[QUOTE=JoeKarnavic;1865527]As they say we have been there and seen it all. You are not the first one and will not be the last on this forum. We have seen some friends here falling in love to a level where it became an obsession. It was no longer fun. They could not take her out of their mind. And this girl was not necessary from his office but a gem like one of our AMP queens.
Though I gave sound advise to him which I am not sure how much it worked but at least he spoke to his close friends and got counselling. I will not blame anyone but it is how we men are created to fall in love with those fascinating women. I don't want to give rustic advise to you or anyone for this. I remember so many who came and bewitched me, it was falling in love, pleasure of the journey and pain at the end. First it was a sexy top class Indian secretary who loved sex in bathtub after half bottle of absolute, then a tall sexy Ukranian who will blow you early morning to a elixir you have not seen before, then it was soft lightweight Fili from Ratsky with terrific DFK and BBBJ a Thai and few others, the list is endless. It was difficult to get out of all these affairs. Some of them ended in tears at Airport. But slowly common sense prevailed, got perspective of things and realised the fallacy in all this.
My friend like Dubai Curious has aptly said, remember why you married a woman who is your wife. Look at her happy face and she is oblivious to her husband's philandering. It is then you will realise it is not worth it.
Yes fall in love by all means, it is beautiful but it should be like a early morning dream, you forget about it when you wake up.[/QUOTE]True it should be a dream and should forget it when we wake up.
