Ghana

[QUOTE=CesareBorgia;1337302]But I hope also to pick up some nice amateuers in the markets, malls etc in accra.[/QUOTE]Stick to these. Everybody talks too much here in Ghana. And there's always troublemakers in the villages. At least in the city, many of the girls are away from their families and can do as they like.

I was just with a girl from Tamale who had her own place here in Accra. Excellent GFE.

Thanks very much for the tips of some insiders.

Good to know that the people talk a lot in ghana and of course in the villages all is more tighter etc.

Well I guess I will have a good time in Accra, Takoradi and co.

And then also be nice but discret with some normal girls.

I seldom do something with pros but semi pros of course are always a option.

[QUOTE=CesareBorgia; 1338134]Thanks very much for the tips of some insiders.

Good to know that the people talk a lot in ghana and of course in the villages all is more tighter etc.

Well I guess I will have a good time in Accra, Takoradi and co.

And then also be nice but discret with some normal girls.

I seldom do something with pros but semi pros of course are always a option.[/QUOTE]I understand where you are coming from. I am of a like mind. That one guy came down kind of harsh, on you. It's not that westerns don't care what damage they do, they just don't know. In that regaurd his post was very helpful and right on the mark. Like you, I don't like the hard women who have been hooking up with foreigners for months or years. I prefer the romance and illlusion of having a real GF. I know it is an illusion and without my money there would be no romance. But I enjoy suspending reality for a few days / weeks with a special girl. Here is the loophole that you need. Of course you can't embarrass a poor, unworldly, country girl in her own village. Her life would indeed be a mess if she thought and told her friends that she was headed to the altar. But, once these girls leave the village and head to the city to find their fortunes, it becomes a different matter. On their own in the city they are subject to much greater perils than a horny westerner. A few nights in a nice hotel with shower, good food and leaving with a pocketful of cash will make it all worthwhile. Of course I never promise marriage or anything of the sort. I don't think many guys do. If they do, they should be shot. All I ever promise is fun, food, Karoeke, some laughs and some cash. I have never found any need for subterfuge. They may hope it leads to something more permanent and maybe someday it will. Good luck hommes. And as that guy said. Do no harm.

Tubersix

[QUOTE=TuberSix; 1338952]I know it is an illusion and without my money there would be no romance. But I enjoy suspending reality for a few days / weeks with a special girl. Here is the loophole that you need.

Tubersix[/QUOTE]A good message though I would not cut yourself or ourselves short entirely on what is or isn't reality. Many things provide aphrodisiac stimuli for a 3rd world woman; nationality, skin color and, haha, yes money as a surrogate for power probably number one as we deteriorate with age. I have no doubt that many of the girls you are with (unless you are truly hideous, haha) are genuinely excited with your company and that should be clear in their sexual response to you. Do No Harm is a good creed and my hippocratic oath, at least when visiting impoverished lands. In general, these areas are not as weaponized as the US and the peoples not so aggressive (deranged?) either.

But I am 60 yrs old and the moment a guy my age starts to think that her love for me is real, is the instant you hit the onramp to

Madness. Her whole family is struggling to find the next meal. No one is remotely interested in me for anything but some chow. I have no problem with that. But I have seen guys self destruct by thinking its love. That road leads to madness. Pull a U turn and get back on the road my friend, you are racing towards a brick wall. You can't fall in love with someone when you and your family is starving!

It seems by fotos that ghana woman have really big and round asses.

Is that truth, a booty haven?

[QUOTE=CesareBorgia; 1340316]It seems by fotos that ghana woman have really big and round asses.

Is that truth, a booty haven?[/QUOTE]Ghana is truly, a bootay heaven! All shapes and sizes of ass. Round bubble-butts, to tight, athletic dick crunchers.

But some girls' butts are so huge and flabby, when they fart, it registers on the Richter scale.

[QUOTE=TuberSix; 1339313]But I am 60 yrs old and the moment a guy my age starts to think that her love for me is real, is the instant you hit the onramp to

Madness. Her whole family is struggling to find the next meal. No one is remotely interested in me for anything but some chow. I have no problem with that. But I have seen guys self destruct by thinking its love. That road leads to madness. Pull a U turn and get back on the road my friend, you are racing towards a brick wall. You can't fall in love with someone when you and your family is starving![/QUOTE]I fell 'in love' with the most beautiful girl I ever placed my eyes upon. Moved in with her and even got her a few modelling gigs. But after four months of pure paradise, her multiple personalities and bipolar disorder decided to kick in with a vengeance. The scars still haunt me. I don't think I can ever get into a long term relationship again. But at age 52, who cares? Plenty of fish in the sea. And when you carry that attitude, it's far easier to score!

