I came across her profile back in May.
At that time she was saying that she was up for everything.
So, people change, maybe she has discovered her true self.
G
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I came across her profile back in May.
At that time she was saying that she was up for everything.
So, people change, maybe she has discovered her true self.
G
[QUOTE=Turdycurdyone]You may be right. The Phil is a good country for exacerbating paranoia as there are so many bad things about the place. It's overpriced, highly corrupt with alot of scamming, hypocrisy and a disregard for poriners whose value only lasts as long as their money. Once you're money is gone, you're just an interloper who they would rather be rid of. [/QUOTE]
There's a lot of wisdom in this post, and guys who really don't know the country should pay attention to it. As I've said in a prior post, some people (mostly newbies) think, after a few days in country that they "understand" the place, cause most people speak at least a little English, and in some respects in can appear Westernized. The fact is, the Westernization facade is quite shallow, and the country is just as opaque as other SE Asian countries.
It's easy to land in jail here, and it's easy to fall for scams, which is why it's wise never to call any attention to yourself and never to act on pure impulse.
It's not really so much that they "would rather be rid of" us. It's that, at a certain stratum of society, they will seize any opportunity to extort money from anyone...Filipino and foreigner alike. It's a very poor country with lots of desperate people and thoroughly corrupt officials.
GE
Just looking a friend , , , ";)
Unselfish, thoughtful and kind
Honest, faithful and trustworthy
Patient, sincere and forgiving
Modest, pure and chaste
Compassionate, caring and giving
Understanding, humble and secure.
A Real Woman...
Understands chastity
Values her sexuality
Appreciates her fertility
Controls her passions and desires
Never uses other people.
THAT'S ME!!!
While reading dating profiles I am stupefied how many demands women have from their "dream man", women who truth be told should be thankful for ANY man to write them a message, but they demand the sun the moon and the holy mountains... read this particular piece of work as an example...
I want to meet a Male
with age from 29 to 44
Someone who is ambitious and independent. I like friends who's confident and is able to communicate well. Sharing some similiar hobbies would be great.
And The man I am looking for should be intelligent, attractive, fun loving, caring, honest, open, willing to try anything at least once and willing to give it his all to everything he does. He should have an outer beauty that catches my eye, however he should have an inner beauty that takes my breath away everytime I look into his eyes. I want to be able to kiss his soft beautiful lips and make his eyes roll into the back of his head and melt in my arms. I want to smell his perfume all day on my dress shirt after receiving a morning hug before leaving the house for work - making me smile and distracting me from the daily grind. I want to laugh for hours, joke and tease one another, and just be silly with him. He definitely has to have a great personality and be easy to talk to.
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The author? An overweight 31 year old muslim separated single mum who smokes.
Get real for fucks sake, ladies
As its been spoke about many times on this board the girls usualy dont know what to write on their online profile so they just copy from somewhere else. I never even read the specifics on the profiles and just look at the pic, location and age. I figure out the rest later if I ever chat with them.
Btw thats a pretty big age gap she left between 29 and 44. Damn I got back to the States and signed up for a well known dating site and the average looking women that are upper 30's, divorced with two kids are looking for a man only a few years older than them and have so many requests.
[QUOTE=Fast Buck Artist]While reading dating profiles I am stupefied how many demands women have from their "dream man", women who truth be told should be thankful for ANY man to write them a message, but they demand the sun the moon and the holy mountains... read this particular piece of work as an example...
I want to meet a Male
with age from 29 to 44
Someone who is ambitious and independent. I like friends who's confident and is able to communicate well. Sharing some similiar hobbies would be great.
And The man I am looking for should be intelligent, attractive, fun loving, caring, honest, open, willing to try anything at least once and willing to give it his all to everything he does. He should have an outer beauty that catches my eye, however he should have an inner beauty that takes my breath away everytime I look into his eyes. I want to be able to kiss his soft beautiful lips and make his eyes roll into the back of his head and melt in my arms. I want to smell his perfume all day on my dress shirt after receiving a morning hug before leaving the house for work - making me smile and distracting me from the daily grind. I want to laugh for hours, joke and tease one another, and just be silly with him. He definitely has to have a great personality and be easy to talk to.
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The author? An overweight 31 year old muslim separated single mum who smokes.
