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[QUOTE=Explorer8939;3036883]One more thing: last week, I got a message from a lady begging for a loan. I told her to get money from her Thai boyfriend, and she said "no have". This week, she posted that she was flying somewhere, and then showed her Thai boyfriend. The lesson is that bargirls will claim poverty, but really just need some free money.[/QUOTE]Even the one's without boyfriends, I really don't think it's wise sending them money from abroad for any reason.

I've a girl I'd regard as a friend, I've known her 3-4 years, I've always avoided or skirted around the question of money when she has tried to raise it in around about ways over the years.

I sent her a bit of money for her last birthday to get a massage, nails, facial etc for herself. She did that but it opened a floodgate of requests, it turned out she spent the money on pampering herself whilst she had no money for her electricity bill, then it was car repairs, phone repairs, insurance. Blah blah blah.

Also turns out she is quite the gambler.

My point really is, if they can't live within their means, giving them money whilst not around only tends to fuel their hunger for more money and they get themselves into more debt. If they know they have no cash cow they might control their finances and spending better. In my case this is a mature woman not some 20 year old!

I'll get people disagreeing, but from my experience they are all the same, (well 99% of them anyway). . and god to they go to elaborate lengths to conjure up stories and schemes to try and extract money, full time job I'd say for many of them.

[QUOTE=PgReal;3037152]Even the one's without boyfriends, I really don't think it's wise sending them money from abroad for any reason.

I've a girl I'd regard as a friend, I've known her 3-4 years, I've always avoided or skirted around the question of money when she has tried to raise it in around about ways over the years.

I sent her a bit of money for her last birthday to get a massage, nails, facial etc for herself. She did that but it opened a floodgate of requests, it turned out she spent the money on pampering herself whilst she had no money for her electricity bill, then it was car repairs, phone repairs, insurance. Blah blah blah.

Also turns out she is quite the gambler.

My point really is, if they can't live within their means, giving them money whilst not around only tends to fuel their hunger for more money and they get themselves into more debt. If they know they have no cash cow they might control their finances and spending better.[/QUOTE]In Thailand, ladies give money to the man they love.

If you are giving money to a Thai lady, she doesn't love you.

The exception is if you are living with a Thai lady, and you give her money for joint expenses.

Anyway, if a Thai lady doesn't love you, please explain why you are sending her money so she can afford a Thai man. Or go to IBar and snag a young hansum Farang.

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What bar girls do after their bar closes, when they get a big tip.

This is actually fairly accurate. And, in Pattaya, the "boys" come to work after the gay bars close and their Farang customers have gone to sleep.

High season is here.

Nobody is calling to come to the condo. The baht buses are jammed.

A cashier reported to me that her bar grossed 80,000 baht one night.

The Maggie Mays Beer Garden opened last night, 12 new bars.

It's time for me to leave Pattaya, or I will be stuck with civvies and cashiers.

I had a date with a former Bargirl in Chanthaburi last night. She works in a factory now, claims not to have a Thai boyfriend. She doesn't bother with makeup anymore, and at 35, she is beginning to lose her looks.

I knew her in Pattaya before COVID, she worked Soi Chaiyapoon, but knocked out a kid with some random Thai guy who blew her off. She's went back to Chanthaburi with the baby, and then COVID happened. In Chanthaburi, she knocked out another kid with a different Thai guy, and then he disappeared.

Last night was the first time we fucked since Pattaya. When we finished, she claimed she hasn't had sex for 3 years. No idea if that's true, doesn't matter.

I try to remember the sexual preferences of the ladies in my rotation, which is not so easy. Most ladies like pussy licking, but have differences in the level of pressure on the clit. This one can't tolerate it, her clit is undeveloped, so it just makes her ticklish. What she does like is penetration. So, next time, I'll give her a vibrator as an Christmas gift.

2000 baht for all night.

But 3 hours in Bolt taxi each way. About 4,000 baht round trip.

I have 2 more days in Pattaya, a couple of ladies per day, and then off to Dubai with a couple of ladies.

High Season is here.

I had 3 Bolt taxi drivers cancel before they picked me up. The 4th took 11 minutes to get to me, compared to the normal 2 or 3.

Pattaya is crowded now.

I'm on holiday in Dubai, with 2 Thai ladies. Both have customer boyfriends, so they cannot travel alone.

I got a 2 bedroom condo, and alternate nights with the 2 ladies. No problems so far. They do sleep a lot, maybe the long flight was too much for them.

Sometimes I consider "retiring" a Thai lady permanently to replace my rotation. But, the reality is not pleasant: constant demands for cash, she wants a house, but most importantly, Thai ladies' warranty expires at age 40. Anytime after that, and they are liable to be physically broken. As in, no more boom-boom, and constant trips to the clinic.

I've read that the Thai authorities are cracking down on the number of tourist visits and visa extensions permitted in a year.

