Pattaya Reports

[QUOTE=MaxBkk;2590225]The weirdest thing about this is that she will probably come back and marry her Thai BF after a few years. You also see a lot of Eastern Euro ladies do the same thing, marry a western dude for $ then go back home after 5 years and marry the original boyfriend.

I grew up in a western country, have spent 25 years in various developing countries and have a good understanding of the theoretical differences in culture but never truly understand the intricacies of shit like this occurring. Does not make logical sense.[/QUOTE]Makes perfect sense to me. The woman loves the original guy but desperately needs money. Marries a rich (er) guy because she's told her life would be better with the new guy. Eventually realizes the new guy / country sucks and her more comfortable life isn't worth it. Goes back to her original guy with a bit more money.

Obviously what they haven't thought about is what happens with the rich guy's money runs out.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2589943]With so many ladies coming over...It's pretty normal for a lady to claim that she never came with her Thai boyfriend since he finished in 3 minutes. And for them to say their first orgasm came with a customer who fucked them for a long time...Of course, they all fake it 99% of the time, except with me.[/QUOTE]That's because they just finished getting pounded by yours truly for 3 hours non-stop. Just kidding. They don't fake it with you because "you #1 GI" and they "love you too mutt". ROTFLMAO.

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[QUOTE=RacShack;2590311]Nice thanks can't wait to check out, is this the bars that your friend owns? Do you have a piece of any of these bars? You seen to have lots of interest in these bars! Aren't at least one of them known to have ladyboys working? Stay and travel safe![/QUOTE]Maggie May's is part of a chain owned by an investor group. I started going there in late 2018 when it opened under different management.

Yes, there are some ladyboys who worked there.

No, I am not one of the investors, just a customer.

I am running into ladies who have fetishes. Maybe it's because there's no customers and thus no time pressure, but I am running into ladies who love to give long BJs, without my asking or paying.

Today, I had a massage lady who couldn't get enough of giving a prostate massage to the point where I don't know if I can fuck tonight. She applied pressure everywhere from below my balls all the way down.

It's just weird when bar girls do that kind of stuff. I can't imagine they do it with their Thai boyfriends.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2590455]It's just weird when bar girls do that kind of stuff. I can't imagine they do it with their Thai boyfriends.[/QUOTE]It's the case with many girls when they're willing to do more stuff with their customer than with their boyfriend, even with first time customers sometimes. And it doesn't make a difference if the boyfriend is Thai or foreigner.

[QUOTE=MaxBkk;2590075]Exactly, 1/2 expats I know in BKK have a loose understanding with their GF that as long as it is discreet you can slip away occasionally....[/QUOTE]...and rest assured she will also slip away occasionally either to her Thai boyfriend or to make some extra cash.

[QUOTE=Turgid;2590569]...and rest assured she will also slip away occasionally either to her Thai boyfriend or to make some extra cash.[/QUOTE]As long as she is relatively discreet everybody is happy.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2590455]I am running into ladies who have fetishes. Maybe it's because there's no customers and thus no time pressure, but I am running into ladies who love to give long BJs, without my asking or paying.

Today, I had a massage lady who couldn't get enough of giving a prostate massage to the point where I don't know if I can fuck tonight. She applied pressure everywhere from below my balls all the way down.

It's just weird when bar girls do that kind of stuff. I can't imagine they do it with their Thai boyfriends.[/QUOTE]There is a lady at Tulip in BKK that is really like this. If you do something weird to her that she likes, she goes off the rails. It is a lot of fun. She is similar to my wife. I constantly have to come up with something she thinks is dirty or kinky, it pushes her button.

Relationship with Thai Women.

I have always wondered how the communication goes. I have been with my woman for 20+ years. She is American. She is really kinky. She loves taking on groups of guys and the occasional sexy woman. She knows everything about me and all of my dirty trips to Thailand / HKG / Germany. She has met some of my friends in Thailand. BUT we still have days were she can go off the rails. Communication still breaks down between two people who don't hide anything and speak the same language from birth. I wonder how anyone of you handle the off days with Thai women. I love women. I respect women. But in America, my experience has been that women just fight some days for fighting sake. You just have to get in the car and drive away. If you have a good woman, she calls you and apologizes.