Get real for fucks sake, ladies[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]Just looking a friend , , , ";)
Unselfish, thoughtful and kind
Honest, faithful and trustworthy
Patient, sincere and forgiving
Modest, pure and chaste
Compassionate, caring and giving
Understanding, humble and secure.
A Real Woman...
Understands chastity
Values her sexuality
Appreciates her fertility
Controls her passions and desires
Never uses other people.
THAT'S ME!!![/QUOTE]
Many have a little bit of spoken English, most have very little written English.
Most of this stuff is cut & pasted by a bakla cousin from some other dating site.
AV
[QUOTE=Tally Wacker]Btw thats a pretty big age gap she left between 29 and 44. Damn I got back to the States and signed up for a well known dating site and the average looking women that are upper 30's, divorced with two kids are looking for a man only a few years older than them and have so many requests.[/QUOTE]I dont know how many men exist in this world who are truly "intelligent, attractive, fun loving, caring, honest, ambitious, independent and able to communicate well".. I would estimate maybe 1 out of 50 .. and 1 out of 100 on a dating site?? And do these ladies really think such a rare specimen, who no doubt has MANY women to choose from, would go for a 30+ separated mum with 2 kids, 70kgs of goodness on a 5'5 frame, bad habits and bad baggage from ex-husband??
How do these ladies get so out of touch with reality? Is it all the romance pocketbooks they read or what?
[QUOTE=Fast Buck Artist]While reading dating profiles I am stupefied how many demands women have from their "dream man", women who truth be told should be thankful for ANY man to write them a message, but they demand the sun the moon and the holy mountains... read this particular piece of work as an example...
I want to meet a Male
with age from 29 to 44
Someone who is ambitious and independent. I like friends who's confident and is able to communicate well. Sharing some similiar hobbies would be great.
And The man I am looking for should be intelligent, attractive, fun loving, caring, honest, open, willing to try anything at least once and willing to give it his all to everything he does. He should have an outer beauty that catches my eye, however he should have an inner beauty that takes my breath away everytime I look into his eyes. I want to be able to kiss his soft beautiful lips and make his eyes roll into the back of his head and melt in my arms. I want to smell his perfume all day on my dress shirt after receiving a morning hug before leaving the house for work - making me smile and distracting me from the daily grind. I want to laugh for hours, joke and tease one another, and just be silly with him. He definitely has to have a great personality and be easy to talk to.
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The author? An overweight 31 year old muslim separated single mum who smokes.
Get real for fucks sake, ladies[/QUOTE]
Hm it's a better profile than other though, let's be honest... 99% of these profiles are a variation of
simple
badminton
accept me for who I am
secret
So at least that one actually wrote something different haha..^_^
[QUOTE=Fast Buck Artist]How do these ladies get so out of touch with reality? Is it all the romance pocketbooks they read or what?[/QUOTE]I think you successfully answered your own question!. Yes its pocketbooks, its rumour, its gossip "(I have a friend who has a friend who married an Aussie/Brit/American guy etc). And their heads are filled with it.
I often tell overweight ladies who send me messages that my preference is for under 50kg. They often reply, with some banality succh as " Ok I won't have rice today ". They're all just waiting for the Knight in Shining Armour. Who won't be going to there place any time soon. LOL
[QUOTE=Fast Buck Artist]How do these ladies get so out of touch with reality? Is it all the romance pocketbooks they read or what?[/QUOTE]Ever heard of the saying "God Grants your wishes? " Not to be offensive to the religion, but 99% of the filipinas believe it. Even to the extent of. Like when I ask girls I meet in the bar in Singapore. "What are you planning to do in Singapore? "
Answer: "find a nice guy and marry. And be happy. "
And they not just say it, but 100% believe it. Never for a moment doubting that the sweet talkers in bars are only out for a fuck and nothing more.
And one girl I met said it was her dream to visit a castle. Like in the Tagaytay. But a real one. I stopped analysing the rationale.
Cheers
[QUOTE=Tenchi]Hm it's a better profile than other though, let's be honest... 99% of these profiles are a variation of
simple
badminton
accept me for who I am
secret
So at least that one actually wrote something different haha..^_^[/QUOTE]Haha good point.
Also god fearing and singing.
Guys,
I just got a message on DIA. 'One for the books.'
Her name: BOOBSYBOOM69
Think I should check her out?
[QUOTE=FurryFriend]Because you are not doing the girl a favor in the long run.
