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[QUOTE=Breadman;2489723]You remind me of my buddy, falls in love too easily. He comes out of the room and tells how lovey his girl was, how she kissed and let him hold her.[/QUOTE]555 I do the same thing. But after ST together, I toss her out of my hotel and rest so I can do it again the next day. I must admit that I sent a few thousand baht to a couple of girls at the beginning of COVID, but stopped doing it as soon as they had a chance to get back to their home villages and live with family.
One way to test out any bargirl is to have a buddy she has never seen you with test her out. This may be difficult for some of you self proclaimed good looking guys but try to get a guy better looking and younger than you. Don't get guys with a comb over like myself. Have your buddy see her for as many sessions as you did and pay her/buy her things/make the same promises as you did and see what her reaction is. I will almost bet the farm her reaction to your buddy will be the same reaction you get.
FL, hope things work out with you and Secret. You know me. I'm always super skeptical about these things.
[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2489866]One way to test out any bargirl is to have a buddy she has never seen you with test her out. [/QUOTE]The easiest way to test a girl, any girl, is to take her to a social event with people of all backgrounds present. If the only girls who talk to her or she can hold a conversation with are money hungry harlots then run. If decent girls speak to her and she naturally gravitates to them, then she is a keeper.
Any girl can fool foreigners but other Thais will have her sussed 5 seconds after she enters the room and will act accordingly.
Enjoy. G.
[QUOTE=Breadman;2489723]You remind me of my buddy, falls in love too easily.... Pattaya is sin city not the love boat. .[/QUOTE]Its a bit long winded but he has got me hooked on his story. I know two girls that left working in Pattaya and went back to work in factories in Bang Bo and Samut Prakan 12 hours a day 6 days a week and its not because they were ugly it was because they didn't like the work. I think they thought they would come to Pattaya and get hooked up with a foreigner fast. I have seen girls go off to Italy or Norway with guys and they are usually back in a year or so. One hasn't come back though and man was she good. Still think about her. If any of you remember Malee from Ruby club. She seems to have made a go of it with a guy from the UK and good for both of them. Agree with you for the most part though.
[QUOTE=Goferring;2489869]Any girl can fool foreigners but other Thais will have her sussed 5 seconds after she enters the room and will act accordingly.[/QUOTE]There are no girls fooling foreigners. There are only foreigners fooling themselves. What you said holds in many many countries. Foreigner travels around the globe. Finds a hooker that he likes and decides to do nice things with her like go to a nice restaurant for dinner. He considers himself as stylin and profilin while all the locals in the vicinity are wondering what that guy is doing in a fine establishment like this with that hooker.
Back in February me and my girlfriend were driving around Brazil and stopped in a nice restaurant in a minor city. There was a 70 year old local man with like a 25 year old chick and my girlfriend whispered to me look at that guy with that hooker. We have a tendency to fantasize and romanticize, when to others (especially locals) it is as plain as day.
Besides, if you are paying barfines and shelling out money to this chick really what other proof do you need? You don't need any freakin tests. It is like the waking up a man pretending to be sleep saying. You know what you have yourself into. Why act like that is not what it is?
We have heard it all too many times: My hooker is different. Show up without money to see how different your hooker really is. If there is no more play when there is no more pay, then how was that different? You just have a regular old hooker like all the rest of the regular old hookers. Now excuse me while I go out to drive my Ferrari that everyone else in my neighborhood for some reason sees as just a normal Toyota.
[QUOTE=FLHawk;2489682] I do think it may be fun to first hear from you guys about what you think happened, or is happening. Please feel free to state your predictions based on what has happened thus far, and I will invite updated predictions along the way.[/QUOTE]I think you're still in a relationship with her and she probably did put some effort for you.
But I don't think that relationship would go anywhere far, except maybe if she considers you like a friend with benefit and has learned to respect you, but not like a boyfriend.
[QUOTE=HorseTrader;2489820]...............I still talk to a past Thai girlfriend, high class girl (Thai real estate owner, USA real estate owner, former Thai government employee, now 20+ years USA citizen). She is now happily married to a wealthy American. She not only warns me about falling for a BG, but she warns me about any Isaan girl who works in the tourism industry (hotels, airport, restaurants, massage, tour guides, etc.). She encourages me to have all the fun I want with Thai girls in the tourism industry, but never try to have a relationship with any of them.
Good luck.[/QUOTE]In my last trip to Thailand in 2015 I hooked up with a girl I met online who was a tour guide. I rate her as a 7. She was the perfect companion, if she was a 9 or 10 I believe I would have married her.
[QUOTE=Turgid;2490022]In my last trip to Thailand in 2015 I hooked up with a girl I met online who was a tour guide. I rate her as a 7. She was the perfect companion, if she was a 9 or 10 I believe I would have married her.[/QUOTE]And her Thai husband and both their extended families would have been far wealthier.
[QUOTE=Turgid;2490022]In my last trip to Thailand in 2015 I hooked up with a girl I met online who was a tour guide. I rate her as a 7. She was the perfect companion, if she was a 9 or 10 I believe I would have married her.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GettingFedUp;2490046]And her Thai husband and both their extended families would have been far wealthier.[/QUOTE]Yep, that happened with one of my friends. He married a Thai woman (without papers), then her Thai husband (and friends) showed up and encouraged my friend to leave Thailand without his valuables.
[QUOTE=FLHawk;2489682]Anyway, with that bit of preliminary advice and some background, I am ready to proceed with the rest of the Secret story. I will say I have a number of stories to tell that I think will prove entertaining. I am kind of amazed looking back. I do think it may be fun to first hear from you guys about what you think happened, or is happening. Please feel free to state your predictions based on what has happened thus far, and I will invite updated predictions along the way.[/QUOTE]We're roughly the same age and we both seem to have boundless energy. Here's hoping that your tale has a happy ending.
[QUOTE=FLHawk;2489682]I do think it may be fun to first hear from you guys about what you think happened, or is happening. Please feel free to state your predictions based on what has happened thus far, and I will invite updated predictions along the way.[/QUOTE]My guess is you are still communicating with her and sending very modest sums of cash to her. Just guessing here that you are still trying to find out if she is the one or not. Is she playing you? Probably a little bit but she my not be sure about what she wants either.
Many of us who have traveled to LOS have been through this dilemma. In most cases our relationships don't get as far along as you have. We just drop her and move on to the next one. Is that coming to our senses? Probably. Good luck FL Hawk you deserve the best.
[QUOTE=David2;2490057]We're roughly the same age and we both seem to have boundless energy. Here's hoping that your tale has a happy ending.[/QUOTE]If I recall Hawk is one old fella while the Girl isn't.
[QUOTE=FLHawk;2489682] Please feel free to state your predictions based on what has happened thus far, and I will invite updated predictions along the way.[/QUOTE]"You can be at their feet. On their knees. But never in their hands. ".
Talleyrand (1754 - 1838).
[QUOTE=Allover;2490060]My guess is you are still communicating with her and sending very modest sums of cash to her. Just guessing here that you are still trying to find out if she is the one or not. Is she playing you? Probably a little bit but she my not be sure about what she wants either.
Many of us who have traveled to LOS have been through this dilemma. In most cases our relationships don't get as far along as you have. We just drop her and move on to the next one. Is that coming to our senses? Probably. Good luck FL Hawk you deserve the best.[/QUOTE]Giving many different women cash for sex is very enjoyable but there comes a time in a man's life when he must settle down. Dying alone is not nice. Marrying an American woman is not an option.
[QUOTE=Turgid;2490338] Dying alone is not nice.[/QUOTE]It's still better than living with someone who wants you to die.