Pattaya Reports

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2590894]Under normal conditions, bar girls just aren't into what they are doing. A Soi 6 lady doing 5 customers a day is more concerned about how to spend her money, whether to go to the salon, they are just going through the motions. An older lady with fewer customers is more concerned about pleasing the customer, since she needs money to keep her Thai boyfriend happy.[/QUOTE]I have to ask because this is a recurring theme on the farang circuit. I have been around a while, and I have not known these chicks to have a Thai boyfriend the way these stories go. I am not even talking about chicks I am involved with or paying for sex. But normal platonic friends are not even having boyfriends like that. And even chicks that I do fuck, I have gone to stay at their places and everything, but have still never experienced the proverbial Thai boyfriend. If they really have a Thai boyfriend then I have not seen this being held as a secret. To me it reads as an old wives tale.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2591098]I have to ask because this is a recurring theme on the farang circuit. I have been around a while, and I have not known these chicks to have a Thai boyfriend the way these stories go. I am not even talking about chicks I am involved with or paying for sex. But normal platonic friends are not even having boyfriends like that. If they really have a Thai boyfriend then I have not seen this being held as a secret. To me it reads as an old wives tale.[/QUOTE]Same BS story in Philippines about trike driver BF. These are BS excuse stories as to why they got screwed and lost their GF.

I have not seen any of this to be true myself. I wish some losers would really speak up and validate this.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2591098]I have to ask because this is a recurring theme on the farang circuit. I have been around a while, and I have not known these chicks to have a Thai boyfriend the way these stories go. I am not even talking about chicks I am involved with or paying for sex. But normal platonic friends are not even having boyfriends like that. And even chicks that I do fuck, I have gone to stay at their places and everything, but have still never experienced the proverbial Thai boyfriend. If they really have a Thai boyfriend then I have not seen this being held as a secret. To me it reads as an old wives tale.[/QUOTE]The Thai boyfriend is probably the deepest secret of a bar girl. Even if you are invited to their room to fuck, it doesn't mean that the lady doesn't have some guy she is banging on the side. Or a Tomboy.

I hope you are aware of the boy karaoke bars and Tomboy bars in Pattaya pre-Covid that were jammed at 4 am. Who do you think fills those places?

There is a small number of hardened pro ladies who ignore Thai men and focus on making cash. But, a great many ladies who enter work in Pattaya react to making big money for the first time by blowing it on young men. Or Tomboys.

[QUOTE=Dg8787;2591104]Same BS story in Philippines about trike driver BF. These are BS excuse stories as to why they got screwed and lost their GF.

I have not seen any of this to be true myself. I wish some losers would really speak up and validate this.[/QUOTE]A few years back, I ran into a bargirl who tried to work me into being a sponsor. Hot sex, lots of promises, she tried to get her hooks into me. But I noticed that her Thai ID card called her "Mrs", so I checked Facebook, found her alternate account, and found her husband. Oops.

So, she introduced me to her sister. Same same, the sister tried to work me. And her Facebook page never showed a boyfriend. But by then, I knew some of her friends. And the friends FB pages had photos of the second sister with a Thai boyfriend, whereas the second sister hid him on her FB page. Oops.

But they introduced me to a third sister. Shampoo, rinse, repeat. She had a Thai boyfriend, as well.

As far as regular pay for play, I don't care who the lady hooks up with, I just don't sponsor. So the 3 sisters all went home to SiSaKet, as they all wanted to live with their Thai men. I managed to visit their village, as I stayed in contact with them (I still do). I ended up fucking all 3 of them. The husband of the first sister left town when he heard I was coming, the second sister took me out of town, the third sister just fucked me in the hotel.

Apart from Thai men and Tomboys, there are a small number of ladies who go with ladies. I just had one leave my place a few minutes ago. She came over for a fuck massage last night, but at 4 am, she got a call from her lady friend to come home.

I have about 20 ladies coming over every week. Many have Thai boyfriends.

One boyfriend sells YaDong, with police protection. Another lady lives with her boyfriend on a chicken farm. Another lady's boyfriend works for the police in some capacity. Another lady has a Thai man who supports her, but doesn't live with her. A lady who came over last night has a Tomboy in BKK. A few ladies who were in my rotation have gone home to live with their boyfriends. Another lady popped up last week after breaking up with her boyfriend in BKK. Another has a live-in boyfriend so she can only come to my place during the daytime.

One lady with a Thai boyfriend has an English husband (in the UK) and a local sponsor who she regularly services. The boyfriend only cares about the money train.

The fantasy of a horny bargirl waiting for a Farang customer to satisfy her needs is just that.

[QUOTE=MaxBkk;2590928]Yes, if the girlfriend is a hard core ex bar girl then the probability she will see someone the minute you leave the country is high.

