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[QUOTE=George90]I agree. Whites, especially White women, seem to think that because a lot of Black guys are into big round butts that they are also into fat. So fat White women feel that a Black man won't reject them. However, a shapely behind is not equivalent to a big gut! The problem is that is too many Black guys are into EASY pussy and won't tell those White BBWs to go on a diet and get some exercise.[/QUOTE]
We're starting to generalize a bit. It doesn't bother me, but maybe some should look at what they are saying before they post. I know this is "real talk" and real talk can be frank, so its all good, just be respectful...
I have dated and banged my share of overweight women, I can't lie.
Its not what I'm into, but you come to a point in your social life where you feel your choices are limited to your right hand or bangin some fat chick.
For the better part of the last 3 years, I have cut-off fat women. Save for the Hungerian hottie (and she is), I haven't dated or been with another woman heavier than me (195lbs) or even close to my weight for that matter. Its the choice I have made. Why should I continue to date below what I desire most? Its not fair to me and its not fair to her.
What I see in Interracial Relationships is the same thing I see in same race/culture relationships. Some dudes like fat women, ugly women, ugly and fat women and others don't. I see some shockingly attractive women with black men all the time. Maybe its the nasty and fat ones that shock you most, like a train wreck. You just notice them more.
My cousin is married to one of the most attractive white women I've seen in my life, she's from GB. They have 6 kids, I think that sez is all right there.
We have some dashing young men in my family but the all seem to struggle with dating and it really doesn't matter what race the women in question is. Its the fact they are mainly jiving with American women and that alone is the reason why some of them are still single.
I maintain what I said, if you seeking LTR you really need to find a woman that's above all the nonsense that surrounds us. Its just easier in Europe where they are more interested in the "Gilmore Girls" than "Oprah".
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[QUOTE=Elberto]I'm a white guy, but one of my black friends told me "You're a brother on the inside."
I took it as a compliment.[/QUOTE]
I'll give you a "dap" for that.
Stay strong in '07
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[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney] I have dated and banged my share of overweight women, I can't lie.[/QUOTE]The bigger the berry the sweeter the juice! O wait. It's the blacker the berry the sweeter the juice. But if you want more juice get a bigger berry. Come to think of it, I haven't banged too many big girls who needed to lube up; either hole. Pro or non-pro.
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[QUOTE=Astor Bryan]I'm a black male of Carrib decent living in the USA and have no problems meeting attractive mature white women. I've always said I will never date any woman wider than me, I'm about 6'2", weigh 186Ibs and quite fit.
The fat white ladies you speak of are very open and in your face about wanting a black guy. So a black guy seeing free pussy staring him in the face will jump at the chance. I personally just ignore them because I have no interest in fat women of any race period. Lately I've been introduced to the open life style where an attractive white wife wants to be banged by a couple of black guys.[/QUOTE]
Wrong answer!
Any guy, seeing free pussy staring him in the face will jump at the chance! Not just black males!
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[QUOTE=Ben2]Any guy, seeing free pussy staring him in the face will jump at the chance! Not just black males![/QUOTE]
First of all, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS [B]FREE[/B] PUSSY!!! We have debated that point before.
BBWs may be EASY pussy, but they are not FREE pussy. The cost comes in when you try to bang a different lady and they are hanging on, getting in your business, introducing you are their boyfriend or even fiance, etc. The yo have to pay like the dickens to get rid of them. Not to mention that once it is out that you are banging BBWs, all the rest of them will come your way and crowd out the fine, slim ladies. LOL
Second of all, I think *some* Black guys are kind of lazy when it comes to getting pussy. They jump on easy pussy. They walk away from pussy that makes them work. Like the guy said below "If she is not interested, I just move on to the next one."
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[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney]I have dated and banged my share of overweight women, I can't lie.
Its not what I'm into, but you come to a point in your social life where you feel your choices are limited to your right hand or bangin some fat chick.
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I feel for you. I went through some mean dry spells in my younger days when money/survival was a higher priority. But the BBWs that were available to me were just not worth it. I knew guys who did what you did and swore that fat chicks were great in bed. When money was no longer so tight, amongerin' I went to make up for lost time.
