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[QUOTE=Adindas;1211596]Ten years ago this rate was unheard in Britain. Thanks to eastern EU chicks who have flooded britain.[/QUOTE]Yes, the prices now are definitely lower than 10 years ago and actually lower than 20 years ago. And that's ignoring inflation. For me, what's more important is the increase in quality. Forums such as this allow us to compare notes and force the bad service providers "to up" their game.

Face Man

I also just notice from AW in the UK; nowadays there are more male escorts than ever before.

But in general the rate for male escorts is lower than the female escorts. To me this is quite unfair as there are more female excecutitve nowadays. Also, the pay gap between gents and ladies is narrowing quite significantly due successful campaign of non-discrimination based on gender.

For instance, I have seen that quite reasonable number of male escorts advertised rate in AW for GBP 30 per hour while for the ladies is GBP60 per hour.

I understand this is probably something to do with the market force,"supply and demand". But it could also be for another reason for instance:

- Lack of coordination and support for male escorts. SO the gent organitation should do more to support them.

- Gents are quite impatient so when they get horny they are willing to pay whatever is offered.

- It might also because lack of infformation about the general rate for female and male escorts, do not know.

Why male escort get less pay rate than female escort?

[QUOTE=Face Man; 1211997]Yes, the prices now are definitely lower than 10 years ago and actually lower than 20 years ago. And that's ignoring inflation. For me, what's more important is the increase in quality. Forums such as this allow us to compare notes and force the bad service providers "to up" their game.

Face Man[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Adindas; 1211482]Dear itching.

I do not know about the legality aspect of ringing the Escort sevice and ask for sex. But if this is a case when we call a lady from AW or private escort from internet, newspaper; We are not calling prostitutes, they are escorts or future friends that we are going to meet adn have fun together. Otherwise this site would have been closed for a long time ago.

When we ring them we do not need to ask for sex. What we need to find out by calling them is their addresses, that is it, service could be discussed thereafter. Apart from the ladies, nobody knows what you discussed with them. When you are calling them it is similar to asking to meet people personally in match. Com. The fact that we pay them after having sex, we do not consider that we are paying for sex It is just because we want to give a gift or tips to someone who is escorting us and give something for the time they spend with us.

In Soho area, I will comfortably step into in a house / door marked with "model' in front of police because I am pretty sure they will not care. I also have seen people do this all the time.

I think the main reason the government make it "strange and subttle" just because they do not want to get a strong opposition from people who have strong view of banning prostitution. Also I believe that the law maker believe that to ban this practice will even create more problem.[/QUOTE]I agree with you.

Iching.

No offence meant, but just writing "I agree with you" is a waste of bandwidth. Why do you agree with him, what's you take on it and what can you say to drive the conversation forward?

(I ask here as its most populated).

I have decided that to pay for sex I will most likely use escorts from the internet websites. Off course I will go for tried and tested with reviews as much as I can.

But I have a big fear to have an escort come to my house. Am I being OTT and paranoid.

Why? Well.

1. I don't want a prostitute to know where I stay. FULL STOP!

2. I don't want any my neighbours to see what appears to be prostitute come and go. (though maybe they won't notice, so not so much an issue)

3. I fear that if prostiute know me and see I have expensive things and nice house etc, as they know dodgy people (usually) maybe she set them up to rob my house or set me up or threaten me or something? Especially as I am very small young looking guy.

Am I just being paraoind. Becuase I would prefer escorts to come to my house as I'd feel most comfortable having sex like this as I don't like brothels. The alternate is to go to the escorts accomodation but as I say I feel more comfortable to have sex in my own home rather than travel through town (I guess sober, not a huge deal but still maybe at home I have a couple drinks?) and have sex in some strangers house.

Whats your thoughts and experience on this?

Cheers

Don't have any experience of London saunas but coming from Lothian use Edinburgh ones. Certainly good option if timings uncertain. Passed a sauna on Judd Street today near Kings Cross.wondered what its like & any others in / around the city centre?

I would raher call them an escort rather than prostitute.

For comfortable, I agree, do it in your own home.

For safety, visit the escorts.

You have nentioned three most importants issues by calling an escort to visit you at home.

I assume you have not got married yet, as I fully believe only a single guy will be confortable to arrange an escort to visit his home.

Once you let a stranger to visit your home than that it is. You will not be able to reverse the process, unless you have an opportunity to move to another address. If you own your own house then it will be very costly.