It's been said (such as on FB, youtube too, maybe) that visiting on a tourist visa exempt passport will be limited to twice per calendar year.

This is intended to target visa runners, who have repeatedly extended 60 day visas with short runs to the borders, while using their time in Thailand to work illegally or for other nefarious purposes.

I hope this 2 visit limit isn't correct, especially for those like me who visit for typically 3 -5 days maximum on a visa exempt passport, whether for a short visa run or just for mongering.

How have you interpreted the new (ly enforced) rules, if they are correct as stated?

[QUOTE=MissMaryHinge;3039708]I've read that the Thai authorities are cracking down on the number of tourist visits and visa extensions permitted in a year.

It's been said (such as on FB, youtube too, maybe) that visiting on a tourist visa exempt passport will be limited to twice per calendar year.

This is intended to target visa runners, who have repeatedly extended 60 day visas with short runs to the borders, while using their time in Thailand to work illegally or for other nefarious purposes.

I hope this 2 visit limit isn't correct, especially for those like me who visit for typically 3 -5 days maximum on a visa exempt passport, whether for a short visa run or just for mongering.

How have you interpreted the new (ly enforced) rules, if they are correct as stated?[/QUOTE]Ins and outs are fine if they are short visits. I did 7 last year.

[QUOTE=MissMaryHinge;3039708]I've read that the Thai authorities are cracking down on the number of tourist visits and visa extensions permitted in a year.

It's been said (such as on FB, youtube too, maybe) that visiting on a tourist visa exempt passport will be limited to twice per calendar year.

This is intended to target visa runners, who have repeatedly extended 60 day visas with short runs to the borders, while using their time in Thailand to work illegally or for other nefarious purposes.

I hope this 2 visit limit isn't correct, especially for those like me who visit for typically 3 -5 days maximum on a visa exempt passport, whether for a short visa run or just for mongering.

How have you interpreted the new (ly enforced) rules, if they are correct as stated?[/QUOTE]Your read of the new rules is correct.

My question is: who comes to Thailand repeatedly in one year for 3 - 5 days at a time?

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;3039750]Your read of the new rules is correct.

My question is: who comes to Thailand repeatedly in one year for 3 - 5 days at a time?[/QUOTE]And if you do, maybe throw some Jakarta in there instead. I'the heard that (for pricing) it was the new Bangkok. So I went and I wasn't disappointed. Thought it might be just OK but I loved it.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;3039750]Your read of the new rules is correct.

My question is: who comes to Thailand repeatedly in one year for 3 - 5 days at a time?[/QUOTE]I did last year.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;3039750]Your read of the new rules is correct.

My question is: who comes to Thailand repeatedly in one year for 3 - 5 days at a time?[/QUOTE]Cheers.

And being based in Vietnam, several short visits are perfectly doable.

In the new year I intend to combine another short visit with my Jakarta debut. Flights from DaNang require a connection anyway.

I posted this request both here and in a Philippines forum, so I apologize for the duplication.

Over the years, the number of moderately priced "hooker bars" has decreased dramatically in the Southeast Asia capital cities I've visited. Clubs whose clientele consists mostly of nicely dressed and attractive gals on the take and horny and moderately generous guys on the make.

Ladies working as independent contractors, not tethered to the bar. Able to come and go as they please without permission. Waiting for playboys to offer a drink or two, relax and chat, get comfy, quietly negotiate a deal, then head out the door to the lair of choice. Their income is derived solely from whatever money they can extract from their randy customers. Places with no added fees: No mama-sans, no bar fines, no higher priced commissioned beverages, and no drink quotas.

I often played in the Beach Club and ACE Building in Kuala Lumpur, the "Four Floors of (Wh) ores" in Singapore, Taipei's "Combat Zone", PP Banana in Batam, Indonesia, Bangkok Sukhumvit's Biergarten, and the numerous foreigner bars in Jakarta's Blok M. All gone but not forgotten.

Of course, I can find these gals sitting in many onsite bars in 5-star luxury hotels. But their expected prices are normally much higher than the maximum I want to pay, and I'm loath to admit I'm staying at a no-frills 2-3 star lodge instead of a 5-star swanky room located just a short elevator ride away.

Hong Kong's Wan Chai bars are still there, but I don't want to pay over USA $200 for an off-duty housemaid. My Bar and Eastern Promise in Jakarta continue to serve me well. I've read plenty of online reports about Thermae in Bangkok. Midnight Haven (LA Cafe) in Manila is awesome in that most nights offer a selection of upwards of 100 gals who ask for USA $50-60 as compensation.

My question is can anyone give suggestions of similar reasonably priced bars or areas around Asia that might offer what I'm looking for?

And please, no ear-splitting loud music dance halls catering to people almost 1/3 my age. I hate being the creepy old man in the club.