give you referrals. Seems like she hasn't given up on getting you into the family one way or another. LOL

[QUOTE=Python75; 1141792]It is not just the issues of fathering a kid or exposing yourself to pregnancy scams but you also need to consider the health implications.

In the past 18 months I have made 6 trips to PI and had sex with 47 DIA girls mainly from the Cebu region. Of these 47 girls 5 quite clearly stated in their profile that they were in a relationship. You know the lines they come up with: 'thank you DIA I have finally found him' etc. Two of them are engaged and are in the process of obtaining fiancé visas. Some of these girls I had sex bareback. Some of them I used a condom.

A girl I met on my 3rd trip in April 2010 contacted me 10 days ago telling me that she had chlamydia. In fact it was her fiancé that it was passed on to and he advised her to contact all her previous sexual partners. I had a full health check and sure enough I had chlamydia. There is no way of knowing if this girl passed on the infection to me. Or I to her. Not once did I feel any symptoms.

This has proved an expense and also time consuming for me as I am in the process of contacting as many of these girls as possible and advising them of the situation. I have sent money to most of them for a health screen and anti-biotics.

Personally I would think it wise if any member of this board has ridden bareback in PI specifically with a DIA contact, even if it is their regular gf, to go for a health screen. [/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing. I think it's a good wake up call for everyone. It's very easy for these girls to give the illusion of exclusivity. Bareback and sooner or later you'll get burned. It's commendable that you notified the girls and tried to assist with medical care.

Be careful. These girls are emotional. React first. Think later.

[QUOTE]By Jill B. Tatoy.

Friday, April 1, 2011.

CEBU CITY. A 16-year-old girl had her 76-year-old American boyfriend killed because she was jealous he had another girlfriend and he no longer gave her money.

She had carried out the murder of Leamon Wesley Casteen Jr. at 9 pm Wednesday with the help of four friends. Aged 15, 16, 18 and 27 years old.

Post your online prayers for Japan earthquake victims.

Casteen of South Carolina was found fatally shot in his rented apartment at Sanchez Bldg. On Sanciangko Street, Cebu City.

A security guard rushed to Casteen's apartment upon hearing gunshots and saw the American's visitors. His 16-year-old girlfriend and her four friends. Running away from the apartment in different directions.

Nelson Barquio, the security guard, said he recognized 16-year-old Amy (whose real name Sun. Star Cebu is withholding on account of her being a minor) because she was a frequent visitor of Casteen.

He allowed only three of them to go to the apartment and had the 15- and 16-year-old stay behind.

He did not inspect the knapsack they had with them. The bag contained three guns that were used to kill Casteen.

He found a .45 caliber pistol on the floor of the elevator and Casteen dead with gunshot wounds in his apartment.

Ylanan identified the three suspects from the information given them by the two friends who were held by Barquio.

They were Cyril Jordan Galiste. 18; Aldez Flores. 27; and Amy, Casteen's girlfriend.

Galiste was the gunman and Flores the lookout.

The kids belonged to a group called Tanduay Survivor Clan.

Amy and Casteen met a few weeks ago. Amy had found out Casteen had another girlfriend, aged 17, and got jealous. Amy also got angry at Casteen when he stopped giving her money.

Because of this, she called her group and asked for help. She wanted Casteen dead.

Galiste and Flores allegedly volunteered to kill Casteen on condition that they would get some money after the job was done.

Amy's 16-year-old friend said in an interview with Sun. Star Cebu that she had dissuaded Amy from her plan.

But Amy could not be dissuaded, telling her,"Bahala na uy kay naka-desisyon na ko (Let it be. I have decided)."

The police went to Barili town where Amy was said to have gone to hide, but did not find her there.

The 15- and 16-year-old who were held by the guard were put under the custody of the Department of Social Welfare and Development.

Galiste, the alleged gunman, surrendered Thursday afternoon.

Galiste said that after the killing, they went to Labangon, Cebu City to rest for the night. They proceeded to Toledo City at dawn to hide.

But Galiste said his conscience bothered him and his mother kept calling him to surrender. The police were in their house.

He told his father where he was and Ylanan's team picked him up in Toledo.

Flores and Amy had gone when the police arrived to pick up Galiste.

"Ang kapait aning kasuha kay ang motive pwerteng mabawa. Kining mga bataa gasabot sila without thinking unsay mahitabo inig human or the possible consequences with what they have done (The sad thing about this case, the motive of the killing is shallow. The kids came up with a plan but did not think through the consequence of their action)," responding Cebu City police team leader Chief Inspector George Ylanan told Sun. Star Cebu.

Police recovered at the ground floor of the building the. 45 pistol, two empty shells, magazine of. 45 pistol. 27 live ammunition of an M16 rifle, one bullet of a. 38, a black holster, a t-shirt with blood stains and a green umbrella.