You will never know someday in the fututre when get married, or become celebrity, superstat,etc you might be blackmailed or whatever.



[QUOTE=Super Cum 500; 1212860] (I ask here as its most populated).

1. I don't want a prostitute to know where I stay. FULL STOP!

2. I don't want any my neighbours to see what appears to be prostitute come and go. (though maybe they won't notice, so not so much an issue)

3. I fear that if prostiute know me and see I have expensive things and nice house etc, as they know dodgy people (usually) maybe she set them up to rob my house or set me up or threaten me or something? Especially as I am very small young looking guy.

Am I just being paraoind. Becuase I would prefer escorts to come to my house as I'd feel most comfortable having sex like this as I don't like brothels. The alternate is to go to the escorts accomodation but as I say I feel more comfortable to have sex in my own home rather than travel through town (I guess sober, not a huge deal but still maybe at home I have a couple drinks?) and have sex in some strangers house.

Whats your thoughts and experience on this?

Cheers[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Adindas; 1213087]I would raher call them an escort rather than prostitute.

For comfortable, I agree, do it in your own home.

For safety, visit the escorts.

You have nentioned three most importants issues by calling an escort to visit you at home.

I assume you have not got married yet, as I fully believe only a single guy will be confortable to arrange an escort to visit his home.

Once you let a stranger to visit your home than that it is. You will not be able to reverse the process, unless you have an opportunity to move to another address. If you own your own house then it will be very costly.

You will never know someday in the fututre when get married, or become celebrity, superstat, etc you might be blackmailed or whatever.[/QUOTE]Yes I am single and I am young. I have no plans or care for marriage etc. And even tell my freinds I use escorts. I have no shame even if I became famous (lmao). I'd be CHarlie SHeen anyway LOL.

My only fear is they know I have nice house and expensive things. They think I'm not tough guy, I'm young, maybe she sets me up or blackmail me, or stalk me. Who knows? Paranoia?

BUt you are correct once the stranger (escort) knows where I stay there is no reversal. And in my mind I will always have this bad feeling that I let an escort in my home and she knows where I live. So, maybe it is best to visit them. Plus its cheaper usually. But is it usually 100% safe also? I will only take money for cost of sex an no other valuables / money.

Other option is street hookers, they offer to do it in bushes and alleyway. Very cheap but safety STD, drugs, AIDS, police, muggings! Not safe is it? Not really a good option.

Abroad was ok as I use RLD and enjoyed and also had escorts come to my hotel.

Using hotel is option also at home but for me 2 problems. 1. Cost off hotel 2. Obviously getting girl to room in hotel is embarassing and not discrete?

Hibernian:

I do not like brothels. I have been in Edinburgh. I am private person. Brothel too many people, girls, reception, mongers and people on the street. Its all to formal for me also. And shared showers etc. I really disliked the experience.

[QUOTE=Super Cum 500; 1212860] (I ask here as its most populated).

I have decided that to pay for sex I will most likely use escorts from the internet websites. Off course I will go for tried and tested with reviews as much as I can.

But I have a big fear to have an escort come to my house. Am I being OTT and paranoid.

Why? Well.

1. I don't want a prostitute to know where I stay. FULL STOP!

2. I don't want any my neighbours to see what appears to be prostitute come and go. (though maybe they won't notice, so not so much an issue)

3. I fear that if prostiute know me and see I have expensive things and nice house etc, as they know dodgy people (usually) maybe she set them up to rob my house or set me up or threaten me or something? Especially as I am very small young looking guy.

Am I just being paraoind. Becuase I would prefer escorts to come to my house as I'd feel most comfortable having sex like this as I don't like brothels. The alternate is to go to the escorts accomodation but as I say I feel more comfortable to have sex in my own home rather than travel through town (I guess sober, not a huge deal but still maybe at home I have a couple drinks?) and have sex in some strangers house.

Whats your thoughts and experience on this?

Cheers[/QUOTE]No harm in being careful. I wouldn't have an escort come to my house, either, just too risky. I'm not that worried about the escort per se since in my experience most decent ones are good and honest and realize there's no repeat business in ripping people off. Still, there's always the odd bad apple so you never know. The neighbours would be a worry for me, though.

