You explained it perfect ly
[QUOTE=Oakie;2476642]To answer your questions properly a little backgound context is needed.
A lot of visitors to the DR find the culture weird, after living all their lives in countries where sex is seen as some kind of vice, and separated from normal human behaviour by taboos, and legal restrictions. I was a decent looking guy, with a huge appetite for (straight) sex, but I had to dedicate an unreasonable amount of time, money and hard work to get good looking women to satisfy me. GFs, strippers, MPs, escorts, incalls, SWs before they banned them, and left only the sad crack addicts. Prostitution was illegal and enforced so there was no protection from scams, or that red cherry flashing on the cop car behind you. LOL.
I had travelled and gotten laid all through the USA And Mexico, most of the Caribbean Islands, and most countries in Europe after the wall came down, so I wasn't completely naive. But you still had to get off the reservation, and navigate the seedy red light zones.
Then I found the DR (thanks to Mr GoGo) Like coming out of jail! Sex was as common as eating, drinking or smoking. Nobody waving their fingers at you for being with a hooker. A welcoming chica hotel on every corner. The tourist cops giving you a smile and a thumbs up. Chicas wanting you to meet their families, LOL. As TM said, earlier, I was overwhelmed.
I used to call it the "fucked up DR morality", which sees hookers in church with their families, (my regular wouldn't miss a Sunday Service with her kid) and families encouraging their offspring and minding the babies while they go out to "work". No "attitude" from the male population, unlike some parts of the Caribbean.
I've had only two regulars here, one for 7 and one for 4 years. The first one was always jealous of my time (or my money) spent away, so I had to monger on the side. This one is completely open and bi. She doesn't mind sharing, she knows, and our friends know it's only recreational sex, not "love". She has her life, and her own place in PP with her kid, so I get her down for 2 or 3 days every week, She goes home Sunday morning, and I get a lazy TV sports day, and time during the week to meet up with friends over a beer. (took a little training to get that straight!) but I generally don't fuck around on her with strangers. No need to.
So I've just stopped being judgmental and go with the flow and we are all happy! We share drink and food with our chica friends, why not a little sex too, if it happens?
The past 11 years have been the healthiest, happiest, least stressful time in my entire life. How do you put a price on that?
But I'm often asked why live in Sosua? The answer is I got everything here, beaches, restaurants, no driving necessary, pussy, and 11 years of connections to locals and most businesses, where I don't have to carry money. I can "pay you later" in most of the places I frequent, a far cry from my home town, where they get a mite angsty about that!
I'm presently back in my PC fucked up dysfunctional country, on family business, but already my stomach is tense and is acting up, and I got Big Brother Wolf Blitzer on a giant TV staring at me and telling me the whole world is coming to an end!
I need to get back, quick.[/QUOTE]I'm sorta like you, I try to get extras out of every Chicas I fuck but I also deal with keepers for years. The DR is just opening me up to what is possible.