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[QUOTE=George90]First of all, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS [B]FREE[/B] PUSSY!!! We have debated that point before.
BBWs may be EASY pussy, but they are not FREE pussy. The cost comes in when you try to bang a different lady and they are hanging on, getting in your business, introducing you are their boyfriend or even fiance, etc. The yo have to pay like the dickens to get rid of them. Not to mention that once it is out that you are banging BBWs, all the rest of them will come your way and crowd out the fine, slim ladies. LOL
Second of all, I think *some* Black guys are kind of lazy when it comes to getting pussy. They jump on easy pussy. They walk away from pussy that makes them work. Like the guy said below "If she is not interested, I just move on to the next one."[/QUOTE]
Very true!!!!!!
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F*ck 'em!!!
dude,
gettin pussy doesn't take money, looks, nor being of a certain race. it does, however, require confidence and a bit of know-how.
you know, i was in a similar situation as you. i thought that there was something wrong with me due to the racist crap here in america... until i started travelling in other countries. the girls overseas have much less racist bullshit.
by the way, you know what's the best way to get back at these racist @ssholes? f*ck 'em. that's right, f*ck 'em. use them up and spit them out!
get ross jeffries's speed seduction. he'll give you all the know-how and tricks you'll need to seduce all sorts of women! i monger now because it takes too much time to seduce them (i know, it says "speed seduction", but it really does take a lot of time to do, at least the hot ones). however, when i was younger, i used to use ross jeffries's speed seduction and you might be surprised to find that it works!
he has hundreds of tricks to get hot chicks into bed. here's just one of them that i used and it worked:
i used to live in l.a. all the hottest waitresses in the classy restaurants in l.a. are actress wannabes. they are constantly having guys hit on them claiming to be movie producers. they're on to the scam. so, this is what i did. i placed an ad on yahoo stating that i was a producer looking for an actress in a big hollywood movie. i got a whole bunch of glossy photos and resumes in the mail. i took these into a restaurant and innocently looked through them. inevitably, a hot waitress will come to my table and ask, "what're you doing?" (the fish are nibbling). i'll say, "my sister wanted me to choose an actress for her for this movie...." this will ease her suspicion since you are not pretending to be a producer, plus it will explain why you drive an el cheapo car because you are not the big-time producer, but your sister is. man, i have banged so many hot waitresses in l.a. it's not even funny. these are the same women who would normally cruelly tell me to "buzz off" and insult me. bang 'em. it is the best revenge.
speed seduction will turn you into a shark in a guppy tank. you don't need looks nor money, but you will outsmart others to get what you want. you will become a predator hunting human prey. it is 1000 times more exciting than shooting some dumb animal because you are now hunting humans!!! just be warned that you will start to be successful in other areas of your life, too. that's because once you start banging supermodels every day because you outsmarted them, you will feel superhuman. you will feel like you own all the money in the world since other people are just temporarily holding it in their wallet for you. it will leave you seriously mind-warped because you'll feel that you are somehow better than everybody else... they are just sheep. their only purpose in life is to die so you can eat them. everybody else are sub-human. laws and rules only apply to them, not you. i have a friend who became a sociopath because of ross jeffries.
i banged professional runway models, actresses, heiresses, porn stars, you name it, i've banged them. just don't do the idiotic thing that i did... marry one of them and end up being their personal slave!
here is the url for speed seduction:
[url]http://www.seduction.com/[/url]
oh, by the way, here's another one of his tricks:
if a girl objects to something you say, don't argue with her, but agree with her in a way that makes her agree with you. for example, you are taking off the waitress's clothes at your place. she puts up resistance and says, "it's too soon. we can't do this. i just met you."
most guys would argue with them. this is wrong. come-on, arguing is a turn-off. how could she be turned on to having sex if you turn her off?!
so, instead of arguing, you agree with her, "you know, you're right. it is too soon for you to be feeling your heart beating faster and faster... feel your breathing getting harder and harder.... until you are so excited that you suddenly can't control yourself! it is too soon to suddenly... find yourself suddenly getting really excited while i undo your bra.... (heh heh heh....).
i am old and lazy now, so i monger. i shoot fish in a barrel. i have money, so i can afford to do this. if you lack money, just do what i did as a younger man: use ross jeffries's speed seduction and go safari hunting cuz you might be surprised to find that it works!!!