[QUOTE=Scout123;1340586]But at age 52, who cares? Plenty of fish in the sea. And when you carry that attitude, it's far easier to score![/QUOTE]There will always be plenty of fish and a guy / monger with ANY presence of mind will retain control; control of the woman with pocketbook ($$$) and control of his own emotions.

The woman simply seeking survival will bend for you and your $$$. Give her too much, and she will become autonomous and no longer view her sponsor as the penultimate benefactor that he is. Allow your heart to rule your mind and you lose. Your heart or emotions may be next to impossible to control but your mind must be disciplined enough to overrule your emotions. As you say there are far, FAR too many fish in the sea to have your emotions dominated by one.

GLTA!

[QUOTE=Scout123;1340586]I fell 'in love' with the most beautiful girl I ever placed my eyes upon. Moved in with her and even got her a few modelling gigs. But after four months of pure paradise, her multiple personalities and bipolar disorder decided to kick in with a vengeance. The scars still haunt me. I don't think I can ever get into a long term relationship again. But at age 52, who cares? Plenty of fish in the sea. And when you carry that attitude, it's far easier to score![/QUOTE]
I am 57 years old, in GH on last August. First time in GH in 2006, 51 years old.
Talking to a girl with 19 she said: "Appropriate age!".
Different concept of age I Africa, compared with our countries!

Fortunately!

[QUOTE=Roman Guy; 1340701]I am 57 years old, in GH on last August. First time in GH in 2006, 51 years old.

Talking to a girl with 19 she said: "Appropriate age!".

Different concept of age I Africa, compared with our countries!

Fortunately![/QUOTE]Same with Tunisian and Moroccan women. The 18-20 year olds tell me at 50 I am age appropriate and I think all the women (freebies and p4p) I have been with there have been in that 19-24 range. Whereas in Hungary even the women my age don't want to know about foreign men.

In Tunisia, I had one 18 year old tell me she wanted me to come and meet her Mum (who was 36) so she could approve my conversion to Islam and marriage to her. Very sweet, NAIVE young lady and a real 10/10 looker but seeing I only had coffee with her once and lunch 3 times I am not sure why she was in such a rush.

My mate from Niger who lives in Marrakech says the normal in a lot of the Maghreb world is age differences of 20+ years and in Ghana etc it can be 30+ years.

I monger in different parts of the world. I usually use Badoo or Tagged to line up some babes to save time when I arrive on the scene. Something curious about the girls on Badoo for Ghana. They are all 20-25 and looking for men over 40 yrs old. And all their photos look like they were done professionaly. Does anyone know what is going on with that? I can see setting up some guys to send them money. But what happens when they show up, as I intend to do. Anybody got experience with this?

Is bringing the girls to your hotel room a problem?

Do you have to pay an extra charge?

[QUOTE=TuberSix; 1342266]Is bringing the girls to your hotel room a problem?

Do you have to pay an extra charge?[/QUOTE]I have not stayed at any hotels in Accra that are not gf, though perhaps in the upper end of the scale there may be some. Girls are all over the place, especially on the dating sites. I'm not sure what the point is about the photos; of course a number of profiles are scammers so focus on profiles with more than one pic and pics that appear a little more amateurish or better some showing others in real social or family venues. Anyone who sends money should presume it will be gone unless you have had substantial personal communications (like skype) where you indeed get to know her.

OSU area has many smallish hotels and some clubs and the last place I stayed at, Penta hotel, was very gf and had a small cluster of working girls at the outside bar.

Go through prior posts here as there has been much written of etiquette, hotels etc.

Pb

While having to wait for a free terminal in an Accra internet cafe, I was talking to the manager about dating scams of which I had heard. He pointed to a whole row of young men busy at their terminals: They are all scammers, he told me. They use pictures from model agencies or sometimes pictures of their girl friends. One guy had his girl friend there who had to pose from time to time for a cam, smile, wave, and pretend to type. The manager pointed to one of those guys and told me that this man was so successful in getting money from lovesick foreigners, obronis, that he owned a big SUV and just bought his girl friend a new Toyota.

Beware! Heed the warnings on all dating sites: Never send money to somebody you do not yet know personally. Unless you want to support the Ghanaian economy, of course.

Once a "lady" asks you for money. Just drop her right away. On the other hand. You can really luck out meeting wonderful and sweet young ladies this way without paying money up front.

Goshawk