Freebee time and other issues
This weekend I had originally planned to visit the ANMA scene in Janhanpyeong which I had visited 9 months ago the one and only time. But I remember it as a place with several anma’s around. About 2 years ago there have been some posts, but lately there has been nothing. My post from March/April last year has been actually the last one.
Ok that was the plan, but then I had to do several other things and at the end it was already 23:00h, so I decided to skip it and probably do for the next weekend.
Went to Itaewon instead without any mongering in mind and went to some of the bars where the female and male expats, foreigners in general go and as well many Korean and other Asian countries females. Mixed dancing is the atmosphere there and people are generally open minded to talk to everyone. Many are here almost every week, so you recognize many the same faces over time coming frequently. Somehow the males have always the night score in mind as one can see acting when they chatt up and dancing with the women. But is is a 2 side story, as the women also have that in mind for sure, however a bit more hidden.
Anyhow nice atmosphere there. I am also a frequent visitor. So far I have not enforced a success to much, as usually the opportunities here are better if you would be ready for some commitment. Others look for somebody giving some financial support. However I also know that some females are here just to get some adventures outside their boring marriage. But it is not easy to distinguish the adventure looking from the support looking and the relationship looking. I am rather careful there for the safe side, as I don’t need a girlfriend necessarily. In addition there are some scammers out there.
Some who like to cheat especially single male and short time visitors. This works that a girl approaches you more or less, have some nice talks and she shows much interest in you. So far not that unusual to the real other case described above, but she will be more actively approach you then let her approach. The scam is that she will ask you sooner or later to change place for some more talk. Then she will lead you to some bar she gets commission on and lead you to high priced drinks. The bars operating this way are not easy to distinguish from other bars, but there is a clear method: It is always that the drink prices are unbalanced among each other. Means that if a beer is 5.000 Won, in a normal bar a glass of wine would be about 8.000 Won. However in case of scam bars the wine may be 20.000 Won and a cognac would be 40.000 Won. A bottle of whine could be 500.000 Won etc. So the girl which keeps you in hope for a nice night adventure will for sure order Whine or cognac (the high priced things). If you don’t take care you can easily end up with 500.000 – 2.000.000 Won that way. A bit expensive for a ‘freebee’. So watch the signs: Is she actively approaching you, is she suggesting to choose another place? Anyhow: Always choose the location of another place yourself. If she insists on a certain place, then better give up immediately. She is a scammer then.
So back to yesterday: Knowing the methods and scams and the desires of the several ladies in short term, long term relationship showing up here, I yesterday took the first time the risk of taking somebody home.
Spotted a in my eyes nicely dressed and appearing woman and has some eye contact. Fully fall into my spec. and guessed her 25 years old. She was with a western guy trying to approach her or even could be her boyfriend. So thought: to bad, this lucky guy, ‘how can she bee with such a guy’. I moved to another area of the bars where I found some of my friends. Suddenly the girl appeared and said that she has no time, but if I could give her my phone number, saying she does not like the guy approaching her. So she typed her number into my phone and dialled, so we had exchanged numbers. When I later went to toilet, I still saw her sitting with the guy, but she rather looked unhappy. I did not consider to ‘help’ her and go in competition to the other guy. She needs to solve that herself. So went back to the area where my friends where. About 40 minutes later she suddenly appeared, saying that she got rid of the guy. We went for dancing, enjoyed that and felt sympathy for each other. Sympathy was clearly rising between us rapidly and it took not long and we were dancing slowly. Exchanged some info, I told that I am married, she didn’t want to tell me ( but obvious –married as well). Appeared that she is not 25 as guessed but rather in the second half of the 30s (hard to believe). So after some more drinking and some more overspreading sympathy I asked her if she would join me to with my home. (I also was always prepared – you never know, to monitor the scammer signs, so senses where up, but no sign, no ask for change place etc.). She hesitated and said that she has to work tomorrow 8:15, but finally agreed.
Went to my place and she was rather shy. As polite as I am I offered the guest room of my apartment, but finally we ended in one bed, still open of we do or not. I am able to give up even if I am that close, make her relax is much more important and it was only 2 ½ hours left until she needed to get up. At the end she was totally relaxed and felt comfortable and finally we did it. She is a bit of a screamer, so I was afraid that I wake up neighbours. She obviously enjoyed. I didn’t insist to come myself as it was to late, so we soon went to sleeping. In the morning no time for another round, and be reliable is more important for me.
So if it turns out well, I may have found a temporary freebee, who wants to have occasionally some extra adventure when her husband is on trip, or working overseas (?? Need to find out). This would be exactly what I am looking for.
So will keep you updated guys.
Regards
Brain666
Still recommend to go to Miari for RLD
[QUOTE=Caaznlvr]I totally agree with you Yella... if I had my option, HJ parlor would be the best option in Seoul. I tried the RLD scene a couple times, maybe 3 max, just to check. Tried some action in Yongsan, walk thru 588. Of course I read the postings before about the poor service, but sometimes you just have that little optimism that you may just find a rare jewel. But I realized that this does not exist in Yongsan, neither 588, unless of course you may be Korean. Perhaps that rare jewel does exist. If I can just take an option: if youre in Korea, save your money, go to SE Asia.
Cheers to all.[/QUOTE]
Have you ever tried Miari?
I made the best experience there of all RLD.
If you confirm 30 min (sam ship pun) they will all agree. Its a hit or miss of course, but while I rate the miss rate in 588 >90% and in Yongsan about 70% I would rate Miari miss rate about 30-40% 'only'. There is even a GFE opportunity and if you are frequent visitor of the same place the service gets better and better. Overall the girls are more service oriented (by RLD standards) and I see Miari ,as I experience it, still as the best value for money
in Korea (by korean standards)
I am almost going to one shop now there and have 2 girls there who give me supperb service for 30 minutes.
Will try to do a double parallel or sequence next time. Check my old reports about Miari.
regards
Brain666
Best place to go - and ISG membere meet up?
Going to Seoul next month (3rd visit there, from canada).
Hoping that some of you guys there now will be able to take a few minutes and advise where is the best of the HJ parlors (exact directions pls).
Agree with Caaznlvr that these better value than RLD.
Also tried the bokchangdong/room salons before and although it was an awesome one-off experience it's definitely not value for money.
Guess there's always the barber shops if i am stuck - but they are hit and miss.
Also --- posted before about a group of us getting together one night.... anyone interested? If you cannot PM then you can get me at yahoo.com using the same nickname (imready777) as i use here. If there is interest from several of you in meeting i will coordinate it.
Cheers!