If you are an expat that has a normal job or small business that is dating a normal office Thai girl, that has never worked in the sex industry. Then the chances she will cheat on you are about the same as in any country, just depends on the individual girl.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I am only talking about bargirls. If you are a young guy living in Thailand, away from the bars, things are different, more like real life.

Schedule for today:

12 noon: I have a hardened bar girl coming over. The only wrinkle is that she is having issues with her Thai boyfriend, so maybe she will loosen up with me.

4 pm: I have a couple of younger ladies, but still pros, formerly with plenty of customers, now things are tight.

8:30 pm: two bi-sexual ladies coming to spend the night, they will probably fuck each other before they get to me.

A humorous note: when a lady was leaving last night, she couldn’t find her bikini bottom, she looked everywhere. Finally, she took my sofa apart and found it. Until she realized it wasn’t hers. So I had to help her, and found hers in my sofa. So, who left my place without her underwear?

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2591154]A few years back, I ran into a bargirl who tried to work me into being a sponsor. Hot sex, lots of promises, she tried to get her hooks into me. But I noticed that her Thai ID card called her "Mrs", so I checked Facebook, found her alternate account, and found her husband. Oops.

So, she introduced me to her sister. Same same, the sister tried to work me. And her Facebook page never showed a boyfriend. But by then, I knew some of her friends. And the friends FB pages had photos of the second sister with a Thai boyfriend, whereas the second sister hid him on her FB page. Oops.

But they introduced me to a third sister. Shampoo, rinse, repeat. She had a Thai boyfriend, as well.

As far as regular pay for play, I don't care who the lady hooks up with, I just don't sponsor. So the 3 sisters all went home to SiSaKet, as they all wanted to live with their Thai men. I managed to visit their village, as I stayed in contact with them (I still do). I ended up fucking all 3 of them. The husband of the first sister left town when he heard I was coming, the second sister took me out of town, the third sister just fucked me in the hotel.

Apart from Thai men and Tomboys, there are a small number of ladies who go with ladies. I just had one leave my place a few minutes ago. She came over for a fuck massage last night, but at 4 am, she got a call from her lady friend to come home.[/QUOTE]Hahahaha, I found this so funny, and true.

I've been passed from sister to sister a few times, including once having both sisters together, their first time doing such.

My record tho is what I call my "family affair" into six of the seven over about six months.

Back a few years now when I was living in Phuket.

You see there were 3 sisters, all in their early forties, and they had 4 daughters aged from 18-23.

Let's call them S1, who had daughters D23 and D18, S2 with D22, and S3 with D20.

I managed to score all of them, missing out only on S1 who was pushing me for it, but D18 stopped her.

And warned me she'd cut me off if she found out I'd gone there.

Oh what fun it was.

I had S2 in a few solo and threesome sessions, and D22 solo too, but couldn't get a mother and daughter out of them.

Also had S3 in multiple solo and a single threesome, and D20 I had solo and a single threesome too, but again no mother and daughter. Tho S3 and her Danish husband did go the hard sell to me on S20 coming to live full time with me and "taking care" of me. The Danish husband of S3 had no idea his wife was gagging for me and seeing me behind his back every chance she got.

Never got S1, but had D23 solo a few times.

It was D18 who was the firecracker tho. Multiple solo sessions, and multiple threesomes as she just loved exploring her sexuality.

One threesome was actually arranged as a blind one to me by D18, when she brought along a very tipsy D20, and proceeded to have herself and me consensually extend her (D20's) sexual experiences. Now that was an unforgettable few hours!

Move along six months and it all stopped.

You see when the second cousin of D18/ D20/ D22/ D23 arrived, let's call her SC22, she was stupidly smitten with me, and had all the others back off behind the scenes, except for S3 which she knew nothing about. I then ended up spending a great sexual six months or so with SC22, plus enjoying others across the bars, until I left, but then as we all know covid went and wrecked it all.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2591098]I have to ask because this is a recurring theme on the farang circuit. I have been around a while, and I have not known these chicks to have a Thai boyfriend the way these stories go. I am not even talking about chicks I am involved with or paying for sex. But normal platonic friends are not even having boyfriends like that. And even chicks that I do fuck, I have gone to stay at their places and everything, but have still never experienced the proverbial Thai boyfriend. If they really have a Thai boyfriend then I have not seen this being held as a secret. To me it reads as an old wives tale.[/QUOTE]I am with you on that. By the time a Thai female is over the age of 24 or has had a baby or has been fucked by a farang or any combination of the above, very few Thai males are interested in having them as a girlfriend. Now, if the guy is a broken down drunk and needs a meal and booze ticket, ok maybe. That's a different story.

However, it is true that some younger Thai working girls do spend the money earned or given to them by customers on Thai boys in the Host Clubs, when they are open.

