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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1658999]I do find fewer lookers in the Oily and Soapy scene than many years ago. So called models in a Soapy shop are young, reasonable bodies, but plain or highly altered plastic faces. This is why my MP visits have dropped off. In bars, the top 5 percent are as good looking as they ever were, but significantly more expensive. Performance hit and miss.
So overall we could say there is decline one way or another. The decline is circumvented by repeating a collection of those far above the average standard, providing that not trying to get bottom dollar prices. I can connect direct to all girls, so don't have to visit their shop or bar unless it is convenient.
I generally don't have time to date girls as have a GF and also have to work. So P4P is much simpler for me. One has moved to Gik or like 2nd GF status. She likes a lot more sex than the regular GF. So maybe I have the wrong GF. I suppose I need to see if sex is going just as strong after 1 year, and doesn't drop right off in frequency like normal girls.[/QUOTE]That's certainly an admirable quality in a gal. Probably would kill me though as for some reason no matter how good a gal is I lose interest in her sexually quite rapidly. I have for the most part found that women lose interest in a man faster than the man loses interest in the woman. Women are promiscuous creatures just like we are; perhaps even more so.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1657011]Pink, Americans are staying in their hemisphere for mongering. Most always have. Why? Because most Americans have very little vacation. So a quick trip to the DR or CR is just right. Plus it is cheaper and again, no jet lag.[/QUOTE]Way more Americans go to Thailand than any of those places. Last year Thailand had more US citizens visiting than ever before. Of course Thailand receives huge numbers of visitors from many nations all over the world, not only multitudes of Americans, as it is one of the top PFP destinations in the universe.
As to vacation time, Americans are not up there with Europeans, but still many get plenty of time to make it worthwhile to travel to LOS:
"USA Firms typically give their workers 10 days (two weeks) off in the first year, increasing to 25 days after 20 years. This compares to 21 days after 15 years in Japan, 25 after 20 years in Canada, and 30 days in Germany. The French are legally entitled to two and a half days of vacation per month worked, which means they're within their rights to take a full 25 days off after less than a year on the job.
"Extended leave. In Australia workers typically receive 13 weeks' paid leave after 15 years on the job.
[URL]http://www.straightdope.com/columns/read/2292/do-americans-get-less-vacation-than-people-in-other-developed-countries[/URL]
"Yes, thanks to the six-week vacations, the nights at the theater on Tuesday night, the idle Europeans turn out more per hour than we worker-bee Yanks.
[URL]http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2010/8/4/why-dont-americans-have-longer-vacations/the-vacation-gap-between-the-us-and-europe-is-wider-than-we-think[/URL]
". the European Union actually requires that workers receive at least 20 days of paid leave per year.
"In the USA, however, it's a different story. The average American worker earns 14 days off per year, but only takes 12 of them, according to a 2011 survey by Expedia. About a quarter of Americans don't have any vacation time at all.
[URL]http://content.time.com/time/world/article/0[/URL], 8599,2109263,00. Html.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1659026]That's certainly an admirable quality in a gal. Probably would kill me though as for some reason no matter how good a gal is I lose interest in her sexually quite rapidly. I have for the most part found that women lose interest in a man faster than the man loses interest in the woman. Women are promiscuous creatures just like we are; perhaps even more so.[/QUOTE]I don't believe for one moment my main GF could play up as much as me LOL. However she seems satiated by sex for too long. I still have high sexual desire for her after several years but simply don't get enough. My 2nd P4 P Gik has high sex desire, but obviously may get bored with me in time. She already got bored with her main BF and several other suitors more handsome than me no doubt. She likes that I am so easy going so she has no pressure and can do as she likes. I think most guys want too much control over her or don't fuck how she likes I guess. She has to lie or be deceptive to some guys but I simply make that unnecessary. She likes me to be totally honest with her too. LOL.
This desire of girls to have a guy that never lies mystifies me, but I am sort of trying it out with one girl. It may indeed strengthen a relationship. We have started to spend some time together outside a normal P4 P booking, so the relationship is starting to get a bit ambiguous and she doesn't expect me to pay for everything.
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[QUOTE=PinkPearl;1659197]Way more Americans go to Thailand than any of those places. Last year Thailand had more US citizens visiting than ever before. Of course Thailand receives huge numbers of visitors from many nations all over the world, not only multitudes of Americans, as it is one of the top PFP destinations in the universe.
[/QUOTE]Here's a link to a very annoying site, full of ads and popups. But it's fairly recent, like 2012. Unless things have changed radically in the last two years, I think it's pretty close to accurate. Being American, this seems to square with reality.
[URL]http://www.budgettravel.com/feature/vacation-ideas-10-most-visited-cities[/URL], 9045/.
Note that Thailand is not in the top 10 destinations for Americans. Jamaica, Mexico and the DR are. I admit Puerto Rico shouldn't be there because you don't need a passport to go there, if you're an American.
The point is that maybe a majority of American sex tourists go to Thailand, as opposed to other places, but I seriously doubt it. They're a small subset of the overall number of tourists. There are loads of pretty girls in Mexico, Colombia, CR, DR, Nicaragua, etc. I've certainly met my share. And traveling to any of these places, especially from Florida, Texas, New York, is FAR easier than to anywhere in Asia. So, I am not convinced that your assertion that more Americans go to TH than any of the other places mentioned.
