[QUOTE=SJobs;2410357]Good reply, I like your writing style, it's humorous and intelligent at the same time. After having a few hours of sleep, I did smacked the up side of my head. But man, this is incomprehensible to me. I have seen her 7 times, we kept a conversation going while I was back in the states, and she knew that I will stay in Medellin for another 3 weeks. I will see her probably 1-3 nights a week, just like my last visit. I know how cheap pussy is in Medellin, she sure knows it better than I do. Does her action make any sense?[/QUOTE]You're expecting it to make sense? When you're dealing with people who party professionally, every night, sense goes out the window. When you toss the drugs in on top of it, things become unpredictable.
Just recently I had an issue with a regular. Saw her routinely while I was living in Medellin. She was my favorite, even though she didn't fit my physical profile. Always 10+ service, never rushed, never pushy, just a joy to be around. Not long ago she started begging me to send her money. Standard excuses. She has kids and I know she is struggling, besides it was a few days before Christmas. I told her I'd send money 1 time only and if she asked again, I'd block her. So I sent her 300 k. 3 days later she's blowing up my phone. Messages. Calls. After 2 days of it I blocked her. Then she hits up her friends to message me and I blocked them.
I've helped her find customers for 2.5 years. I've worked her into my schedule and been generous. I've always treated her as a friend. She knows I'll be back in a few months, but she decided to throw it away because she thought she could get something for nothing.
Here's the thing: I knew, before I sent her money, exactly what she was going to do. For me, it's a price I'm happy to pay, just to see people show their true colors. I'll hand a beggar $20 when he says he hasn't eaten in 2 days, just to watch him run to the liquor store.
Don't try to understand the people. Understand the situation instead. The situation was that someone had broken the established rules. At that point you should have walked her out to the street, handed her 20 k and said "Chao."
As for the awkwardness in Gusto. You're a paying customer, a generous paying customer. She's a piece of the furniture. The bouncers will toss her out in a heartbeat if you tell them she's bothering you.
