Sosua, it ain't for everyone!
[QUOTE=SosuaPlaya;2280589]Apologies[/QUOTE]You don't need to apologize for nothing.
[QUOTE=SosuaPlaya;2280589]I am back in the States and I have to admit that I was very disappointed in my time in Sosua. I believe a large amount of my issues were probably a result of this being my first ever mongering trip, but it has left me questioning if I want to continue this.[/QUOTE]I see two different issues Mr. SP. First one is Sosua. That you were disappointed was no fault of yourself. Although I was not disappointed with my time in Sosua (I thoroughly enjoyed myself) I have returned to visit exactly zero times after my first trip. I took a trip with Mr. I've done everything for him and it was interesting. But I was basically bored after the third day and very happy to leave.
Second is mongering in and of itself. That's a question that has to be answered with your personal preferences and has nothing to do with Sosua. It comes down to does paying for sex provide a satisfying experience for you. For some men it simply does not. It also could be that you were not in the right place or you were not communicating effectively, giving off the right body language signals to let the hos know you are a player but you don't play or simply not paying enough to get the type of sex that you desire.
[QUOTE=SosuaPlaya;2280589]My experience has been full of uninspired and largely mechanical service from all the chicas I sampled. Some of them did try to put more effort into pleasing me, but I was very disappointed my script wasn't followed at all and that the sex was still subpar. It got to the point where I didn't even feel the desire to have a chica on the last couple days of my vacation.[/QUOTE]Sosua is full of what has been called: Pro Pros. They have been described as some of the hardest of the hard of the prostitutes the island has to offer. If I was looking for a girl friend experience (GFE) Sosua is the last place on this island I would look for it. Actually if I'm looking for GFE a prostitute is the last type of chica I'm looking for on this island. I've got real girlfriends for that! When I hire a chica to be my prostitute I'm looking for a ho experience (HOE). You know straight fucking no kissing! And for that Sosua has no equal.
Also, in the sexual services arena I've found Dominicans to be the least satisfying in bed. Colombians, Haitians, Venezolanas are way more sensual, sexual and passionate in la cama. They are all curvy and speak Spanish and you have your choice of them all here in the Dominican Republic or you can travel to their various countries and sample them all straight no chase. So, just a few things to think about and I think traveling to other countries to monger is a great idea for you.
[QUOTE=SosuaPlaya;2280589]On the city itself.[/QUOTE]Hardly a city my man. For that you need to come to Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este. I call Sosua a "Puta Pueblo".
[QUOTE=SosuaPlaya;2280589]I did not find anything in Sosua that was noteworthy or enjoyable to do. I anticipated this and thought it'the be fine to spend my days relaxing on the beach and enjoying the beautiful waters (and they were indeed gorgeous). But the vendors were incessant in trying to peddle their wares and the beggars more so in trying to pull any amount of pesos I would be kind enough to spare. I thought that's fine I'll say no gracias and they'll get the point, but that was a fun and naive idea. No gracias only meant that they would literally pull up to the chairs next to you and even get up and walk with you hoping you'the change your mind and that your wallet would suddenly open up for these friendly amigos. Did not enjoy the food offerings either.[/QUOTE]Well you pretty much nailed it there. The advice you read from the so called "vets" about their Sosua experience is not yours. You are not the hardened vet that all the "touts" know about and therefore steer away. Even with my many years of experience I get approached. A persistent tout or vendor gets the command voice where I speak in English "get the fuck out of my face with that shit" and follow up in Spanish with "Hablo espanol vivo aqui" (I speak Spanish I live here). Sometimes I add a vulgarity in Spanish sometimes not. That pretty much shuts them up and they move on. Now, you are not me nor are you the vets but at least you have the idea that when you face an aggressive vendor or tout in the Dominican Republic in the future that an aggressive response is required.
Rest assured there are many locations and beaches in the Dominican Republic that do not have vendors and touts roaming the beach bugging the heck out of you. Those are the ones that I frequent and trust me they are not in the puta pueblos of Sosua and Boca Chica. Holla at brother when you are wheels down at SDQ if you want to see what a real city in the Dominican Republic looks like. But remember that in Santo Domingo este if you want to run with the big dogs better be able to do your business in tall grass. This ain't Sosua. LOL!
In closing, hats off to you. You reached outside your comfort zone. You are a man in the arena. Welcome to the club!
Sosua. Love it or leave it Redux!
Right now Sosua is packed with repeat visitors, the hotel are full, and there are hundreds of chicas available ranging from newbies to HC regulars.
Ignore the endless third hand anecdotes, urban myths about "some guy" they know who got outsmarted by a dirt poor, uneducated, third world puta, and sends money to putas he never fucks, or signs over his financial assets, or believes he can give a street ho a baby, and live happily ever after. A fool and his money are soon parted anywhere in the world.
If they hang with guys like that, it explains why they are always complaining.
Ignore the claims that you can't get a GF experience here in DR, from guys that are bragging that they do have DR GFs, that they "got real girlfriends for that" LOL. Some even get their pussy for free. These same guys are bringing them perfume, hair extensions, even dresses, LOL.
Don't believe everything you read here!
It's just a pissing contest, and sometimes a circle jerk, from the usual suspects.
Here's an anecdote. I got some buddies that are anxiously lined up for a repeat visit to party with me next month, but my problem is these days, I can't stay up late and party like I used to. They are coming back for more GFE, not HC SW. There's plenty of HC SW to be found where they live, no need to spend $thousands on a trip to find more, and in some cases, giving up precious time away from families and "real girlfriends", Lol
They know how to roll!
They'll go back happy, just like last time.