[quote=el socio06]well, guys.
after reading through all the posts here, i think i can say that i have it the worst when it comes to ltr, without a doubt. you see, i'm not a black man, a white man nor an asian man. i am a us-born latin from new york. you have no idea how limited my options are in terms of ltr:
1) i fit the profile of us-born latins having lower income. i do have a high school diploma and an associate degree but finished short of the 4-yr degree. too much drama that i won't get into here. so no going over the world mongering for me.
2) my parents are usually the conservative type from the "homeland", which means that some of their fucked-up social and cultural values rubbed off on me. i have problems trying to loosen up when it came to meeting people of the opposite sex. the clubbing scene is a big turn-off for me. even the social clubs around the city i have trouble getting traction in because the girls are already there with their boyfriends/fuck buddies/whatever or a bunch of girls are together and have this bad attitude. a lot of us-based latins have the worst attributes from both their old culture and the us culture combined. that is not to mention the stupid reggaeton/hip-hop crap that's the rage today. it's absolutely sickening!
3) going outside the ethnic group/social group is a big problem because:
a) latins in the us have this big stigma attached to them. either they're looked at as criminals, illegal aliens or the machista-sexist type. i'm neither a criminal nor an illegal alien. and i'm pretty soft for a big guy. shy even.
b) again, latins have this cultural pride thing and, as a result, i have problems trying to break through this barrier. it's stupid but that's what i have to live with.
4) going back to the "homeland" to look for women is another big problem:
a) most women there think that people coming over from the us already have money or should have money by now. i'm about as close to broke as possible. so i can't even afford to lie to a woman promising to take care of her because i already have enough drama paying the bills and i can't afford to tack on a woman who turns out to be a manipulating (rhymes with "witch").
b) on that point, you have to realize that latin women in many countries treat men of the same ethnic group like crap. either they feel that they have to get back at all the other men because of the way many men mistreat them or they have this superiority complex that hides their self-doubt.
c) like i said before, i am neither black, white nor asian. so i can't even fake an "exotic" look.
so i get no luck with women in the same ethnic and with women from other ethnic groups.
the real reason why i read this forum is to live through others' reports the fantasy of being that man who is desired, of that confident and well-off man who is adventerous and self-assured. in reality, i am just another nobody in a sea of nobodies. i feel that i can't even look at a woman because i'm afraid she'll report me for harrassment. maybe i need psychological counseling.
at this point, i can certainly use some tips from the experts at this little panel here. i think ltr is the only way i will ever have a decent sexual relationship because i certainly don't have the goods for str nor a bang-bang.[/quote]
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Hey El Socio06 go to the following website [url]http://www.laddertheory.com/[/url]
It does a very good job of explaining the mindset of American women.
[QUOTE=El Socio06]Well, guys.
After reading through all the posts here, I think I can say that I have it the worst when it comes to LTR, without a doubt. You see, I'm not a black man, a white man nor an asian man. I am a US-born Latin from New York. You have no idea how LIMITED my options are in terms of LTR:
1) I fit the profile of US-born Latins having lower income. I do have a high school diploma and an associate degree but finished short of the 4-yr degree. Too much drama that I won't get into here. So no going over the world mongering for me.
2) My parents are usually the conservative type from the "homeland", which means that some of their fucked-up social and cultural values rubbed off on me. I have problems trying to loosen up when it came to meeting people of the opposite sex. The clubbing scene is a big turn-off for me. Even the social clubs around the city I have trouble getting traction in because the girls are already there with their boyfriends/fuck buddies/whatever or a bunch of girls are together and have this bad attitude. A lot of US-based Latins have the worst attributes from both their old culture and the US culture COMBINED. That is not to mention the stupid reggaeton/hip-hop crap that's the rage today. It's absolutely sickening!
