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[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2683761]I was very polite but kind of wanted to tell her this site probably isn't going to work too well for her medical condition.[/QUOTE]Met a nice lady once we had a nice dinner date, ended up back at mine, then on my bed. As I'm about to unbutton her shirt she tells me she has had a double mastectomy. Didn't slow me down and we had fun.
The greek lady sounds like a possible scam scene setting statement as to why you can't see or meet her, just send money.
So, I saw another seeking girl yesterday. Absolute cutie of a 20 year old blonde girl with Hazel eyes and freckles. Tight little body and a big, firm ass. 100 ppm at hers and she fucked me like an absolute pornstar.
Anyway. I've got like ten other girls I'm talking to, all within easy reach. All between 100 ppm and 200 ppm. All wild and kinky and sub 25.
My question is, how the fuck do you guys enjoy this in moderation? At this rate, I'm going to be broke by the time I leave the UK again.
Planning a multi city trip through Europe.
Just made an offer to a girl in Rome. 400 euros to do dinner and night over. She wrote back "are you serious? I take that for an hour."
Is that about right? Am I off base here? Anyone know Rome?
[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2683978]Planning a multi city trip through Europe.
Just made an offer to a girl in Rome. 400 euros to do dinner and night over. She wrote back "are you serious? I take that for an hour."
Is that about right? Am I off base here? Anyone know Rome?[/QUOTE]Don't know the rates for Rome, I'm afraid, but from the response she sent you it seems like you have reached a Pro who has a Seeking profile.
[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2683978]Planning a multi city trip through Europe.
Just made an offer to a girl in Rome. 400 euros to do dinner and night over. She wrote back "are you serious? I take that for an hour."
Is that about right? Am I off base here? Anyone know Rome?[/QUOTE]My 2019 Rome weekend was EUR400 per day. Lady stayed with me fulltime while we toured around the city. We also used her car at times.
Any SB quoting hourly rates is a pro.
[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2683978]Planning a multi city trip through Europe.
Just made an offer to a girl in Rome. 400 euros to do dinner and night over. She wrote back "are you serious? I take that for an hour."
Is that about right? Am I off base here? Anyone know Rome?[/QUOTE]Well it was handy for her to say "I am a hooker and you should ghost me immediately" because that is exactly what she said. But also if a hooker in Rome gets 400/ HR (doubt it check the escort sites) then yeah that's a good SA full date rate. I've found a strong correlation between hooker hourly rate and the SA full evening rate.
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[/QUOTE]Same thing happened to me, moved to sugardaddymeet, can talk services and prices on the site instead of having a million kik conversations, similar number of girls. Saved a lot of time and effort (ie. Asking p4 p from 1st message) instead of half a dozen messages sounding them out.
[QUOTE=JJanni;2683894]So, I saw another seeking girl yesterday. Absolute cutie of a 20 year old blonde girl with Hazel eyes and freckles. Tight little body and a big, firm ass. 100 ppm at hers and she fucked me like an absolute pornstar.
Anyway. I've got like ten other girls I'm talking to, all within easy reach. All between 100 ppm and 200 ppm. All wild and kinky and sub 25.
My question is, how the fuck do you guys enjoy this in moderation? At this rate, I'm going to be broke by the time I leave the UK again.[/QUOTE]You never regret what you pay for sex if it is good. Better to be broke than an incel.
[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2683761]Had another odd SA interaction and had to share.
Talking to a chick in Greece. Cute. Said I want an arrangement. She tells me she'd love to but I should know that she has a medical condition that makes her not able to physically interact with people so she wants only non-sexual arrangement.
Ummmmmm. No.
I was very polite but kind of wanted to tell her this site probably isn't going to work too well for her medical condition.[/QUOTE]Why bother. It's undoubtedly just a bullshit story made up to mess with your emotions. Block the account and move on.
Yup. Sounds like a hooker. Stay away.
Not sure about Rome but generally in Europe I pay about 200 to 300 for overnight. Some girls spend 24 hours with me. One recent SB and I fucked 7 times in 24 hours. For 300.
Granted there are some that quote whatever ridiculous number. I block them and move on. Not worth it.
[QUOTE=Steve9696;2684121]Well it was handy for her to say "I am a hooker and you should ghost me immediately" because that is exactly what she said. But also if a hooker in Rome gets 400/ HR (doubt it check the escort sites) then yeah that's a good SA full date rate. I've found a strong correlation between hooker hourly rate and the SA full evening rate.[/QUOTE]
OK this is validating.
I'll admit I offered a few more girls 400 euros for the night since. This experience got me to bump up my offer. They all accepted. Now I think I overshot and went too high. But I can't really come back and negotiate down. Oh well. You can't get buried with it.
[QUOTE=Gfefan;2684228]Yup. Sounds like a hooker. Stay away.
Not sure about Rome but generally in Europe I pay about 200 to 300 for overnight. Some girls spend 24 hours with me. One recent SB and I fucked 7 times in 24 hours. For 300.
Granted there are some that quote whatever ridiculous number. I block them and move on. Not worth it..[/QUOTE]
Blondie from close by hit me up for a loan of 20 gbp and send me a load of videos and pics to try and get it. I was at a loose end, she made me horny, so I went to see her.