I don't live in London, but if I did I'd just arrange a meeting in a nice hotel room someplace. I know this isn't cheap in London and nice ones are poor VFM. But it'd be neutral ground and would circumvent most of your concerns. Just an idea.

Stay horny my friends,
EM

No doubt.

To arrange them to visit you in a hotel is the best opiton but keep in mind This is the most expensive option, as you need to pay their traveling time, hotel rate.

Also if you book from a non reputable agent the gilrs appear in your hotel room is might not be te same shown on the website.

ADINDAS.

[QUOTE=El Mujerista; 1213186]No harm in being careful. I wouldn't have an escort come to my house, either, just too risky. I'm not that worried about the escort per se since in my experience most decent ones are good and honest and realize there's no repeat business in ripping people off. Still, there's always the odd bad apple so you never know. The neighbours would be a worry for me, though.

I don't live in London, but if I did I'd just arrange a meeting in a nice hotel room someplace. I know this isn't cheap in London and nice ones are poor VFM. But it'd be neutral ground and would circumvent most of your concerns. Just an idea.

Stay horny my friends,

Them[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Super Cum 500; 1212860] (I ask here as its most populated).

I have decided that to pay for sex I will most likely use escorts from the internet websites. Off course I will go for tried and tested with reviews as much as I can.

But I have a big fear to have an escort come to my house. Am I being OTT and paranoid.

Why? Well.

1. I don't want a prostitute to know where I stay. FULL STOP!

2. I don't want any my neighbours to see what appears to be prostitute come and go. (though maybe they won't notice, so not so much an issue)

3. I fear that if prostiute know me and see I have expensive things and nice house etc, as they know dodgy people (usually) maybe she set them up to rob my house or set me up or threaten me or something? Especially as I am very small young looking guy.

Am I just being paraoind. Becuase I would prefer escorts to come to my house as I'd feel most comfortable having sex like this as I don't like brothels. The alternate is to go to the escorts accomodation but as I say I feel more comfortable to have sex in my own home rather than travel through town (I guess sober, not a huge deal but still maybe at home I have a couple drinks?) and have sex in some strangers house.

Whats your thoughts and experience on this?

Cheers[/QUOTE]Hi Super Cum 500.

IMHO you are being far too careful and risk averse. The average working girl is in the business of sex, not the business of blackmail or burglary. Also, they are the ones taking the risk, not you.

If you do invite someone into your home do the following:.

1. Be aware of the 'bait and switch' scam – they will send someone who does not look the same as on the website. You could even ask them to send two girls and say in advance that you will send one away.

2. Lock the door so that the girl can't leave without you allowing her to.

3. Don't leave valuables lying around and / or never let her out of your sight.

4. Let the girl know that this is not your house, or that you will be moving next week, or something like that. Personally, I would not bother as the risk of a problem is too low.

5. With your neighbours seeing – what's the problem? Working Girls do not walk around looking like tarts – they just wear ordinary clothes like everyone else.

Face Man

[QUOTE=Face Man; 1213382]Hi Super Cum 500.

IMHO you are being far too careful and risk averse. The average working girl is in the business of sex, not the business of blackmail or burglary. Also, they are the ones taking the risk, not you.

If you do invite someone into your home do the following:.

1. Be aware of the 'bait and switch' scam – they will send someone who does not look the same as on the website. You could even ask them to send two girls and say in advance that you will send one away.

2. Lock the door so that the girl can't leave without you allowing her to.

3. Don't leave valuables lying around and / or never let her out of your sight.

4. Let the girl know that this is not your house, or that you will be moving next week, or something like that. Personally, I would not bother as the risk of a problem is too low.

5. With your neighbours seeing – what's the problem? Working Girls do not walk around looking like tarts – they just wear ordinary clothes like everyone else.

Face Man[/QUOTE]Thanks. I would prefer them to come to my house than go to a flat. How safe is a flat anyway?

Also, what happens if you go to a flat or a girl comes to you and you don't find her attractive you can just cancel? Or you still have to pay or pay a percentage? IF I say I'm not paying you don't look like on website or are not hot. They have someone to beat me up?

Thing I like about RLD such as PRague or maybe Germany and FKK is you can be face to face with lots of girls and chose who makes you horny. Also, its not really that dodgy or unsafe. And being abroad they don't know anything about you or where you stay. Etc.

