Do Not Let Guard Down and Do Not Overhype
Firstly let's try not to overhype people. Good reviews are okay to share, but too much hype goes to their head and they start feeling they can take liberties as the market is set.
Also, it makes mongers let their guard down and trust blindly.
I got taken in by the reviews Arun had posted on MR and thought that someone from the forum has posted about her being a great human being. It didn't occur to me she could do something like that. During the argument she was pointing to those reviews to state how great she is.
Also mongers we need to always be on our guard, no matter what others say about their experience with a girl. We need to remember that those working in this line are likely to have shady contacts and dangerous connections.
If you see my second review about the SP, I learnt from my experience. As soon as I found some suspicious, I bailed out immediately.