As good or better as last time. This girl kisses like she means it and never gets tired of it, or turns away. She came twice from oral, twice when I was fucking her. Bedwetting, dick / finger clenching, eyes rolling into the back of her head (all I could see were whites), scream the house down orgasms. Ego boost or what?
So we're lying there after about an hour, chatting while I build up to round two and the front door downstairs opens. Her brother has come around to visit unannounced with his wife and kids. Her rather large brother.
Quick as a flash, she's up, wiggling in to a top and yoga pants with my jizz still dripping out of her, telling me she's so sorry, just hide up here blah-blah.
I was rather concerned to be honest!
About ten minutes later, she's got them settled in the kitchen. Comes back up, kisses me and whispers to me to sneak out, she'll make it up to me later.
Quietly down the stairs and out the open front door. Phew!
Kind of hot to be honest.
I was going to write a longer report about tonight but don't want to include too many details. Bottom line is the girl I hooked up with tonight has issues and I feel bad about it. Early 20's white girl. First warning sign was her preferred drink was shots but I'the picked a brewery. While we're having a beer she mentions she's got siblings by different fathers. In between sex back in the room she mentions she used to bb a lot and needed an abortion. Also pretty much says she got raped by a guy on a dating app. As a result she doesn't like some BDSM anymore. Got into seeking because a friend does it but she admits friend has mental issues. First guy she met on seeking stiffed her ppm after she drunkenly agreed to meet him.
I'm probably forgetting other details but you get the gist. The sex was good even though I didn't finish, probably bc of the cover but I just feel bad for this girl. I've never been captain save a hoe but damn I just want to help her. I can understand why some guys are like that now and want to provide. I feel guilty, like I'm just using her too, which I am. I didn't stiff her ppm and the exchange was clear but I feel like I'm exacerbating the issues. She's doing seeking on the side, just like the other girls I've done ppm with, but I didn't walk away feeling guilty before. A previous girl also had a taste for hard drugs and partied a lot but nada. I know the conservative argument is that she made most of those decisions, including to be on seeking and that this could be applied to escorts too but I still feel exploitative.
[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2684621]I just feel bad for this girl. I've never been captain save a hoe but damn I just want to help her. I can understand why some guys are like that now and want to provide. I feel guilty, like I'm just using her too, which I am. [/QUOTE]I feel you, bro. When I started to get to know the SBs, and when I get to know pros too, I end up feeling bad for many of them. I remember spending the weekend with a pro, and while we were on the beach on the second day, I noticed the slash mark scars all over her legs. I asked her about it. She told me about her crappy life and that she started to cut herself as a coping mechanism. She became a pro so she could buy a home for her poor parents and because she wanted to someday have money to start a family of her own. By the time the weekend was over, I ended up giving her double what I promised. She was so touched. I saw her a few more times, and each time she begged me to marry her and have a baby with her. That pretty much killed my desire to fuck her, because I felt so sorry for her and because I felt guilty for just using her, and so I stopped seeing her despite her phenomenal body.
We all know pros and SBs that are lazy and just hook on the side to pay for their drinking and partying. But many SBs and pros are in it to support their kid, or they have deadbeat or peasant parents, or they have a pyschological disorder, or whatever. And so I sometimes felt this was one of the downsides of SA. Many SBs are on there becuase they have some problem, just like many pros become pros because they have some problem. With pros, we can be blissfully ignorant about their problems. But with SBs, we often get to known them, as that is part of the arrangement usually.
Do I have any advice? Nope. Except that I eventually moved from arrangments and went back to pros so that I can be happily ignorant again. Does this mean I will swear off arrangements forever? Not really. I still have a few arrangements where the gals are pretty normal, and I purposely avoid in depth conversations with them about their lives.
Speaking of fucking, I have no idea when I will fuck again. I am in Shanghai and have not been allowed to step outside my apartment for the past two weeks, with no end in sight. Sigh. Oh well.
[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2684621]I was going to write a longer report about tonight but don't want to include too many details. Bottom line is the girl I hooked up with tonight has issues and I feel bad about it. Early 20's white girl. First warning sign was her preferred drink was shots but I'the picked a brewery. While we're having a beer she mentions she's got siblings by different fathers. In between sex back in the room she mentions she used to bb a lot and needed an abortion. Also pretty much says she got raped by a guy on a dating app. As a result she doesn't like some BDSM anymore. Got into seeking because a friend does it but she admits friend has mental issues. First guy she met on seeking stiffed her ppm after she drunkenly agreed to meet him.
I'm probably forgetting other details but you get the gist. The sex was good even though I didn't finish, probably bc of the cover but I just feel bad for this girl. I've never been captain save a hoe but damn I just want to help her. I can understand why some guys are like that now and want to provide. I feel guilty, like I'm just using her too, which I am. I didn't stiff her ppm and the exchange was clear but I feel like I'm exacerbating the issues. She's doing seeking on the side, just like the other girls I've done ppm with, but I didn't walk away feeling guilty before. A previous girl also had a taste for hard drugs and partied a lot but nada. I know the conservative argument is that she made most of those decisions, including to be on seeking and that this could be applied to escorts too but I still feel exploitative.[/QUOTE]The way I square it in my mind is that I am a nice guy, despite being a degenerate. I'm kind to the girls, pay what's agreed, even more, never make them feel threatened and unsafe, try my best to have them enjoy being with me.
You not seeing a girl is not going to get her out of the game. And she's going to see people who aren't as nice as you.