3) Going outside the ethnic group/social group is a BIG problem because:
a) Latins in the US have this big stigma attached to them. Either they're looked at as criminals, illegal aliens or the machista-sexist type. I'm neither a criminal nor an illegal alien. And I'm pretty soft for a big guy. Shy even.
b) Again, Latins have this cultural pride thing and, as a result, I have problems trying to break through this barrier. It's stupid but that's what I have to live with.
4) Going back to the "homeland" to look for women is another BIG problem:
a) Most women there think that people coming over from the US already have money or SHOULD have money by now. I'm about as close to broke as possible. So I can't even afford to lie to a woman promising to take care of her because I already have enough drama paying the bills and I can't afford to tack on a woman who turns out to be a manipulating (rhymes with "witch").
b) On that point, you have to realize that Latin women in many countries treat men of the same ethnic group like CRAP. Either they feel that they have to get back at all the other men because of the way many men mistreat them or they have this superiority complex that hides their self-doubt.
c) Like I said before, I am neither black, white nor asian. So I can't even fake an "exotic" look.
So I get no luck with women in the same ethnic AND with women from other ethnic groups.
The real reason why I read this forum is to live through others' reports the fantasy of being that man who is desired, of that confident and well-off man who is adventerous and self-assured. In reality, I am just another nobody in a sea of nobodies. I feel that I can't even look at a woman because I'm afraid she'll report me for harrassment. Maybe I need psychological counseling.
At this point, I can certainly use some tips from the experts at this little panel here. I think LTR is the only way I will ever have a decent sexual relationship because I certainly don't have the goods for STR nor a bang-bang.[/QUOTE]
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More BS....
astor bryan,
dude, you are just repeating what el socio06 was saying, that he is not rich enough nor good-looking enough to do hot chicks. that is just bs, man!
i am one fat f*ck and i've banged hundreds of hot chicks, one after the other as girlfriends (not p4p) using the ross jeffries system.
you are just using psychobable to say, "she is out of your league." bs.
this is a quote from the "ladder theory":
[quote=astor bryan]
have you ever seen a guy that was not particularly attractive, rich or muscled yet was with a lovely woman? for most guys the most common reaction is envy, something like "hey i'm not all that muscled, attractive or rich either. why can't i be fucking a girl like that?" when their relationship ends, he will probably never be able to get another woman as good as the one he is with right now -- the rest of his life he'll likely be striving in vain. [/quote]
as with anything else in life, if you think you cannot do it, then surprise! you can't do it, but if you can dream it then you can do it. instead of using your brain to think up psychobable theories, go out and outsmart some p*ssy! have you ever let a salesman talk you into buying something, then later said to yourself, "what the hell did i just do?!" you might be surprised to find that you can outsmart girls to get them saying the same thing as you boot them out of your car after a night of hot sex. you might be surprised to find that the ladder theory is just that a theory. it is not ladder fact.
i have f*cked hundreds of hot chicks using ross jeffries system. that is a fact. i invite you to just do it. ross jeffries gives you a money back guarantee. what can you lose? (except your virginity)!
peace and happy new year, guys! i am not criticizing you astor. i just want to look out for my fellow man (you included). it is not right for a man to work hard for money only to let the bitches milk us dry (ladder theory). we should be able to keep our money and f*ck their @sses dry! if we were in a bar, i'd buy el socio06 and astor bryan a round of beers, pick up the waitress bringing us the drinks, and leave....
p.s. i counter the "ladder theory" with the theory of evolution. if looks were most important to women, men would be wearing makeup and colorful clothes, not women. or men would evolve to be like peacocks, with our looks being the distinguishing factor that puts us apart from other animals. however, the fact is that man's distinguishing factor that has evolved over eons is his brain. that's why statistically, men have slightly bigger brains than women. that's why humans have the biggest brainpower of all the animals. you could either use your brains to make money (ladder theory), then use the money to get girls. that would be an indirect use of your brain to get girls. or you could use your brain directly to get women into bed. if you don't have the time or inclination to think up of tricks to get hot chicks, then just borrow ross jeffries's tricks and use speed seduction. he's already thought it through for you.... put the theory of evolution to work for you. get hundreds of hot chicks pregnant and run like hell from any paternity tests!!!