I do like to use girls abroad but then again I don't like to travel and I don't like to have to travel every time I want to bust a nut. Its not really realistic. Sex holidays are a 1 one off thing. I need some options at home also

I do not think you could escape so easily, at least you need to pay for their travel, taxi.

Also be aware, some escorts do work for agents, pimps, etc. In this case they might force you to pay the whole fee. Otherwise you will have the trouble ...

I used to travel quite a lot in the past. I have been places that you have mentioned but now I limit my travels due to the fact that nowadays I could find the same rate or even cheaper here in the UK. Why bother. Also the problem with traveling abroad is that, you need to take your annual leave. Also there is a limit of your stamina what you could do in a week or so. You go to germany flat-rate style bordello, and do the whole days, you do 3-4 babes in a day in RLD or german style FKK, after 2-3 days you will be running out of energy.

In the UK you could do it whenever you want more slower phase and more relax.

I used to live in NW. In Manchester and NW region in general, you could easily find young english babes that offer services for GBP 45-60 for half hour. You could even find a massage parlour that offer GBP35 for half hour. They are oridinary young teens, gals, who want to have newest gadgets, luxiries but realize that they could not effort it just by working in the supermarkets, as a receptionist, etc. So quickest ways to earn cash, escorts ...

[QUOTE=Super Cum 500; 1213425]Also, what happens if you go to a flat or a girl comes to you and you don't find her attractive you can just cancel? Or you still have to pay or pay a percentage? IF I say I'm not paying you don't look like on website or are not hot. They have someone to beat me up?

Thing I like about RLD such as PRague or maybe Germany and FKK is you can be face to face with lots of girls and chose who makes you horny. Also, its not really that dodgy or unsafe. And being abroad they don't know anything about you or where you stay. Etc.

I do like to use girls abroad but then again I don't like to travel and I don't like to have to travel every time I want to bust a nut. Its not really realistic. Sex holidays are a 1 one off thing. I need some options at home also[/QUOTE]

LOL, lucky us. Yes, market force seems to be working in favour of the punters.

But this is not just in escort/punting world but also in other areas. Look for instance, budget airlines, mobile phones, etc. 10-15 years years ago, where could we get a ticket to Prague, Warsaw, Frankfurt from UK for GBP30. 00?

Thanks to EE ladies who are flooding Britain.

[QUOTE=Face Man; 1211997]Yes, the prices now are definitely lower than 10 years ago and actually lower than 20 years ago. And that's ignoring inflation. For me, what's more important is the increase in quality. Forums such as this allow us to compare notes and force the bad service providers "to up" their game.

Face Man[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Adindas; 1213972]I do not think you could escape so easily, at least you need to pay for their travel, taxi.

Also be aware, some escorts do work for agents, pimps, etc. In this case they might force you to pay the whole fee. Otherwise you will have the trouble.[/QUOTE]I would imagine that all of the times I have visited a working girl's house that there is a bloke there for protection. In my experience, quite often all the doors in the house or flat are open, but one is shut. As I said before, it's the girl who is taking the risk, not you. It is perfectly correct for her to want someone to protect her (although I am not defending the practice of pimping as defined under English Law. Ooooh, this could get us onto a whole new topic).

This is what you should do if you are visiting her :

When you ring the door bell and she opens the door, the girl will always be hiding behind the door so that a passerby can't see her dressed in her underwear. Therefore quickly walk in and let her close the door. Then she can relax and you have a chance to have a look at her. If you are going to leave, now is the time to do it. No pimp is going to run after you demanding money, as the last thing they want is the neighbours finding out. Obviously if you move deeper into the property and spend over a minute talking to her and then decide to leave, then they might find that annoying, especially if they have told another punter to ring back in an hour's time because you are coming.

If she is visiting you then you have less options if you wish to pull out. Personally I don't have much experience of this, so maybe someone else can pitch in with their advice. But as I said before, I reckon that the chances of a "bait and switch" scam happening on an outcall are higher than 50/50. In this case you could legitimately cancel, especially if you have warned them at the time of booking that you will do this. But in my experience, if you warn them that you will do this, then they will say that they have someone who looks similar, but who then turns out not to be. I would imagine that if you agree to pay £5 towards a taxi fair, but arrange this at the time of booking then you are presenting yourself as a more reasonable person to deal with.

Overall though, I would say that you can afford to worry a lot less about this subject than you appear to be now. Aren't you worried about the debt crisis?

Face Man