Every time you send money, these girls develop an expectation of easy cash. Why should she bust her ass getting a second job or pursuing a degree when she can just "work" the internet cafes trolling dopes for money?
And every time she succeeds, she tells 10 friends. Each then tell 10 more. Pretty soon, you have an entire country of girls expecting to make money the easy way.
What happens when nobody wires anymore because she's no longer cute and young? Your money discouraged her from preparing for a future. So ultimately, your money harmed her.[/QUOTE]Actually this sounds like many girls I know who got hooked in to prostitution and stripping in the US. The SMART ones used that money to continue getting an education. The stupid ones kept thinking that it was cash that was always going to be around.
[QUOTE=FurryFriend]This is one reason why the Philippines is [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] poor. The entire country is one big welfare basket case because it's filled with lazy incompetant people out for the short term.[/QUOTE]Actually, from what I've seen. It not just that the GIRLS are lazy, they actually work pretty hard. Its the GUYS that are lazy. From what I've managed to see from their culture, the women's job it to make sure the house is nice and clean and keep the husband happy. SUPPOSEDLY the men are supposed to go out and get a job, but for some reason if he cannot make money. It then falls to the OLDEST DAUGHTER (that doesn't have a baby) to make money. The SONS are supposed to sit around, and try to find a wife to have sex and marry. Many times, its the Father, and Sons that are sitting around gambling and trying to make quick money, while the daughters and wives are trying to keep the house and home fed.
[QUOTE=FurryFriend]Ultimately, it's a personal choice to donate money.
People who wire money to the Philippines should fully understand and accept the fact that 1) they're buying a girl's attention and 2) they're providing down payment for future sex. If those are your expectations, hey, by all means send the money.
But I have a feeling most guys who give are hoping to start a relationship. For these types of guys, they are a fool to part with even a penny.[/QUOTE]I'd say be careful about sending money. Sometimes, its just a nice charity, other times its a nice down payment to a good time, but sometimes you have to realize that it can mean much more than that.
After checking with a friend who has a Filipino Wife that was a 'ex-camgirl'. I just realized that in some way I did a 'traditional' Filipino Courtship. Ones that the girls in the Philippines would LOVE for ANY GUY to do with them. Note that this MIGHT help you get down some girls' pants, but realize you'll probably have to much invested in the girl, that you'd better at least treat them as your GF, or even more. Potential wife. And if you just have sex with her and leave her, you probably want to stay away from that part of the Philippines.
First stupid thing I did was send a small 'nice gift' for the family and her. Sent the family one of those 'Camp Showers' things that warms up the water all day, and you can use it to take a bath? I figured, it was cheap and on sale, and was a nice gift ($15). While I was at it I sent the girl a stuffed animal and a bit of chocolate (heard they LOVE it, and mine likes Toberlone so I sent some.) NOW, I find out what I actually did could be considered 'Pasalubong' when a guy asks for permission to either ask a girl out, or 'court her'. He is supposed to do this to 'break the ice'. A gift for her 'family', and something special 'for her'.
Second stupid thing was I 'gave her an allowance'. I found out that most girls would be happy with 2, 000php and at the most 6, 000php is what many of the poorer girls would want. (Any girl asking for more, either has a HUGE family to take care of, or is ripping you off.) I sent her a 'monthly allowance' of 2, 000php for about 3 months. I now found out this is almost the same as 'Paninilbihan', The guy who likes a girl, has to come over and help the family at home as often as possible. Once again, due to distance, my regular 'donations' they are taking it this way. THIS is what some FAMILIES might take your 'regular donations as'. More often than naught, a girl sends most of the money to their families. Some of the weird things like (roof blew off of house today) ACTUALLY do happen
Third and FINAL (and I warn you use this information at your own peril) is to SING to her. If a girl asks you to sing to her, she might be 'on the edge of falling for you'. Not knowing better, and trying to keep her 'happy'. I sang to her once when she was in a cafe, and another when she was with her family. Didn't think it was crocodile tears when she's breaking down and crying. THIS was what made me think WTF did I do to make her cry? After checking with my friend, this is known as 'Haruna' where the guy sings to the girl his love. At this point, almost ALL GIRLS fall in love with you at this point. Once you've sung to them, Its almost like putting on an engagement ring.
