Unique dynamic seen FKKs, Sharks especially.
[QUOTE=HappyTour;2892143]Sounds familiar. I remember a long time ago, 2016 there was an Asian guy competing with me for Arianna and Anja. LOL.[/QUOTE]FKKs are really quite a unique place of mongering. Within the mongering world, a phenomenon that I've only seen in FKKs, but amplified at Sharks, is that it seems to reveal some of the darker tendencies of various mongers. FKKs do inherently maintain a social element in the mongering world. You're in the same place as other mongers. In most of the world, the fact that these girls are fucking a lot of guys is not so in your face. At clubs, you see multiple guys fucking the same girls you fuck, often within minutes of you fucking them. Then there is a lot of time in between rooms to see what's going on around you, see how girls interact, how other guys interact. I think this affords the opportunity for insecurities and possessiveness to reveal themselves. It seems to be even a bit traumatic for the type of guys who didn't have great times in high school social environments. It can reveal the nature of some of those mongering peers. A but of a I couldn't girls but l'll show the world now that I can pay for pussy and attention.
Escorts, privates, sugar babies, even laufhaus and eros centers, mongering is private. You don't really see the other guys. Or even in more public scenes like South American and Thai bars, or hotel clubs in the Middle East, shopping for hookers take place in public but sex happens much more discretely, most often in hotel rooms. I think the FKK affords darker emotions to arise, jealousy, pride, obsession, stalkerish tendencies, basically all the fear-based emotions, fear of loss specifically.
A mongering friend said to me recently that it takes a selfish person to be in this hobby, in this FKK club scene specifically. I didn't quite agree that was a definitive truth but do see that he has a point. This specific example, it takes a significant degree of baseline obsession and insecurity to feel that you are competing with other mongers, then escalate to identifying a person online, and hold on to those emotions for almost a decade. Even scarier that all these negative emotions are built around someone a person reports he's has had no direct real life interaction. I've only directly experienced this behavior one other time. The monger felt so insecure in himself that he tracked me down and found my real identity through a hooker's Facebook friends list and directly messaged me on that platform. Not a forum direct messaging inbox, but rather directly on my actual real life identity social media. FKKs are pretty great, but the dark side is that it brings out a lot of unhealthy personality traits.