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[QUOTE=George90]I feel for you. I went through some mean dry spells in my younger days when money/survival was a higher priority. But the BBWs that were available to me were just not worth it. I knew guys who did what you did and swore that fat chicks were great in bed. When money was no longer so tight, amongerin' I went to make up for lost time.[/QUOTE]
I won't say they were better or worst. It was about the same. The visuals are messed up!
I have made sure that while you could say they were fat, you couldn't say they were ugly... From the neck or chest up, some of the girls I have been with can give some skinny girls a run for their money if you just went off facial quality.
Money has never been an issue. Its a combination of things...
One of my german contacts is now in town. She was calling me from a payphone at LAX.... I was up in Stockton
We'll connect this weekend I hope.
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[QUOTE=George90]First of all, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS [B]FREE[/B] PUSSY!!! We have debated that point before.
BBWs may be EASY pussy, but they are not FREE pussy. The cost comes in when you try to bang a different lady and they are hanging on, getting in your business, introducing you are their boyfriend or even fiance, etc. The yo have to pay like the dickens to get rid of them. Not to mention that once it is out that you are banging BBWs, all the rest of them will come your way and [b]crowd out the fine, slim ladies[/b]. LOL
Second of all, I think *some* Black guys are kind of lazy when it comes to getting pussy. They jump on easy pussy. They walk away from pussy that makes them work. Like the guy said below "If she is not interested, I just move on to the next one."[/QUOTE]
Kinda like an solar eclipse???? LOL
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Hey guys,
I have just started reading into this forum area and I have questions to ask. Way back in the beginning of this forum there was talk of Black men dating women in Brazil. I have been looking to travel to Brazil for a while now. I mainly want to visit Rio since it appears they have some of the most beautiful women in the world their. Also I am an ass man. LOL. I am hoping to get enough money together to travel there next month. Maybe I can get a student visa and stay for a year or something. Its seems that its always best to stay there as your pussy rating goes higher.
Now at the beginning of the forum I noticed that darkseid and lithium were talking about which women black men had most sucess with. Apparently the lower class women are the most open to dating black men. naturally upper class women are going to be hardest. They are the hardest in any society regardless of race. what about middle class women? And lighter skinned chicks? How good will my portguese have to be to get some action?
I really want to know this from a black mans point of view as well.
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[QUOTE=Enigma84]Hey guys,
I have just started reading into this forum area and I have questions to ask. Way back in the beginning of this forum there was talk of Black men dating women in Brazil. I have been looking to travel to Brazil for a while now. I mainly want to visit Rio since it appears they have some of the most beautiful women in the world their. Also I am an ass man. LOL. I am hoping to get enough money together to travel there next month. Maybe I can get a student visa and stay for a year or something. Its seems that its always best to stay there as your pussy rating goes higher.
I really want to know this from a black mans point of view as well.[/QUOTE]
You should check out the Brazil thread to get most of your answers.
I have dated a Brazilian woman. If you are interested in dating Brazilian women, as oposed to just having sex with them using pros, then I suggest you also check out somne of the introduction agencies that have brazilian women. A big one is Latin Euro. Others are Brazil Romance, My Latin Flame, Latin Social Network, Brazil Girls, Brazil Exterior. You could then get a head start on getting to know some non-pros to date when you get there.
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[QUOTE=Enigma84]Hey guys,
Now at the beginning of the forum I noticed that darkseid and lithium were talking about which women black men had most sucess with. Apparently the lower class women are the most open to dating black men. naturally upper class women are going to be hardest. They are the hardest in any society regardless of race. what about middle class women? And lighter skinned chicks? How good will my portguese have to be to get some action?
I really want to know this from a black mans point of view as well.[/QUOTE]
You have to remember that the classes in Brazil are like a pyramid, not a diamond like in the US. Most people are lower class, therefore most of the women you will meet will be lower class. The middle class is there but not super large, so some of the women you will meet will be middle class. Theupper class is elite. Unless you are also upper class you will not be meeting any of those women.
Skin color is not a big issue to anyone except the upper class. You will not have a problem meeting White women if they are into Black men.
With non-pros, you need to be able to speak decent Portuguese. With pros, you don't.