Only remaining step is for me to propose to her, and marry her. I'd also like to warn guys, that while this is a bit 'much' for some girls. Doing this, pretty much cements them into thinking you want to marry them, and makes her family believe it also. These girls may also will play 'hard to get' while this happens. Also, don't expect to get 'lucky' with the girl if she's a virgin. By then, she's waiting for the wedding night. You could try and have sex and leave her, but like I said you better stay away from that part of Philippines for a while. Filipinos have HUGE families.
Initially, I thought I was being nice and prepping for a 'nice time' in Philippines, now I found out that I actually COURTED one girl. If she or her family catches me with another girl, I'm probably going to be in trouble. Its a good thing I only went this far with ONE girl. I started to be aware and started to treat other girls with less 'attention' like crazy. (It does help that she is cute, sexy, and very attractive. Which was why I was willing to go this far for her.)
Interesting story DT. If you don't mind, how did you meet the girl and (roughly) which part of the Philippines does she reside in?
X
[QUOTE=DT Looker]SNIP
I'd say be careful about sending money. Sometimes, its just a nice charity, other times its a nice down payment to a good time, but sometimes you have to realize that it can mean much more than that.
After checking with a friend who has a Filipino Wife that was a 'ex-camgirl'. I just realized that in some way I did a 'traditional' Filipino Courtship. Ones that the girls in the Philippines would LOVE for ANY GUY to do with them. Note that this MIGHT help you get down some girls' pants, but realize you'll probably have to much invested in the girl, that you'd better at least treat them as your GF, or even more. Potential wife. And if you just have sex with her and leave her, you probably want to stay away from that part of the Philippines.
First stupid thing I did was send a small 'nice gift' for the family and her. Sent the family one of those 'Camp Showers' things that warms up the water all day, and you can use it to take a bath? I figured, it was cheap and on sale, and was a nice gift ($15). While I was at it I sent the girl a stuffed animal and a bit of chocolate (heard they LOVE it, and mine likes Toberlone so I sent some.) NOW, I find out what I actually did could be considered 'Pasalubong' when a guy asks for permission to either ask a girl out, or 'court her'. He is supposed to do this to 'break the ice'. A gift for her 'family', and something special 'for her'.
Second stupid thing was I 'gave her an allowance'. I found out that most girls would be happy with 2, 000php and at the most 6, 000php is what many of the poorer girls would want. (Any girl asking for more, either has a HUGE family to take care of, or is ripping you off.) I sent her a 'monthly allowance' of 2, 000php for about 3 months. I now found out this is almost the same as 'Paninilbihan', The guy who likes a girl, has to come over and help the family at home as often as possible. Once again, due to distance, my regular 'donations' they are taking it this way. THIS is what some FAMILIES might take your 'regular donations as'. More often than naught, a girl sends most of the money to their families. Some of the weird things like (roof blew off of house today) ACTUALLY do happen
Third and FINAL (and I warn you use this information at your own peril) is to SING to her. If a girl asks you to sing to her, she might be 'on the edge of falling for you'. Not knowing better, and trying to keep her 'happy'. I sang to her once when she was in a cafe, and another when she was with her family. Didn't think it was crocodile tears when she's breaking down and crying. THIS was what made me think WTF did I do to make her cry? After checking with my friend, this is known as 'Haruna' where the guy sings to the girl his love. At this point, almost ALL GIRLS fall in love with you at this point. Once you've sung to them, Its almost like putting on an engagement ring.
Only remaining step is for me to propose to her, and marry her. I'd also like to warn guys, that while this is a bit 'much' for some girls. Doing this, pretty much cements them into thinking you want to marry them, and makes her family believe it also. These girls may also will play 'hard to get' while this happens. Also, don't expect to get 'lucky' with the girl if she's a virgin. By then, she's waiting for the wedding night. You could try and have sex and leave her, but like I said you better stay away from that part of Philippines for a while. Filipinos have HUGE families.
Initially, I thought I was being nice and prepping for a 'nice time' in Philippines, now I found out that I actually COURTED one girl. If she or her family catches me with another girl, I'm probably going to be in trouble. Its a good thing I only went this far with ONE girl. I started to be aware and started to treat other girls with less 'attention' like crazy. (It does help that she is cute, sexy, and very attractive. Which was why I was willing to go this far for her.)[/QUOTE]
Here's another sweet, innocent girl to introduce to Mom.
Fuckgirl
19 years old from Talisay.