There is a fascinating German documentary showing this happening called "*****'s Glory"(2011). The missing word there somewhat rhymes with "horse" and begins with a W.

Anyone interested in watching it, click around to find a version of it with English subtitles. At one point in the Thai hooker section (it also features a section on India and Mexico), the filmmakers follow young soapy massage girls into such a Host Club and they interview the soapy girls' mamasan who laments that so much of her time is spent, in vain, trying to prevent the girls from thowing all their money away by giving it to those Thai boys in the clubs. Lol.

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2591239]I am with you on that. By the time a Thai female is over the age of 24 or has had a baby or has been fucked by a farang or any combination of the above, very few Thai males are interested in having them as a girlfriend. Now, if the guy is a broken down drunk and needs a meal and booze ticket, ok maybe. That's a different story...[/QUOTE]Most Asian girls, and even us describing them, have very wide definitions of "boyfriends": the old foreigner who has and will never set foot in the country but sends her a few baht / peso / rupiah; the guy who swings past the bar a few times a month; the baht boy she sees every Friday; the proverbial trike driver milking her for all he can; the guy she goes back to when home in the province; her baby daddy who drops by for the odd fukk and cigarettes; the list goes on. Not a Romeo and Juliet definition but all boyfriends of sorts.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2591266]Most Asian girls, and even us describing them, have very wide definitions of "boyfriends": the old foreigner who has and will never set foot in the country but sends her a few baht / peso / rupiah; the guy who swings past the bar a few times a month; the baht boy she sees every Friday; the proverbial trike driver milking her for all he can; the guy she goes back to when home in the province; her baby daddy who drops by for the odd fukk and cigarettes; the list goes on. Not a Romeo and Juliet definition but all boyfriends of sorts.[/QUOTE]Yes. But none of those would fit the concept of some live-in Significant Other she worries about and hangs in there with through thick and thin, sickness and health, sexual disfunction and nightly homecomings as sometimes is suggested here. For sure that is a very different definition of "boyfriend".

And if a 25+ year old Thai female with at least one kid and who is known or suspected to fuck farangs says, "My boyfriend" this or that, it is almost certain she is talking about one of the dudes you listed, not anyone like the dude I described.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2591147]The Thai boyfriend is probably the deepest secret of a bar girl. Even if you are invited to their room to fuck, it doesn't mean that the lady doesn't have some guy she is banging on the side. Or a Tomboy.

I hope you are aware of the boy karaoke bars and Tomboy bars in Pattaya pre-Covid that were jammed at 4 am. Who do you think fills those places?

There is a small number of hardened pro ladies who ignore Thai men and focus on making cash. But, a great many ladies who enter work in Pattaya react to making big money for the first time by blowing it on young men. Or Tomboys.[/QUOTE]These Thai girls are very slick and have many foreign men thinking that they are their one and only. So these guys write on ISG talking about their girlfriends clueless to the fact that their gfs have a significant Thai other, if not, many boyfriends.
Its similar to the foreigner sending his 'girlfriend' money the disbursement of which is decided by the boyfriend.

There is a former bargirl running around Pattaya who tells the police about illegal livestreams. For money.

Her Thai boyfriend works for the police. Oh, wait, bargirls don’t have boyfriends.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2591706]There is a former bargirl running around Pattaya who tells the police about illegal livestreams. For money...[/QUOTE]Are you suggesting that street urchins are in collision with local cops to extort money from foreigners? How could this possibly be so? It would never happen in Thailand. 😏.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2591266]Most Asian girls, and even us describing them, have very wide definitions of "boyfriends": the old foreigner who has and will never set foot in the country but sends her a few baht / peso / rupiah; the guy who swings past the bar a few times a month; the baht boy she sees every Friday; the proverbial trike driver milking her for all he can; the guy she goes back to when home in the province; her baby daddy who drops by for the odd fukk and cigarettes; the list goes on. Not a Romeo and Juliet definition but all boyfriends of sorts.[/QUOTE]Thai culture is based on a collective, share and share a like.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2591726]Are you suggesting that street urchins are in collision with local cops to extort money from foreigners? How could this possibly be so? It would never happen in Thailand. 😏.[/QUOTE]She's not a street urchin, she's a bargirl with a boyfriend who works for the police, who are eager to bust people for drinking, even if it's 3 people in a condo.

So, she came over tonight, and was horny as hell, after a few drinks.

Afterwards, I told her not tell her boyfriend that she came to my place and fucked me for free. Hopefully, she won't be eager to confess to the boyfriend.

Yeah, I am living dangerously now, I had 2 ladies come to my place for drinks.

The other lady here tonight has a Thai boyfriend, an English husband, a sponsor, and various customers here. Even so, she is scrambling for customers, like everyone else.