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The point is that maybe a majority of American sex tourists go to Thailand, as opposed to other places, but I seriously doubt it. They're a small subset of the overall number of tourists. There are loads of pretty girls in Mexico, Colombia, CR, DR, Nicaragua, etc. I've certainly met my share. And traveling to any of these places, especially from Florida, Texas, New York, is FAR easier than to anywhere in Asia. So, I am not convinced that your assertion that more Americans go to TH than any of the other places mentioned.[/QUOTE]Canada is an option for those close to the northern border of the states, outcall is legal and there's even the occasional incall joints. Don't forget Brazil, that's a big draw for those living down south or near a major airport hub where airfare is cheaper and obtaining a visa to visit Brazil is easier. Europe is also a 'semi close' destination for many on the east coast. Again, if your at the right airport you can be in Europe in under 9 hours, compare that with a 25 hour travel time to reach Thailand.
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[QUOTE=Phordphan;1659306]The point is that maybe a majority of American sex tourists go to Thailand, as opposed to other places, but I seriously doubt it. They're a small subset of the overall number of tourists. There are loads of pretty girls in Mexico, Colombia, CR, DR, Nicaragua, etc. I've certainly met my share. And traveling to any of these places, especially from Florida, Texas, New York, is FAR easier than to anywhere in Asia. So, I am not convinced that your assertion that more Americans go to TH than any of the other places mentioned.[/QUOTE]I would agree 100%. And the number has seemed to be decreasing for years; especially since '08. Truth be told most American mongers are very discreet about their activities.
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I don't care where Americans like to go for sex tourism. Specially not in the Bangkok thread. The only thing relevant is how they behave when get to Bangkok, which is polite, etc. They have a good reputation in general even if sound of some americans speaking Thai with a drawl is very funny. Lower class English have a bad reputation and I cringe when I meet a loud foul mouthed group.
Possibly Americans are the most well liked Farangs in Thailand together with Danes and Norwegians. Other Farangs could try a bit of American politeness.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1659343]They have a good reputation in general even if sound of some americans speaking Thai with a drawl is very funny.[/QUOTE]Sawasdee khrap, y'all! :D
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[QUOTE=Phordphan;1659379]Sawasdee khrap, y'all! :D[/QUOTE]Personally, I know lots of Brit here on the Darkside and their drawl is something to behold in laugther? Just in General the last few years I've found particularly in Go-Go's and Disco the Aussie / NZ loud and aggressive as if they are all on steriods?
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[QUOTE=LittleBigMan;1659391] Just in General the last few years I've found particularly in Go-Go's and Disco the Aussie / NZ loud and aggressive as if they are all on steriods?[/QUOTE]Gogos and Discos are so loud in general, how can you say someone speaks too loud. If people speak at all softly, I can't hear them. I do have problems at my work place with certain nationalities sometimes being too loud.
I get particularly annoyed when people speaking on the phone lift their level several decibels which seems totally unnecessary with little background noise situations.
I don't meet such Aussies in go gos, perhaps because I am not in Pattaya. At a Sports Pub in Bangkok I found the noisy Aussies stayed mostly outside. I stayed inside.
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[QUOTE=LittleBigMan;1659391]Just in General the last few years I've found particularly in Go-Go's and Disco the Aussie / NZ loud and aggressive as if they are all on steriods?[/QUOTE]Some of them probably are.
I learnt years ago that my fellow Australians are not the most considerate of travelers. Boorish, insensitive, impatient and dumb are some words that unfortunately can be accurately used to describe some (most) of us.
A couple of months ago I nearly choked on my beer when I read that the Chinese Government were conducting a public education campaign to educate their rapidly expanding middle class on how to conduct themselves when overseas. I thought to myself I hope they don't use Australians in Bali or Pattaya as an example.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1659339] Truth be told most American mongers are very discreet about their activities.[/QUOTE]Huh? Americans can't hide that they are American. Which nationalities are indiscreet? Don't understand your point at all unless you just refer to maintaining good manners in public.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1659414]Huh? Americans can't hide that they are American. Which nationalities are indiscreet? Don't understand your point at all unless you just refer to maintaining good manners in public.[/QUOTE]What I mean is that most Americans who monger are very very discreet about their activities as it could cost them their jobs, etc.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1659343]I don't care where Americans like to go for sex tourism. Specially not in the Bangkok thread. The only thing relevant is how they behave when get to Bangkok, which is polite, etc. They have a good reputation in general even if sound of some americans speaking Thai with a drawl is very funny. Lower class English have a bad reputation and I cringe when I meet a loud foul mouthed group.
Possibly Americans are the most well liked Farangs in Thailand together with Danes and Norwegians. Other Farangs could try a bit of American politeness.[/QUOTE]I would have to agree with you. I think we are quite polite folks. I would also say that most continental Europeans I have met are polite. Now, I am talking when folks are sober. When inebriated all this tends to fly out the window.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1659423]What I mean is that most Americans who monger are very very discreet about their activities as it could cost them their jobs, etc.[/QUOTE]I can't think of any Nationality that would be different. For a while my boss did not believe I had a Thai "wife" and daughter. LOL Had to show him some family pics. Ha Ha!