[QUOTE=AmPervert;2590578]There is a lady at Tulip in BKK that is really like this. If you do something weird to her that she likes, she goes off the rails. It is a lot of fun. She is similar to my wife. I constantly have to come up with something she thinks is dirty or kinky, it pushes her button.[/QUOTE]And which Tulip gal might that be?

[QUOTE=MaxBkk;2590075]Exactly, 1/2 expats I know in BKK have a loose understanding with their GF that as long as it is discreet you can slip away occasionally.

A wise man once said to: "when you live in a developing country, you live by the golden rule", "he who has the gold, makes the rules."[/QUOTE]I can't tell you how many ladies hit the bars when their Farang boyfriend has slipped away for a few hours.

Or when the boyfriend is visiting the Philippines.

I had one lady come into the bar and tell me all about her Farang boyfriend and how wonderful he is. She was interrupted by some guy who took her into a back booth where she blew him. When she came out, she said "customer before", as if that explained it. Then she resorted to "I'm a very bad girl".

[QUOTE=Philosophus;2588655]The case for agreeing on things upfront is strong. I meant to plead for flexibility. I meant to say that pleading during play for extras such as BBBJ, BBFS, CIP, CIM, CIF or anilingus is often successful for ridiculously little money. Why? The young girl is horny. The young girl has come to know you and becomes more trusting. Any smart young girl does have a vested interest in getting you off, for men get peaceful in the act. I only go with real pretty, young lookers. I disagree with EihTooms that a good licking and an oral finish are not an acceptable ending. In fact even a well delivered double handed mano job cannot be replicated by masturbating. A lubed finger on your anus can be exhilerating. Most good porn flicks end with a rich facial and hair shot. The whole P4 P biz used to be dominated by oral sex and esp. Oral endings before condoms became available.[/QUOTE]Under normal conditions, bar girls just aren't into what they are doing. A Soi 6 lady doing 5 customers a day is more concerned about how to spend her money, whether to go to the salon, they are just going through the motions. An older lady with fewer customers is more concerned about pleasing the customer, since she needs money to keep her Thai boyfriend happy. These people are working, they don't have time or inclination to worry about enjoying getting pounded.

For context, think about those 60 year British women who go to West Africa to have a "relationship " with a young local. Do you think those guys are in it for the sex?

Under normal circumstances, no. I think there are exceptions now in Pattaya due to lack of customers and local men, and the lockdown. The ladies can't get out much, and they are all scrambling to shop for free food and try to make a little money. Customers are Golden now.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2590893]I can't tell you how many ladies hit the bars when their Farang boyfriend has slipped away for a few hours.

Or when the boyfriend is visiting the Philippines.

I had one lady come into the bar and tell me all about her Farang boyfriend and how wonderful he is. She was interrupted by some guy who took her into a back booth where she blew him. When she came out, she said "customer before", as if that explained it. Then she resorted to "I'm a very bad girl".[/QUOTE]Yes, if the girlfriend is a hard core ex bar girl then the probability she will see someone the minute you leave the country is high.

If you are an expat that has a normal job or small business that is dating a normal office Thai girl, that has never worked in the sex industry. Then the chances she will cheat on you are about the same as in any country, just depends on the individual girl.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2590894]...For context, think about those 60 year British women who go to West Africa to have a "relationship " with a young local. Do you think those guys are in it for the sex?....[/QUOTE]In 1969 my dad took the family on a Caribbean cruise. We spent 2 weeks in Barbados in a flat on a beach called Accra beach. The entire beach was crowded with young French Canadian women and local men. The women went down there to get their freak on. You could smell the estrogen and testosterone. Times have changed.

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