[QUOTE=Gilolo;2492216]You're a romantic guy like I was 15 years ago. Yes I loved many girls in Europe, in Thailand! I was totally in love in Thailand of some girls in the past and I was loyal before. I even tried to help them and send them money. I was thinking same like you, that these bar girls in Bangkok or Pattaya were victims and didn't have any choice and had to fuck with men to take care their family.
But right now, I think totally the opposite. If you want a good Thai girl, don't take a lady bar from a gogo or a beer bar especially in Pattaya or Bkk or Phuket. Most of them are lazy, they don't want work. And you have to understand that if you like sexy working girls like me who are 18/25 you have to understand they will never stay only with you. They lie all the time, if you're in Thailand and generous with them, of course they'll like you and they will stay with you if you give them what they want. It can be gifts, money, gold. But even if the girl say she loves you and she'll wait for you, be sure that if you don't live with her in Thailand, one time you'll be in the plane to go back your country she'll go fuck with another man as soon as your left her!
Most of the time, these sexy girls have many sponsors in the world. And when they're boring in Pattaya, they want make money go party and they ll lie to you all the time.
Last time, I was fucking a very sexy girl in Pattaya who is 21. One of my friend who lives in Pattaya gave me her Line, because he told me she was fucking sexy and she was a regular girl to him.
She came my hotel for ST for 1500. And when I was fucking her, her farang boyfriend was calling her on Line, Whasapp, Messenger all the time. And he insisted during more than 5 min, she told me when I was fucking her to let her switch off her phone. Of course I said YES and after she came back on the bed and she let me fuck her again. She just asked me like many girls to not come inside her pussy because she doesn't want be pregnant.
After we spoke and she told me she has 5 boyfriends from many countries. And I asked her why she still go with men if these men send her money. And she told me she's boring and she's in Pattaya and she says when men are nice with her she's ok to fuck. She just lie to her boyfriends and she doesn't care about them.[/QUOTE]Hahaha, I love it. Thanks for the story. Some of us grow up with the Superman complex. It's sold to to us in all the movies. Poor damsel in distress, knight in shining armor to sweep her off her feet and save her. Problem is, real life don't work like that. I (and plenty of others) learned the hard way. Got to understand that we're paying them to leave, not to stay. Don't get into a relationship unless it's mutually beneficial. Speaking of which.
[QUOTE=Goatscrot;2492118]In all honesty, if you can't come live here with her, at least for a time (and I don't mean a month or two), you should really shelve it. As stated before, I've lived here two decades. I've seen some successful relationships with bar girls, but most were disasters. Coming here and living with them for a year or so will let you know how it will be. You will also get an idea about how parasitic the family is. The relationships that I have seen that were a success always entailed gals that did not feel beholden to take care of their families and / or their families had some means. It really is the deal killer, may not seem so at first, but it will be.[/QUOTE]At Goat. What was your living arrangement / agreement back when you started living there 20 years ago? Were you retired? Did you work in Thailand? I'm asking because I've been thinking about retiring in Thailand. But I think there's an age limit of 50 for a retirement visa and I'm about 10 years shy of that. Did you start living there under the retirement visa or marriage visa? If it's a marriage visa, was there an understanding you'd still be fucking around? Was she still working? Or was there some other agreement you guys came to?