In Casteen's apartment, they found three pieces of deformed slugs and four empty shells from a. 45. (Sun. Star Cebu) [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Chocha Monger;1141885]Mc Don, you should attend and bring a nice gift. You'd probably be the guest of honor and have the pick of all the eager beavers in attendance. Just introduce yourself as a naughty friend of the bride. I'm sure she'd be happy to give you referrals. Seems like she hasn't given up on getting you into the family one way or another. LOL[/QUOTE]I agree with the prior poster. You should go. Weddings in the Philippines are something different and it's worth it for the spectacle alone. Plus, there will be a couple of hundred people and you should be able to hook up reasonably easily. Give the happy couple some money as a gift. It's always appreciated.

GE

[QUOTE=Jon Guoren;1140694]I picked up a filipina girl at a club in Hong Kong about 5 days before....[/QUOTE]Many advices and I will add my view. I was in a similar situation that nature solved before I had to do much else than decide my course of action. I think that you can neglect all attempt to predict and interpret who she is and what this is. This is a very simple problem to handle.

If it is your child, I can imagine you do not wish this dead beat fucking with your kids life. So do as you proposed and terminate contact but keep her on that monger email so you can see the development. A few thousands here and there if you see pics of her growing tummy. Stay the fuck away for her neighborhood and do not talk to the dead beat unless it is to explain to the wife beating asshole that you will make sashimi of his Asian ass unless he gets in line and understands that this was two adults that had an affair with an unwanted outcome. You do not owe him shit else than a kick in the teeth unless he stops beating her. In addition you should make it crystal clear to the woman that your income comes from a functioning life "back home". Keep her hopes to receive something for nothing, alive. If your life in COUNTRY is ruined, no "something for nothing" to be expected.

Just wait it out. If the kid looks remotely like you, do a test. If the kid is yours, visit and bring some muscles. That is when it is time to be a man and explain the priorities to these both. I am super protective about any offspring of mine and would rather take the child away than see him / her harmed by some abusive prick.

People on ISG are often keen on warning other about how dangerous the men from here and there are, but I think many times balls is more a matter of what you or anyone else has to loose. I do not endorse unmotivated violence ever, but no need to forget that money means power in many places. Act like a victim, and you will be one for sure. And no, I am not a king behind the keyboard that dream up advices to give. Unordinary situations allowed and forced me to think about, and to test how to react on, various types of psycho-social aggressions.

Blood is way thicker than any bond with a female in my book. If she carry your child, her body is yours. Maybe not literally but fuck if YOU are the one to be owned here. No way! Break free from the western programming of guilt towards women and stop letting the pussy run you. Be a man and be proud without letting your ego running the show. She spread her legs and you did what you are supposed to when you fired away in that clam. Now sit back. Either it is just a bullshit story that you can forget about and forgive her for (to have another go at her sweet clam) , or you are blessed with a child. Win-win if you embrace the notion that change does not necessarily mean loss.

On the STD topic; why don't you invest in tests if you are going bareback? Its fast, easy and a very romantic foreplay. Some chance with the HIV incubation but safer than keeping your fingers crossed.

[url]http://www.alibaba.com/trade/search?SearchText=test&Country=&CatId=16&IndexArea=product_en&fsb=y&viewAllCategory=[/url]

Good luck!

B

[QUOTE=GoodEnough; 1141969]I agree with the prior poster. You should go. Weddings in the Philippines are something different and it's worth it for the spectacle alone. Plus, there will be a couple of hundred people and you should be able to hook up reasonably easily. Give the happy couple some money as a gift. It's always appreciated.

GE[/QUOTE]When's the wedding. Can I come along? Just the food.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1141861]Phi girls are ripe with STD especially because they are least bothered to use protection. Working girls usually insist on condoms. But DIA girls I had never bothered and I did not bother either. It is hard to say how many guys these girls slept with or if they have regular sex buddies although many profess they never had sex for a long time.

It is true with some girls who are living with their parents. One girl I had would go home early morning around 6 am every morning and said the family will think she is bad if she stayed with me. As for 6 am it is ok bacause she tells her parents she stayed with her friends. How far it is true I do not know. She may have a kid to take care of. The fact of the matter none ask to use condoms.

I get checked always and never had a problem except from sore throat or a cold I caught from them.

Phi girls only go to a doctor if there is real symptoms. [/QUOTE]So true! These DIA girls are quite reckless and allow themselves to be barebacked by all and sundry on a regular basis. The irony is that many mongers seek them out precisely due to the illusion of getting tight "fresh" pussy for some old fashioned raw dogging. STDs are only one class of diseases that one can catch from these girls. The girls will often say that they don't want to go to the doctor because if they find out that they have a disease they will be depressed. I guess having some chronic STD or other communicable disease slowly destroying their bodies is not depressing as long as they remain ignorant of the fact.

[QUOTE=Barba;1141971]do not talk to the dead beat unless it is to explain to the wife beating asshole that you will make sashimi of his Asian ass unless he gets in line and understands that this was two adults that had an affair with an unwanted outcome.[/QUOTE]This is a very good way to end up with a bullet in your head. You have no idea how things work in the Philippines.